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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Desparate or very easy going?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Desparate or very easy going? "

Balls of steel I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They can always back out once they see a face pic

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Really into doggie or reverse cowgirl, maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Craziness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they have a Frank Sidebottom fetish?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like a blind date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Desparate or very easy going? "

I would say a bit of both!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ligeia, if they turned out to be as gorgeous as you I'd be very happy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

call us shallow if you want.....but theres got to be an attraction physically with body type and looks for us! theres a few that look great at a thousand yards but they just don't do it for us, but we might not do it for then either

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe they have a Frank Sidebottom fetish?

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I had to google him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they have shares in brown paper bags

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"call us shallow if you want.....but theres got to be an attraction physically with body type and looks for us! theres a few that look great at a thousand yards but they just don't do it for us, but we might not do it for then either "

I'm with you on that one and I am exactly the same!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Maybe they want to be blindfoldered or wear a leather hood or keep their eyes shut or are blind. There's a blind swinger on here but not seen him post in the forums for a few weeks...nuspark?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe they want to be blindfoldered or wear a leather hood or keep their eyes shut or are blind. There's a blind swinger on here but not seen him post in the forums for a few weeks...nuspark? "

I like his posts

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Desparate or very easy going? "

Desperate or just not very choosy.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i met someone without a pic. to this day i have no clue what he looked like as was blindfolded the whole time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When someone asks me,I think I may look like the back end of a bus! Surely you want to see a pic? And if not why not?

I know I do before ill even think about talking meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i met someone without a pic. to this day i have no clue what he looked like as was blindfolded the whole time"

Was that a fantasy meet arranged especially though? a bit different from meeting for a drink and then possibly getting it on a bit later

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By *oandjohnCouple
over a year ago

South Wales, will travel to Hereford, Worcestershire and Shropshire

We have been to parties without seeing face pictures of people. Some of the people have been great full and their personalities have made the evening. To be honest i have seen their face pictures after meeting them and could have been turned off. The could have felt the same about us as well..

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

I need 2hours to get used to a face

mines takes longer

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Mine are on display, as I think with TG it is important for peeps to know I've not got a beard.

Regarding other people, it depends on what sort of meet it is. If it's dogging then they are one of a number of guys so it doesn't matter so much, same if it is just a say hi at a club or pub. However, if it is some kind of date then yes, very important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Desparate or very easy going? "

Do you only chat with people you like the look of physically? Can you not meet and just chat if you like their personality first? I know I can just surprised someone has to ask.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Desparate or very easy going?

Do you only chat with people you like the look of physically? Can you not meet and just chat if you like their personality first? I know I can just surprised someone has to ask. "

I know I wouldn't ask to meet someone without seeing what they look like,thats what I asked,if you can then cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Desperate I would say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they have a Frank Sidebottom fetish?

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RIP, legend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't meet someone I wasn't attracted to regardless of personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Desparate or very easy going?

Do you only chat with people you like the look of physically? Can you not meet and just chat if you like their personality first? I know I can just surprised someone has to ask. "

Do you fuck people you don't find attractive? I know I don't

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"Desparate or very easy going? "

Adventureous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Desperate....in my opinion. Attraction is vital before even discussing a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Desperate....in my opinion. Attraction is vital before even discussing a meet."

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"I couldn't meet someone I wasn't attracted to regardless of personality."

Bugger!!

I'd meet someone i wasn't attracted to, but wouldn't play. There is a social aspect to swinging too that some us enjoy

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By *plankyMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Its the sensual adventure of getting to know someone gradually. Each day takes you to a new level as they slowly reveal one more thing. Perhaps a cheek or an eyelid.

Particularly interesting are those without pictures who say on their profile "you must have a face pic to message me".

The little teasers!

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"i met someone without a pic. to this day i have no clue what he looked like as was blindfolded the whole time"

I have a stranger sex fantasy, but in general, I wouldn't meet without seeing a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't meet someone I wasn't attracted to regardless of personality.

Bugger!!

I'd meet someone i wasn't attracted to, but wouldn't play. There is a social aspect to swinging too that some us enjoy"

I'd like to have time to do that...reality of 2 jobs a college course and 2 kids means we have to grab what we can....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure desperate is quite the right word but they're obviously not very bothered which I'd have to question.

