FabSwingers.com forum: dating v swinging

By *exycleaner OP Woman
over a year ago

pontefract

few days ago i put a profile on a dating site but not get much interest ,at the same time put on my profile on another swing site im on i was giving it up ,i got loads of messages dont give up meet me ,from several guys ,so it seems im ugly enough to fuck but too ugly to date ,rather says it all doesnt it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's so sad to read, I do understand what you mean though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know how you feel. I don't bother using so called dating sites. The one time I did I spent hours of wasted time with men pretending they didn't want sex. I did have a couple of dates that led to sex. One man made it clear he didn't want a relationship and then got a gf and wanted to carry on seeing me for sex.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

If you haven't realized that by the age of 53, you do now.

The vagina is the prize to a lot of people in both dating, swinging and also life in general.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could be worse - you could be a guy getting no interest on dating sites or swinging sites.

*reaches for his tiny violin*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you haven't realized that by the age of 53, you do now.

The vagina is the prize to a lot of people in both dating, swinging and also life in general."

though I haven't found the same as I'm not nor have I ever been looking to date, I have had loads of guys want to meet me for sex but don't want to be seen in a pub with me

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

The same may be said about BBC, they may be all about the big cock, little about the person.

It is a me me me world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't mind it myself, hence why I am not looking for a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes wonder how many mistake the attention they get on as anything other than a perceived easy shag.

Personally I'm happy with that, but if you're seeking more on a site like this I think you open yourself to a bit of a bump sooner or later.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I sometimes wonder how many mistake the attention they get on as anything other than a perceived easy shag.

Personally I'm happy with that, but if you're seeking more on a site like this I think you open yourself to a bit of a bump sooner or later."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

men on dating sites want young slim women, even the pensioners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"few days ago i put a profile on a dating site but not get much interest ,at the same time put on my profile on another swing site im on i was giving it up ,i got loads of messages dont give up meet me ,from several guys ,so it seems im ugly enough to fuck but too ugly to date ,rather says it all doesnt it

No that's not how it works because most guys on dating sites are just looking for duck too. I am on one and I am not into relationships. It must just be because dating site you on is crap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"men on dating sites want young slim women, even the pensioners.

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I want em all

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"It could be worse - you could be a guy getting no interest on dating sites or swinging sites.

*reaches for his tiny violin*"

You get plenty of interest, just not from the women you are interested in.

To the OP, do what I do. Get used to the fact that we are too old to be desirable within a relationship but seem to be fine to get shagged, and fill yer boots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From personal experience I've found that although some men say they prefer curves or larger ladies they just want to shag them, not be seen with them. So I understand where you're coming from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find I've had more offers on here for dating then on the dating sites I'm on

And if guys recognise you on dating sites from this site they only wanna talk about sex

I don't wanna date its more hassle then it's worth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"men on dating sites want young slim women, even the pensioners.

sadly that is true

There are many men on here looking for older/bigger woman to shag but they wouldn't want to take one home to meet their parents

they just want them to practice on to get better for the women they want to settle down with

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I have been on dating sites and fab too. I know for a number of reasons I am not a lady that people want to date.

I am a lady best to swing and not worry about all the other stuff. Yes I don't have that emotional connection but I am realistic that swinging works for me. When I am on dating site I find the men boring and lack that exciting chemistry. On swing sites it ticks mybuttons. People love the naughtiness that I love and meet sexy people.

I know I will stay single. It works and have accepted it.

Op. I understand your feelings. Its hard sometimes. I look at it like you occasionally but then I now focus on the positive aspects of this lifestyle instead of dating x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"It could be worse - you could be a guy getting no interest on dating sites or swinging sites.

*reaches for his tiny violin*

You get plenty of interest, just not from the women you are interested in.

To the OP, do what I do. Get used to the fact that we are too old to be desirable within a relationship but seem to be fine to get shagged, and fill yer boots.

Speak for yourself missy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to guess and say 90% of the women on this site are looking to date.

