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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Suck don't they. Been a month and still can't get her out of my head. I know I'm only 21 but I thought she was the one.

Treated her like shit being young and dumb my god don't I regret it.

Gay rant over thanks for listening

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

That what happens when you treat people like shit....you don't know what you had until you have lost it...maybe have a rethink on how you treat others in the future...

If you don't treat a person with respect and love....someone else will...I'm sure you will be right as rain soon

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

A month isn't long to get over someone these things can take ages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Live & learn.

Just remember to treat people how you would like to be treated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Live & learn.

Just remember to treat people how you would like to be treated."

Don't be a cunt.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

My mum's rule is that you need to stay single for one month of every year of the relationship following a break up or half the length if the relationship if it was under a year.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was with her since I was 15. She's now 26 so got 5 months of being single. Think I need longer then that haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Live & learn.

Just remember to treat people how you would like to be treated.

Don't be a cunt."

Simple yet effective advice!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sympathies, been there.

Takes time, also gives you time to reflect so you don't lose another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Break ups are tough, by the sounds of it youve only got to blame, so man up move on and be a better man.

Recently went through one my self, she was unbelievably nice to me, thoughtful, kind, caring and understanding but it lacked that spark. I felt like a dick finishing things but i couldnt give her what she deserved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Break ups can make you do all sorts of mad things ... like joining swingers sites the week before it happens and not being able to decide on your own age

By your own admission you were a dick.

Recognising it is one thing

Now it's up to you to do something about it before you meet the next lady 'lucky' enough to call you her partner.

Then all you have to do is keep yourself in check.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she just out grew you.. wanting to try new things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So she is now 26 and you are 21, so that is a 5 year age gap

You met her when you were 15 (and therefore school age) and she would have been 20 ?

Am I reading that right ?

Or you getting confused with numbers again ?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"So she is now 26 and you are 21, so that is a 5 year age gap

You met her when you were 15 (and therefore school age) and she would have been 20 ?

Am I reading that right ?

Or you getting confused with numbers again ?"

He has 22 on his profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So she is now 26 and you are 21, so that is a 5 year age gap

You met her when you were 15 (and therefore school age) and she would have been 20 ?

Am I reading that right ?

Or you getting confused with numbers again ?

He has 22 on his profile "

but only 21 in his op

must be the turmoil of the break up

poor lad doesn't know where he's up to ...

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"So she is now 26 and you are 21, so that is a 5 year age gap

You met her when you were 15 (and therefore school age) and she would have been 20 ?

Am I reading that right ?

Or you getting confused with numbers again ?

He has 22 on his profile

but only 21 in his op

must be the turmoil of the break up

poor lad doesn't know where he's up to ..."

I know I feel his pain

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

You will learn from this but at your age you will have many broken hearts on lifes rocky road

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

All first relationship breakups are hard, even those that are making light of your breakup have been there at least once.

Try and learn by your mistakes, none of us where perfect at your age and not so as weve matured.

Give yourself time out and if/when you meet someone else you will have more maturity for a relationship. 15 is young to get into a long relationship, not many people stay with their first loves

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"All first relationship breakups are hard, even those that are making light of your breakup have been there at least once.

Try and learn by your mistakes, none of us where perfect at your age and not so as weve matured.

Give yourself time out and if/when you meet someone else you will have more maturity for a relationship. 15 is young to get into a long relationship, not many people stay with their first loves"
I agree Diamonds. Does it really matter what his age is or isnt? He didn't ask for his profile to be critiqued.

Having your heart broken, whether self inflicted or not is painful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Took me the better part of a year to get over my last break up, we had been together for 5 years. We do survive these things, though it sometimes feels like we will never get over them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't sound ready for anything serious enjoy yourself your 21. Probably wait till your her age before anything serious.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"All first relationship breakups are hard, even those that are making light of your breakup have been there at least once.

Try and learn by your mistakes, none of us where perfect at your age and not so as weve matured.

Give yourself time out and if/when you meet someone else you will have more maturity for a relationship. 15 is young to get into a long relationship, not many people stay with their first lovesI agree Diamonds. Does it really matter what his age is or isnt? He didn't ask for his profile to be critiqued.

Having your heart broken, whether self inflicted or not is painful."

Very true...Op sorry if I came across as rude...time is a great healer in break ups

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

Quickly jump back on dat horse

or you could end up a sad mother fucker like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So she is now 26 and you are 21, so that is a 5 year age gap

You met her when you were 15 (and therefore school age) and she would have been 20 ?

Am I reading that right ?

Or you getting confused with numbers again ?"
I thought exactly the same. Why was a 20 year old woman with a school boy?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"So she is now 26 and you are 21, so that is a 5 year age gap

You met her when you were 15 (and therefore school age) and she would have been 20 ?

Am I reading that right ?

Or you getting confused with numbers again ? I thought exactly the same. Why was a 20 year old woman with a school boy? "
Maybe he was mature for his age and she was young, doesnt mean they necessarily had sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We didn't sleep together till I was 16. She was a mates older sister so know here since I was a lot younger. We moved in with each other when I was 18 and out relationship didn't really take off till then. I hope this clears up some questions haha

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"We didn't sleep together till I was 16. She was a mates older sister so know here since I was a lot younger. We moved in with each other when I was 18 and out relationship didn't really take off till then. I hope this clears up some questions haha"

You never needed to explain yourself, however I do hope that you can move on from the break up and reflect on mistakes that were made...you are young enjoy single life for a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In time you will look back on this as a lesson in life, although painful it's experiences like these who make you who you are, good luck and it does get better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Young man as the saying goes, treat them mean keeps them keen, its not true.

We never know what we have until its gone, Woo her up a bit and you never know, never say never.

Good luck.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Suck don't they. Been a month and still can't get her out of my head. I know I'm only 21 but I thought she was the one.

Treated her like shit being young and dumb my god don't I regret it.

Gay rant over thanks for listening "

Break ups are never fun but you are young and have clearly reflected on your behaviour. Live and learn, onwards and upwards as they say.

Not sure why you describe it as 'gay' though

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Unfortunately this is the first of many break ups.probably.they dont get any easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

reminds me of a few people i know, one ended up a lonely spinster and one ended up marrying an older much plainer looking woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's probably on here. Have a look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's probably on here. Have a look

Read her veris!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She's probably on here. Have a look

Read her veris!! "

That's nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she was the only woman you had sex with you may want to wait a while before jumping back on that horse

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