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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are women put off by being with a guy who has zero experience? Or are they put off by my age? Or both?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

they can't see your profile so that might be a start...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't tell your age as your profile is hidden but I assume you're very young so at my age, Id be put off by both.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oops didnt even realise

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ah, so most older women are put off by the age factor? What if i was 10 years older and still a virgin?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Oops didnt even realise "

welcome & good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can you be a swinger if you still a virgin?

guess some people's definition of swinging is different to others.

Could say alot in response to this thread but won't. It's Sunday so gonna chill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah, so most older women are put off by the age factor? What if i was 10 years older and still a virgin? "

Well I'm 49 and you're 18 so that's a huge age gap. I would probably take the Virgin bit off your profile title though. Get chatting to women and be patient. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you might just be a tick box experience for some

others might like your appeal because your brand new fresh meat

others might genuinely be attracted to you because they fancy you and are attracted to you.

i wish you luck. there are A LOT of men to chose from so i hope your USP does you well

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Theres no written definition of what a swinger is? Regardless, its personal choice dont ya think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah, so most older women are put off by the age factor? What if i was 10 years older and still a virgin? "

But you're not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm no lady,,,,, but if you've got a really big cock 'd be willing to pretend you're much older than you are....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You think? Haha i thought it might put people off tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are women put off by being with a guy who has zero experience? Or are they put off by my age? Or both? "

I would say both, plus the fact you cant accommodate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was thinkinh that too! The ratio of men to women on here is crazy!! Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Unfortunately? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol but surely some people are attracted to yunger guys? And the accomodation is a bit of a problem..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are women put off by being with a guy who has zero experience? Or are they put off by my age? Or both?

I would say both, plus the fact you cant accommodate "

You don't accommodate and neither do I so I can't see why that would put people off the OP any more than anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just a usefull tip.. when replying to a specific comment in the forum use the 'reply & quote' button.. thats found underneath the comment text

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im at a major disadvantage this site lol, might come back in 2 years when i have some experience and my own place

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"just a usefull tip.. when replying to a specific comment in the forum use the 'reply & quote' button.. thats found underneath the comment text "

Oh damn, sorry i was just clicking reply in forum thinking i was reply to each person individually, thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Theres no written definition of what a swinger is? Regardless, its personal choice dont ya think? "

Both Google and Wiki give definitions.

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Theres no written definition of what a swinger is? Regardless, its personal choice dont ya think?

Both Google and Wiki give definitions.

Gimp"

Someones a bit touchy! If youve got nothing nice to say, keep it to yourself thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're 18 ffs go out with friends, meet a nice girl and if you both like each other, then go for it, in my opinion, a swingers site isn't the place to lose your virginity, come back in a few years when you have experience and are older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Theres no written definition of what a swinger is? Regardless, its personal choice dont ya think?

Both Google and Wiki give definitions.

Gimp

Someones a bit touchy! If youve got nothing nice to say, keep it to yourself thanks "

Oh yes sorry, Your a wonderful polite young man and i'm sure that you will get on very well while you are here...Better ?.

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Theres no written definition of what a swinger is? Regardless, its personal choice dont ya think?

Both Google and Wiki give definitions.

Gimp

Gimp? Haha good one

Someones a bit touchy! If youve got nothing nice to say, keep it to yourself thanks

Oh yes sorry, Your a wonderful polite young man and i'm sure that you will get on very well while you are here...Better ?.

Gimp"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Total put off for me in bith ways im only 29 and i find 18 too young as i have a nephew thats 18. I'm also here to enjoy myself and I wont be able to do that with soneone with no experience as id have to 'teach' them so to speak. Finally, I can rarely accomodate due to having children that dont stay out often so i only usually meet guys that can accomodate themselves. That bern said just because its not my thing doesnt mean you wont appeal to others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Theres no written definition of what a swinger is? Regardless, its personal choice dont ya think?

Both Google and Wiki give definitions.

Gimp

Someones a bit touchy! If youve got nothing nice to say, keep it to yourself thanks "

Hey, hey there Spunky youth,,,,,,

don't make things personal ....

