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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I read it a fair bit but is it as common as it's made out to be, Messages like "fancy a F**k etc with nothing else written just the fancy a F**k bit ?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Similar to that yes

I had one last night......hard cock wanna cam?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"I read it a fair bit but is it as common as it's made out to be, Messages like "fancy a F**k etc with nothing else written just the fancy a F**k bit ? "

yes they do..... i got one from a couple the other day saying

"you hung?"....

i wouldn't mind but that was the 1st message they sent......

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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I just got one, 'can I call round for a coffee or even sex'

One word reply

NO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I read it a fair bit but is it as common as it's made out to be, Messages like "fancy a F**k etc with nothing else written just the fancy a F**k bit ? "

Some are actually so bad they are funny. But that's not good if your looking for a meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice tits...

Nice nails...

Wanna fuck my arse...

Can I cum round...

Where are you...

Ooooooh the scintilating messsges I've received over the months. A hidden profile doesn't stop them either...sigh!

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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago

clacton on sea

i've had " i want you to fuck my wife" or "my wife want to fuck you" but they usually come from unverified accounts or you are blocked when you go to reply

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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago

clacton on sea


"Nice tits...

Nice nails...

Wanna fuck my arse...

Can I cum round...

Where are you...

Ooooooh the scintilating messsges I've received over the months. A hidden profile doesn't stop them either...sigh!"

if it's a hidden profile, then how do they send messages? as the side bar wouldn't be there either, so it must be someone you have had contact with in the past, and they contact you through previous mail link surely ???????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice tits...

Nice nails...

Wanna fuck my arse...

Can I cum round...

Where are you...

Ooooooh the scintilating messsges I've received over the months. A hidden profile doesn't stop them either...sigh!"

It sounds like the same ones mail you as me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weve had im in your area can i come round and shag you now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice tits...

Nice nails...

Wanna fuck my arse...

Can I cum round...

Where are you...

Ooooooh the scintilating messsges I've received over the months. A hidden profile doesn't stop them either...sigh!

if it's a hidden profile, then how do they send messages? as the side bar wouldn't be there either, so it must be someone you have had contact with in the past, and they contact you through previous mail link surely ???????"

You'd think so but sadly if you post on the forum all you need to do is reply privately and it gets through!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I just think they're funny,I don't let them upset me I just ignore them,or if im in a minxy mood I may just wind them up a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice tits...

Nice nails...

Wanna fuck my arse...

Can I cum round...

Where are you...

Ooooooh the scintilating messsges I've received over the months. A hidden profile doesn't stop them either...sigh!

It sounds like the same ones mail you as me "

PMSL!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often get mail saying "I'm up your way golfing...and asked a) do I shag? b) do I wanna? and c) well do you have a spare room for the Open?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just think they're funny,I don't let them upset me I just ignore them,or if im in a minxy mood I may just wind them up a bit "

That's the fun bit at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just think they're funny,I don't let them upset me I just ignore them,or if im in a minxy mood I may just wind them up a bit "

Our sentiments entirely!! Depending the mood katie is in, i have seen her wind up plenty! lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had the ''I live local to you, lets meet'' to the ''would love to see you with my wife'' Thats just two of the few we've had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one I got last week "I would love to be your human toilet"

ewwwwwwwwwwwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"one I got last week "I would love to be your human toilet"

ewwwwwwwwwwwww"

Is he still about? I thought he'd been flushed months ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surprisingly enough as a single guy with a sillhoutte on my profile I have also been a victim of this.

Spoke on the phone to two guys who were on here as couples. Both show pics of hot females and claim to be open minded .

One guy wanted me to come and get kinky with his missus until push came to shove and I said "Go for it " and he called me all sorts of vile names and that I need to speak to a councillor before leaving the site.

The other called me and set up a meeting and didn't bother his arse showing up.

Bad enough we single guys get hung out to dry for some stupid messages but it goes both ways.

I had a meet arranged for this morning with a lady who talked the talk and was messaging me with one liners.

She has since left the site.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"I often get mail saying "I'm up your way golfing...and asked a) do I shag? b) do I wanna? and c) well do you have a spare room for the Open?"

"

oooh... the open... do you have a spare room by any chance... pay ya in jaffa cakes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often get mail saying "I'm up your way golfing...and asked a) do I shag? b) do I wanna? and c) well do you have a spare room for the Open?"

oooh... the open... do you have a spare room by any chance... pay ya in jaffa cakes... "

Now you're talking my kinda talk!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strangest one we ever had just said

WOW !!!!!!

Xx

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

We get quite a lot of crap messages mostly from single guys but some from couples too, although what seem like couples could be fake.