More are than would/ever would admit it.

In my mind this isn't POF.

The single fem not looking to date in here is almost a fucking unicorn.

There are SOME that aren't looking to date.

But they are few and far between.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you haven't realized that by the age of 53, you do now.

The vagina is the prize to a lot of people in both dating, swinging and also life in general.

though I haven't found the same as I'm not nor have I ever been looking to date, I have had loads of guys want to meet me for sex but don't want to be seen in a pub with me"

I'd be more than happy to be seen in a pub with you......it's all part of the same thing as far as I'm concerned...xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"The single fem not looking to date in here is almost a fucking unicorn.

There are SOME that aren't looking to date.

But they are few and far between. "

I think there are more than you think. Its just we tend not to post on the forums we're looking for sex because, well, duh!

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By *exycleaner OP Woman
over a year ago

pontefract

so if thats all im good for and not desirable enough to date ,then i may as well give up now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought the men on dating sites were more pervy and desperate than the ones on here!!

Hence, I sacked off the dating sites a long time ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm going to guess and say 90% of the women on this site are looking to date.

More are than would/ever would admit it.

In my mind this isn't POF.

The single fem not looking to date in here is almost a fucking unicorn.

There are SOME that aren't looking to date.

But they are few and far between. "

I'm not looking to date, I have no intentions of ever being in a relationship ever again, been there, got the t shirt and all that crap, its not for me

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"men on dating sites want young slim women, even the pensioners.

I wouldn't say that's the case...yesterday I went on date number 5 with a gorgeous guy I met on a dating site...so us fatties can get dates

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"It could be worse - you could be a guy getting no interest on dating sites or swinging sites.

*reaches for his tiny violin*

You get plenty of interest, just not from the women you are interested in.

To the OP, do what I do. Get used to the fact that we are too old to be desirable within a relationship but seem to be fine to get shagged, and fill yer boots.

Speak for yourself missy.

True, there are some lucky ladies like you out there but I know any relationship with me in is doomed, so happy to work my way through the lovely men on here as much as possible.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"so if thats all im good for and not desirable enough to date ,then i may as well give up now

You have been giving this up more times than I care to remember, it is the same stuff. If you are looking for Mr Right, he may appear here.

Or you may face a lot more disappointment

I hope you find him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so if thats all im good for and not desirable enough to date ,then i may as well give up now

if your not looking for no strings sex then I'd say leave the site as that's all you will get off here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm going to guess and say 90% of the women on this site are looking to date.

More are than would/ever would admit it.

In my mind this isn't POF.

The single fem not looking to date in here is almost a fucking unicorn.

There are SOME that aren't looking to date.

But they are few and far between. "

There's plenty of men on here that are looking to date too..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The same may be said about BBC, they may be all about the big cock, little about the person.

It is a me me me world."

Call me naive, but what or who is BBC???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder what site the op r talking about (takes a note in the book ) lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The same may be said about BBC, they may be all about the big cock, little about the person.

It is a me me me world.

Call me naive, but what or who is BBC??? "

I think you should start a thead asking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im the same im on here and on a dating site i think people make a lot more of an effort on this site and even if your just chatting its better that a regular date site x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think the internet world is a harsh one all round, dating is something I have never set out to do, but have only done it by chance in the real world never online.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trouble is on this site there are a few men who think they can feed you bullshit and they also think that us women will get sucked in by it.....let's prove them wrong and start telling them what we want and that's it's not all about them and their so called needs !!!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"The same may be said about BBC, they may be all about the big cock, little about the person.

It is a me me me world.

Call me naive, but what or who is BBC???

I think you should start a thead asking."

Nooooooooooo!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm gonna start a dating site profile where my hobbies include driving bare footed and talking to myself in the dark just to see who responds....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so if thats all im good for and not desirable enough to date ,then i may as well give up now

Sex is good though, would you realy want to go without for the rest of your life, i know i wouldnt.

in the womens magazines i used to read they used to say the best place to meet a partner was going to places you were interested in, like clubs, dogs shows and places where you might meet men who shared the same interests as you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so if thats all im good for and not desirable enough to date ,then i may as well give up now

What about changing your profile on here to say what you are looking for? Honesty is always the best policy.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I can name many manipulative women who do the same....

