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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm going to search and message people for the first time on here. Put the feelers out there. I expect a large amount of ignores and no replies. Any tips or should I just wing it?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Aim high. If you're going to get ignored, make sure its by some serious hotties.

And of course there is the chance you'll be surprised. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

be creative, charming not creepy..

sexual messages as a first contact id imagine might be a turn off for most

make a comment on their profile text or a compliment on a icture to show youve read it all

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

You're in London. . .cheat

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

Life's too short...just go for it and sod the consequences!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Life's too short...just go for it and sod the consequences!!!!"

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

good luck .. try to do four or five really good messages a day rather that fifty fancy a fucks all in one go

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good luck.

"

Sent 5 messages! 2 opened and no reply. Other 3 unread! Good start.

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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago

South Coast

Best of luck to you

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"I'm going to search and message people for the first time on here. Put the feelers out there. I expect a large amount of ignores and no replies. Any tips or should I just wing it? "

newbies get shit loads of action - you should be good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep us fully updated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're in London. . .cheat "

cheek

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Good luck.

Sent 5 messages! 2 opened and no reply. Other 3 unread! Good start. "

None deleted yet? A very good start.

As an aside, you have very pointy nipples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wing it x works for me x

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I'm going to search and message people for the first time on here. Put the feelers out there. I expect a large amount of ignores and no replies. Any tips or should I just wing it? "

Wait until you change your name back!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe apologise for your use name in them

I get the feeling you'll do well on this site, it's all about attitude and yours seems great for a single guy.

Good Luck but I don't think you'll need it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also the username isn't great but you look hot so I'd let you off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good luck.

Sent 5 messages! 2 opened and no reply. Other 3 unread! Good start.

None deleted yet? A very good start.

As an aside, you have very pointy nipples."

There like my sexual compass.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe apologise for your use name in them

I get the feeling you'll do well on this site, it's all about attitude and yours seems great for a single guy.

Good Luck but I don't think you'll need it"

Thank you I getting my name sorted asap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just in case you were thinking of messaging me. You're not my type. I like roundy nipples on my men. So sorry

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

I recently had a message that made me smile then giggle then laugh out loud...it went like that:

'Was it you I saw staring at me when I was shopping?' I had just been in a shop and did have a good stare at a very handsome young man! Coincidence maybe...but sometimes that's all it takes.

Be creative and nice and read their profiles, don't just look at the pics.

Good luck! But with that physique and that hot body I don't think you'll have too many issues getting interest from ladies

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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago

South Coast

I find the name rather jolly makes me sing, in Girls Aloud style...

"I'm just a fuck machine, la la la la la la"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find the name rather jolly makes me sing, in Girls Aloud style...

"I'm just a fuck machine, la la la la la la" "

Might be my antheme.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Put something of yourself across, of course. Make it clear your messages are not copy and paste types, by ensuring they fit the recipients. Many of us would love a message from you, so keep that faith, as there will be the silence and blocks, as you expect. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"be creative, charming not creepy..

sexual messages as a first contact id imagine might be a turn off for most

make a comment on their profile text or a compliment on a icture to show youve read it all

"

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I find, telling people why you chose them is always nice... What was it in their profile or photo's that made them the on to message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find the name rather jolly makes me sing, in Girls Aloud style...

"I'm just a fuck machine, la la la la la la"

Might be my antheme."

You seem to have a faulty send button on your messages......mine has not yet appeared in my inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good Luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ha ha fantastic result! 5 read but no reply! Damn it! Time to pose as a couple! Pass me a wig and a bra.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ha ha fantastic result! 5 read but no reply! Damn it! Time to pose as a couple! Pass me a wig and a bra."

It's no easier for couples. 20 mails sent, 2 replies. One was to say "no thanks".

Keep trying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good profile, sexy pics. All the best xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good profile, sexy pics. All the best xx"

Thank you 1 reply out if 5 ain't that bad but it was a wink lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read all the profile and if a request is made for anything then supply it. Whether it's pics or info, people like this

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Read all the profile and if a request is made for anything then supply it. Whether it's pics or info, people like this "

If requested on profile maybe, but I have just advised a young single guy that if approached and asked for a face pic, the askee should always supply one first as I think that is only fair! No separate rule for couples or females!

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Read all the profile and if a request is made for anything then supply it. Whether it's pics or info, people like this

If requested on profile maybe, but I have just advised a young single guy that if approached and asked for a face pic, the askee should always supply one first as I think that is only fair! No separate rule for couples or females! "

If approaching someone, male/female/couple I agree a face pic should be included. I 'ask' to be sent one so its only fair that when making the first move I include one x

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Read all the profile and if a request is made for anything then supply it. Whether it's pics or info, people like this

If requested on profile maybe, but I have just advised a young single guy that if approached and asked for a face pic, the askee should always supply one first as I think that is only fair! No separate rule for couples or females!

If approaching someone, male/female/couple I agree a face pic should be included. I 'ask' to be sent one so its only fair that when making the first move I include one x"

Exactly, and that is what I have advised, he is a hottie but too young for me, but I feel I need to protect him lol he has the same rights to privacy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok?

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Read all the profile and if a request is made for anything then supply it. Whether it's pics or info, people like this

If requested on profile maybe, but I have just advised a young single guy that if approached and asked for a face pic, the askee should always supply one first as I think that is only fair! No separate rule for couples or females!

If approaching someone, male/female/couple I agree a face pic should be included. I 'ask' to be sent one so its only fair that when making the first move I include one x

Exactly, and that is what I have advised, he is a hottie but too young for me, but I feel I need to protect him lol he has the same rights to privacy "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good profile, sexy pics. All the best xx

Thank you 1 reply out if 5 ain't that bad but it was a wink lol "

Wheres mine?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Good profile, sexy pics. All the best xx

Thank you 1 reply out if 5 ain't that bad but it was a wink lol

Wheres mine? "

He wouldn't be able to send me one as he's too young for me. Check your filters in case you have denied him entry.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

Am I the only one wanting this sexy god? Surely not lol

You...mister are a serious tease!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Am I the only one wanting this sexy god? Surely not lol

You...mister are a serious tease! "

Lol I need to change my name asap

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Am I the only one wanting this sexy god? Surely not lol

You...mister are a serious tease! "

Bambi, haven't you persuaded him to join you at the social yet? You're slipping, my dear.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Am I the only one wanting this sexy god? Surely not lol

You...mister are a serious tease!

Lol I need to change my name asap "

Mmmmm we all would like to know what it will be!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Am I the only one wanting this sexy god? Surely not lol

You...mister are a serious tease!

Lol I need to change my name asap

Mmmmm we all would like to know what it will be! "

TattooTemptation

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Am I the only one wanting this sexy god? Surely not lol

You...mister are a serious tease!

Lol I need to change my name asap

Mmmmm we all would like to know what it will be!

TattooTemptation"

I'm tempted by your...tatoos Good choice of name x

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