FabSwingers.com forum: leaving his gf

By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

my lover has been texting me today that his girlfriend and him are at crisis point and hes thinking of moving back to his home town miles away

he said the only reason he put up with it was to see me but he cant take it any more.. shes argumentative and wont talk about it to anyone ... and no she has never suspected anything but im gutted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Next!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my lover has been texting me today that his girlfriend and him are at crisis point and hes thinking of moving back to his home town miles away

he said the only reason he put up with it was to see me but he cant take it any more.. shes argumentative and wont talk about it to anyone ... and no she has never suspected anything but im gutted "

So if he put up with her so he could see you why won't he leave her and still stick around?

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"my lover has been texting me today that his girlfriend and him are at crisis point and hes thinking of moving back to his home town miles away

he said the only reason he put up with it was to see me but he cant take it any more.. shes argumentative and wont talk about it to anyone ... and no she has never suspected anything but im gutted

So if he put up with her so he could see you why won't he leave her and still stick around?"

his family are not local or he would

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

oh well, you will need to find another lover....

good luck to the girlfriend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is he hinting that he would stick around for you ?

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"oh well, you will need to find another lover....

good luck to the girlfriend

his gf is not nice to him don't even cook him meals or have sex with him I wonder if she is carrying on

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"oh well, you will need to find another lover....

good luck to the girlfriend

his gf is not nice to him don't even cook him meals or have sex with him I wonder if she is carrying on"

I wouldn't cook meal for the cheating fucker either

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

"oh well, you will need to find another lover....

good luck to the girlfriend

his gf is not nice to him don't even cook him meals or have sex with him I wonder if she is carrying on"

By 'carrying on' do you mean cheating?

Oh the irony...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh well, you will need to find another lover....

good luck to the girlfriend

his gf is not nice to him don't even cook him meals or have sex with him I wonder if she is carrying on"

So he says. Why don't u ask Her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

his gf is not nice to him don't even cook him meals or have sex with him I wonder if she is carrying on"

I'm not surprised given she's being cheated on! I'd be very wary of believing everything he tells you, he's obviously a good liar!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this the lover that was sending 100 texts in one day? And the lover that showed no respect to your husband and was going to post an anniversary card??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh well, you will need to find another lover....

good luck to the girlfriend

his gf is not nice to him don't even cook him meals or have sex with him I wonder if she is carrying on

By 'carrying on' do you mean cheating?

Oh the irony..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh well, you will need to find another lover....

good luck to the girlfriend

his gf is not nice to him don't even cook him meals or have sex with him I wonder if she is carrying on

I wouldn't cook meal for the cheating fucker either"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh well, you will need to find another lover....

good luck to the girlfriend

his gf is not nice to him don't even cook him meals or have sex with him I wonder if she is carrying on

I wouldn't cook meal for the cheating fucker either"

I would cook his sausage

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"oh well, you will need to find another lover....

good luck to the girlfriend

his gf is not nice to him don't even cook him meals or have sex with him I wonder if she is carrying on

I wouldn't cook meal for the cheating fucker either"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He is playing you, if you believe his woe is me part with the girlfriend, that's up to you.

If he was that unhappy he wouldn't go with her.

You will be his dirty little secret until the next comes along.

Sorry I sound harsh just my observation.

Her

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By *ecor atorMan
over a year ago

York

Headbutt the cheating cunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay looking at this from another angle....if he's not getting on with his g/f and wants to move away ~ would you consider leaving your husband to be with him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh well, you will need to find another lover....

good luck to the girlfriend

his gf is not nice to him don't even cook him meals or have sex with him I wonder if she is carrying on

I wouldn't cook meal for the cheating fucker either"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can never understand people that want to get into a relationship with some when they have ah an affair with.

They don't suddenly change, your setting yourself up for a fall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my lover has been texting me today that his girlfriend and him are at crisis point and hes thinking of moving back to his home town miles away

he said the only reason he put up with it was to see me but he cant take it any more.. shes argumentative and wont talk about it to anyone ... and no she has never suspected anything but im gutted

So if he put up with her so he could see you why won't he leave her and still stick around?

his family are not local or he would"

I was going to ask why won't he stay for you. And re his family, he didn't worry too much about them while he was living with his girlfriend did he? Sorry just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For all you know he's shagging her all the time and she's cooking a three course meal every evening.

He left his family to be with her but won't leave them to be with you.

Says it all really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh well, you will need to find another lover....

good luck to the girlfriend

his gf is not nice to him don't even cook him meals or have sex with him I wonder if she is carrying on

I wouldn't cook meal for the cheating fucker either"

Haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For all you know he's shagging her all the time and she's cooking a three course meal every evening.

He left his family to be with her but won't leave them to be with you.

Says it all really. "

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Are you really that gullible to believe what he is saying about THEIR relationship...two sides to every story and all that jazz...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh well, you will need to find another lover....

good luck to the girlfriend

his gf is not nice to him don't even cook him meals or have sex with him I wonder if she is carrying on"

has she told you this in confidence?

what?

no?

he told you?

ah well it must be true then.

no man lies to get his dick wet no, do we......

some people arent even gullicalves.

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby

There are none so blind as those that will not see...

