FabSwingers.com forum: If you were told one of your pictures

By *ranthamThroat OP Man
over a year ago

Grantham.

didn't meet with someone else's approval, with a request to remove it....would your answer be rude or polite?...my reply was very polite, but pointed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you mean another site user?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would tell them to 'do one'

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By *ranthamThroat OP Man
over a year ago

Grantham.

yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's passed by moderator it's not an issue. If they don't like it tell them not to look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"didn't meet with someone else's approval, with a request to remove it....would your answer be rude or polite?...my reply was very polite, but pointed

What was wrong with pic?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"didn't meet with someone else's approval, with a request to remove it....would your answer be rude or polite?...my reply was very polite, but pointed

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it's your profile no one make anyone look at it so as long as the photo isn't breaking site rules then I don't see what their problem would be.

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By *ranthamThroat OP Man
over a year ago

Grantham.

"If it's passed by moderator it's not an issue. If they don't like it tell them not to look. "

Thanks, that is exactly what I did,, just left me a bit gobsmacked tbh, hence the post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My pictures are all sorts. And they're sometimes private, other times public. Won't tickle everyone's fancy..but, it's ykur profile at the end of the day.

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By *ranthamThroat OP Man
over a year ago

Grantham.

"didn't meet with someone else's approval, with a request to remove it....would your answer be rude or polite?...my reply was very polite, but pointed

What was wrong with pic?"

To my mind nothing, it has been used on my profile many times.....they found it objectionable and wanted me to remove it, am still a bit shocked that I was asked to do this, obviously if a mod or admin didn't like it would be removed, but I am trying to figure out the narrow mind of the person on a site like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id tell them to take their eyeballs out and rinse them with bleach if they're that distressed

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Offer to poke out their eyes with a rusty spoon.

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By *ranthamThroat OP Man
over a year ago

Grantham.

"Id tell them to take their eyeballs out and rinse them with bleach if they're that distressed"

Wished I had been quick witted enough to have done so, but as it was the first time ever in 5 years on the site I have had a comment like that

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I probably wouldn't reply. I'd block them to save them the discomfort of seeing my photos ever again.

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By *ranthamThroat OP Man
over a year ago

Grantham.

"Offer to poke out their eyes with a rusty spoon. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell them to stop looking at your photos

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By *ranthamThroat OP Man
over a year ago

Grantham.

"I probably wouldn't reply. I'd block them to save them the discomfort of seeing my photos ever again.

My response was lol, don't look again, but haven't blocked them, just to add to their discomfort....me bad!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mind you. I got a message today from someone saying i'm quite cute for a dwarf.

...now, i don't know what to make of that message. Was that a compliment or a back handed slap?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to marvel at the complete emptiness of peoples lives that would make them want to take the time to send a message like that

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By *ranthamThroat OP Man
over a year ago

Grantham.

"Mind you. I got a message today from someone saying i'm quite cute for a dwarf.

...now, i don't know what to make of that message. Was that a compliment or a back handed slap?

Nor me!, I may have said everyone is taller than me when am on my knees.

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By *LCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

Depends on whether the person complaining has a connection with the pic, i.e. they or their partner was in it. Then I feel they have the right to request it removed. If not however then I'd simply say "Don't look then".

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Thank you for your reasoned, if unsolicited, critique of one of my pictures. I realise that we all have different likes and dislikes. However, simply because you have an opinion, it does not necessarily mean that you are entitled to enforce someone to hear or see it.

Since you have seen fit to ensure I know your thoughts on one of my pictures, allow me to share one of mine. It is my opinion that your perspective of any part of my profile is a complete irrelevance to me. I further believe you should do as the good Book says: go forth and multiply."

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Feel free to copy and paste the above.

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By *ranthamThroat OP Man
over a year ago

Grantham.

"Depends on whether the person complaining has a connection with the pic, i.e. they or their partner was in it. Then I feel they have the right to request it removed. If not however then I'd simply say "Don't look then"."

Person lives hundreds of miles away and I have not nor would have met them, but appreciate the comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wouldnt ever criticise a profile unless specifically asked for an honest opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would tell them to rearrange these two words ,,,,,, off and fuck !!!

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By *ranthamThroat OP Man
over a year ago

Grantham.

""Thank you for your reasoned, if unsolicited, critique of one of my pictures. I realise that we all have different likes and dislikes. However, simply because you have an opinion, it does not necessarily mean that you are entitled to enforce someone to hear or see it.

