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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We cant accomadate due to kids being at home... Why cant you guys ?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

It's not safe inviting strangers to my home. I don't want meets to know where I live, at least until I know them a bit better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To live near kids have to live near ex's family and friends ! Which causes dramas for me as it stirs up trouble and the easy punishment handed to me is not seeing kids ? Moving on isn't so easy ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same reason when I go out eldest is looking after littlin

also wont as did last year to two regular guys but they ended up as cling ons and very demanding. So wont do it anymore.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

There should be three options:

1) Can

2) Cannot

3) shan't, won't, can't make me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Same reason when I go out eldest is looking after littlin

also wont as did last year to two regular guys but they ended up as cling ons and very demanding. So wont do it anymore."

I suppose for single women its different...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not safe inviting strangers to my home. I don't want meets to know where I live, at least until I know them a bit better."

Do meet at theirs or socially first x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not safe inviting strangers to my home. I don't want meets to know where I live, at least until I know them a bit better."

Totally agree this is my kids home

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There should be three options:

1) Can

2) Cannot

3) shan't, won't, can't make me. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kids

And we enjoy hotel meets. No tidying up afterwards.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

It's kids for us too... but ours are teenagers who just come and go when they fancy. They've walked in on me and Anita naked before... imagine if we were mid meet with another couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live in a cardboard box under Lambeth bridge with 7 other outpatients so privacy is dificult.

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not safe inviting strangers to my home. I don't want meets to know where I live, at least until I know them a bit better.

Totally agree this is my kids home "

Plus my neighbours are nosey so and so's

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

Cause it's not my place and i have a live in landlady but works for me cause i'm after FWBs for social and pleasure and that way landlady wont say no. Of course late night last minute meets are definitely not possible

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I feel safer meeting in my own home, and frequently do.

I also prefer a bathroom and sheets that are my standard of clean.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I live in a cardboard box under Lambeth bridge with 7 other outpatients so privacy is dificult.

Gimp "

Can see how that would be awkward

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Kids

And we enjoy hotel meets. No tidying up afterwards. "

Only thing with hotels is if its seperate room swap its 2 rooms but i guess if each couple pay for a room its ok x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I much prefer meeting at home, feel much more confident

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By *randmrsminxyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We don't at moment ,simply has house is a building site . But we plan to by the end of the year

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not safe inviting strangers to my home. I don't want meets to know where I live, at least until I know them a bit better.

Totally agree this is my kids home "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curfew

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I much prefer meeting at home, feel much more confident"

Do u tell a friend u have company, just in case x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I much prefer meeting at home, feel much more confident

Do u tell a friend u have company, just in case x"
Yes and i get to know someone well before i invite them over, would never invite anyone i had an inkling of doubt over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can accommodate and spell accommodate

I can't travil or spell travil though

X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's kids for us too... but ours are teenagers who just come and go when they fancy. They've walked in on me and Anita naked before... imagine if we were mid meet with another couple "

Very

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can't accom due to kids, Nosey neighbours and thin walls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When my younger ones are at school my eldest is home never an empty house plus I don't want different men round mine. When the kids are older I might if I have one bring back a regular meet but that wouldn't be for s long time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In case they hear the cries for help coming from the hollow walls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In case they hear the cries for help coming from the hollow walls. "
never had you down as a screamer?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"It's not safe inviting strangers to my home. I don't want meets to know where I live, at least until I know them a bit better.

Do meet at theirs or socially first x"

I always meet socially first. However after meeting so briefly, I don't feel comfortable inviting them into my home. If they turn out to be married, I don't want the risk of their wife turning up on my doorstep.

Once I know someone a bit better I'm ok with accommodating.

