FabSwingers.com forum: Local People Only

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I see local people only on lot's of profiles sound's a bit Royston Vasey!!

"This is a local Shop for local people"

What is local to you for me it's anywhere up to 20 miles away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in this era of globalisation then local could be anywhere in the world for some folk

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

see... thats the thing with living on a little island.... its skews your prospective!

when I lived in new york... for me newark, and atlantic city, and philadelphia were local, and philly was 100 miles away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd take it to mean the same county

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i consider glasgow local and its a good 45 mile...though people in Glasgow seem to think it would take a plane train and automobile to get here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I travel all over the North of the Country mainly so I'm local to someone at some point

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

50 miles east or west is really convenient.

50 miles north is ok

50 miles south is tricky.

So my answer is...."it depends".

I'm sure that'll come in handy!

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I avoid local

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I would class a local meet within an hour having said that most know that i only travel as far as my front door to let them in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of us can't afford to travel far, good manners get in the way of me expecting them to pay to come to me, id like to travel at least halfway, so though id prefer not local, in reality, i can't travel so local it is

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"I avoid local

(is that the right method?)

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

I state local people (when my profile is filled out and I am seeking new meets) because...

(a) If I am travelling to meet someone I don't want to drive for more than 60-90 mins.

(b) I don't want some guy travelling 400 miles to meet me and book himself a hotel, only to find that there is no attraction on my part....and maybe on his.

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

"I like further than 20 minutes away, as I would hate to bump into someone that I have met in my regular life

I dont mind meeting someone from 400 miles away if he's providing a hotel room to play in.... its a day out for me

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

(b) I don't want some guy travelling 400 miles to meet me and book himself a hotel, only to find that there is no attraction on my part....and maybe on his."

That's perfectly fair, of course.

But...if I contacted you and suggested getting a hotel, travelling down etc., haven't I already accepted that risk?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I state local people (when my profile is filled out and I am seeking new meets) because...

(a) If I am travelling to meet someone I don't want to drive for more than 60-90 mins.

(b) I don't want some guy travelling 400 miles to meet me and book himself a hotel, only to find that there is no attraction on my part....and maybe on his."

Now b) is definitely my point exactly, wouldnt want to feel obliged into sleeping with them cos theyve come a long way, though ive had guys say they would do it even if there is no mutual attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(b) I don't want some guy travelling 400 miles to meet me and book himself a hotel, only to find that there is no attraction on my part....and maybe on his.

That's perfectly fair, of course.

But...if I contacted you and suggested getting a hotel, travelling down etc., haven't I already accepted that risk?

Except some guys dont care about mutual attraction as long as they get a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you know what they say ...

"Everywhere is within walking distance, provided you have the time"

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

i totally agree that for me its local as dont have a car so ravelling is a problem especially as I currently am in voluntary work so money is a problem to be able to meet halfway.

I also feel bad if the guy has travelled and got a hotel and there is no attraction. In my experience quite a large amount of men would get the arse on if no playing was going to happen. Its only the lovliest of gentlemen that wouldnt get arsey once they realsie that we're not getting hot in the sheets!

I suggest reading a profile and if they state local its probably due for a particular reason so dont get arsey when they/me points out the other person isnt local so no thanks. (naturally put in a nicer way but it is 7.40am as I write this while the kids eat breaky lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have local on my profile and for me local is if you order me a vodka and tonic with ice and the ice hasn't melted by the tume I've got there!

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston

"I state local people (when my profile is filled out and I am seeking new meets) because...

(a) If I am travelling to meet someone I don't want to drive for more than 60-90 mins.

(b) I don't want some guy travelling 400 miles to meet me and book himself a hotel, only to find that there is no attraction on my part....and maybe on his."

what if he has a big chopper and can get it up and down (or is that down and up) in a local field?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

an hour travelling is not unreasonable i suppose but this does not suit everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for the right people all the way to Scotland... and further

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