You ended a previous post with a question mark! so you have to accept that people will reply with an answer even if its not the answer you want,,,

Don't lash out at people for doing so,,

Just try and enjoy the forum for what it is,,,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're 18 ffs go out with friends, meet a nice girl and if you both like each other, then go for it, in my opinion, a swingers site isn't the place to lose your virginity, come back in a few years when you have experience and are older"

Already tried the dating route throughout my teenage years, doesnt seem to work for me for some reason can make friends on here too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 and a Virgin and your on a swinging site?

Get out in the real world and meet people of your age.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Theres no written definition of what a swinger is? Regardless, its personal choice dont ya think?

Both Google and Wiki give definitions.

Gimp

Someones a bit touchy! If youve got nothing nice to say, keep it to yourself thanks

Hey, hey there Spunky youth,,,,,,

don't make things personal ....

You ended a previous post with a question mark! so you have to accept that people will reply with an answer even if its not the answer you want,,,

Don't lash out at people for doing so,,

Just try and enjoy the forum for what it is,,, "

Sorry i wasnt lashing, just thought there was no reason to call me a gimp??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Total put off for me in bith ways im only 29 and i find 18 too young as i have a nephew thats 18. I'm also here to enjoy myself and I wont be able to do that with soneone with no experience as id have to 'teach' them so to speak. Finally, I can rarely accomodate due to having children that dont stay out often so i only usually meet guys that can accomodate themselves. That bern said just because its not my thing doesnt mean you wont appeal to others."
yeah i definitely see where youre coming from! Most people prefer slightly older men due to having nephews etc. The same age, and hopefully get my own place soon lol

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

There is someone here for everyone mate, it just may take you a bit of time to find them.

Welcome and good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"18 and a Virgin and your on a swinging site?

Get out in the real world and meet people of your age."

I do try my best to but it doesnt seem to work, im on here to make friends too? Is it a bad idea?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Theres no written definition of what a swinger is? Regardless, its personal choice dont ya think?

Both Google and Wiki give definitions.

Gimp

Someones a bit touchy! If youve got nothing nice to say, keep it to yourself thanks

Hey, hey there Spunky youth,,,,,,

don't make things personal ....

You ended a previous post with a question mark! so you have to accept that people will reply with an answer even if its not the answer you want,,,

Don't lash out at people for doing so,,

Just try and enjoy the forum for what it is,,,

Sorry i wasnt lashing, just thought there was no reason to call me a gimp??"

Its a common mistake lad, you will find a lot of couples will sign their name or initial to be clear on who is typing at the time.

Gimp is me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Theres no written definition of what a swinger is? Regardless, its personal choice dont ya think?

Both Google and Wiki give definitions.

Gimp

Someones a bit touchy! If youve got nothing nice to say, keep it to yourself thanks

Hey, hey there Spunky youth,,,,,,

don't make things personal ....

You ended a previous post with a question mark! so you have to accept that people will reply with an answer even if its not the answer you want,,,

Don't lash out at people for doing so,,

Just try and enjoy the forum for what it is,,,

Sorry i wasnt lashing, just thought there was no reason to call me a gimp??"

He wasn't calling you a gimp, he was signing off his post!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Theres no written definition of what a swinger is? Regardless, its personal choice dont ya think?

Both Google and Wiki give definitions.

Gimp

Someones a bit touchy! If youve got nothing nice to say, keep it to yourself thanks

Hey, hey there Spunky youth,,,,,,

don't make things personal ....

You ended a previous post with a question mark! so you have to accept that people will reply with an answer even if its not the answer you want,,,

Don't lash out at people for doing so,,

Just try and enjoy the forum for what it is,,,

Sorry i wasnt lashing, just thought there was no reason to call me a gimp??"

haha,,, ah ok.... easy mistake to make....

But honestly you weren't being called a gimp....

Some people simply choose sign their posts...

Sox

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There is someone here for everyone mate, it just may take you a bit of time to find them.

Welcome and good luck. "

Cheers mate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're 18 ffs go out with friends, meet a nice girl and if you both like each other, then go for it, in my opinion, a swingers site isn't the place to lose your virginity, come back in a few years when you have experience and are older

Already tried the dating route throughout my teenage years, doesnt seem to work for me for some reason can make friends on here too?"