But here is a story for you that was a hell of an eye opener for me (Dave)…

Some 15 years ago long before swinging a mate of mine had a problem with his PC and asked me to sort it out and so I did. But in the process I happened to notice he had signed up to a dating site. Thinking ‘this will be good for a laugh’ I noted the details.

I looked the site up at home and discovered girls got full membership for free and so I created a female, good looking, mid 30’s and sexually adventurous, pictures, profile the works. Plan was to PM my mate posing as the fem and take it from there. Only there was a catch, the joke sort of backfired because as my mate wasn’t a paying member he couldn’t contact/talk to people!

So that was that, or so I thought… then the emails started flooding in from males trying to ‘chat up’ this mid-30’s single fem. I’ll be completely honest with you, as a man I had absolutely no idea what disgusting animals other men can be, in fact I wouldn’t call them ‘men’!!! 99% of the emails literally treated this women like a piece of rubbish for the use of, literally just a ‘thing’! By comparison I would say that the single guys that send rubbish emails on here are NOTHING like as bad as the ones my fictitious fem received. It genuinely made me feel ashamed to be of the same sex and species!!!

We too sometimes wind up the keyboard wankers, especially on messenger as they try and get you to tell them about your sex life, just feed them a tiny tiny little scrap to keep them hanging but don’t actually tell them anything LOL.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

lol simple answer as u gather from replies is YES ppl across all catigories send awful messages !

i last nite had a message from a "single bi fem" from down south simply saying "boyfriend is in glasgow soon if you wann fuck him " . not only is the message off putting but to me the simple fact they obviously not read ONE word of my profile is what gets to me the most . they also must think im so gullible that id just meet up a total stranger who ive not even talked to once just on say so of their "supposid" girl friend .errrrmmm let me think here ..... im daft but i certaqinly aint stupid lol !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we must get used to the fact we can never satisfy everyones requirements.

This is after all a "sex" site albeit primarily aimed at swingers.

The fact that it is basically free in itself encourages all manner of degenerates to think it gives them the right to be abusive when sending messages.

While I fail to see any need for this abusiveness, it simply shows the calibre of the person making them and the fact they cannot accept rejection lightly.

All that said, i for one find it frustrating and inconsiderate when you take the time to send a reasonably mild and unsuggestive message to someone who just doesn't have the courtesy to reply even if simply "no thanks".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we must get used to the fact we can never satisfy everyones requirements.

This is after all a "sex" site albeit primarily aimed at swingers.

The fact that it is basically free in itself encourages all manner of degenerates to think it gives them the right to be abusive when sending messages.

While I fail to see any need for this abusiveness, it simply shows the calibre of the person making them and the fact they cannot accept rejection lightly.

All that said, i for one find it frustrating and inconsiderate when you take the time to send a reasonably mild and unsuggestive message to someone who just doesn't have the courtesy to reply even if simply "no thanks". "

This is a common complaint but just because YOU sent a message the recipient is under no obligation to respond. You're obviously not what they're looking for.

The fact of the matter is we all start off sending "no thanks" messages, but they usually lead to more unwanted messages, whines or plain rudeness and abuse.

Easy option? Ignore and block!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am in your area can i pop in

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By *ipstickCouple
over a year ago

swansea

We`ve recently had

"mmmmmmmmm"

"fuck now ? "

neither of which we replied to !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We`ve recently had

"mmmmmmmmm"

"fuck now ? "

neither of which we replied to ! "

We get lots of those. we used to reply but its like opening a can of worms as you get more and more messages from them on the same lines.

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

I think our classic was ' I wanna fuck your wife'

As it was early days, I responded, asking for more info, only to get a friend request instead of a reply... we didn't accept.

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

I had a great one the other day:

"DO U SUK COCK"

I replied to inform the person that I had tried to on many occasions but had just ended up putting my back out.

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford


"we must get used to the fact we can never satisfy everyones requirements.

This is after all a "sex" site albeit primarily aimed at swingers.

The fact that it is basically free in itself encourages all manner of degenerates to think it gives them the right to be abusive when sending messages.

While I fail to see any need for this abusiveness, it simply shows the calibre of the person making them and the fact they cannot accept rejection lightly.

All that said, i for one find it frustrating and inconsiderate when you take the time to send a reasonably mild and unsuggestive message to someone who just doesn't have the courtesy to reply even if simply "no thanks". "

Well if it makes you feel any better Joe we say ‘we always reply’ and we do TRY to always reply even to some of the one-liners. But in practice, sometimes we get a flurry of mail and some slip through the net and I’m pretty sure we’ve lost a one or two at least ‘would-be good contacts’ because we’ve been distracted working through the rubbish. It can be difficult for all or any of us at times. The trick is to try and not let it get you down.