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Feel free to copy and paste the above.

Brilliant!! If I thought I would have the comment again I will use that quote mwah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Feel free to copy and paste the above.

This type if response is wishy washy. It's being polite and rude at the same time (passive). If you think someone a cock, just call them a cock. Simple and takes less time.

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over a year ago

"Mind you. I got a message today from someone saying i'm quite cute for a dwarf.

...now, i don't know what to make of that message. Was that a compliment or a back handed slap?

That's harsh!

Had someone message me today saying I look good for my age. I said it was a backhanded compliment.

Best thing was he was confused by what I meant. ha

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

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Feel free to copy and paste the above.

This type if response is wishy washy. It's being polite and rude at the same time (passive). If you think someone a cock, just call them a cock. Simple and takes less time. "

Actually, it's passive/aggressive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

had someone message me just to suggest that there was no need for me to post all of my veris. i bluntly responded that it was my profile, and id show what i damn well liked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope you attached the "offending" pic to your reply lol

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By *ranthamThroat OP Man
over a year ago

Grantham.

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Feel free to copy and paste the above.

This type if response is wishy washy. It's being polite and rude at the same time (passive). If you think someone a cock, just call them a cock. Simple and takes less time. "

Cut and paste doesn't take much time or effort though and it is a good use or words, and they really can't take (any more) offence and report you?

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By *ranthamThroat OP Man
over a year ago

Grantham.

"I hope you attached the "offending" pic to your reply lol"

I didn't but was tempted to reply with more along the same line...I refrained from doing it though

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Offer them a meet but ask if they'd mind being blindfolded since their look of disapproval may put you off your stroke.

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By *ranthamThroat OP Man
over a year ago

Grantham.

"Offer them a meet but ask if they'd mind being blindfolded since their look of disapproval may put you off your stroke."

lmao, brilliant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the pic has been approved by a mod then I would block the person, that way they need never be offended by my pics again. Simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Feel free to copy and paste the above.

This type if response is wishy washy. It's being polite and rude at the same time (passive). If you think someone a cock, just call them a cock. Simple and takes less time.

Cut and paste doesn't take much time or effort though and it is a good use or words, and they really can't take (any more) offence and report you?

Yeah true. Plus I would find that type of response more annoying do I guess it serves it's purpose lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mind you. I got a message today from someone saying i'm quite cute for a dwarf.

...now, i don't know what to make of that message. Was that a compliment or a back handed slap?

That's harsh!

Had someone message me today saying I look good for my age. I said it was a backhanded compliment.

Best thing was he was confused by what I meant. ha "

I just had to reply by saying 'thanks...i think'.

..i haven't had a compliment in a while. So, i'm taking that in my stride.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd do more variations of the pic they didn't like and upload them all.

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By *ranthamThroat OP Man
over a year ago

Grantham.

"If the pic has been approved by a mod then I would block the person, that way they need never be offended by my pics again. Simple."

Left them unblocked so they can be offended again, if they decide to look, also reported the profile

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

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Feel free to copy and paste the above.

This type if response is wishy washy. It's being polite and rude at the same time (passive). If you think someone a cock, just call them a cock. Simple and takes less time.

Cut and paste doesn't take much time or effort though and it is a good use or words, and they really can't take (any more) offence and report you?

Yeah true. Plus I would find that type of response more annoying do I guess it serves it's purpose lol"

That was the point of it. Then you block to piss them off further as they can't respond. And you've broken no site rules. I often respond like this if someone is rude. Gives me a sense of smug satisfaction - bitch that I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say no and probably send them a copy at regular intervals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I probably wouldn't reply. I'd block them to save them the discomfort of seeing my photos ever again.

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By *ranthamThroat OP Man
over a year ago

Grantham.

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Feel free to copy and paste the above.

This type if response is wishy washy. It's being polite and rude at the same time (passive). If you think someone a cock, just call them a cock. Simple and takes less time.

Cut and paste doesn't take much time or effort though and it is a good use or words, and they really can't take (any more) offence and report you?

Yeah true. Plus I would find that type of response more annoying do I guess it serves it's purpose lol

Loving you! ;-0x...am also going to post some more pics of same ilk so if they look again they will be gagging lmao

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By *ranthamThroat OP Man
over a year ago

Grantham.

