FabSwingers.com forum: waiting on a meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you find it sort of fun going to a social meet at a bar, and waiting to see who walks in or scoping out the place and wonder what if it is them across the way, but not sure.

Right now I am at a bar and lots of people, some fit the pics...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it a blind meet?

I've always know what to expect...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No face pics on their part just judging on body and jewelry. ..they see have seen my face pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No face pics on their part just judging on body and jewelry. ..they see have seen my face pic."

Why would you do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally recognise the back of their heads as they run for the door

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

You brave bugger!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be expecting a long wait alone then a disappointed wander home if I hadn't seen a face pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I either text my meets if we have exchanged numbers or message them here to say that I have arrived at meeting place

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't see it as a waste of time kind of erotic. Don't know what to expect and how they will approach ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never meet a a person without knowing what they look like..... Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been getting a few looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was in a bar in Greece I wouldn't mind being stood up. No face pic is very brave but as someone said earlier not everyone looks like their pics anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you not tell them you'd be wearing the pink shirt with the daffodil hanging out yer arse?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you've covered the eventuality of a trannie. Some look convincing you know, ahem so i''m told.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I remember waiting for meets thinking 'please god not him. Or him. Or him! Jesus Christ what's that walking towards me

' I for one am very glad that we now have the ability to swap pics and choose who we meet based on mutual attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I remember waiting for meets thinking 'please god not him. Or him. Or him! Jesus Christ what's that walking towards me

' I for one am very glad that we now have the ability to swap pics and choose who we meet based on mutual attraction."

You were meeting strangers for sex before the invention of the camera?

Could you not swap tapestries or something?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I remember waiting for meets thinking 'please god not him. Or him. Or him! Jesus Christ what's that walking towards me

' I for one am very glad that we now have the ability to swap pics and choose who we meet based on mutual attraction.

You were meeting strangers for sex before the invention of the camera?

Could you not swap tapestries or something? "

Ah, the olden days, when messages were illuminated by monks and a reply took two years.

I started swinging on the phone lines (Connections) and didn't have a mobile phone at all, let alone one that could send pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I remember waiting for meets thinking 'please god not him. Or him. Or him! Jesus Christ what's that walking towards me

' I for one am very glad that we now have the ability to swap pics and choose who we meet based on mutual attraction.

You were meeting strangers for sex before the invention of the camera?

Could you not swap tapestries or something?

Ah, the olden days, when messages were illuminated by monks and a reply took two years.

I started swinging on the phone lines (Connections) and didn't have a mobile phone at all, let alone one that could send pics."

Yeah, I'm not sure I could do that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never meet anyone without a face pic. Good luck

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I find it useful to walk in to the pub, go straight through and out the back door and then wait outside the toilet window with a net...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I remember waiting for meets thinking 'please god not him. Or him. Or him! Jesus Christ what's that walking towards me

' I for one am very glad that we now have the ability to swap pics and choose who we meet based on mutual attraction.

You were meeting strangers for sex before the invention of the camera?

Could you not swap tapestries or something?

Ah, the olden days, when messages were illuminated by monks and a reply took two years.

I started swinging on the phone lines (Connections) and didn't have a mobile phone at all, let alone one that could send pics.

Yeah, I'm not sure I could do that! "

I had some amazing meets actually. My first club experience, my first orgy, my first (and last) dogging experience. Maybe the OP has a point and we should all just go for it.

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By *elsh n wildCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff area

Ha ha really

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By *elsh n wildCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff area

She there yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope shes everything you expect,I applaud your bravery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it useful to walk in to the pub, go straight through and out the back door and then wait outside the toilet window with a net...

Stop it Tina! I'm getting strange looks giggling to myself

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

The other option is to make it a treasure hunt, where you leave clues along a trail that leads to you. You spot the hunter entering, somewhat clueless, show them the back door and shove them into Tinas net. Tip the bar staff, and they can assist too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She must be there,he's gone quiet. He'll pop to the loo soon and update us. I'm a bit excited lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had to do a blind meet it would have to be a party I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only how i'm doing blind meets is if Cilla's about!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

some look better than their face pic . some dont

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

just got home... it is a usual bar i go to anyways to unwind after work and and if things happen stay all night... i left that bar and went to another bar meet friends... in all honesty a good night out.

as always i am patient and loving life and never drama.

tomorrow is another day.

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By *elsh n wildCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff area

Aww bless

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

I've only ever had a meet and not known what the person looked like once... and from experience that's clearly one too many times! Never again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just got home... it is a usual bar i go to anyways to unwind after work and and if things happen stay all night... i left that bar and went to another bar meet friends... in all honesty a good night out.

as always i am patient and loving life and never drama.

tomorrow is another day."

Did she turn up or not?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

bad luck .. time to block and mve on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had noshows. sorry this happened to you.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Sorry for the bad luck - at least you had a good night, and had us for support, albeit a long way off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aawww thats a shame it didn't work out as planned

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I'd have say.. One of our best meets, was a couple we were chatting to for ages. We arranged to meet them in a pub local to them, and it wasn't until we we're parked in the pub car park that I realised that they'd never sent us a face pic.. They turned out to be an awesome couple

On the other hand, we've also arranged to meet people who's pics we have seen.... but turned up not being able to remember what they look like. Apart from knowing that we must have thought they were ok, we were as good blind.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

good morning, wow i didn't realize that so many were following and supporting. thanks.

as i said, i love that feeling of suspense and mystery, of seeing what happens. and sitting there looking around scoping out the other cpls thinking is that them.

tonight is another night!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good evening... I think I made contact with them but not sure if it is them... but fit the discription.

But they left the bar. I wasn't ballsy enough to ask if they were them. Don't want to be pushy was waiting on them to make the contact.

Life is good regardless... now I am horn as funk and smiling and LAiGhing like a kid on Christmas at another bar... people are going to start thinking I am nuts.

Any advice tips to break the ice tomorrow welcome here or pms.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good evening... I think I made contact with them but not sure if it is them... but fit the discription.

But they left the bar. I wasn't ballsy enough to ask if they were them. Don't want to be pushy was waiting on them to make the contact.

Life is good regardless... now I am horn as funk and smiling and LAiGhing like a kid on Christmas at another bar... people are going to start thinking I am nuts.

Any advice tips to break the ice tomorrow welcome here or pms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good evening... I think I made contact with them but not sure if it is them... but fit the discription.

But they left the bar. I wasn't ballsy enough to ask if they were them. Don't want to be pushy was waiting on them to make the contact.

Life is good regardless... now I am horn as funk and smiling and LAiGhing like a kid on Christmas at another bar... people are going to start thinking I am nuts.

Any advice tips to break the ice tomorrow welcome here or pms."

Ask for a face pic before meeting them so it doesn't happen again

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