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Women who make first contact

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By *alldarkhandsomedave OP   Man
over a year ago

Derby

Morning all.

Am I right in thinking that very few women make the first contact on here with guys.... or is it my profile putting them off?!

Dave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience, women on here who make the first move are really guys.

There are two types 1st is the faker. Sets up a single woman profile and messes about.

2nd is the couple that set up a single woman profile with the male partner in control. First message often comes from partner but they rarely say so up front. Leads to a bit of confusion.

Most of the women on here will tell you that they are inundated by emails and winks and they have little need to go looking.

Occasionally you will receive a wink but an unsolicited email from a girl is as rare as rocking horse poo.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

They do, I get a fair few message me. Sadly never for make up advice

Lost the Sydney Uni disclaimer, it's pointless. Add new photos. 2 cock pics and 2 torso pics aren't that great. Cock pics private, add a face pic, some of you suited and booted, a couple of fun ones and one of you out and about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't suppose they need to, with all the messages they get, unless they see someone they fancy.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BTW. Your profile is fine. Keep sending well written emails to people you want to meet and be patient it will happen.

Also, if you want to accelerate your progress, visit a local club or social meet in your area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Morning all.

Am I right in thinking that very few women make the first contact on here with guys.... or is it my profile putting them off?!

Dave "

if i like someone profile and photos i will make 1st contact x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have never made first contact. Am just lazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm looking, I always mail first. I very rarely get mails and I prefer it that way. I am real.

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By *alldarkhandsomedave OP   Man
over a year ago

Derby

As I thought, thanks!

I had thought I need to refresh my photos so will have a go.

I do send a fair few messages out, just tricky to stand out of the crowd!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they do....not often but I have had messages off genuine ladies who I have gone on to meet and who are now friends...

Had very few from "fakes" - how did you find out?

Couldn't say if it's your profile attracting them tho...

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)


"Morning all.

Am I right in thinking that very few women make the first contact on here with guys.... or is it my profile putting them off?!

Dave "

Lovely arse, shame it is so far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've sent the first message a few times. I prefer it that way

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"When I'm looking, I always mail first. I very rarely get mails and I prefer it that way. I am real"

to this. I have yet to meet anyone I haven't initiated contact with in some way. I always read the profile first. Then perv any pictures if it piques my interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get more messages than I thought I would, considering the amount of guys out there. I rarely message people either, I'm sure you'll be fine and if someone says no just respect that etc.

Socials and clubs, as mentioned earlier, are a great place to start too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is fine

Im the female half of this couple and I have no problems sending a message to someone I like the look of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vag does send first messages to guys & did when she had a solo profile too.

You have a nice profile although the disclaimer is a waste of space (see our one).

Pretty yummy photos too esp the torso & arse ones

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By *awkeye and HotlipsCouple
over a year ago

Takeley

They do, it's a nice surprise when they do.

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By *punkloverCouple
over a year ago

hatfield

If i fancy the look of someone then i send a message, no probs !

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I have made the first move a few times, mainly if I have enjoyed their pics, sometimes it has lead to other things, sometimes it has just led to a nice friendship

P.s I am not a man

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"In my experience, women on here who make the first move are really guys.

There are two types 1st is the faker. Sets up a single woman profile and messes about.

2nd is the couple that set up a single woman profile with the male partner in control. First message often comes from partner but they rarely say so up front. Leads to a bit of confusion.

Most of the women on here will tell you that they are inundated by emails and winks and they have little need to go looking.

Occasionally you will receive a wink but an unsolicited email from a girl is as rare as rocking horse poo. "

I've been known to send the first message and I most certainly am not a fake!!!!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

If I see someone I like I'll message them...you are not going to get anywhere waiting for them to contact you...I sometimes don't get a response but I just move on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I see someone I like I'll message them...you are not going to get anywhere waiting for them to contact you...I sometimes don't get a response but I just move on... "

Didn't you just

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