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what to do when this site starts to become an obession in your life !!

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By *usky Couple01 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You seriously consider taking a break for a month or so. I have done that on a few occasions in the past if you have noticed then it says a lot its what you do about it if you see it as a problem.

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

back away ,take a break my ex became obsessed and it ruined my marriage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had a long time without it and after a while didnt bother me at all- was still in touch with him and came back and made couples account - miss the forums most as i kill a lot of not being able to sleep time here

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By *usky Couple01 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

I know thw feeling its all himself does feom the min he wakes up till he goes to sleep at nights i feel im ignored

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Leave it for a while and break the habit

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Make little dolls from human skin and hair of all the forum regulars like I do so I never have to be without them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Others play candy crush or pepper panic

I however take the moral high ground and play jelly splash

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If you never base your swinging solely on an internet site, then it is easier to be relaxed about things. If time management is an issue, then go back to basics and plan your day, such that each hour is filled and you make sure that there is plenty of other stuff is going on, and there's less need to be dipping in and out.

Visit swingers venues or rely on contacts if you need swinging sex.

If your self-control is really light, then your time management and busy life will keep you distracted and entertained. Final step is to fully break off for a period, as others state.

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By *usky Couple01 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Theres more to life this this site hes totally OBESSED !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know thw feeling its all himself does feom the min he wakes up till he goes to sleep at nights i feel im ignored "

Have a word with him? x

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By *usky Couple01 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Ive spoke to him numerous a times of this i dont feel good enough anymore for him everyone else on here is sexier an prettier then me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time to wobble his head n kick his arse there's more to life than coming on here 24/7.... Although I do like reading forum threads and the odd perv I still enjoy and fill my non cyber life with plenty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure you have plenty of other things going on in your life as well and are keeping up with real life friends rather than just the cyber variety

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By *usky Couple01 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

I wiah i could get through to him i only ever pop on here for a wee snoop myself have a chat thats it i get bk to reality then an carry on with every day life he cant do this minute he wakes up straifgt on here till he falls asleep at night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make sure you have plenty of other things going on in your life as well and are keeping up with real life friends rather than just the cyber variety "

this

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I wiah i could get through to him i only ever pop on here for a wee snoop myself have a chat thats it i get bk to reality then an carry on with every day life he cant do this minute he wakes up straifgt on here till he falls asleep at night "

Delete the account

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By *usky Couple01 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Plenty to do garden chores etc we have two dogs to be walked a n ones a husky an needs few walks a day im doing the hse chores he can tend to other things course if he can peel himself away from the site on his phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wiah i could get through to him i only ever pop on here for a wee snoop myself have a chat thats it i get bk to reality then an carry on with every day life he cant do this minute he wakes up straifgt on here till he falls asleep at night "

Have you told him you feel neglected? What is he actually doing on here for all those hours?

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By *usky Couple01 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Ive told him spoke a few times of it and he chats away on here messages everyone he says its cos i dont have sex with him ive said perhaps if u stay off the site an pay attention to me

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By *usky Couple01 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"I wiah i could get through to him i only ever pop on here for a wee snoop myself have a chat thats it i get bk to reality then an carry on with every day life he cant do this minute he wakes up straifgt on here till he falls asleep at night

Delete the account "
not delete the account

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

As I assume the husband that youre discussing is the same one that has this profile with you Im going to close this now sorry

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