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do you want a slutty look or a nice dress and heels look

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

it amazes me what men expect when meeting a fwm for first time . i think a initial meet should always be nice dress oe nice clothes. if you want to dress slutty do it in the bedroom . i hate to see older women dressed like sluts too. im no snob but i think ladys should look classy when in public

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always prefer a classy look, leave something to the imagination.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep classy for me. Anyone can look slutty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a nice shift dress, stockings and heels myself.

I have never been a show off all type though, legs and cleavege can say so much more.

Her

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

Classy slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its subjective

One persons class is anothers trash

Its how you carry yourself and the aura that you give off that makes the difference between class and slut

And what about the classy sluts?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

It is possible to do a nice dress and heels (although as a klutz I wear them infrequently) with some fantastic underwear underneath. Slutty is in the eye of the beholder.

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

Scruffy jeans, scuffed boots and a fluffy jumper is plenty good enough for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

nice to know its not just my way of thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its subjective

One persons class is anothers trash

Its how you carry yourself and the aura that you give off that makes the difference between class and slut

And what about the classy sluts? "

words...my mouth....right outta

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to meet classy ladies that turn into sluts when my camera is out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on where really, love to see slutty look in clubs, but feels so wrong at lunch time in Starbucks!

For social meets vanilla meet point = vanilla disguise should be the general rule. Problem is I look crap in a nice dress and fall off heels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a classy dressed lady, with a hint of sexiness...

But happens if you meet on nude beach!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on where really, love to see slutty look in clubs, but feels so wrong at lunch time in Starbucks!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it amazes me what men expect when meeting a fwm for first time . i think a initial meet should always be nice dress oe nice clothes. if you want to dress slutty do it in the bedroom . i hate to see older women dressed like sluts too. im no snob but i think ladys should look classy when in public"

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Subtle, sexy confidence....that's what appeals to me.

Even in the bedroom, what I find hot is classy underwear/make-up with a slutty, unrestrained, adventurous, fun attitude towards pleasure...

Sexy and slutty is a state of mind, I feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think its a good idea to show to much on a first meet you may not even like them in the flesh, don't want to be flashing my cleavage and stocking top all night to a guy i have no intentions of playing with, may give the wrong impression and be misleading for you to only say your not interested after a few drinks

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By *W69Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouth


"Subtle, sexy confidence....that's what appeals to me.

Even in the bedroom, what I find hot is classy underwear/make-up with a slutty, unrestrained, adventurous, fun attitude towards pleasure...

Sexy and slutty is a state of mind, I feel.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's more about how a women carries or portrays herself than the length of her skirt for me.

In my experience other women are more likely to negatively judge what a women is wearing than men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Subtle, sexy confidence....that's what appeals to me.

Even in the bedroom, what I find hot is classy underwear/make-up with a slutty, unrestrained, adventurous, fun attitude towards pleasure...

Sexy and slutty is a state of mind, I feel.

"

Men trying to dictate how i should dress /appear is a massive turn off. Ill dress how i feel comfortable regardless of what anyone else thinks!

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Lady of class anyime, can't beat the sex appeal & elegance of a lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

In my experience other women are more likely to negatively judge what a women is wearing than men. "

Ain't that the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I like the woman to be very slutty and cheap dressed.. turns me on as I open the door for sex lol .

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria


"Subtle, sexy confidence....that's what appeals to me.

Even in the bedroom, what I find hot is classy underwear/make-up with a slutty, unrestrained, adventurous, fun attitude towards pleasure...

Sexy and slutty is a state of mind, I feel.

Men trying to dictate how i should dress /appear is a massive turn off. Ill dress how i feel comfortable regardless of what anyone else thinks! "

Damn well said - nothing wrong with wellies anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Men trying to dictate how i should dress /appear is a massive turn off.

"

Do men often make such demands/requests?

I can imagine that becoming a little irritating..

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I wear a nice dress and heels. Get sick and tired of men demanding that I wear something especially for them.

I don't need to be told how to dress. I've been dressing myself for nearly 50 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, it should always be a nice dress or skirt and heels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Men trying to dictate how i should dress /appear is a massive turn off.