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"Okay looking at this from another angle....if he's not getting on with his g/f and wants to move away ~ would you consider leaving your husband to be with him?"

no way

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Okay looking at this from another angle....if he's not getting on with his g/f and wants to move away ~ would you consider leaving your husband to be with him?

no way "

Suck it up then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh well, you will need to find another lover....

good luck to the girlfriend

his gf is not nice to him don't even cook him meals or have sex with him I wonder if she is carrying on

has she told you this in confidence?

what?

no?

he told you?

ah well it must be true then.

no man lies to get his dick wet no, do we......

some people arent even gullicalves."

and on the same note,not all men are liars. Speak for yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Okay looking at this from another angle....if he's not getting on with his g/f and wants to move away ~ would you consider leaving your husband to be with him?

no way "

Fuck him off then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh well, you will need to find another lover....

good luck to the girlfriend

his gf is not nice to him don't even cook him meals or have sex with him I wonder if she is carrying on

has she told you this in confidence?

what?

no?

he told you?

ah well it must be true then.

no man lies to get his dick wet no, do we......

some people arent even gullicalves.

and on the same note,not all men are liars. Speak for yourself "

ok, in that quote, could you show me where i said all men are liars?

i swear without jumping to conclusions, you would get no excercise at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you really that gullible to believe what he is saying about THEIR relationship...two sides to every story and all that jazz..."

3 side to every story

His

Hers

And the truth

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Okay looking at this from another angle....if he's not getting on with his g/f and wants to move away ~ would you consider leaving your husband to be with him?

no way "

the sad thing is, you never say a pleasant word about him, the lover is slagging off his partner in an attempt to ensure you feel sorry for him. He wanted to send a card knowing that would cause upset to your husband and sent 100 text.

he sounds like a complete controlling bastard.

ride him well as that is all you will get from him.

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby

"Are you really that gullible to believe what he is saying about THEIR relationship...two sides to every story and all that jazz...

3 side to every story

His

Hers

And the truth"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bless another classic "my wife / gf doesn't understand my needs / cook enough food for me / clean my house / wipe my ass for me"

If he gave a shit about you he would leave the "horrible gf" stay in your area & ask you to leave your hubby then you could live happily ever after together .... Oh no that's just another fairytale in your head he will no doubt be feeding you.

Wish some people on here would grow up & become adults & stop listening to bullshitting tales of woe from attached others then come moaning in the forums when the "shit hits the bloody fan"

By the way op have you ever actually met his gf?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And here is me thinking it was only men that could be so gullible, when it came to sex

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"Bless another classic "my wife / gf doesn't understand my needs / cook enough food for me / clean my house / wipe my ass for me"

Wish some people on here would grow up & become adults & stop listening to bullshitting tales of woe from attached others then come moaning in the forums when the "shit hits the bloody fan"

By the way op have you ever actually met his gf?"

my face would be rearranged if I had met his gf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bless another classic "my wife / gf doesn't understand my needs / cook enough food for me / clean my house / wipe my ass for me"

Wish some people on here would grow up & become adults & stop listening to bullshitting tales of woe from attached others then come moaning in the forums when the "shit hits the bloody fan"

By the way op have you ever actually met his gf?"

The fairy tale wouldn't happen anyway as she has said that she wouldn't leave her husband..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could you not find a man who isn't married who does not have baggage

To have sex with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bless another classic "my wife / gf doesn't understand my needs / cook enough food for me / clean my house / wipe my ass for me"

Wish some people on here would grow up & become adults & stop listening to bullshitting tales of woe from attached others then come moaning in the forums when the "shit hits the bloody fan"

By the way op have you ever actually met his gf?

my face would be rearranged if I had met his gf "

. what.the.fuck?!

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"Could you not find a man who isn't married who does not have baggage

To have sex with? "

yep one day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Okay looking at this from another angle....if he's not getting on with his g/f and wants to move away ~ would you consider leaving your husband to be with him?

no way "

Ahhh right!! Didn't realise you were married too!! You may be able to relate why he has chosen to have an affair then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to pull your socks up Ruby. I haven't even met this guy and he's already doing my head in.

It's all a game it seems. Everyone's just waiting for his/hers/your next move.

Alarm bells should have been ringing from months back. All this isn't worth the hassle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my lover has been texting me today that his girlfriend and him are at crisis point and hes thinking of moving back to his home town miles away

he said the only reason he put up with it was to see me but he cant take it any more.. shes argumentative and wont talk about it to anyone ... and no she has never suspected anything but im gutted "

Are you sure your receiving these texts an it is not all in your Mind,

Sound to us that it you that's at a crisis point

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple
over a year ago

harrow

"my lover has been texting me today that his girlfriend and him are at crisis point and hes thinking of moving back to his home town miles away

he said the only reason he put up with it was to see me but he cant take it any more.. shes argumentative and wont talk about it to anyone ... and no she has never suspected anything but im gutted "

really , you expect sympathy in hear ? It sounds like your well rid of him to be totally blunt . Kick his arse to the kerb and move on.

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"my lover has been texting me today that his girlfriend and him are at crisis point and hes thinking of moving back to his home town miles away

he said the only reason he put up with it was to see me but he cant take it any more.. shes argumentative and wont talk about it to anyone ... and no she has never suspected anything but im gutted

Are you sure your receiving these texts an it is not all in your Mind,

Sound to us that it you that's at a crisis point"
nope I don't have that good an imagination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh well, you will need to find another lover....

good luck to the girlfriend

his gf is not nice to him don't even cook him meals or have sex with him I wonder if she is carrying on"

Unless she confirms its true you only got his version of events. Fact he cheating on her does not put him in a good light and whilst i could be wrong i think he maybe telling you what he thinks you want to hear.

suppose he decides to stick around and you become a couple no idea if either want that but fact he already cheats on her no reslason to believe he would not cheat on you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my lover has been texting me today that his girlfriend and him are at crisis point and hes thinking of moving back to his home town miles away

he said the only reason he put up with it was to see me but he cant take it any more.. shes argumentative and wont talk about it to anyone ... and no she has never suspected anything but im gutted

Are you sure your receiving these texts an it is not all in your Mind,

Sound to us that it you that's at a crisis point nope I don't have that good an imagination"

You ever thought of writing stories for Corrine or eastenders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, so this is what happens when people are not honest about their feelings.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Only one i feel sorry for is his girl friend if I'm honest !