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"I couldn't meet someone I wasn't attracted to regardless of personality.

Bugger!!

I'd meet someone i wasn't attracted to, but wouldn't play. There is a social aspect to swinging too that some us enjoy

I'd like to have time to do that...reality of 2 jobs a college course and 2 kids means we have to grab what we can.... "

Personal lives may get in the way at times but social meets don't always have to be at night or in a pub or a swinger socials. If you make friends and get on with people outside of the 'swing' world you could always meet socially. Do feel for you given your situ but at the same time i have a similar situ myself and am spread across the country most of the week. Still try and make some time for a social even if it is just a coffee and a natter with a swinging friend

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i carry around a paper bag to get the same effect

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

People who tell their life stories on the forums appear desperate to me, those who ask to meet without a face picture, are just eager beavers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't meet someone I wasn't attracted to regardless of personality.

Bugger!!

I'd meet someone i wasn't attracted to, but wouldn't play. There is a social aspect to swinging too that some us enjoy

I'd like to have time to do that...reality of 2 jobs a college course and 2 kids means we have to grab what we can....

Personal lives may get in the way at times but social meets don't always have to be at night or in a pub or a swinger socials. If you make friends and get on with people outside of the 'swing' world you could always meet socially. Do feel for you given your situ but at the same time i have a similar situ myself and am spread across the country most of the week. Still try and make some time for a social even if it is just a coffee and a natter with a swinging friend "

Yes I'd love that. I work every weekday from 7.30 am til 6 pm. I have a family. I work evenings also. How do I fit in meeting for a coffee just to see if we get on/are attracted?? It isn't one rule suits all regardless of what we would like in an ideal world.

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By *lutandhubbyCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

we have faces only a mother could love!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we have faces only a mother could love! "

I must be a mother then

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"we have faces only a mother could love! "

There's nothing wrong with mine that a couple of paper sacks can't fix!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We made that mistake once after they had met a couple who were good friends of ours and when we turned up he had half a head, needless to say babysitter called, and we made a hasty exit but never again!

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By *queekin bedpostMan
over a year ago

Greenock

Mmm pity your so far away xx

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough


"we have faces only a mother could love! "

aww bless

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We made that mistake once after they had met a couple who were good friends of ours and when we turned up he had half a head, needless to say babysitter called, and we made a hasty exit but never again!"

What had he done with the other half

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Serious question, for anyone :

In consideration of a potential meet and asking for a face pic, have you already filtered in/out the physique and personality or not?

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"I couldn't meet someone I wasn't attracted to regardless of personality.

Bugger!!

I'd meet someone i wasn't attracted to, but wouldn't play. There is a social aspect to swinging too that some us enjoy

I'd like to have time to do that...reality of 2 jobs a college course and 2 kids means we have to grab what we can....

Personal lives may get in the way at times but social meets don't always have to be at night or in a pub or a swinger socials. If you make friends and get on with people outside of the 'swing' world you could always meet socially. Do feel for you given your situ but at the same time i have a similar situ myself and am spread across the country most of the week. Still try and make some time for a social even if it is just a coffee and a natter with a swinging friend

Yes I'd love that. I work every weekday from 7.30 am til 6 pm. I have a family. I work evenings also. How do I fit in meeting for a coffee just to see if we get on/are attracted?? It isn't one rule suits all regardless of what we would like in an ideal world."

Really sorry but what's you point or have i missed something here

I understand that you work but so do many others. I work from 7am till 7pm 4 days a week and on fridays while most people get thier swing shoes on i pack my bags and travel 200 miles north to see my ageing folks and take care of them, so i can rarely get out to meet in the locality where i work. i have personal issues which i choose not to disclose and am a father as well and yet i will still try to make sometime in my rather chaotic life for those i call FRIENDS.

This is a little off topic to what the OP posted but perhaps seeing swing friends is an option for youand by swing friends i mean people you are comfortable eeting socially who dont immediately want to jump in your pants but the again not everyone wants FWB's as i put it and a lot of the site is purely about sex so each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We made that mistake once after they had met a couple who were good friends of ours and when we turned up he had half a head, needless to say babysitter called, and we made a hasty exit but never again!