Do men often make such demands/requests?

I can imagine that becoming a little irritating.."

Sometimes yeah, it baffles me that they expect me to walk around in public with half my ass out and my boobs practically on show! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i prefer to see women in a nice dress or skirt and blouse too. what i would call classy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Men trying to dictate how i should dress /appear is a massive turn off.

Do men often make such demands/requests?

I can imagine that becoming a little irritating.."

ive had a few guys make requests on what they would like me to wear if we met

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"

Men trying to dictate how i should dress /appear is a massive turn off.

Do men often make such demands/requests?

I can imagine that becoming a little irritating..

Sometimes yeah, it baffles me that they expect me to walk around in public with half my ass out and my boobs practically on show! Lol"

Or to open the door in skimpies. No thanks. I'd rather not put myself on show to the neighbours. Besides what if, in the flesh, I don't fancy them? Harder to say no thanks if you're dressed like that.

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By *issyyourbadWoman
over a year ago

Dorset

Classy slut

Also being sub I love to be told what to wear

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By *uzzybeWoman
over a year ago

Darlington


"Subtle, sexy confidence....that's what appeals to me.

Even in the bedroom, what I find hot is classy underwear/make-up with a slutty, unrestrained, adventurous, fun attitude towards pleasure...

Sexy and slutty is a state of mind, I feel.

Men trying to dictate how i should dress /appear is a massive turn off. Ill dress how i feel comfortable regardless of what anyone else thinks! "

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


" Men trying to dictate how i should dress /appear is a massive turn off. Ill dress how i feel comfortable regardless of what anyone else thinks "

I agree for the most part. However, a guy did once text me telling me that he wanted me to wear stockings the next time we met. That was actually a bit of a turn-on.

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By *issyyourbadWoman
over a year ago

Dorset


" Men trying to dictate how i should dress /appear is a massive turn off. Ill dress how i feel comfortable regardless of what anyone else thinks

I agree for the most part. However, a guy did once text me telling me that he wanted me to wear stockings the next time we met. That was actually a bit of a turn-on. "
. Of course it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't dress slutty, it's just not my style.

I usually meet in work attire, so dresses & heels or skinny jeans, heels & a top on a casual day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slutty doesn't really do anything for me, a classily dressed woman on the other hand....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Do men often make such demands/requests?

I can imagine that becoming a little irritating..

Sometimes yeah, it baffles me that they expect me to walk around in public with half my ass out and my boobs practically on show! Lol"

For me, that removes the thrill and excitement of undressing each other....wondering what delights await.

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By *issLissCouple
over a year ago

south east

I like to think even when I dress like a slut I still look classy! However most meets I would go for a "sexy" look depending in where the meet is - you are looking for sex after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Men trying to dictate how i should dress /appear is a massive turn off. Ill dress how i feel comfortable regardless of what anyone else thinks

I agree for the most part. However, a guy did once text me telling me that he wanted me to wear stockings the next time we met. That was actually a bit of a turn-on. "

I guess there are boundaries, and it's all subjective. In the end, respect is what matters most.

I may, in passing, mention liking stockings et al, but perhaps wouldn't be so bold as to making a request, unless we'd met previously and a mutual connection had been built/discovered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm depends on a lot of factors....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't walk in heels so I have to wear flat shoes. I don't dress up for a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmmm depends on a lot of factors...."

Like what.....

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

If I'm dogging, I'll dress more suggestively. However, for pretty much everything else I try to dress nicely and appropriately for my age and the location. Ie, a really nice dress.

It's a mistake a fair few girlys make at first - dressing too slutty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't walk in heels so I have to wear flat shoes. I don't dress up for a man "

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Stylish and in flats, I feel like the jolly green giant in heels

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

I'm more attracted to slutty looking women, but would never tell anyone what to wear in advance of a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice dress and Heels

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By *issyyourbadWoman
over a year ago

Dorset


"I'm more attracted to slutty looking women, but would never tell anyone what to wear in advance of a meet. "
why ever not

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