You and him KNEW exactly what you were doing and getting in to . Your lack of any remorse any empathy to his partner is astounding!! Instead you are only concerned about what you're loosing!

If you think for one minute she doesn't know something been going on then you are deluding yourself I'm afraid . She may not have definitive proof but I'm damn sure she'll be picking up that somethings not right ! Female intuition is a powerful thing .

I can also grarentee that she's not only ones he's lied to or said what ever to suit him and get what he wants. He will of done the same to you with the oh woah is me story .I bet his girl friend would tell you a COMPLETELY different story from the one he's fed you !

If things were that bad with her then he would of kicked her to the kerb long ago lol.

I hope the girl friend does end things and she can move on to someone who will treat her better .

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

This guy sounds like a right tool!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Okay looking at this from another angle....if he's not getting on with his g/f and wants to move away ~ would you consider leaving your husband to be with him?

no way "

"No way " ~ as you wouldn't want to be with your lover or as in you don't want to leave your husband?

Just trying to understand the dynamics here......

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Funnily enough I've spoken to the girl who got with my ex after me and some of the things he told her about me beggar belief... She believed every word of it at the time. Oddly none of it was true!!

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

my mum used to say there could be 100 men in a room .. 99 good blokes ....one bad apple and I will find him

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By *lay4RealCouple
over a year ago

London

"Okay looking at this from another angle....if he's not getting on with his g/f and wants to move away ~ would you consider leaving your husband to be with him?

no way "

Sorry I am getting confused here.... There is a "husband" and a "lover" and his "girlfriend"?..does this not sound like there is some form of cheating is going on here?..or is it just me...pardon my ignorant!!

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"Okay looking at this from another angle....if he's not getting on with his g/f and wants to move away ~ would you consider leaving your husband to be with him?

no way

"No way " ~ as you wouldn't want to be with your lover or as in you don't want to leave your husband?

Just trying to understand the dynamics here......"

would never leave my hubby

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

Op I'm wondering does your husband know you're are on here and have a lover?

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"[Removed by poster at 02/06/14 16:53:13]"

yes he knows im on here and knows about lover

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Pick another man and fuck him instead....job done.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

so OP, you are gutted you are not getting the cock his gf should have been getting.

Feel for you. Really do.

I guarantee, she never suspected a thing either. No woman would ever argue or deny sex for no reason, so it must have been something else completely pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my mum used to say there could be 100 men in a room .. 99 good blokes ....one bad apple and I will find him"

Can you not just be happy with the man you married

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

" and all that jazz..."

Damn you cheeky, I am singing that song now !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh well, you will need to find another lover....

good luck to the girlfriend

his gf is not nice to him don't even cook him meals or have sex with him I wonder if she is carrying on

suppose he decides to stick around and you become a couple no idea if either want that but fact he already cheats on her no reslason to believe he would not cheat on you."

They are both cheating!!! A relationship based on lies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

"[Removed by poster at 02/06/14 16:53:13]

yes he knows im on here and knows about lover"

What makes you so bothered he is leaving?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my mum used to say there could be 100 men in a room .. 99 good blokes ....one bad apple and I will find him"

Pity your mother never told you married men will tell you anything to get in your knickers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 02/06/14 16:53:13]

yes he knows im on here and knows about lover

What makes you so bothered he is leaving? "

Pride or ego!! Surely that's all it can be!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Okay looking at this from another angle....if he's not getting on with his g/f and wants to move away ~ would you consider leaving your husband to be with him?

no way "

But you can be quite negative about your husband too?

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"my mum used to say there could be 100 men in a room .. 99 good blokes ....one bad apple and I will find him

Pity your mother never told you married men will tell you anything to get in your knickers"

she did but I didn't listen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my mum used to say there could be 100 men in a room .. 99 good blokes ....one bad apple and I will find him"

How can you say that?

Your married and have a husband who let's you see other men.... Surely your husband is a good apple?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow just seen a pig flying past my window, wake up and smell the coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my mum used to say there could be 100 men in a room .. 99 good blokes ....one bad apple and I will find him"

why is it the blokes fault?

you got with a guy in a relationship.

knowingly

you made that choice.

in the cold light of day

whatever the dynamics, or not, of his other relationship, YOU are the one that, along with him, has had a hand in wrecking it.

im just glad there arent kids involved because that would be even worse.

that said, of course, your already cheating on your other half, so it seems morals dont come too highly up on your order of requirements.

nothing to do with finding bad men, everything to do with being happy with making bad choices for yourself.

absolutely no sympathy im afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bless another classic "my wife / gf doesn't understand my needs / cook enough food for me / clean my house / wipe my ass for me"

Wish some people on here would grow up & become adults & stop listening to bullshitting tales of woe from attached others then come moaning in the forums when the "shit hits the bloody fan"

By the way op have you ever actually met his gf?

my face would be rearranged if I had met his gf "

Who would rearrange your face for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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yes he knows im on here and knows about lover"

And is he supportive of those choices?