"I would say no and probably send them a copy at regular intervals

LOL, am not THAT bad, but if they look again, hey blooming hoe that's is their problem - or fixation?

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By *ranthamThroat OP Man
over a year ago

Grantham.

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Feel free to copy and paste the above.

Did this but changed wording to "unreasoned and unsolicited"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends, what they object to and how they word the objection. If they say the background is messy for instance then I may well review the picture and possibly thank them and swap it out.

If they have some rights over the picture e.g. some of their body parts are in it then I would remove it no questions asked.

If they just don't like a legit picture content then block and forget.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go fourth and multiply" would be our polite response to that the cheeky little shit heads!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

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Feel free to copy and paste the above.

Did this but changed wording to "unreasoned and unsolicited"

Hope you blocked right after!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ignore, block and don't loose sleep. If they choose to look at your profile, that's up to them. ffs this is a sex site.

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By *preadeagleCouple
over a year ago

hull

On a site like this sod it just about everything goes not everyone likes the masses of spectacular pics that are put on.My polite answer would be kiss my a??;-)

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By *ranthamThroat OP Man
over a year ago

Grantham.

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Feel free to copy and paste the above.

Did this but changed wording to "unreasoned and unsolicited"

Hope you blocked right after!

No I am being bad so when I post more pictures like those they can be more offended....

,I haven't blocked the profile so I can send admin to messages as am not sure if they are deleted just from the profiles or from the database;-)

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By *ranthamThroat OP Man
over a year ago

Grantham.

"ignore, block and don't loose sleep. If they choose to look at your profile, that's up to them. ffs this is a sex site. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It still baffles me as to why some people waste their time messaging stuff like that. They really should get a life and message people they are interested in rather than bothering people they clearly have no interest in.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"Mind you. I got a message today from someone saying i'm quite cute for a dwarf.

...now, i don't know what to make of that message. Was that a compliment or a back handed slap?

did it make you happy? dopey lol

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By *ranthamThroat OP Man
over a year ago

Grantham.

thanks everyone, am calming down now! lol, thought I was pretty thick skinned, so I guess I was caught off guard by this message - but I won't be again

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

I'd make it my profile picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's that picture of you milking the billy goat? I think it is cute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mind you. I got a message today from someone saying i'm quite cute for a dwarf.

...now, i don't know what to make of that message. Was that a compliment or a back handed slap?

did it make you happy? dopey lol"

Yeah. I finally got a message.

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By *ranthamThroat OP Man
over a year ago

Grantham.

"If it's that picture of you milking the billy goat? I think it is cute

phew! I just had to check my profile to see if anything looked that bad lmao ;-0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just wouldn't reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"didn't meet with someone else's approval, with a request to remove it....would your answer be rude or polite?...my reply was very polite, but pointed

Probably the same as I would if someone asked me to chop my cock of.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I would refer them to Arkell v Pressdram 1971

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"didn't meet with someone else's approval, with a request to remove it....would your answer be rude or polite?...my reply was very polite, but pointed

it's your profile no one make anyone look at it so as long as the photo isn't breaking site rules then I don't see what their problem would be. "

The only problems I've had with pics is cock pics and skid marks in men's boxers!

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By *ranthamThroat OP Man
over a year ago

Grantham.

"I would refer them to Arkell v Pressdram 1971

ermmm me have to look that up, thanks will do tomorrow when back online

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheeky fekkers! Course, you KNOW we all want to see the "offending" picture?

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By *ranthamThroat OP Man
over a year ago

Grantham.

"didn't meet with someone else's approval, with a request to remove it....would your answer be rude or polite?...my reply was very polite, but pointed

it's your profile no one make anyone look at it so as long as the photo isn't breaking site rules then I don't see what their problem would be.

The only problems I've had with pics is cock pics and skid marks in men's boxers!

yuck lol, not had that yet, hopefully never will

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By *ranthamThroat OP Man
over a year ago

Grantham.

"Cheeky fekkers! Course, you KNOW we all want to see the "offending" picture?

lmao, last one posted, "triple facial" can't see the complaint myself, in fact every time I post it the picture gets appreciation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had this happen to me, quite a few times actually, I ignore and never reply

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By *ranthamThroat OP Man
over a year ago

Grantham.

"I have had this happen to me, quite a few times actually, I ignore and never reply

Really had it a few times?