What had he done with the other half "

Hit a horse at seventy miles an hour, that took the roof off the car. He was even more charming as he tried to pay for our drinks with fake notes and she did look a little like olive from on the buses. We had no idea why our friends had met them but it was a lesson never to be repeated.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Serious question, for anyone :

In consideration of a potential meet and asking for a face pic, have you already filtered in/out the physique and personality or not?

"

If the personality hasn't grabbed me then I wouldn't take it to the face pic stage as it wouldn't make the personality any better,so yes personality is factored in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always send a face pic with fist message then you know where you stand... although a face like mine doesn't make it past many first messages!!!

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"Desparate or very easy going? "

I wouldn't consider myself either. I have done. Usually have pmd a bit first and like the personality. I make it perfectly clear its not a guarantee of fun. Most times there's been nothing more then coffee but a couple of times have been very rewarding. I don't like sending my face pic so wouldn't expect anyone to send me theirs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Desparate or very easy going?

Do you only chat with people you like the look of physically? Can you not meet and just chat if you like their personality first? I know I can just surprised someone has to ask. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Desparate or very easy going?

I wouldn't consider myself either. I have done. Usually have pmd a bit first and like the personality. I make it perfectly clear its not a guarantee of fun. Most times there's been nothing more then coffee but a couple of times have been very rewarding. I don't like sending my face pic so wouldn't expect anyone to send me theirs. "

A lot of trust to send a face picture. Sadly the site is dogged with fakes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We made that mistake once after they had met a couple who were good friends of ours and when we turned up he had half a head, needless to say babysitter called, and we made a hasty exit but never again!

What had he done with the other half

Hit a horse at seventy miles an hour, that took the roof off the car. He was even more charming as he tried to pay for our drinks with fake notes and she did look a little like olive from on the buses. We had no idea why our friends had met them but it was a lesson never to be repeated. "

I love stories like this,this is what we're all going to be talking about in our nursing homes,swinging tales

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Desparate or very easy going?

I wouldn't consider myself either. I have done. Usually have pmd a bit first and like the personality. I make it perfectly clear its not a guarantee of fun. Most times there's been nothing more then coffee but a couple of times have been very rewarding. I don't like sending my face pic so wouldn't expect anyone to send me theirs.

A lot of trust to send a face picture. Sadly the site is dogged with fakes. "

If someone is too cynical and nervous to send a face pic,or verify who they are in another way then they're not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"call us shallow if you want.....but theres got to be an attraction physically with body type and looks for us! theres a few that look great at a thousand yards but they just don't do it for us, but we might not do it for then either

I'm with you on that one and I am exactly the same! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me a face pic is almost a must. And verification another one. Made that mistake when I first came on here!! Learnt my lesson there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my current lady friend this way.

Had spoken to her first though.

Life is full of gambles - some work out, some don't.

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

Suspiciously innocuous

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"Desparate or very easy going?

I wouldn't consider myself either. I have done. Usually have pmd a bit first and like the personality. I make it perfectly clear its not a guarantee of fun. Most times there's been nothing more then coffee but a couple of times have been very rewarding. I don't like sending my face pic so wouldn't expect anyone to send me theirs.

A lot of trust to send a face picture. Sadly the site is dogged with fakes.

If someone is too cynical and nervous to send a face pic,or verify who they are in another way then they're not for me "

Nothing to do with nervous or cynical.some people just don't take good face pics and I wouldn't judge someone by a pic especially when I don't feel I'm doing myself justice by sending a face pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met my current lady friend this way.

Had spoken to her first though.

Life is full of gambles - some work out, some don't. "

I keep taking gambles and they don't even get to the starting post lately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given some of the guys I have chatted to and the conversations, desperate and I would never meet someone without a face picture as I wouldn't want to turn up and find I am not interested, total waste of my time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A face pic is handy so you do not proposition the wrong person but personality is far more important for me. The sexiest and best lovers I have ever met were not supermodels but ordinary nice looking ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Serious question, for anyone :

In consideration of a potential meet and asking for a face pic, have you already filtered in/out the physique and personality or not?

"

Difficult though as they don't often have any pictures but I would still want to see a face picture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Desparate or very easy going? "

I guess it's that ass pic ...it's booootiful Bernard

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