Try a dating site, try harder in the real world, failing both, a prostitute? I don't really know what else to suggest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Theres no written definition of what a swinger is? Regardless, its personal choice dont ya think?

Both Google and Wiki give definitions.

Gimp

Someones a bit touchy! If youve got nothing nice to say, keep it to yourself thanks

Hey, hey there Spunky youth,,,,,,

don't make things personal ....

You ended a previous post with a question mark! so you have to accept that people will reply with an answer even if its not the answer you want,,,

Don't lash out at people for doing so,,

Just try and enjoy the forum for what it is,,,

Sorry i wasnt lashing, just thought there was no reason to call me a gimp??

haha,,, ah ok.... easy mistake to make....

But honestly you weren't being called a gimp....

Some people simply choose sign their posts...

Sox

"

Oh right lol i understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry i wasnt lashing, just thought there was no reason to call me a gimp??"

He wasn't calling you a gimp, he signs off his posts as Gimp lol but you've only been here a week so you wouldn't know that. Good luck on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're 18 ffs go out with friends, meet a nice girl and if you both like each other, then go for it, in my opinion, a swingers site isn't the place to lose your virginity, come back in a few years when you have experience and are older

Already tried the dating route throughout my teenage years, doesnt seem to work for me for some reason can make friends on here too?

Try a dating site, try harder in the real world, failing both, a prostitute? I don't really know what else to suggest"

Sorry but if i have to pay for it, it isnt for me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry i wasnt lashing, just thought there was no reason to call me a gimp??

He wasn't calling you a gimp, he signs off his posts as Gimp lol but you've only been here a week so you wouldn't know that. Good luck on here "

Oh i look like an idiot! I apologise gimp, sorry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"18 and a Virgin and your on a swinging site?

Get out in the real world and meet people of your age.

I do try my best to but it doesnt seem to work, im on here to make friends too? Is it a bad idea?"

If you can't make friends in the real world at your age, then maybe you need to work at that a little... Go out and socialise!

Oh and your age and being a Virgin would definaly put me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is not the best place to look for your first time !! Most women on here have limited time and a huge choice of men ..... They are here for their own needs and unfortunately for you good sex usually comes with experience and in answer to your question , both your age and the fact that you are a virgin would put me off.... Good luck though Hx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Theres no written definition of what a swinger is? Regardless, its personal choice dont ya think?

Both Google and Wiki give definitions.

Gimp

Someones a bit touchy! If youve got nothing nice to say, keep it to yourself thanks

Hey, hey there Spunky youth,,,,,,

don't make things personal ....

You ended a previous post with a question mark! so you have to accept that people will reply with an answer even if its not the answer you want,,,

Don't lash out at people for doing so,,

Just try and enjoy the forum for what it is,,,

Sorry i wasnt lashing, just thought there was no reason to call me a gimp??

Its a common mistake lad, you will find a lot of couples will sign their name or initial to be clear on who is typing at the time.

Gimp is me "

I apologise haha, i thought i was being called gimp

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"You're 18 ffs go out with friends, meet a nice girl and if you both like each other, then go for it, in my opinion, a swingers site isn't the place to lose your virginity, come back in a few years when you have experience and are older

Already tried the dating route throughout my teenage years, doesnt seem to work for me for some reason can make friends on here too?

Try a dating site, try harder in the real world, failing both, a prostitute? I don't really know what else to suggest"

How is paying for his first time ant better than trying to find someone on here to lose his virginity to??

OP I do find it odd that people choose a swinging site to try and pop their cherry. I personally don't think I would knowingly go with someone that is a virgin.

As for dates not working out for you, what makes you think this site will be any easier? You still need to find someone you like and hope they like you enough to let you put your willy inside them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both and even in 2 years time, if you came back then as you said, it wouldn't make a difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're 18 ffs go out with friends, meet a nice girl and if you both like each other, then go for it, in my opinion, a swingers site isn't the place to lose your virginity, come back in a few years when you have experience and are older

Already tried the dating route throughout my teenage years, doesnt seem to work for me for some reason can make friends on here too?

Try a dating site, try harder in the real world, failing both, a prostitute? I don't really know what else to suggest

How is paying for his first time ant better than trying to find someone on here to lose his virginity to??

