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Meets at home vs Swingers club?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've just had my first experience of a swingers club. It was an real eye opener. The people was very friendly and had a ball.

So just want to know witch do you prefer meets at home or in a swingers club?

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By *ack Genuine BullMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

Please do tell us which club you went to.......

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Clubs, because if there is a no-show there are other people there to play with, also if your meet turns out to be on day release from an asylum you don't have any complications. Also other people can join in. The social aspect is nice.

Welcome to the forum, btw OP

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Club x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club for us too

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

They both have there place as they are so different.

Club i love for the atmosphere, the socializing and if i want more than one man.

Meets at home, chilled out, good conversation and quality time with a one on one meet

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World


"Clubs, because if there is a no-show there are other people there to play with, also if your meet turns out to be on day release from an asylum you don't have any complications. Also other people can join in. The social aspect is nice.

Welcome to the forum, btw OP

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And this is the reason I no longer do private meets, clubs 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love dressing up and the club atmosphere but I equally love just being at hotel for the night with someone

Id love to accommodate but at the moment thats not possible with teenagers

The thing that makes any place great are the people you're spending the time with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clubs, because if there is a no-show there are other people there to play with, also if your meet turns out to be on day release from an asylum you don't have any complications. Also other people can join in. The social aspect is nice.

Welcome to the forum, btw OP

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home, for the exact same reason as this.

in a club we feel we are always trying to fight to keep the other couples attention.

in a pub, or at home, we have their attention, whether we hit it off or not, at least they are actually looking you in the eye rather than checking out whoever is walking past.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Quite a few people complain about clubs being clicky. I can't say I've ever noticed it, but I suppose if you have a meet at home and find it clicky, then you know you have issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on who is there. Parties, clubs, hotel meets are all good if the other people are cool.

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

If you know the one(s) you`re meeting, then a home/hotel visit is OK. Would be not totally comfortable with a home visit for a first meet. For a totally blind first meet a club is a must for me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think my last off-line meet was Released from Asylum. But the club thing is very new I do like meets at home but you get a lot people that just mess you around. So clubs maybe the place for me from know on. Oh it was the Attic club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont drive so getting to chams is not an easy thing so if...i meet anyone its normally at my home but this is normally with someone i know very very well.

I do enjoy the club scene and hope to re visit sometime soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems to of gone into the clubs now, rather than the going for a meet.

A lot seem to do the same.

Her

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Club as a newbie makes it simple to socialise and see what happens

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!


"I dont drive so getting to chams is not an easy thing so if...i meet anyone its normally at my home but this is normally with someone i know very very well.

I do enjoy the club scene and hope to re visit sometime soon "

OK I do drive and I do appreciate that Chams is off the beaten track as far as public transport goes, not being close to rail or tram, but I`m 122 miles away from Chams and the only thing stopping me from getting there is having the time to go and the money for a hotel!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer club meets primarily as we are lazy and turming up hoping there'll be someone we like is far easier than planning a meet at home

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Personally, I love going to clubs but sometimes I think having a "meet" at a club us a bit of a waste. You restrict your socialising opportunities and potentially are distracted from those you are meeting with.

I'd prefer to just "go to a club" rather than arrange a meet there.

On the other hand, I would arrange private meets in a place that's not too far from a club... That way if you're stood up or you want to escape from your meet, you've got another option....

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Has anyone else had messages from people saying:

'I see you're going to such and such a club - fancy meeting me in the car park for a bit a bit of fun in my car?'

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"They both have there place as they are so different.

Club i love for the atmosphere, the socializing and if i want more than one man.

Meets at home, chilled out, good conversation and quality time with a one on one meet"

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

Clubs for us... We love the socialising, dancing and the playing. Meeting new people, having a selection of people or multiple play mates....

We don't want to play where our family is..

There was a story on a similar thread a while back. A woman had a guy round to play at hers... A year later when she had friends and family round, he knocks on the door and said something along the lines of " I was just passing and wondered if you were up for a meet." A little scary....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs for me. I don't meet at home xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs or hotel for us......

Had one meet at someone's home and it just felt a little to pressurized for us.

We will sometimes arrange a meet at a club (or pub before club) and if there is a no show or no attraction then the e evening isn't a disaster.....

Sometimes we will just go to the club and see what's happening and go with no expectations

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