I would like to feel a bit more comfortable about it earlier on because not being able to accommodate reduces my meet options.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I choose who and if and when.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"There should be three options:

1) Can

2) Cannot

3) shan't, won't, can't make me. "

I need a "maybe, once I trust you" option

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I did before, I don't now, I never will again...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kids live with me and my babysitter when I go out is my x wifes mum. She helps out a lot with school pick up too . Kind of makes things tricky home wise for fun .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There should be three options:

1) Can

2) Cannot

3) shan't, won't, can't make me. "

3)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not safe inviting strangers to my home. I don't want meets to know where I live, at least until I know them a bit better."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married, yes he knows but does not want me swinging in our bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still live with our parents

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

I could if I really wanted to, but it is my home. My children live here, my neighbours are nosey and I have no idea if the person I invite here knows the meaning of discretion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Married, yes he knows but does not want me swinging in our bed. "

Kind hubby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont know about others but time is limited so when I got the chance before when I was meeting then I wanted to make the most of it and that meant going out or going to a club any chance to escape and have a night off lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't live alone, I don't need anyone I live with knowing the ins and outs of my sex life. Also I have nosey neighbours. They also don't need to know the ins and outs of my sex life!

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby

Same reason as the OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I house share,so doubt my housemates would be very keen.

But apparently I have a wife and kids and must be playing away from home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live with lots of red bloodied men

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By *il_Lou90Woman
over a year ago

falkirk


"There should be three options:

1) Can

2) Cannot

3) shan't, won't, can't make me. "

I actually wish they would add occasionally for the accommodate question. If you put can people think your free 24/7 and cannot they think the opposite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I live with lots of red bloodied men "

Bloodied

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh


"I live with lots of red bloodied men "

Sounds fun

Ruby x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because my probation officer says so and the alarm goes off on the ankle monitor (and just because it's a fancy ankle bracelet doesn't lead to any credence about swingers and leg jewellery)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kids, all teenagers and up till all hours coming and going and trying to tell a 19yo lad he's going to his nans just doesn't wash, done hotels but expensive and we find boring so now it's clubs mainly or others houses but were running out of excuses as to were all our new friends come from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I accommodate. But I only meet with my regular playmates, so I know they won't turn up at all hours unless I ask. The odd time I do meet someone new. They don't come to mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because my probation officer says so and the alarm goes off on the ankle monitor (and just because it's a fancy ankle bracelet doesn't lead to any credence about swingers and leg jewellery)"

Which ankle is it on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I live with lots of red bloodied men

Bloodied "

They're always fighting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I live with lots of red bloodied men

Bloodied

They're always fighting! "

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By *ackandkateCouple
over a year ago

Truro

The warden wont let 'em in

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By *riskygazMan
over a year ago

birmingham

I try to keep everyone happy, I can accommodate or happy to go to them I cant do any better than that lol.

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By *riskygazMan
over a year ago

birmingham

I try to keep everyone happy, I can accommodate or happy to go to them I cant do any better than that lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live in a shitty embarrassing bet sit that I hate with a passion. For this reason I wouldn't make anyone I liked come to mine. This is fortunately just a temp arrangement whilst I save for a deposit on a flat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because my probation officer says so and the alarm goes off on the ankle monitor (and just because it's a fancy ankle bracelet doesn't lead to any credence about swingers and leg jewellery)

Which ankle is it on?

"

I've one on each. I'm a very bad man!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I choose not to....I may do on occasions it depends when I can be bothered to dust

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I live with lots of red bloodied men "

Do you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because my probation officer says so and the alarm goes off on the ankle monitor (and just because it's a fancy ankle bracelet doesn't lead to any credence about swingers and leg jewellery)

Which ankle is it on?

I've one on each. I'm a very bad man!"

Tell me how bad........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we can, but once when we did, the lady of the other couple got somewhat vocal and started screaming 'why wont anyone shag me'

since then, my elderly neighbour has been giving sly cracks about me getting pampas grass in the garden....

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Because my house is a tip and I can't be arsed to clean it.

Seriously though I do have one guy round but I've known him for years. I don't want people to know where I live because I am very territorial and like to know I can relax when I get home, not worry if someone might come and knock on my door unexpectedly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but would never invite anyone to our home.

Always drive long way home a few back doubles and stops on way home after a meet or dogging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry but would never invite anyone to our home.

Always drive long way home a few back doubles and stops on way home after a meet or dogging. "

That's a bit paranoid??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure is but don't want some mentalist following us home from dogging.

Might steal our cat's

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