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

"so if thats all im good for and not desirable enough to date ,then i may as well give up now

dont feel so down theres plenty of others weather men or women out there that are thinking the same thing as you are

it dosnt mean they are not desirable to meet and date with others

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By *exycleaner OP Woman
over a year ago

pontefract

"so if thats all im good for and not desirable enough to date ,then i may as well give up now

You have been giving this up more times than I care to remember, it is the same stuff. If you are looking for Mr Right, he may appear here.

Or you may face a lot more disappointment

I hope you find him."
i meant give up on life cos im not looking for mr right on here never have been ,so as everyone says all the time go on a dating site ,seems i aint good enough

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"I thought the men on dating sites were more pervy and desperate than the ones on here!!

Hence, I sacked off the dating sites a long time ago."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"men on dating sites want young slim women, even the pensioners.

I wouldn't say that's the case...yesterday I went on date number 5 with a gorgeous guy I met on a dating site...so us fatties can get dates

well you are young but thats good to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trouble is on this site there are a few men who think they can feed you bullshit and they also think that us women will get sucked in by it.....let's prove them wrong and start telling them what we want and that's it's not all about them and their so called needs !!!"
or a dirty secret, I have no quarms in telling them to do one lol...if more woman had the attitude of NEXT just like they do, then woman would be happier

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so if thats all im good for and not desirable enough to date ,then i may as well give up now

You have been giving this up more times than I care to remember, it is the same stuff. If you are looking for Mr Right, he may appear here.

Or you may face a lot more disappointment

I hope you find him.i meant give up on life cos im not looking for mr right on here never have been ,so as everyone says all the time go on a dating site ,seems i aint good enough

your going to give up on life because you haven't found a man?

good god woman get a grip

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"men on dating sites want young slim women, even the pensioners.

I wouldn't say that's the case...yesterday I went on date number 5 with a gorgeous guy I met on a dating site...so us fatties can get dates

well you are young but thats good to know.

Cheers Dora

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your going to give up on life because you haven't found a man?

good god woman get a grip

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

A lot of it is about attitude, you dont have to be slim or look like a model to get a date. What you need is a positive outlook on life.

Dont go "looking" for mr right, have lots of fun and you may be surprised what comes along.

Look at me, im no oil painting and although im not on dating sites i get more than a few offers on here to take me out on dates.

Live for the momentxx

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"so if thats all im good for and not desirable enough to date ,then i may as well give up now

You have been giving this up more times than I care to remember, it is the same stuff. If you are looking for Mr Right, he may appear here.

Or you may face a lot more disappointment

I hope you find him.i meant give up on life cos im not looking for mr right on here never have been ,so as everyone says all the time go on a dating site ,seems i aint good enough

I do think you need to take a step back...stop torturing yourself...men and women run from signs of desperation of others..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm going to guess and say 90% of the women on this site are looking to date.

More are than would/ever would admit it.

In my mind this isn't POF.

The single fem not looking to date in here is almost a fucking unicorn.

There are SOME that aren't looking to date.

But they are few and far between. "

I use this site to FUCK have fun and no guilt

dating is just that dates with the possibility of more just the sex gets emotonal and crazy shit happens

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Trouble is on this site there are a few men who think they can feed you bullshit and they also think that us women will get sucked in by it.....let's prove them wrong and start telling them what we want and that's it's not all about them and their so called needs !!! or a dirty secret, I have no quarms in telling them to do one lol...if more woman had the attitude of NEXT just like they do, then woman would be happier

Her"

NEXT!