As you said yourself the very nature of this site will been seen by non-swingers as a meat market, ‘slappers-R-us’ so it is bound to attract some scum. And also, we’re pretty sure that some folks are almost illiterate and so the one-line, no CAPS, no punctuation incomprehensible rubbish could be the best they can do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol simple answer as u gather from replies is YES ppl across all catigories send awful messages !

i last nite had a message from a "single bi fem" from down south simply saying "boyfriend is in glasgow soon if you wann fuck him " . not only is the message off putting but to me the simple fact they obviously not read ONE word of my profile is what gets to me the most . they also must think im so gullible that id just meet up a total stranger who ive not even talked to once just on say so of their "supposid" girl friend .errrrmmm let me think here ..... im daft but i certaqinly aint stupid lol !!!

"

ahahahahahhaaa!! iv had that one a few times!! lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i am in your area can i pop in "

yup!! and im workin near/goin to a function blah blah! x

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"I read it a fair bit but is it as common as it's made out to be, Messages like "fancy a F**k etc with nothing else written just the fancy a F**k bit ?

yes they do..... i got one from a couple the other day saying

"you hung?"....

i wouldn't mind but that was the 1st message they sent......"

you think that's bad, i got one the other day asking

are you hung? you bloody well should be

i never knew the ex was on here

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

actually, whats a message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

actually, whats a message?"

I had one who replied asking if i could bring a takeaway round! Straaange!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a favourite of mine was some random guy sent "im hung" i sent back tie it tighter its obviously not workin if you can type whilst hangin!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had messages like that and even knowing that my profile states "need to get to know etc" mail and chat for a few weeks and then nothing.zilch.zero .

So whats all that about. ?

Hence because of all the tws.

I often hide my profile and stick to those i know are the real deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i got one from a couple that just said "Phone numer?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i got one from a couple that just said "Phone numer?""

Lol, similarly I got one that just said "hey, tonight?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i got one from a couple that just said "Phone numer?"

Lol, similarly I got one that just said "hey, tonight?" "

Its the arse that has that effect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i got one from a couple that just said "Phone numer?""

same as el nino......

they was attracted by your pic...

tut.....such shallow folk

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"

actually, whats a message?

I had one who replied asking if i could bring a takeaway round! Straaange! "

well can you??? could murder a crry right now

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By *nkednkinky_bbwWoman
over a year ago

cannock

Different variations of 'can i have a tit wank?' is something I get regularly as an opening message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Different variations of 'can i have a tit wank?' is something I get regularly as an opening message"

instead of wanking a "tit" lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes of course they do, like:

fancy a young hard cock

Text me, 0123456987 xx

im down your way in a hotel, fancy meeting up??? Umm do 2 jobs so meets take planning, not read profile then?

Another one had:

fancy meeting up for a fuck tomorrow? As per above, do 2 jobs bla bla

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here's another one. Had this guy send me a message on wednesday about meeting thursday, so i replied: daytime or evening? I then got this message from him:

how about friday evening.didnot get the mgs till today.if u wanna meet leave me ur postcode and house num and ill come about 10 pm

WTF!!! you can guess what i replied, yet again, have you read my profile, do 2 jobs, son living with me, along with would need head examined giving my address to a complete stranger

He's deleted my message? Am going to block this idiot, beginning to think that perhaps i should raise my age level

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i once got a message from a guy asking if i was pregnant

so just replied - nah just fat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

actually, whats a message?

I had one who replied asking if i could bring a takeaway round! Straaange! "

tell em only if its chinese

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish


"Oh yes of course they do, like:

fancy a young hard cock

Text me, 0123456987 xx

im down your way in a hotel, fancy meeting up??? Umm do 2 jobs so meets take planning, not read profile then?

Another one had:

fancy meeting up for a fuck tomorrow? As per above, do 2 jobs bla bla "

How did they get to be so subtle??????

can they tie their own shoelaces up????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I find funny is the kind of message that states "I am in ....(name of town) tomorrow night and staying at the ...(name of hotel)! xxx

What am I meant to reply? Something like "that is lovely to hear - hope the hotel is good?"

Do some people really think that being somewhere near where they think I live is reason enough to want to have sex?

Funny lol

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"What I find funny is the kind of message that states "I am in ....(name of town) tomorrow night and staying at the ...(name of hotel)! xxx

What am I meant to reply? Something like "that is lovely to hear - hope the hotel is good?"

Do some people really think that being somewhere near where they think I live is reason enough to want to have sex?

Funny lol"

could somebody start a thread,on what makes a good message.help the clueless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I find funny is the kind of message that states "I am in ....(name of town) tomorrow night and staying at the ...(name of hotel)! xxx

What am I meant to reply? Something like "that is lovely to hear - hope the hotel is good?"

Do some people really think that being somewhere near where they think I live is reason enough to want to have sex?

Funny lol

could somebody start a thread,on what makes a good message.help the clueless. "

Wish? .... Command???

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