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Fear holding you back?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What the one thing that scares the shit out of you but you really want to do it?

For me it socialising especially in large groups. It's the fear of rejection and humiliation.

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By *ranthamThroatMan
over a year ago

Grantham.

Heights, been up CN Tower, Toronto, helicopters hot air balloons etc., wouldn't do any again!, people are all the same at the end of the day and life so I never worry about dealing with them in any way

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"What the one thing that scares the shit out of you but you really want to do it?

For me it socialising especially in large groups. It's the fear of rejection and humiliation. "

Practice in smaller groups? It's not an uncommon fear but what would you be rejected from and how would you be humiliated?

Perhaps do things that are activity based and so the socialising is an add on.

The fear I had was falling love and being rejected. I doesn't worry me so much now as I know I am loveable and if I love them but they don't love me then we're not right for each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

drilling a tranny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of things. I do them anyway.

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

Being tied up...I'm claustrophobic big time so the thought scares me to death!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To meet people off here - but in an arena filled with enough hard bodied, good looking men with phallus's like bottle-nosed dolphins, I look in the mirror and decide not to - I honestly know I wouldn't measure up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The word 'love' scares the shit out me, if I hear it said to me im gone out the door x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"To meet people off here - but in an arena filled with enough hard bodied, good looking men with phallus's like bottle-nosed dolphins, I look in the mirror and decide not to - I honestly know I wouldn't measure up. "

I haven't seen a bottle-nosed dolphin phallus.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Plural

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going to a club for the first time but im hoping to get over it very soon. X

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Plural

Of

Phallus

Is

Phalli

My

Big

Fear

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Sentences. "

I'm trying to find the acrostic here but POPIPMBFIHS may not be English.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads of things. I do them anyway. "

me too x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's code, Lickety. It translates as 'steve is a tosser'. I got bored of self abuse so have decided on self verbal abuse as a sort of kinky change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a wild beast caged within the confines of societal conventions. I have no fears for I am king of the food chain. No man nor laws can get in my way. I am an unstoppable for of nature.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"It's code, Lickety. It translates as 'steve is a tosser'. I got bored of self abuse so have decided on self verbal abuse as a sort of kinky change. "

Do you fear this change?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

just go for it ... whats the worst that can happen ..you ll live

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

Im apprehensive about everything.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"It's code, Lickety. It translates as 'steve is a tosser'. I got bored of self abuse so have decided on self verbal abuse as a sort of kinky change.

Do you fear this change?

"

Nah.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What the one thing that scares the shit out of you but you really want to do it?

For me it socialising especially in large groups. It's the fear of rejection and humiliation. "

I feel the same about approaching women in person (as a stranger). I've been with lots of women through swinging, and am generally confident sexually, but its amazing how hard just that simple first approach truly is.

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire


"[Removed by poster at 05/06/14 22:05:05]"
t hehehe that made me laugh

but i haven't a clue what your on about. x x X

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I fear being trapped with a bunch of timid feckwits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

shaving my under-carriage! its a white knuckle ride every time!!

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire


"shaving my under-carriage! its a white knuckle ride every time!!"
agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rejection. And the fear of trying new things

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Rejection. And the fear of trying new things "

You've been trying new things all of your life. If you haven't then I assume someone is still feeding you breast milk and changing your nappy.

Some new things are nice and some are nasty. Trust your instincts, knowledge and observations and it can be a relatively low risk activity.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

As a kid it dawned on me that nothing was stopping me but me. So I set myself dares and went out and did stuff. later, I was often nervous in public speaking, so developed my skills and experience and did it, whilst loving it. There are many ways to overcome your fears, some easy and others more complex. I dont like having barriers in front of me, so I smash them in my own way. If it is not important, then I put my attention elsewhere. Ive not had an easy life, but Ive had a load of fun and lots of surprises. Make your own rules and sex your own limits, if you insist on having any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rejection. And the fear of trying new things

You've been trying new things all of your life. If you haven't then I assume someone is still feeding you breast milk and changing your nappy.

Some new things are nice and some are nasty. Trust your instincts, knowledge and observations and it can be a relatively low risk activity.

"

Sarcasm is a wonderful thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rejection. And the fear of trying new things

You've been trying new things all of your life. If you haven't then I assume someone is still feeding you breast milk and changing your nappy.

Some new things are nice and some are nasty. Trust your instincts, knowledge and observations and it can be a relatively low risk activity.

Sarcasm is a wonderful thing. "

Oh and I was never breast fed either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rejection. And the fear of trying new things

You've been trying new things all of your life. If you haven't then I assume someone is still feeding you breast milk and changing your nappy.

Some new things are nice and some are nasty. Trust your instincts, knowledge and observations and it can be a relatively low risk activity.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fear of a different kind has reared it's head for me just now. Won't elaborate, family stuff

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

Losing the love of my life- any thing happening to the kids. Apart from that not a lot

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