If your husband lets you leavdthis life and you had no intention of leaving him for your lover - where's the drama? As others have said find another lover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my mum used to say there could be 100 men in a room .. 99 good blokes ....one bad apple and I will find him

Pity your mother never told you married men will tell you anything to get in your knickers"

what all married men, blah blah blah (badnanna will be along in a minute to tell you your wrong, im just pre-empting the strike lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry op but I can't work out what part is fact and what part is fiction, maybe it's just me being Naive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bless another classic "my wife / gf doesn't understand my needs / cook enough food for me / clean my house / wipe my ass for me"

Wish some people on here would grow up & become adults & stop listening to bullshitting tales of woe from attached others then come moaning in the forums when the "shit hits the bloody fan"

By the way op have you ever actually met his gf?

my face would be rearranged if I had met his gf

Who would rearrange your face for you? "

The face arranger they are in the yellow pages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my mum used to say there could be 100 men in a room .. 99 good blokes ....one bad apple and I will find him

Pity your mother never told you married men will tell you anything to get in your knickers

what all married men, blah blah blah (badnanna will be along in a minute to tell you your wrong, im just pre-empting the strike lol)"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my mum used to say there could be 100 men in a room .. 99 good blokes ....one bad apple and I will find him

Pity your mother never told you married men will tell you anything to get in your knickers

what all married men, blah blah blah (badnanna will be along in a minute to tell you your wrong, im just pre-empting the strike lol)

I have a book of excuses when I was married to my 1st wife it was all her fault

She would not

Cook

Iron

Bath me

Shave me

Go to work I stead of me

And sex what the bugger was that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Okay looking at this from another angle....if he's not getting on with his g/f and wants to move away ~ would you consider leaving your husband to be with him?

no way

"No way " ~ as you wouldn't want to be with your lover or as in you don't want to leave your husband?

Just trying to understand the dynamics here......

would never leave my hubby"

If that's the case then you'll have to wave this one goodbye.....sounded like he meant more to you though than just a casual nsa affair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

JERRY! JERRY! JERRY!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"JERRY! JERRY! JERRY!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"JERRY! JERRY! JERRY!

Jeremy Kyle would have a field day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find somebody who is actually single may be a starting point for happiness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"JERRY! JERRY! JERRY!

Jeremy Kyle would have a field day "

Only if the lovers girlfriend is having a child withe the spurned's husband! then

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

There is only so much cake you can have and eat it too....

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

after all these years there are very few threads that leave me completely bamboozled....

I am flabber gasted

but hey, not my life.

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

"my lover has been texting me today that his girlfriend and him are at crisis point and hes thinking of moving back to his home town miles away

he said the only reason he put up with it was to see me but he cant take it any more.. shes argumentative and wont talk about it to anyone ... and no she has never suspected anything but im gutted "

and if the post was from a guy he would be hung drawn and quartered but because its a female posting . . . oh how we all like double standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ditch that zero and get yo'self a hero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my lover has been texting me today that his girlfriend and him are at crisis point and hes thinking of moving back to his home town miles away

he said the only reason he put up with it was to see me but he cant take it any more.. shes argumentative and wont talk about it to anyone ... and no she has never suspected anything but im gutted

and if the post was from a guy he would be hung drawn and quartered but because its a female posting . . . oh how we all like double standards

Have you not read it fully ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my lover has been texting me today that his girlfriend and him are at crisis point and hes thinking of moving back to his home town miles away

he said the only reason he put up with it was to see me but he cant take it any more.. shes argumentative and wont talk about it to anyone ... and no she has never suspected anything but im gutted

and if the post was from a guy he would be hung drawn and quartered but because its a female posting . . . oh how we all like double standards

very few are being supportive n here lol

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

"my lover has been texting me today that his girlfriend and him are at crisis point and hes thinking of moving back to his home town miles away

he said the only reason he put up with it was to see me but he cant take it any more.. shes argumentative and wont talk about it to anyone ... and no she has never suspected anything but im gutted

and if the post was from a guy he would be hung drawn and quartered but because its a female posting . . . oh how we all like double standards

I see no double standards here - I've not read a single post condoning this behaviour.

Oh - and op, your mum's comment about you finding the only bad apple in the room may be true - but once found, it's your choice whether to take up with them. Stop with the victim mentality - it's the girlfriend I feel sorry for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my lover has been texting me today that his girlfriend and him are at crisis point and hes thinking of moving back to his home town miles away

he said the only reason he put up with it was to see me but he cant take it any more.. shes argumentative and wont talk about it to anyone ... and no she has never suspected anything but im gutted "

Ruby, Ruby, Ruby ... you lead such a complicated life !

Why don't you just simplify it for a change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Okay looking at this from another angle....if he's not getting on with his g/f and wants to move away ~ would you consider leaving your husband to be with him?

no way

"No way " ~ as you wouldn't want to be with your lover or as in you don't want to leave your husband?

Just trying to understand the dynamics here......

would never leave my hubby"

so you'd stay with a man who has no interest in you and couldn't be bothered to buy you a present and card for your anniversary? But you'd happily stay with someone who is just feeding you lies? more fool you

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"my lover has been texting me today that his girlfriend and him are at crisis point and hes thinking of moving back to his home town miles away

he said the only reason he put up with it was to see me but he cant take it any more.. shes argumentative and wont talk about it to anyone ... and no she has never suspected anything but im gutted

and if the post was from a guy he would be hung drawn and quartered but because its a female posting . . . oh how we all like double standards

very few are being supportive n here lol"

No but the condemnation is a little less severe than if it were a bloke.