Unfortunately there are a lot of men out there still uncomfortable with a sexually active female. Thanks heavens for the ones that aren't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i meant give up on life cos im not looking for mr right on here never have been ,so as everyone says all the time go on a dating site ,seems i aint good enough

You said you'd only been on dating site a few days, have you messaged any of the men that interest you or are you waiting for them to message you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so if thats all im good for and not desirable enough to date ,then i may as well give up now

You have been giving this up more times than I care to remember, it is the same stuff. If you are looking for Mr Right, he may appear here.

Or you may face a lot more disappointment

I hope you find him.i meant give up on life cos im not looking for mr right on here never have been ,so as everyone says all the time go on a dating site ,seems i aint good enough

I do think you need to take a step back...stop torturing yourself...men and women run from signs of desperation of others.. "

this what Choppsy said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on here to meet my needs...it's just a happy coincidence they are the same needs/wants of others!

Op...I haven't seen your dating profile, but I have seen many of your posts and if your profile carries the same kind of negativity then chances are you will struggle to find someone as generally people are attracted to confidence and a positive outlook. You know already that there are some men on swinging sites that think a quick ego massage will help them get their end away...hence all the white knights that often come rushing forward...but for more than a shag then they aren't going to look for someone who needs constant reassurance. You need to fix some of your confidence issues because until you like yourself, you'll never portray a person that others want to like. Sorry if that is harsh, but statements like 'I guess I'm only good for a shag' show how low your confidence is. You need to fix that, no one else will do it for you

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By *exycleaner OP Woman
over a year ago

pontefract

all of you have told me several times to go on a dating site as i keep saying i want more than just a quick shag ,so i thought i would do that and give up swinging and find a nice man ,but when guys aren't interested ,its a bit of a knock back ,

i not meet anyone on here now anyway only stay to go on the forums x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If neither are working for you, you could always try the conventional method of just meeting people out and about (pub, hobbies etc).

The internet is a funny place, I wouldn't put too much stock into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so if thats all im good for and not desirable enough to date ,then i may as well give up now

You have been giving this up more times than I care to remember, it is the same stuff. If you are looking for Mr Right, he may appear here.

Or you may face a lot more disappointment

I hope you find him.i meant give up on life cos im not looking for mr right on here never have been ,so as everyone says all the time go on a dating site ,seems i aint good enough

Really??

Your going to give up on life because you can't get a date??

You only put a profile up a few days ago on the dating site... These things take time.

OP, I've read your various posts on these forums and you never come across positive... Perhaps you need to learn to like and love yourself before bringing anyone else into the picture.

Negativity attracts negativity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If neither are working for you, you could always try the conventional method of just meeting people out and about (pub, hobbies etc).

The internet is a funny place, I wouldn't put too much stock into it."

I think that's the best advice given so far

the internet is quite clearly knocking your confidence and getting you down so stop using it to find men, there's someone for everyone out there

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

I think this little bubble within a bubble will get larger as we evolve and the bigger bubble outside this bubble within a bubble will get smaller .until one day the bigger bubble will disappear .this is the alternative yet becomes more the reality as time goes by. .gone are the days when on the first date the lady asks the mans intentions.

I've heard that somewhere

x x X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If neither are working for you, you could always try the conventional method of just meeting people out and about (pub, hobbies etc).

The internet is a funny place, I wouldn't put too much stock into it."

What he means is there is a whole world outside the fucking internet.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

OP, i do believe that before you can move on to another relationship you need to work through some stuff.

You have posted before about being in abusive relationships and aving contacts on other sites that seem to wish to control and manipulate you.