Bloody hell there must be some saddos here if they object to any of your pictures, nothing offensive or disturbing in any of your pics., and can appreciate that you don't reply

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"I would refer them to Arkell v Pressdram 1971

ermmm me have to look that up, thanks will do tomorrow when back online

Arkell v. Pressdram (1971) [unreported]

Solicitor (Goodman Derrick & Co.):

We act for Mr Arkell who is Retail Credit Manager of Granada TV Rental Ltd. His attention has been drawn to an article appearing in the issue of Private Eye dated 9th April 1971 on page 4. The statements made about Mr Arkell are entirely untrue and clearly highly defamatory. We are therefore instructed to require from you immediately your proposals for dealing with the matter. Mr Arkell's first concern is that there should be a full retraction at the earliest possible date in Private Eye and he will also want his costs paid. His attitude to damages will be governed by the nature of your reply.

Private Eye:

We acknowledge your letter of 29th April referring to Mr J. Arkell. We note that Mr Arkell's attitude to damages will be governed by the nature of our reply and would therefore be grateful if you would inform us what his attitude to damages would be, were he to learn that the nature of our reply is as follows: fuck off.

[No further reply]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i used to get messages from angry sounding people men except for one woman saying i should shave my fanny.

i used to just block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mind you. I got a message today from someone saying i'm quite cute for a dwarf.

...now, i don't know what to make of that message. Was that a compliment or a back handed slap?

That's harsh!

Had someone message me today saying I look good for my age. I said it was a backhanded compliment.

Best thing was he was confused by what I meant. ha "

i had a similar one. apparently i am 'some bit of gear for 40'.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was say "thanks for the feed back if you do not like the picture feel free to block me" :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if they are going to go out of their way to be rude, I would say piss off and look at someone else's then.

If there is nothing good to say, then say nothing at all.

Her

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By *ranthamThroat OP Man
over a year ago

Grantham.

"I would refer them to Arkell v Pressdram 1971

ermmm me have to look that up, thanks will do tomorrow when back online

Arkell v. Pressdram (1971) [unreported]

Solicitor (Goodman Derrick & Co.):

Private Eye:

[No further reply]

lmao, thanks

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By *ranthamThroat OP Man
over a year ago

Grantham.

"Well if they are going to go out of their way to be rude, I would say piss off and look at someone else's then.

If there is nothing good to say, then say nothing at all.

Her

Appreciate that, in messages I am not rude, I just point out that if they had read my profile they should not have sent me a message as they are wasting their time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well if they are going to go out of their way to be rude, I would say piss off and look at someone else's then.

If there is nothing good to say, then say nothing at all.

Her

Appreciate that, in messages I am not rude, I just point out that if they had read my profile they should not have sent me a message as they are wasting their time

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Treat as your treated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd do them a favour, and block them. I'm so considerate.

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By *ranthamThroat OP Man
over a year ago

Grantham.

"Well if they are going to go out of their way to be rude, I would say piss off and look at someone else's then.

If there is nothing good to say, then say nothing at all.

Her

Appreciate that, in messages I am not rude, I just point out that if they had read my profile they should not have sent me a message as they are wasting their time

Treat as your treated

fair enough, just waiting to give me a rude reply so can report again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would tell them that they are fuckin stupid because as everyone knows i'm perfect

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By *ranthamThroat OP Man
over a year ago

Grantham.

"I'd do them a favour, and block them. I'm so considerate."

LOL sod 'em, they want to be so twatty they get the comeback

, as said above leaving them unblocked for annoyance factor for themif they look again....

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By *ranthamThroat OP Man
over a year ago

Grantham.

lol just had a message saying it was too much and made them feel sick......ah well, been blocked now so can't see if the profile liked 3some or group! arff arff arff

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By *wink partiesCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"We would tell them to 'do one'"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my pics my profile, so sod em they don't have to look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either a very short 'No', or go into a great deal of waffle to bore them to death LoL.

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By *ranthamThroat OP Man
over a year ago

Grantham.

"my pics my profile, so sod em they don't have to look "

reported profile and looks like admin blocked us from each other as after the last message I checked the profile & can only see two wee boxes, not the usual "you have blocked" or "they blocked you" message, thanks mods/admin, will save that profile some grief or heartburn lol

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By *ranthamThroat OP Man
over a year ago

Grantham.

"Either a very short 'No', or go into a great deal of waffle to bore them to death LoL."

see posts above

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