OP I do find it odd that people choose a swinging site to try and pop their cherry. I personally don't think I would knowingly go with someone that is a virgin.

As for dates not working out for you, what makes you think this site will be any easier? You still need to find someone you like and hope they like you enough to let you put your willy inside them "

It was just a suggestion if he was wanting to lose it soon, but he's got his head screwed on and glad he said no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a few that would jump your bones, but alas I'm unsure wether you'd live to tell the tale!?

18 is pretty young to be on a site like this.. It can be hard enough for the experienced among us, let alone an 18 yr old virgin, but if its your choice. Maybe try chatting having fun... Get out to some socials..You never know what's round the corner. Start fun threads perhaps, maybe not one advertising that you are an 18 year old virgin. I wish you luck in your quest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know a few that would jump your bones, but alas I'm unsure wether you'd live to tell the tale!?

18 is pretty young to be on a site like this.. It can be hard enough for the experienced among us, let alone an 18 yr old virgin, but if its your choice. Maybe try chatting having fun... Get out to some socials..You never know what's round the corner. Start fun threads perhaps, maybe not one advertising that you are an 18 year old virgin. I wish you luck in your quest "

Better to be honest eh! Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're 18 ffs go out with friends, meet a nice girl and if you both like each other, then go for it, in my opinion, a swingers site isn't the place to lose your virginity, come back in a few years when you have experience and are older

Already tried the dating route throughout my teenage years, doesnt seem to work for me for some reason can make friends on here too?

Try a dating site, try harder in the real world, failing both, a prostitute? I don't really know what else to suggest

How is paying for his first time ant better than trying to find someone on here to lose his virginity to??

OP I do find it odd that people choose a swinging site to try and pop their cherry. I personally don't think I would knowingly go with someone that is a virgin.

As for dates not working out for you, what makes you think this site will be any easier? You still need to find someone you like and hope they like you enough to let you put your willy inside them

It was just a suggestion if he was wanting to lose it soon, but he's got his head screwed on and glad he said no"
defintely would never pay for it lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're 18 ffs go out with friends, meet a nice girl and if you both like each other, then go for it, in my opinion, a swingers site isn't the place to lose your virginity, come back in a few years when you have experience and are older

Already tried the dating route throughout my teenage years, doesnt seem to work for me for some reason can make friends on here too?

Try a dating site, try harder in the real world, failing both, a prostitute? I don't really know what else to suggest

How is paying for his first time ant better than trying to find someone on here to lose his virginity to??

OP I do find it odd that people choose a swinging site to try and pop their cherry. I personally don't think I would knowingly go with someone that is a virgin.

As for dates not working out for you, what makes you think this site will be any easier? You still need to find someone you like and hope they like you enough to let you put your willy inside them "
true, although im not desperate so i can wait

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is not the best place to look for your first time !! Most women on here have limited time and a huge choice of men ..... They are here for their own needs and unfortunately for you good sex usually comes with experience and in answer to your question , both your age and the fact that you are a virgin would put me off.... Good luck though Hx"
thank you, i guess uts a reocurring theme lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're 18 ffs go out with friends, meet a nice girl and if you both like each other, then go for it, in my opinion, a swingers site isn't the place to lose your virginity, come back in a few years when you have experience and are older

Already tried the dating route throughout my teenage years, doesnt seem to work for me for some reason can make friends on here too?

Try a dating site, try harder in the real world, failing both, a prostitute? I don't really know what else to suggest

How is paying for his first time ant better than trying to find someone on here to lose his virginity to??

OP I do find it odd that people choose a swinging site to try and pop their cherry. I personally don't think I would knowingly go with someone that is a virgin.

As for dates not working out for you, what makes you think this site will be any easier? You still need to find someone you like and hope they like you enough to let you put your willy inside them

It was just a suggestion if he was wanting to lose it soon, but he's got his head screwed on and glad he said no defintely would never pay for it lol"

Good man! I'm holding a social in bury in July if you want to come? You'll meet people and you'll get a few veri's

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're 18 ffs go out with friends, meet a nice girl and if you both like each other, then go for it, in my opinion, a swingers site isn't the place to lose your virginity, come back in a few years when you have experience and are older

Already tried the dating route throughout my teenage years, doesnt seem to work for me for some reason can make friends on here too?