If you don't want to be used you need to do some soul searching and learn to love and accept yourself. at the moment you come across as very weak and deependant on being in a relationship to validate you and that is so not te case.

if you are seriously considering suicide then i would urge you to alk to someone, your doctor, the samaritans etc

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By *exycleaner OP Woman
over a year ago

pontefract

yea i messaged some guys but got no replies ,i may be negative on here but do you all honestly think im going to be negative when meeting some one ,was just giving it a try to see what,s out there

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"yea i messaged some guys but got no replies ,i may be negative on here but do you all honestly think im going to be negative when meeting some one ,was just giving it a try to see what,s out there

actually, if thats the only persona we see of you then....yes thats what we will think

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

My FB is on a dating site and has been for several years and he's only had about 4 nibbles. Its a waiting game, like what single men on here have to do. You have to give it a lot longer than a few days I am afraid.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Didn't you say you brought a camper van or something...is there no local clubs you can join regarding the whole camper van thing...get out and meet people

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By *et a roomCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

In my experience, you can look too hard for the right partner. Maybe try relaxing a bit and enjoying dating (or swinging) for itself and not expecting too much from it. And there is definitely more to life than finding a man.

Try learning a new skill, hobby or language and expanding your mind a little. You may even meet someone at the class! And to the OP, why not give Isis another try. Some really nice guys and couples have been there recently.

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

How do you expect to attract anyone when your profile says " not looking for single guys" and "not looking to meet anyone so don,t message me" I,d take you out for a meal and a drink and would,nt expect sex in return, you have no confidence in your self. You say you are too ugly to date well let me tell you your not, don,t give up you never know whats round the corner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yea i messaged some guys but got no replies ,i may be negative on here but do you all honestly think im going to be negative when meeting some one ,was just giving it a try to see what,s out there

You've only been on the dating site for 2 days!

And sorry saying that you may as well give up on life just because you can't get a date is pretty uncalled for and bad taste.

If you truly do feel suicidal then you really do need to see your GP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"men on dating sites want young slim women, even the pensioners.

sadly that is true

There are many men on here looking for older/bigger woman to shag but they wouldn't want to take one home to meet their parents

they just want them to practice on to get better for the women they want to settle down with

not sure I agree with that. But many guys, including myself, do meet and sleep with women we won't date. But would you date every guy you met off fab?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Seriously if I looked to much into my relationships and why I'm not married and not got kids etc I'd be rocking in a corner...it will happen again for you when the time is right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm going to guess and say 90% of the women on this site are looking to date.

More are than would/ever would admit it.

In my mind this isn't POF.

The single fem not looking to date in here is almost a fucking unicorn.

There are SOME that aren't looking to

But they are few and far between. "

I am SOOOOO a fucking unicorn!!! Lol

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

" But many guys, including myself, do meet and sleep with women we won't date. But would you date every guy you met off fab? "

I think women can be down on themselves over this - I have meets here with people I would not dream of having a relationship with and it has nothing to do with how attractive they are!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Until you YOURSELF is happy with YOU, you wont be happy with anyone

(sorry to say this but its true)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" But many guys, including myself, do meet and sleep with women we won't date. But would you date every guy you met off fab?

I think women can be down on themselves over this - I have meets here with people I would not dream of having a relationship with and it has nothing to do with how attractive they are!!

Yes i would say most of the men i have had fun with i had nothing in common with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Until you YOURSELF is happy with YOU, you wont be happy with anyone

(sorry to say this but its true)"

Too true.

And even if you find someone right now, the chances of it lasting until you are happy by yourself are reduced dramatically.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Until you YOURSELF is happy with YOU, you wont be happy with anyone

(sorry to say this but its true)

Too true.

And even if you find someone right now, the chances of it lasting until you are happy by yourself are reduced dramatically."

agree

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

"How do you expect to attract anyone when your profile says " not looking for single guys" and "not looking to meet anyone so don,t message me" I,d take you out for a meal and a drink and would,nt expect sex in return, you have no confidence in your self. You say you are too ugly to date well let me tell you your not, don,t give up you never know whats round the corner."
i think that is very nice of you and you are agentleman

if she knocks you back her loss mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought the men on dating sites were more pervy and desperate than the ones on here!!

Hence, I sacked off the dating sites a long time ago."

Agree!

Moooost people will say and do whatever it takes to get a shag. Men, women, couples. C'est la vie.

