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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it me, being fairly new on here, or is the chat rooms seem to be a "clicky". Where as the forums seem to be more friendly.

where do you spend most of your time on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ditto.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The chat rooms are too quick for me. I can't get the gist of the conversations most of the time.

There's more time to "think before you print" here in the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to go in the chat rooms but it moves to fast for me, I found it hard to start and continue a conversation with the same person in between get your tits out and lock at my cock comments,

I sometimes go in there just to _iew the cams,

Its the forum for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The chat rooms are too quick for me. I can't get the gist of the conversations most of the time.

There's more time to "think before you print" here in the forums "

well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been in the chat rooms but I love the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and if u wentt into a chatroom and asked the same question they would all say 'chat rooms are best forums are cliquey'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on my mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer the forum, a much better snapshot of people's personalities and their likes/dislikes.

Ironically though, it was a chat room that brought Mrs N and I together over 10 years ago.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

both have a perceived pecking order that brings around a desperation to fit in...

both are enjoyable, both are a bit samey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forums. I can't read the chat rooms fast enough when everyone's at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are the chat rooms the cam rooms?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Are the chat rooms the cam rooms? "

yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just had a look on my mobile. I would rather have a conversation with someone privately. If I wanted to see them on cam I would do that via Skype

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are the chat rooms the cam rooms?

yes "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For my first three years 9 months on the site I used the chatrooms. I got to know a few lovely people in that time. It was hard to strike up a conversation in the main room and those you really wanted to get to know were often swamped. Moving to private chat was often difficult as rapport was difficult to establish.

Over that time I felt the chatrooms became more like a meat market than a place to meet like minded people.

I started using the forum just before Christmas and immediately met people I liked. The variety of threads enables people to express more of their personality and gives the opportunity for informed friendships to develop.

I wish I'd realised earlier

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just had a look on my mobile. I would rather have a conversation with someone privately. If I wanted to see them on cam I would do that via Skype"

interesting... hmmm!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand the chat/ cam rooms. It seems to be full of people saying

hi

how are you

hi

look at my cock

hi

hello

I like the forums, learned loads, laughed loads, great for debate and more interesting than reading what people had for their tea on Facebook.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

the thing is i love cam chatting (usually on other site) and meeting new friends.

but i can't seem to find anyone interested in getting to know or make the conversation stimulating on here.

where as in the forums get sense of who people are. so forums i stay!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For my first three years 9 months on the site I used the chatrooms. I got to know a few lovely people in that time. It was hard to strike up a conversation in the main room and those you really wanted to get to know were often swamped. Moving to private chat was often difficult as rapport was difficult to establish.

Over that time I felt the chatrooms became more like a meat market than a place to meet like minded people.

I started using the forum just before Christmas and immediately met people I liked. The variety of threads enables people to express more of their personality and gives the opportunity for informed friendships to develop.

I wish I'd realised earlier

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yeah the first years on here, i use to do the same. show off and watch on cam and chat, but led to nothing.

where here, seems like a whole new world of connections!

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

Moved more to forums recently

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Like others have said, I find the chat rooms too fast to keep up, I only ever went into Canada Chat for Forum invasions but haven't done that for ages (to be honest, I haven't worked out how to get my iPad to work in chat - I'm not very techy)

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I use and like both, it is better when you know a few folk in chat though or it's easy to get lost. I don't often put my cam on now as I get fed up with all the comments.... Even though it's just my face

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

We only ever use the forum's

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

in the lounge .. if i get adventurous i ll go into swingers chat .. ireland and usa are fun

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

Forums for us although Mr N only reads never posts. As others have said chat moves much too fast.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Here"

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

all you can do in cams is say nice bum/tits/ pussy along with twenty other blokes lol

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Is it me, being fairly new on here, or is the chat rooms seem to be a "clicky". Where as the forums seem to be more friendly.

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i don't think one is any more clicky than the others.... at the end of the day it is exactly the same in that those people would have probably gotten to know each other over time......

I prefer the forums if only for the fact that I can think about what I am saying on here.... the chatroom can be so fast that sometimes the thought has gone...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy with the forums ~ don't do chat rooms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Started in chat rooms, wondered in here,, went back to chat rooms,, came back to here

both are as bad/as good as each other

some threads read more like a slower version of a chat rooms at time,, and sometimes the regional chat rooms have good debate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id say the regional chat rooms are usually full of people who would use them regularly to either find meets locally or are there to hang out with people they know

The directing rooms are usually just to cure an itch.. bit of instant virtual fix

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just had a look on my mobile. I would rather have a conversation with someone privately. If I wanted to see them on cam I would do that via Skype

interesting... hmmm!"

I wasn't implying I talk to people from here on Skype. Just theoretical

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket

I use the chatrooms more, thou only northern, and do prefer it in there as you can have a face to face convo with someone if they have webcam. Also banter can be more spontaneous.

I also enjoy the forums as you get a wider perspective of _iews. Both have their 'cliques' but that's only because those people are 'regulars' and they know each other.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've been in both and find the forums better. The chatrooms suffer from a few drawbacks in my (tiny) mind:

1, things move too quickly. By the time you've typed a comedy reply the moment has gone and you look like a loon.

2, a lot of the guys suck up to the fems like crazy. It's hard to get a conversation going when most lines are: 'you look hot' and it just so banal.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just had a look on my mobile. I would rather have a conversation with someone privately. If I wanted to see them on cam I would do that via Skype

interesting... hmmm!

I wasn't implying I talk to people from here on Skype. Just theoretical "

i know lol

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