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How would your life change if everyone knew your secrets?

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Someone asked me this last week, I still haven't given a definitive answer.

What about you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be disowned by my parents, at least 3 people would be in prison, can't think what else xD

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

lol, think you know most of mine

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I'd be disowned by my parents, at least 3 people would be in prison, can't think what else xD"
Really? Takes an awful lot for a parent to disown a child.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's only secrets i have are my involvement on fab and the fet scene. I don't believe in secrets, because others try to use them to hurt you if they're ever found out. I'm only secretive about fab and fet because it involves other people and i don't have the right to be other than discrete on their behalf.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would probably turn my world upside down, not sure that's a bad thing though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No great change for me, my family and friends know what I do and about this site and I have nothing else I can think of I would wish to hide or have kept secret.....

Nothing about me that is, some things I know are other peoples secrets x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At most I think a few people would go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The biggest secrets I have relate to a couple of friends that had affairs and told me for some reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn't I have no secrets x

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"At most I think a few people would go "
I would get a few , and maybe a couple but mostly

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"It wouldn't I have no secrets x"
None at all? Not even being a secret bogie flicker, or a phantom lift farter?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

It would probably do most damage to my parents' relationship than anything else.

My mum tells me, or has in the past told me, a lot of things I would prefer not to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be turned upside down

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By *ibanditMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I wouldn't give a definitive answer either...

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Mine wouldn't change at all. If I was made to disclose other people's secrets then it would quite drastically.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'd lose my job for one. Not for being Bi or TV, but they'd find another reason to bin me, due to the peculiar set up. I wouldn't lose any friends, though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be disowned by my parents, at least 3 people would be in prison, can't think what else xDReally? Takes an awful lot for a parent to disown a child. "

I worked as an escort and had sex with over 60 men (some as old as 70) to pay the bills rather than moving home. Is that enough to disown a child? Haha!

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

There would be one extra person in the dole queue

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I'd be disowned by my parents, at least 3 people would be in prison, can't think what else xDReally? Takes an awful lot for a parent to disown a child.

I worked as an escort and had sex with over 60 men (some as old as 70) to pay the bills rather than moving home. Is that enough to disown a child? Haha! "
For most I suspect no, maybe a disappointed rant or four, but not to disown xxx

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I'd be disowned by my parents, at least 3 people would be in prison, can't think what else xDReally? Takes an awful lot for a parent to disown a child.

I worked as an escort and had sex with over 60 men (some as old as 70) to pay the bills rather than moving home. Is that enough to disown a child? Haha! "

Not in my opinion but people have different attitudes and standards.

I respect you for doing what you needed to. I don't see why there's anything wrong with selling sex though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be disowned by my parents, at least 3 people would be in prison, can't think what else xDReally? Takes an awful lot for a parent to disown a child.

I worked as an escort and had sex with over 60 men (some as old as 70) to pay the bills rather than moving home. Is that enough to disown a child? Haha! For most I suspect no, maybe a disappointed rant or four, but not to disown xxx "

You sound like a great parent mine are screwed up!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Mine wouldn't change at all. If I was made to disclose other people's secrets then it would quite drastically.

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Ah yes, same here. I don't think I have any big secrets. Some of my mum's would cause problems though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be disowned by my parents, at least 3 people would be in prison, can't think what else xDReally? Takes an awful lot for a parent to disown a child.

I worked as an escort and had sex with over 60 men (some as old as 70) to pay the bills rather than moving home. Is that enough to disown a child? Haha!

Not in my opinion but people have different attitudes and standards.

I respect you for doing what you needed to. I don't see why there's anything wrong with selling sex though."

Thank you

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"Someone asked me this last week, I still haven't given a definitive answer.

What about you? "

Fine i confess, i'm a middle aged woman who works at sydney university. there you go my biggest secret is out now

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

a lot more people would know my secrets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be shocked, at my age I can have secrets even I have forgotten about!

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"a lot more people would know my secrets "
We already know about your lollipop fetish so spill

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

To be honest my mum knows almost everything ive ever done. In fact only last week she said if jay only knew what i know about you and i said dont worry he does lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"a lot more people would know my secrets We already know about your lollipop fetish so spill "

fine!!!

when i fart in public i spin on the spot to see if it smells

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I would be shocked, at my age I can have secrets even I have forgotten about! "

I have had a couple of moments like that.

