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What is a bigger guy to do

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By *ent_Life OP   Man
over a year ago

East Malling

Wow how can a bigger guy even compete with

a) the amount of other guys

b) the people who like fit guys

c) the lack of a chance to advertise my personality

Anyone got any really good tips for slimming down?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

c post more and get involved on here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourself. Most people are attracted to others comfortable in their own skin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can advertise your personality my friend. Find someone you like and be you, might be surprised.

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By *offee and Cream 2Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Loughborough

Move more....... Eat less!

Cut out beer, bread and potatoes

Try it for 1 month if you want to lose weight!

Good luck!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Just be yourself. Most people are attracted to others comfortable in their own skin "

this..

don't set what you can achieve based on the looks etc or 'success' of others..

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By *ent_Life OP   Man
over a year ago

East Malling

Oh don't get me wrong I am comfortable in my own skin. (For example: I am happy to go to eurekas naked nights) But just the vast amount of profile on here who al ways say fit guy or athletic guy etc. Just makes you think, much better chance of getting a foot in if you have a rippling body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow how can a bigger guy even compete with

a) the amount of other guys .. You can't really it's a numbers game

b) the people who like fit guys SOD EM

c) the lack of a chance to advertise my personality LOTS of chances.. Make your approach speak for you, come onto the forae and let your personality shine through

Anyone got any really good tips for slimming down? Yes, if you really want to, then Slimming World is the best.

Some ladies like big guys xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a pretty big guy and i'm not meeting as much as I'd like but it's getting better.

Keep your chin up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not ALL women find althletic men attractive,, some of us do like a lil padding here and there

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By *ent_Life OP   Man
over a year ago

East Malling

I would love to sod em but if you want play then on here looks like you have to fit what the masses want hahaha

Some ladies like big guys.... yes but i think that only accumulates to about 5% of the population and 2% of the big wide world. I'm guesstmating of course.

Those who do are a rare and special few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not ALL women find althletic men attractive,, some of us do like a lil padding here and there "

Yep I prefer bigger built guys to athletic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would love to sod em but if you want play then on here looks like you have to fit what the masses want hahaha

Some ladies like big guys.... yes but i think that only accumulates to about 5% of the population and 2% of the big wide world. I'm guesstmating of course.

Those who do are a rare and special few "

Right ! Enough ! Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Nowt wrong with you. Kick up the arse , head in the air and go get em

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

If you think your weight is holding you back do something about it.

Some people may prefer fit guys to fat guys, but I can assure you most would pick a non whinging guy regardless of his size.

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

I would also remove your mobile number from your profile some find that a bit desperate mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lay off the sweets n get ur arse in the gym bro

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

Saw your legs off at the knees and you'll soon feel half the man

sorry just a joke and youdo resemble Kevin bridges and women like him so no worries.

Ps.steep your stumps in vinegar to cauterise. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope you don't want to loose weight for people on here? that's quite sad

however if you want to do it for you, there's no weight loss tips just facts, less cals in, more out, get moving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Saw your legs off at the knees and you'll soon feel half the man

sorry just a joke and youdo resemble Kevin bridges and women like him so no worries.

Ps.steep your stumps in vinegar to cauterise. x"

That's far to drastic..... its much easier to just shave your legs and buy a frock...

Hey I'm living proof....

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By *ent_Life OP   Man
over a year ago

East Malling

Hahaha I wouldn't say I'm whinging or feeling sorry for myself, certainly didn't want to come across like that. Interested to see what people thought really.

I wouldn't say I wanna drop weight because of people on here, I'm happy with myself but if I want to get out there and have a flourished sex life while I still want to then I think dropping weight may help.

Especially when d*unk people and some females have specifically said/ implied that I'm big (big being replaced with a lot more harsher terms and drogatory phrases) and you know they are saying how it is / feeling the truth besause......Well lets face it they are d*unk saying how it is and being up front females

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am fat, short, bald, hairy eveywhere, bearded, bespectacled and like cock.

Yet I still got meets when I was here as a single.

There are meets out there.

Just maybe not in the numbers you were looking for.

Maybe look at lowering your expectations of the site as well as your BMI.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the late, great Christopher Hitchens said

"if you can't make women laugh then you're out of the evolutionary race, you're never gonna get laid..."

So make 'em laugh and they'll make you cum...

Being in shape does help-it's not a foregone conclusion though...sounds like you want to get fitter so just exercise (hard) and stop eating crap food...pretty simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The other thing to consider, of course, is what happens if you lose weight and still can't get the shags you would like ?

You will find that people will not meet you because :

- you are still relatively young

- you are under height for many peoples preferences

- you like cock

- you can't / don't / won't accom

- they don't like how your profile reads

plus a multitude of other reasons.

So, lose weight for you and no one else and accept that there are a plethora of reasons people won't meet others, so don't automatically assume it is your weight that is holding you back.

Once you accept that, you're half way there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow how can a bigger guy even compete with

a) the amount of other guys

b) the people who like fit guys

c) the lack of a chance to advertise my personality

Anyone got any really good tips for slimming down?"

Eat less?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow how can a bigger guy even compete with

a) the amount of other guys

b) the people who like fit guys

c) the lack of a chance to advertise my personality

Anyone got any really good tips for slimming down?

Eat less? "

Totally off thread but av only just realised ur avatar isn't a pic of a fanny

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By *ent_Life OP   Man
over a year ago

East Malling

Fair points though does my profile read badly to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fair points though does my profile read badly to you?"

Other than losing the mobile number, if the profile sums up you and what you like, then keep it.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Be reasonable. Have goals that are realistic and not punishing. Dont be harsh with yourself or embark on trying to meet others if youre not their stype. And be self accepting rather than critical. Get to know others for themselves and your personality will shine through too. Some need a greater personal with sex, others less so in some situations. Get out, go to clubs and socials. And for health, a combination of exercise and diet is overall more effective for sustained long term results than either alone. Find little steps to increase your activity. Park your car a little further from where youre going each time. Incrementally make adjustments and it all adds up. Do similarly with your diet. Take a day a week when you dont have to be diet controlled. Usually rapid weight loss is easily gained back, so be in it for the long term. Small steps and reasonable goals - be reasonable overall.

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