Not 'send your hubby/your lovers gf round here and I'll show him what a good time is'

No slagging off of the op about being married, or about her helping a man to cheat etc. It's all been fairly gentle.

Personally I think the op is playing the crowd. She knows what reactions this type of thread gets so why she would have thought she'd get anything less than criticism I've no idea.

As others have said, this was the liver who had so little respect for the man that let's her go off and fuck him he was going to send her an anniversary card addressed to Mrs (lovers surname)

Have to say it doesn't sound like any great loss to me.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"oh well, you will need to find another lover....

good luck to the girlfriend

his gf is not nice to him don't even cook him meals or have sex with him I wonder if she is carrying on"

So he tells you...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"oh well, you will need to find another lover....

good luck to the girlfriend

his gf is not nice to him don't even cook him meals or have sex with him I wonder if she is carrying on

I wouldn't cook meal for the cheating fucker either"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my lover has been texting me today that his girlfriend and him are at crisis point and hes thinking of moving back to his home town miles away

he said the only reason he put up with it was to see me but he cant take it any more.. shes argumentative and wont talk about it to anyone ... and no she has never suspected anything but im gutted

and if the post was from a guy he would be hung drawn and quartered but because its a female posting . . . oh how we all like double standards

very few are being supportive n here lol

No but the condemnation is a little less severe than if it were a bloke.

Not 'send your hubby/your lovers gf round here and I'll show him what a good time is'

No slagging off of the op about being married, or about her helping a man to cheat etc. It's all been fairly gentle.

Personally I think the op is playing the crowd. She knows what reactions this type of thread gets so why she would have thought she'd get anything less than criticism I've no idea.

As others have said, this was the liver who had so little respect for the man that let's her go off and fuck him he was going to send her an anniversary card addressed to Mrs (lovers surname)

Have to say it doesn't sound like any great loss to me. "

tbf, even though it hasnt been as vilifying as if it had been from a guy, i think the OP may have gotten the message.

and fyi, some of us actually have said what you have, it never bothers me the sex of the poster with the problem, more the attitude of them.

call a spade a shovel, me lol

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Bless another classic "my wife / gf doesn't understand my needs / cook enough food for me / clean my house / wipe my ass for me"

Wish some people on here would grow up & become adults & stop listening to bullshitting tales of woe from attached others then come moaning in the forums when the "shit hits the bloody fan"

By the way op have you ever actually met his gf?"

Save me typing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you no he is not feeding you a line because he does not want to see you any more. Sorry it sounds so harsh but it maybe a reality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only one i feel sorry for is his girl friend if I'm honest !

You and him KNEW exactly what you were doing and getting in to . Your lack of any remorse any empathy to his partner is astounding!! Instead you are only concerned about what you're loosing!

If things were that bad with her then he would of kicked her to the kerb long ago lol.

I hope the girl friend does end things and she can move on to someone who will treat her better .

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"oh well, you will need to find another lover....

good luck to the girlfriend

his gf is not nice to him don't even cook him meals or have sex with him I wonder if she is carrying on

So he says. Why don't u ask Her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh well, you will need to find another lover....

good luck to the girlfriend

his gf is not nice to him don't even cook him meals or have sex with him I wonder if she is carrying on

has she told you this in confidence?

what?

no?

he told you?

ah well it must be true then.

no man lies to get his dick wet no, do we......

some people arent even gullicalves.

and on the same note,not all men are liars. Speak for yourself

ok, in that quote, could you show me where i said all men are liars?

i swear without jumping to conclusions, you would get no excercise at all

no,but every time this topic comes up it's never the partner's fault is it. And don't accuse me of exercising!

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By *heekyladyCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Sweetie, no matter how bad the gf treats him or how close to crisis point, or how little she does for him/with him, he ain't leaving her...

His tale of "wo is me" is simply that... Keeps you keen and interested.

How you deal with it is another matter. Believe him or not but don't let him pull the wool over your eyes. Treat the relationship for what it is and not for what you'd wish it to become and you are more likely to come out of the other side with your dignity in tact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh well, you will need to find another lover....

good luck to the girlfriend

his gf is not nice to him don't even cook him meals or have sex with him I wonder if she is carrying on

has she told you this in confidence?

what?

no?

he told you?

ah well it must be true then.

no man lies to get his dick wet no, do we......

some people arent even gullicalves.

and on the same note,not all men are liars. Speak for yourself

ok, in that quote, could you show me where i said all men are liars?

i swear without jumping to conclusions, you would get no excercise at all

no,but every time this topic comes up it's never the partner's fault is it. And don't accuse me of exercising!

which partner?

his or hers?

hers, well she quite obviously has very few loving feelings for him, so hey ho.

his?

without her input, we only ave her version of his side to go on, and even then she only has his version of things to go by, and like i said, men that cheat will tell you ANYTHING to get their way (in fact, anyone that cheats will do so)

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I would love to hear the motive behind the op ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit tame for Jerry this 1 is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh well, you will need to find another lover....

good luck to the girlfriend

his gf is not nice to him don't even cook him meals or have sex with him I wonder if she is carrying on

has she told you this in confidence?

what?

no?

he told you?

ah well it must be true then.

no man lies to get his dick wet no, do we......

some people arent even gullicalves.

and on the same note,not all men are liars. Speak for yourself

ok, in that quote, could you show me where i said all men are liars?

i swear without jumping to conclusions, you would get no excercise at all

no,but every time this topic comes up it's never the partner's fault is it. And don't accuse me of exercising!

which partner?

his or hers?

hers, well she quite obviously has very few loving feelings for him, so hey ho.

his?