Your hand looks really familiar...

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"a lot more people would know my secrets We already know about your lollipop fetish so spill

fine!!!

when i fart in public i spin on the spot to see if it smells "

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

PDI until the 18th Nov


"I'd be disowned by my parents, at least 3 people would be in prison, can't think what else xDReally? Takes an awful lot for a parent to disown a child.

I worked as an escort and had sex with over 60 men (some as old as 70) to pay the bills rather than moving home. Is that enough to disown a child? Haha! "

Nowhere near enough for me to disown my daughter. I'd be disappointed, and upset that she had to do that to survive, and I think I'd failed her as a parent in some way. But no, it's no reason to disown your child

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

I dont have secrets i just keep going

make quorn part of your program

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By *r-UniqueMan
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

Will change my phone number, stay in my room. Only go to corner shops where I think know one goes often. But I only have 2 secrets. I am a straight talker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be disowned by my parents, at least 3 people would be in prison, can't think what else xDReally? Takes an awful lot for a parent to disown a child.

I worked as an escort and had sex with over 60 men (some as old as 70) to pay the bills rather than moving home. Is that enough to disown a child? Haha! "

No. It might hurt them deeply to know you had to do that. I think that would hurt any parent. But it wouldn't make me disown my child. I think I'd rather give you a big hug and say it's all gonna be ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would be shocked, at my age I can have secrets even I have forgotten about!

I have had a couple of moments like that.

Your hand looks really familiar... "
its the hand that was going to make you breakfast

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

My main ones are stuff I keep from my mum - though she is chilled about stuff, I do sanitise info, as she can worry a bit too much. The important people know most everything, and trivia is tedious. That said, my pc is willed to my best friend, so that most sexual stuff on it about me is kept fairly private. I think if youre single, it is worth thinking about what may happen to your kit, should anything happen imo. Ive been embarrassed a few times in life, so dont care about much that could come up.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I would be shocked, at my age I can have secrets even I have forgotten about!

I have had a couple of moments like that.

Your hand looks really familiar... its the hand that was going to make you breakfast "

Ah! Will I still get lemon meringue pie too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah! Will I still get lemon meringue pie too?"

Of course, though with wife away in London 4 days a week these days I am out of practice of anything above basic cooking these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's one secret out

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

It wouldn't matter much the important ppl in my life know me well engh an in all honesty I can't think of many secrets I keep. suppose there's a few thing from my youth but the way I see it is I am what I am an I quite like me so I need nobodys approval im my own man an that's my own doing so who cares what any 1 thinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well... My mum is in heaven, my dad I don't speak to cos he ran away with another woman and the family disowned him, and my work kinda know I'm nuts. So it wouldn't affect me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn't bother me in the slightest but I just like to keep my personal life that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be disowned by my parents, at least 3 people would be in prison, can't think what else xD"

You should probably think of keeping your face pics private and not as your profile pic then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be disowned by my parents, at least 3 people would be in prison, can't think what else xD

You should probably think of keeping your face pics private and not as your profile pic then."

Being on here is no secret I don't care who knows I'm on here xD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably having a very long holiday in Broadmoor

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mother and daughter would never speak to me again. Not sure about my oh or son. My best friend would stand by me

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't think keeping any aspect of my sex life private is keeping a secret. Otherwise I can't think of anything that I have kept secret that would change my life I don't know whether to be happy or sad about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My life wouldn't change.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I want to know a lot of the secrets now.

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

My childrens dad would probably use it against me to take them away from me. So this side of my life only 3 people know about. One being my mother as I have no secrets from her

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I'd be on crime watch lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no srcrets so my life wouldnt change. Now when I was married, thats a different thing, he would have got rid of me years ago!!!

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By *olar WindWoman
over a year ago

S.Wales


"I'd be disowned by my parents, at least 3 people would be in prison, can't think what else xDReally? Takes an awful lot for a parent to disown a child.

I worked as an escort and had sex with over 60 men (some as old as 70) to pay the bills rather than moving home. Is that enough to disown a child? Haha! "

My dad didnt disown me... just saying. Bills paid your own life and still on your feet. Kudos. Obviously I did give tje9 guy a look at my degree cert before telling him lol. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I shared my secret with someone I grew to trusr to be disowned by them no more friendship so I guess I won't be sharing again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think secrets and private information are two separate things...

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