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I'm sooooo shallow

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I look at pics , read profile but won't message because I can't see what they look like.

Oh hang on maybe that's just being choosy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could ask them for a picture?

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Messaging someone isn't a legally binding contract to take it up the shitter.

Message them. Tell them you were wondering what they looked like.... you may get a few nice surprises.... and one up the shitter too if you're lucky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I like what I read then I ask for a face pic! Yes I can be abit shallow and say no once I've seen the pic!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wong with being choosy I'm a seriously picky fussy choosy mare but my nana didn't burn her bra for nothing lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Choosy' - what does that mean.

I'm a bloke so I don't understand that word. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You could ask them for a picture?"

I could but then I always feel crap if then I'm not attracted to them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Messaging someone isn't a legally binding contract to take it up the shitter.

Message them. Tell them you were wondering what they looked like.... you may get a few nice surprises.... and one up the shitter too if you're lucky."

You really have made me giggle tonight , thank you

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"I look at pics , read profile but won't message because I can't see what they look like.

Oh hang on maybe that's just being choosy "

Thats the difference between men and women...men look at the pics, don't read the profile then send a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could ask them for a picture?

I could but then I always feel crap if then I'm not attracted to them. "

Don't be. Just because you ask for a photo it doesn't mean you're obliged to take it any further. If you're not attracted to then that's just the way it goes, they should know that by now.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'd rather not message someone who I can't see. I don't care much for the almost inevitable conversation if I think they resemble something I once saw in a zoo.

'Ah, now I've seen what you look like, thanks, but no thanks. I've suddenly remembered a pressing engagement in Tanganyika.'

'Do you think I look ugly?'

'No, I've seen far worse looking people than you, but not outside of the Walking Dead...'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could ask them for a picture?

I could but then I always feel crap if then I'm not attracted to them. "

You can practice on us.

Just ask and we will send

If you think we're a pair of mingers we won't be arsed anyway cos you are missing critical parts to start with

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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago

South Coast


"Messaging someone isn't a legally binding contract to take it up the shitter.

Message them. Tell them you were wondering what they looked like.... you may get a few nice surprises.... and one up the shitter too if you're lucky."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I like what I read then I ask for a face pic! Yes I can be abit shallow and say no once I've seen the pic!! "

I do the same

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd rather not message someone who I can't see. I don't care much for the almost inevitable conversation if I think they resemble something I once saw in a zoo.

'Ah, now I've seen what you look like, thanks, but no thanks. I've suddenly remembered a pressing engagement in Tanganyika.'

'Do you think I look ugly?'

'No, I've seen far worse looking people than you, but not outside of the Walking Dead...'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I look at pics , read profile but won't message because I can't see what they look like.

Oh hang on maybe that's just being choosy "

Its the brain using the same decision making judgement that it uses for when we wonder if we should stick our finger in a dark hole not knowing whats on the other side. 90% of people don't.......but you always get the 10th one that does you like me are one of the 90%.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You could ask them for a picture?

I could but then I always feel crap if then I'm not attracted to them.

You can practice on us.

Just ask and we will send

If you think we're a pair of mingers we won't be arsed anyway cos you are missing critical parts to start with "

Lol not fair I've seen you pair

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"I look at pics , read profile but won't message because I can't see what they look like.

Oh hang on maybe that's just being choosy

Its the brain using the same decision making judgement that it uses for when we wonder if we should stick our finger in a dark hole not knowing whats on the other side. 90% of people don't.......but you always get the 10th one that does you like me are one of the 90%. "

Actually it is a completely different part of the brain and a different thought process.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most guys are just excited to get a reply full stop, asking for a pic and no further isn't an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I look at pics , read profile but won't message because I can't see what they look like.

Oh hang on maybe that's just being choosy

Its the brain using the same decision making judgement that it uses for when we wonder if we should stick our finger in a dark hole not knowing whats on the other side. 90% of people don't.......but you always get the 10th one that does you like me are one of the 90%.

Actually it is a completely different part of the brain and a different thought process."

What that makes people risk poking things into dark holes not knowing what's on the other side?

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"I look at pics , read profile but won't message because I can't see what they look like.

Oh hang on maybe that's just being choosy

Its the brain using the same decision making judgement that it uses for when we wonder if we should stick our finger in a dark hole not knowing whats on the other side. 90% of people don't.......but you always get the 10th one that does you like me are one of the 90%.

Actually it is a completely different part of the brain and a different thought process.

What that makes people risk poking things into dark holes not knowing what's on the other side?"

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could ask them for a picture?

I could but then I always feel crap if then I'm not attracted to them. "

What happens if they aren't attracted to you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You could ask them for a picture?

I could but then I always feel crap if then I'm not attracted to them.

What happens if they aren't attracted to you "

Nothing , they don't reply no problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I look at pics , read profile but won't message because I can't see what they look like.

Oh hang on maybe that's just being choosy

Its the brain using the same decision making judgement that it uses for when we wonder if we should stick our finger in a dark hole not knowing whats on the other side. 90% of people don't.......but you always get the 10th one that does you like me are one of the 90%.

Actually it is a completely different part of the brain and a different thought process.

What that makes people risk poking things into dark holes not knowing what's on the other side?

Yes."

So which part of the brain relates to which decision?

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"I look at pics , read profile but won't message because I can't see what they look like.

Oh hang on maybe that's just being choosy

Its the brain using the same decision making judgement that it uses for when we wonder if we should stick our finger in a dark hole not knowing whats on the other side. 90% of people don't.......but you always get the 10th one that does you like me are one of the 90%.

Actually it is a completely different part of the brain and a different thought process.

What that makes people risk poking things into dark holes not knowing what's on the other side?

Yes.

So which part of the brain relates to which decision?"

The bit with the wrinkly skin on the end decides what to type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I look at pics , read profile but won't message because I can't see what they look like.

Oh hang on maybe that's just being choosy

Its the brain using the same decision making judgement that it uses for when we wonder if we should stick our finger in a dark hole not knowing whats on the other side. 90% of people don't.......but you always get the 10th one that does you like me are one of the 90%.

Actually it is a completely different part of the brain and a different thought process.

What that makes people risk poking things into dark holes not knowing what's on the other side?

Yes.

So which part of the brain relates to which decision?

The bit with the wrinkly skin on the end decides what to type."

What the crumpet?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I largely feel that if someone thinks that a pic of 1% of them is enough to attract me, then we are probably from different planets. I do read profiles, though find the general quality quite low. Usually there are enough competitors who obligingly provide satisfactory info and pics.

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By *issB1970Woman
over a year ago

Subterranean

My Master is always saying I'm far too choosy but I have to like the look of somebody if I'm going to have some rather intimate fun with them.

If I'm being naughty I like it to be with somebody who is pleasing on the eye.

Omg I am so shallow

Sorry guys

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over a year ago

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