As if

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how could someone do this and think its normal and brag about it it's beyond me. I think you need to see a doctor to bring you back to reality sorry if I sound nasty but come on you don't think when you posted this on here you going to have people saying you poor girl did you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my lover has been texting me today that his girlfriend and him are at crisis point and hes thinking of moving back to his home town miles away

he said the only reason he put up with it was to see me but he cant take it any more.. shes argumentative and wont talk about it to anyone ... and no she has never suspected anything but im gutted

and if the post was from a guy he would be hung drawn and quartered but because its a female posting . . . oh how we all like double standards

very few are being supportive n here lol

No but the condemnation is a little less severe than if it were a bloke.

Not 'send your hubby/your lovers gf round here and I'll show him what a good time is'

No slagging off of the op about being married, or about her helping a man to cheat etc. It's all been fairly gentle.

Personally I think the op is playing the crowd. She knows what reactions this type of thread gets so why she would have thought she'd get anything less than criticism I've no idea.

As others have said, this was the liver who had so little respect for the man that let's her go off and fuck him he was going to send her an anniversary card addressed to Mrs (lovers surname)

Have to say it doesn't sound like any great loss to me. "

The condemnation is less severe that is true but at least the thread has stuck at the topic...if the OP is a man it goes off the rails.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh well, you will need to find another lover....

good luck to the girlfriend

his gf is not nice to him don't even cook him meals or have sex with him I wonder if she is carrying on

has she told you this in confidence?

what?

no?

he told you?

ah well it must be true then.

no man lies to get his dick wet no, do we......

some people arent even gullicalves.

and on the same note,not all men are liars. Speak for yourself

ok, in that quote, could you show me where i said all men are liars?

i swear without jumping to conclusions, you would get no excercise at all

no,but every time this topic comes up it's never the partner's fault is it. And don't accuse me of exercising!

which partner?

his or hers?

hers, well she quite obviously has very few loving feelings for him, so hey ho.

his?

As if

is he Asian? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, what a tangled web we weave...when first we practice to deceive

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"my lover has been texting me today that his girlfriend and him are at crisis point and hes thinking of moving back to his home town miles away

he said the only reason he put up with it was to see me but he cant take it any more.. shes argumentative and wont talk about it to anyone ... and no she has never suspected anything but im gutted

and if the post was from a guy he would be hung drawn and quartered but because its a female posting . . . oh how we all like double standards

very few are being supportive n here lol

No but the condemnation is a little less severe than if it were a bloke.

Not 'send your hubby/your lovers gf round here and I'll show him what a good time is'

No slagging off of the op about being married, or about her helping a man to cheat etc. It's all been fairly gentle.

Personally I think the op is playing the crowd. She knows what reactions this type of thread gets so why she would have thought she'd get anything less than criticism I've no idea.

As others have said, this was the liver who had so little respect for the man that let's her go off and fuck him he was going to send her an anniversary card addressed to Mrs (lovers surname)

Have to say it doesn't sound like any great loss to me. "

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

And this is the exact reason why somethings really are not suitable for public consumption.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

He's a player, carry on playing to ya own beat! .... Just say 'toodle pip'and move on.... He Sounds like a frog fryer to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh well, you will need to find another lover....

good luck to the girlfriend

his gf is not nice to him don't even cook him meals or have sex with him I wonder if she is carrying on

has she told you this in confidence?

what?

no?

he told you?

ah well it must be true then.

no man lies to get his dick wet no, do we......

some people arent even gullicalves.

and on the same note,not all men are liars. Speak for yourself

ok, in that quote, could you show me where i said all men are liars?

i swear without jumping to conclusions, you would get no excercise at all

no,but every time this topic comes up it's never the partner's fault is it. And don't accuse me of exercising!

which partner?

his or hers?

hers, well she quite obviously has very few loving feelings for him, so hey ho.

his?

As if

is he Asian? lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh well, you will need to find another lover....

good luck to the girlfriend

his gf is not nice to him don't even cook him meals or have sex with him I wonder if she is carrying on

I wouldn't cook meal for the cheating fucker either"

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"And this is the exact reason why somethings really are not suitable for public consumption.

I will remember that in future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh well, you will need to find another lover....

good luck to the girlfriend

his gf is not nice to him don't even cook him meals or have sex with him I wonder if she is carrying on

I wouldn't cook meal for the cheating fucker either"

How do you clean tea of a keyboard???

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"And this is the exact reason why somethings really are not suitable for public consumption.

I will remember that in future"
We live and learn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh well, you will need to find another lover....

good luck to the girlfriend

his gf is not nice to him don't even cook him meals or have sex with him I wonder if she is carrying on

has she told you this in confidence?

what?

no?

he told you?

ah well it must be true then.

no man lies to get his dick wet no, do we......

some people arent even gullicalves.

and on the same note,not all men are liars. Speak for yourself

ok, in that quote, could you show me where i said all men are liars?

i swear without jumping to conclusions, you would get no excercise at all

no,but every time this topic comes up it's never the partner's fault is it. And don't accuse me of exercising!

which partner?

his or hers?

hers, well she quite obviously has very few loving feelings for him, so hey ho.

his?