Try a dating site, try harder in the real world, failing both, a prostitute? I don't really know what else to suggest

How is paying for his first time ant better than trying to find someone on here to lose his virginity to??

OP I do find it odd that people choose a swinging site to try and pop their cherry. I personally don't think I would knowingly go with someone that is a virgin.

As for dates not working out for you, what makes you think this site will be any easier? You still need to find someone you like and hope they like you enough to let you put your willy inside them

It was just a suggestion if he was wanting to lose it soon, but he's got his head screwed on and glad he said no defintely would never pay for it lol

Good man! I'm holding a social in bury in July if you want to come? You'll meet people and you'll get a few veri's "
sounds good to me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think the wisest decision sould be for me to leave the site and get myself out there in the real world as many of you have said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the wisest decision sould be for me to leave the site and get myself out there in the real world as many of you have said "

Think so

Can I be brutally honest?

This thread just came across as.

I am desperate for a shag, I know I will go on a swingers site as all the women on there will be slags.

Which is kinda the vibe we as a couple get from lots of guys be they 18 or 80

That may not have been your intention but at 18. There is a massive world outthere with endless possibilities and opportunities.life lessons to be learned, love to be won and lost.

It's not just about sex

If you want to break your cherry and that's all that matters go to a prostitute.

But you will regret it later in life.

Live and love and if you still find swinging appealing later on pop back and say hello.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think the wisest decision sould be for me to leave the site and get myself out there in the real world as many of you have said

Think so

Can I be brutally honest?

This thread just came across as.

I am desperate for a shag, I know I will go on a swingers site as all the women on there will be slags.

Which is kinda the vibe we as a couple get from lots of guys be they 18 or 80

That may not have been your intention but at 18. There is a massive world outthere with endless possibilities and opportunities.life lessons to be learned, love to be won and lost.

It's not just about sex

If you want to break your cherry and that's all that matters go to a prostitute.

But you will regret it later in life.

Live and love and if you still find swinging appealing later on pop back and say hello.

"

Im not desperate for a shag, i would generally like to know the person for a bit regardless of the fact that i have met them on a swingers site, but hey ho i think youre right! Its a hufe world out thers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP

You won't have it easy here.

Your youth will discount you to many if not the majority.

Your lack of sexual experience will discount you to even more.

There will be other things about you that will also discount you for others.

BUT !

There are gonna be some that will chat with you with a _iew to meeting. Not shagging, meeting.

Those chats and meets are your window of opportunity to demonstrate why they should meet you.

Before you get there however yoh need to work on your profile and dare I say it, on your ability to communicate effectively away from the security that being behind a pc screen offers.

When I met JN he was 18, a good 8 or 9 years below my minimum age criteria but what started off a simple 'like' of 1 of my pics developed because he showed maturity beyond his years and it was obvious that despite the age gap we did have quite a bit in common.

Like you, he was a virgin and the idea of taking that from him that I did consider greatly.

It was not a turn on or a kink for me to do so.

We met several times socially b4 it did happen and when it did, we had both accepted the idea after much discussion and consideration.

So there you go, whilst what you seek is not gonna be widely attractive to many here, it is not impossible.

The key here may lie in the fact I do not have kids ... so did not therefore have that emotional consideration to factor in.

Good Luck on the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP

You won't have it easy here.

Your youth will discount you to many if not the majority.

Your lack of sexual experience will discount you to even more.

There will be other things about you that will also discount you for others.

BUT !

There are gonna be some that will chat with you with a _iew to meeting. Not shagging, meeting.

Those chats and meets are your window of opportunity to demonstrate why they should meet you.

Before you get there however yoh need to work on your profile and dare I say it, on your ability to communicate effectively away from the security that being behind a pc screen offers.

When I met JN he was 18, a good 8 or 9 years below my minimum age criteria but what started off a simple 'like' of 1 of my pics developed because he showed maturity beyond his years and it was obvious that despite the age gap we did have quite a bit in common.

Like you, he was a virgin and the idea of taking that from him that I did consider greatly.

It was not a turn on or a kink for me to do so.

We met several times socially b4 it did happen and when it did, we had both accepted the idea after much discussion and consideration.

