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By *ornywhores4 OP   Couple
over a year ago

louth

hi,does anyone else get annoyed when fems,males,couples,tv contact you with a message for both but they only speak to the male.......ie,your love your profile your misses has lovely tits,ass,pussy,etc. why not speak to both you,if they are contacting a couple, as we think for most couples are equals....we ourselfs would never do that with a couple,what are your views on this?has it happened to you/both?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we sometimes find that its me (gem ) they usually speak to which we find abit offensive as after all we are a couple and think that if they are interested in us then they shud be interested in both of us

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single guy i sometimes have a bit of difficulty writing a message to two people.

Being straight i only really want to sound interested in the female but don't want to make it sound as if I'm pretending the male partner doesn't exist.

So complimenting pics you have to say, x is very pretty. But then it feels like i should say something about y. Inevitably it always ends up sounding like some sort of awkward farce.

These days i just send a message titled hi and in the body just put, liked your pics, wanna fuck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always speak in the plural, ie We would love to meet you both, how are the two of you etc.

If someone approaches us in a club and for example asks me (Jed) "does she play with couples" I simply tell them to ask her she knows her own mind, on the other hand sometimes people have approached Sasha when I have gone to the bar or the loo and asked her to join them alone, even if she wanted to the answer would be know because she knows it is important to approach the two of us together no matter what we are going to do when we decide.

It's kinda hard to explain in type but though I know it's mostly Sasha that people are interested in (especially single guys) I do like to be acknowledged, nobody gets near her unless I have satisfied myself that she will be safe and respected, when she plays alone I normally stay at the bar so if you want to take her to a room you have to satisfy me first with that knowledge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single guy i sometimes have a bit of difficulty writing a message to two people.

Being straight i only really want to sound interested in the female but don't want to make it sound as if I'm pretending the male partner doesn't exist.

So complimenting pics you have to say, x is very pretty. But then it feels like i should say something about y. Inevitably it always ends up sounding like some sort of awkward farce.

These days i just send a message titled hi and in the body just put, liked your pics, wanna fuck? "

lol im sure u do lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Hmmmmmm ur the complete opposit to us then.... ppl contacting us always compliment me directly in emails ie great tits great smile great pussy but thats just single guys couples who mail also compliment me n not hubby which i find annoying as i alway compliment both if its a couple profile xxxxx

luv jacs

xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would always involve the both of them, seems a natural thing to do innit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always speak to both as both... unless we kinda know em and having some banter maybe.

Respect goes a long long way in this scene we think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just had a think about this abit more ....if it is the first initial message then we think we should both be acknowleded but like notts said if its ppl u know and have a bit of a crack on with then addressing 1 or the other is fine

x

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Bit hard to compliment both parts of a couple on how they look, when sooooo many couples ONLY have pics of the female half..

We tend to adress both, but if complimenting a beautiful lady, we tend to add that wiggles is now rather curious if the male half matches half as well :P

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

as a single male, I all ways address mail to both as it is the couple, i am talking to. and it is both of them who will decide if they are going to reply or meet me

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By *ornywhores4 OP   Couple
over a year ago

louth

thank you all for your comments and views,its just insulting when people wont speak 2both parts,but if they contact a few times,then they can just speak with he/she

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks


" having some banter maybe.

"

He bleeding gets everywhere!!

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