Not just the married ones who lie to get into your knickers. 2wheels is forever telling me he will repaint the front room

crystal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh well, you will need to find another lover....

good luck to the girlfriend

his gf is not nice to him don't even cook him meals or have sex with him I wonder if she is carrying on

has she told you this in confidence?

what?

no?

he told you?

ah well it must be true then.

no man lies to get his dick wet no, do we......

some people arent even gullicalves.

and on the same note,not all men are liars. Speak for yourself

ok, in that quote, could you show me where i said all men are liars?

i swear without jumping to conclusions, you would get no excercise at all

no,but every time this topic comes up it's never the partner's fault is it. And don't accuse me of exercising!

which partner?

his or hers?

hers, well she quite obviously has very few loving feelings for him, so hey ho.

his?

Not just the married ones who lie to get into your knickers. 2wheels is forever telling me he will repaint the front room

crystal"

tbh i do the same.

always tell V im gonna do what i aint, just after i have had a bit lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a tragic situation. I hope it goes tits up for everyone involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How old is your "lover" ?

Your 56 ffs. Act it

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"How old is your "lover" ?

Your 56 ffs. Act it"

whats the cut off age for lovers then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How old is your "lover" ?

Your 56 ffs. Act it

whats the cut off age for lovers then?

dont think its a lovers age issue, more an 'acting like an idiotic child rather than a 56 year old woman' issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How old is your "lover" ?

Your 56 ffs. Act it"

Not really sure what age has to do with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just wondered about the age tbh. Imagine if the lover was say, 20. Why would he hang around just to bang a near 60 year old. Not as if they had a future together

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I just wondered about the age tbh. Imagine if the lover was say, 20. Why would he hang around just to bang a near 60 year old. Not as if they had a future together"

why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not just the married ones who lie to get into your knickers. 2wheels is forever telling me he will repaint the front room

crystal"

And you still won't let him wear them. Spoilsport.

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By *ing and RideCouple
over a year ago

stockport

My ex had an affair with my best friend. After a year of not speaking we are friends again and she has a lovely husband and I a lovely partner. The things my ex told my friend about me were unbelievable.....me and her got together over a bottle or two and the lies he told were so unbelievable...obviously she didn't believe them because she was friends with me when they were having the affair but I didn't know at the time.

So having been on the receiving end he is a lying knob. And obviously your not happy with your husband so why don't you leave him....let him go and find someone who won't cheat on him. Personally you get all you deserve in fact both of you do.

Be a grown up and leave this obviously sad unhappy relationship with your husband. After all we are all a long time dead....however a leopard never changes his spots. I have since found out my ex is cheating on the woman he left me for ( not my friend) so I rest my case. What a tangled web we weave etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" and all that jazz...

Damn you cheeky, I am singing that song now !"

the same here with big jazz hands

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

" and all that jazz...

Damn you cheeky, I am singing that song now !"

Are you tap dancing now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My ex had an affair with my best friend. After a year of not speaking we are friends again and she has a lovely husband and I a lovely partner. The things my ex told my friend about me were unbelievable.....me and her got together over a bottle or two and the lies he told were so unbelievable...obviously she didn't believe them because she was friends with me when they were having the affair but I didn't know at the time.

She was your friend, knew you well enough to know that what he was telling her was all lies but continued to have an affair with him without your knowledge-you and I have a very different _iew of friendship!!!

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"How old is your "lover" ?

Your 56 ffs. Act it"

he is 43 next month

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Some people can forgive anything...I'm not such a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Headbutt the cheating cunt"

Lmao! This made me laugh so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm curious as to why you've forgiven your friend and not your ex.

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

I'm curious as to why you've forgiven your friend and not your ex. "

The common bond of being taken in by the same man maybe, he takes all the flack....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh well, you will need to find another lover....

good luck to the girlfriend

his gf is not nice to him don't even cook him meals or have sex with him I wonder if she is carrying on

I wouldn't cook meal for the cheating fucker either"

LMAO

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Comes in, offers the OP FORUM INSURANCE, as she would a single guy who had made a similar post, then offers biscuits all round before fading away into a different thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There comes a time to stop crossing oceans for people who wouldn't jump puddles for you or as I like to say .....ditch him he's a player.

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By *iss Chievous1Woman
over a year ago

my world

"my lover has been texting me today that his girlfriend and him are at crisis point and hes thinking of moving back to his home town miles away

he said the only reason he put up with it was to see me but he cant take it any more.. shes argumentative and wont talk about it to anyone ... and no she has never suspected anything but im gutted

and if the post was from a guy he would be hung drawn and quartered but because its a female posting . . . oh how we all like double standards

Have you not read it fully ?"

That's what I was thinking !!!! And as the OP is a regular Forum user I'm perplexed as to why she would start a thread like this !!!!! Knowing it would not be sympathetic !!!! Self punishment maybe !!!! ?

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

"There comes a time to stop crossing oceans for people who wouldn't jump puddles for you or as I like to say .....ditch him he's a player. "

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"my lover has been texting me today that his girlfriend and him are at crisis point and hes thinking of moving back to his home town miles away

he said the only reason he put up with it was to see me but he cant take it any more.. shes argumentative and wont talk about it to anyone ... and no she has never suspected anything but im gutted

and if the post was from a guy he would be hung drawn and quartered but because its a female posting . . . oh how we all like double standards

Have you not read it fully ?

"
I think its a lesson well learnt, I would say more naivety.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Comes in, offers the OP FORUM INSURANCE, as she would a single guy who had made a similar post, then offers biscuits all round before fading away into a different thread.