So there you go, whilst what you seek is not gonna be widely attractive to many here, it is not impossible.

The key here may lie in the fact I do not have kids ... so did not therefore have that emotional consideration to factor in.

Good Luck on the site "

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a virgin, shall I put a meet up to get ruined

Her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP

You won't have it easy here.

Your youth will discount you to many if not the majority.

Your lack of sexual experience will discount you to even more.

There will be other things about you that will also discount you for others.

BUT !

There are gonna be some that will chat with you with a _iew to meeting. Not shagging, meeting.

Those chats and meets are your window of opportunity to demonstrate why they should meet you.

Before you get there however yoh need to work on your profile and dare I say it, on your ability to communicate effectively away from the security that being behind a pc screen offers.

When I met JN he was 18, a good 8 or 9 years below my minimum age criteria but what started off a simple 'like' of 1 of my pics developed because he showed maturity beyond his years and it was obvious that despite the age gap we did have quite a bit in common.

Like you, he was a virgin and the idea of taking that from him that I did consider greatly.

It was not a turn on or a kink for me to do so.

We met several times socially b4 it did happen and when it did, we had both accepted the idea after much discussion and consideration.

So there you go, whilst what you seek is not gonna be widely attractive to many here, it is not impossible.

The key here may lie in the fact I do not have kids ... so did not therefore have that emotional consideration to factor in.

Good Luck on the site "

Aw thankyou for you long answer! I shall take into consideration what you have said, thankyou xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a virgin, shall I put a meet up to get ruined

Her"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dwane dibley?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"dwane dibley?"

Lol brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Theres no written definition of what a swinger is? Regardless, its personal choice dont ya think?

Both Google and Wiki give definitions.

Gimp

Someones a bit touchy! If youve got nothing nice to say, keep it to yourself thanks

Hey, hey there Spunky youth,,,,,,

don't make things personal ....

You ended a previous post with a question mark! so you have to accept that people will reply with an answer even if its not the answer you want,,,

Don't lash out at people for doing so,,

Just try and enjoy the forum for what it is,,,

Sorry i wasnt lashing, just thought there was no reason to call me a gimp??

Its a common mistake lad, you will find a lot of couples will sign their name or initial to be clear on who is typing at the time.

Gimp is me "

Haha brilliant!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes people.gimp has.had.my pants.down and.made.me.look.a.right.mug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes people.gimp has.had.my pants.down and.made.me.look.a.right.mug"

Wishful thinking young Man

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes people.gimp has.had.my pants.down and.made.me.look.a.right.mug"

Too young looking and profile still hidden anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes people.gimp has.had.my pants.down and.made.me.look.a.right.mug"

Not at all. Good luck babes :-*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes people.gimp has.had.my pants.down and.made.me.look.a.right.mug

Not at all. Good luck babes :-* "

Thanks lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes people.gimp has.had.my pants.down and.made.me.look.a.right.mug

Too young looking and profile still hidden anyway "

To save meself from further embarrassment

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

If you were a girl you would have lost your virginity 69posts earlier and be the busiest girl in town

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you were a girl you would have lost your virginity 69posts earlier and be the busiest girl in town "

Exactly ehat i thought mate!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive thought about it amd i think the best decision is for me to leave thr site and get out there in the real worldd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every now and then the I'm a virgin thread appears. It's always started by a young man. Am I the only one who thinks this is a way of trying to find a woman who will offer to take said virginity. Does it ever work ?

Good luck OP. I'm sure you'll find what you're after, even if it's not here. You have youth on your side, take advantage of it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Every now and then the I'm a virgin thread appears. It's always started by a young man. Am I the only one who thinks this is a way of trying to find a woman who will offer to take said virginity. Does it ever work ?

Good luck OP. I'm sure you'll find what you're after, even if it's not here. You have youth on your side, take advantage of it. "
will do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to college/work/school put yourself out thereand meet new people. It wasnt until I met met my sons dad that I took his virginity and we were in same college classes for a year - took him that to talk to me then one day he asked for my number and thats us 4.5years on and off. He was 21 at the time and was the same as you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive thought about it amd i think the best decision is for me to leave thr site and get out there in the real worldd "

If you're still reading then good luck and I hope it all works out for you xx

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