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By *uv2danceWoman
over a year ago

yate

I've had a few dates from dating sites and have decided to give up on them. Couple of the dates have been right weirdos, one of them was basically a job inter_iew for a house keeper, and another spent the whole time telling me about his heart attack and all I could think of was "OMG I'd kill him if I fucked him!"

Blokes on dating sites are either just looking for sex, or someone to look after their house and kids. I'm fine with the former but not the latter.

Decided that on Fab at least everyone knows that it's sex we both want, and I can come home to my messy house and not have to worry about it, and got the whole bed and tv remote to myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was talking to a guy on a dating site said would like to meet for a date. Got talking about sex and that so I said am not looking for that on there I use somewhere else for fun he found me on here and then asked on the dating site when could we meet for fun I said what about the date he said we could have a date after the fun hmm needless to say I declined both offers lol. Don't let it get to you x

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By *tyx1Man
over a year ago

wigan

On a twist to the OP story I gave up this site a few years ago to try POF and vanilla dating. I had a few messages and got chatting to a local girl who I recognised off here! Who coincidently had turned me down flat on here, she asked me out and we had a great date, so much so we arranged another straight away. On the second date I just had to tell her I used to be on fab and recognised her on here too, after her initial embarrassment we had a giggle about it and I had to ask her why she had turned me down so abruptly and flat out! Her reply was that she thought I was such a great guy and ideal relationship material BUT for NSA sex she prefers younger taller buff guys!!! Needless to say there wasn't a third date lol.

So it seems like I'm good enough to date and too ugly to fuck!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was talking to a guy on a dating site said would like to meet for a date. Got talking about sex and that so I said am not looking for that on there I use somewhere else for fun he found me on here and then asked on the dating site when could we meet for fun I said what about the date he said we could have a date after the fun hmm needless to say I declined both offers lol. Don't let it get to you x"

I wouldn't say 'needless to say' because it made no sense to me. You're looking for dates and fucks, but not for people offering dates and fucks?!

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

"The same may be said about BBC, they may be all about the big cock, little about the person.

It is a me me me world.

Call me naive, but what or who is BBC???

I think you should start a thead asking."

evil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Negativity is never good.Hitch up your skirts n get out in the real world..You may surprise yourself luv

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"men on dating sites want young slim women, even the pensioners.

I believe this is so. Sad, isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"men on dating sites want young slim women, even the pensioners.

I believe this is so. Sad, isn't it?

"
It's called midlife crisis and reckoning themselves

Her

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By *occerstar579Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

dont mean ya ugly!!! means you are attractive enough to fuck but they not looking for a relationship.....ugly is within!!! take someone like niomi cambell....a so called supermodel!! attractive to look at possibly....but according to stories in papers a very ugly person within!!

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By *et a roomCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"men on dating sites want young slim women, even the pensioners.

I believe this is so. Sad, isn't it?

Nonsense! I had no problems meeting guys on POF when I was single a couple of years ago. Younger ones often too.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"On a twist to the OP story I gave up this site a few years ago to try POF and vanilla dating. I had a few messages and got chatting to a local girl who I recognised off here! Who coincidently had turned me down flat on here, she asked me out and we had a great date, so much so we arranged another straight away. On the second date I just had to tell her I used to be on fab and recognised her on here too, after her initial embarrassment we had a giggle about it and I had to ask her why she had turned me down so abruptly and flat out! Her reply was that she thought I was such a great guy and ideal relationship material BUT for NSA sex she prefers younger taller buff guys!!! Needless to say there wasn't a third date lol.

So it seems like I'm good enough to date and too ugly to fuck!!! "

Why didn't you carry on with the giggling and enjoying each other? She chose you for the relationship bit and when that works the sex can be the best ever. She could pick and choose for NSA but didn't want relationships with the young buffers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So it seems like I'm good enough to date and too ugly to fuck!!!

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"men on dating sites want young slim women, even the pensioners.

I believe this is so. Sad, isn't it?

It's called midlife crisis and reckoning themselves

Her"

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