I'd quite like a garibaldi

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

Walks in~this is taking a while has he not left the giraffe yet??

Walks out~

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There comes a time to stop crossing oceans for people who wouldn't jump puddles for you or as I like to say .....ditch him he's a player. "

Thats positively poetic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh well, you will need to find another lover....

good luck to the girlfriend

his gf is not nice to him don't even cook him meals or have sex with him I wonder if she is carrying on

has she told you this in confidence?

what?

no?

he told you?

ah well it must be true then.

no man lies to get his dick wet no, do we......

some people arent even gullicalves.

and on the same note,not all men are liars. Speak for yourself

ok, in that quote, could you show me where i said all men are liars?

i swear without jumping to conclusions, you would get no excercise at all

Holy shit that is the best line I have heard in ages!!!

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

Two fools dont make a?. . FFFFFFFFFFFFFUKIT!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh well, you will need to find another lover....

good luck to the girlfriend

his gf is not nice to him don't even cook him meals or have sex with him I wonder if she is carrying on

I wouldn't cook meal for the cheating fucker either"

Lmfao

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"my lover has been texting me today that his girlfriend and him are at crisis point and hes thinking of moving back to his home town miles away

he said the only reason he put up with it was to see me but he cant take it any more.. shes argumentative and wont talk about it to anyone ... and no she has never suspected anything but im gutted "

1. Put up with what ?

2. She won't talk about what ?

Partners ALWAYS know. They can't prove it but they know.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"oh well, you will need to find another lover....

good luck to the girlfriend

his gf is not nice to him don't even cook him meals or have sex with him I wonder if she is carrying on

I wouldn't cook meal for the cheating fucker either"

I'm still laughing at this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my lover has been texting me today that his girlfriend and him are at crisis point and hes thinking of moving back to his home town miles away

he said the only reason he put up with it was to see me but he cant take it any more.. shes argumentative and wont talk about it to anyone ... and no she has never suspected anything but im gutted

1. Put up with what ?

2. She won't talk about what ?

Partners ALWAYS know. They can't prove it but they know."

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

This thread is funny as fuck for so many reasons.

And 'they' say with age comes wisdom .... bollox does it!

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By *ing and RideCouple
over a year ago

stockport

Yep lots of my friends take your _iew as well. But I am a forgiving person and just so happen I prefer my friend to my ex she had an affair with. Hey ho, it's not me with the issue is it, it's you. I dealt with it maybe you should. But then again you could carry on living a lie, going through the motions and being unhappy and never being totally fulfilled and having fun with the one you love. Your life but you only have one (or do...another forum post maybe) but life is for fun and love not being on the dark side of street as the song goes. Hope you find happiness I really do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to hear the lovers side of this saga. I am not convinced he is doing all the texts and calls etc. I think details are being left out of the story.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I would love to hear the lovers side of this saga. I am not convinced he is doing all the texts and calls etc. I think details are being left out of the story."

Ohhh solve the mystery burnside

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"How old is your "lover" ?

Your 56 ffs. Act it

Not really sure what age has to do with it "

As we get older and wiser we tend to make less mistakes....or thats what they say anyway but I wish I hadn't bought that handbag last week as it is wayyyy too big.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would love to hear the lovers side of this saga. I am not convinced he is doing all the texts and calls etc. I think details are being left out of the story.

Ohhh solve the mystery burnside "

I am more Begerac

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

" and all that jazz...

Damn you cheeky, I am singing that song now !

the same here with big jazz hands

haha I have a vision now !

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By *ing and RideCouple
over a year ago

stockport

I am more Columbo myself.....oh and another thing....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" and all that jazz...

Damn you cheeky, I am singing that song now !

the same here with big jazz hands

haha I have a vision now !"

strutting it out in style with hands like kenny evertt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would love to hear the lovers side of this saga. I am not convinced he is doing all the texts and calls etc. I think details are being left out of the story.

Ohhh solve the mystery burnside "

sorry im to busy dancing its more fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread is funny as fuck for so many reasons.

And 'they' say with age comes wisdom .... bollox does it!"

We have found that the only thing that comes with age are wrinkles...

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By *ing and RideCouple
over a year ago

stockport

Wrinkles???? Cream de la mare....wrinkles no more rest assured

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Does anyone remember Soap? Each installment of this ongoing saga just needs the voice over at the beginning, Benson, the Campbells and the Tates...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone remember Soap? Each installment of this ongoing saga just needs the voice over at the beginning, Benson, the Campbells and the Tates...

Excellent programme. Benson Dubois had his own spin off.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Does anyone remember Soap? Each installment of this ongoing saga just needs the voice over at the beginning, Benson, the Campbells and the Tates...

Excellent programme. Benson Dubois had his own spin off. "

And Billy Crystal ended up with Sally and hosting the Academy Awards.

I think the OP needs to provide a re-cap of the whole tale at the top of each new thread so that people can keep up if they miss an episode.

OP, I understand losing a friend can be difficult but he hasn't gone yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everybody dance

clap your hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone remember Soap? Each installment of this ongoing saga just needs the voice over at the beginning, Benson, the Campbells and the Tates...

I've got the theme tune in my head now...

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Does anyone remember Soap? Each installment of this ongoing saga just needs the voice over at the beginning, Benson, the Campbells and the Tates...

I've got the theme tune in my head now...

Sorry. The theme tune came into my head as I was reading through the thread.

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