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By *ire_blade OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Do you find no matter how you try to leave it all behind at times your put in a place that gives you no choice and you have to go back there

Bit cryptic I no but needs must

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No, I leave it behind me. Once someone/something is dead to me, that is it.

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By *ire_blade OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"No, I leave it behind me. Once someone/something is dead to me, that is it.

"

Not that kind of past as I said bit cryptic sorry

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Let sleeping dogs lie.... Is the only way! If a person allows the past to dictate then the future will always be tainted

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

some things just have to be let go .. i try to remember the best bits ... like the willy nelson song ..

to all the girls i loved before

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I try to, but I'm wanted in 47 states for crimes I didn't commit. I've also escaped a military stockade. I only dress to evade Decker and that reporter youth from the Incredible Hulk.

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By *ire_blade OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Not meaning a relationship kind of past. I mean the type of person you used to be an things you used to do

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i used to be boring ... no one from my past would believe how ive changed lol

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"Not meaning a relationship kind of past. I mean the type of person you used to be an things you used to do"
well whatever in the past, be it relationships, how people once were etc, its all about living and learning, and moving in the direction that you now choose. Yeap can be done. Deffinatly! choices, decisions and the right mind set oh and focus!

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By *econdhand RoseWoman
over a year ago

Nr Dumfries

I believe there are always choices though sometimes the right one may be the hardest to choose.

I also believe that everything in our past shapes us to the person we are today. I believe we should never forget that. Sometimes we can move on but sometimes things in the past have to be dealt with so that your future can continue in peace.

Stay strong and you'll recognise the right decisions when they are put in front of you.

xx

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

My past gets dragged up by others I tend to leave the past in the past

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I've worked bloody hard for 10 years doing CBT to leave my past where it belongs. Firmly in the past

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

im not proud of my past its others that don't forget

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Do you find no matter how you try to leave it all behind at times your put in a place that gives you no choice and you have to go back there

Bit cryptic I no but needs must "

No. There are always choices and as an adult you've gotta take responsibility for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you find no matter how you try to leave it all behind at times your put in a place that gives you no choice and you have to go back there

Bit cryptic I no but needs must "

Some things can vanish and never appear again. Some things, however are with you forever no matter how hard you try to shake them.

Hope you're alright mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a simple attitude towards things like this:

Fuck it

Brush it off. Don't dwell, make your own life as you see fit.

If anyone says anything about you that winds you up then fuck em. They're not worth knowing.

Chin up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a friend of mine says all the time ........ Fuck um ! If people don't let things go Its their prob not yours !!!! Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The past is the past and I ent ment to last ...........if people are always looking in the past they miss what's going off in the present n future .........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I leave it behind me. Once someone/something is dead to me, that is it.

Not that kind of past as I said bit cryptic sorry "

Bladey I get what you mean. I hope everything is ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's never nice to have to change back to the person you were before, usually it's to help someone else, my advice would be stay away from the people who keep bringing back the old you if you can

All the best to you buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no point going there really.

Dwelling and becoming bitter if its that bad, can change you as a person, unable to move on.

And often the future then can suffer the concequences.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only I could go back! I'd be young free and definately wouldn't have met my shit of an ex yet...and with hindsight I'd tell him to eff right off!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If only I could go back! I'd be young free and definately wouldn't have met my shit of an ex yet...and with hindsight I'd tell him to eff right off!!! "

Were we an item?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

There is one thing in my past I would change but at that time it was the right thing....today I know it was the wrong thing

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By *ire_blade OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Thanks to all even though only 1 or 2 have got my meaning but guess that was intensional and thanks to my friends for the pms I wish I could explain further but that's not posable

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"No, I leave it behind me. Once someone/something is dead to me, that is it.

"

Wish it was so easy. When you have kids with someone like me you are always entwined in a way.

For the ex's I didn't recreate with? I forget them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you find no matter how you try to leave it all behind at times your put in a place that gives you no choice and you have to go back there

Bit cryptic I no but needs must "

A man on a journey that only looks where he has been will surely fall down a well and drown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you find no matter how you try to leave it all behind at times your put in a place that gives you no choice and you have to go back there

Bit cryptic I no but needs must

A man on a journey that only looks where he has been will surely fall down a well and drown "

Do you have many open wells down there ?

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to put the past behind me unfortunately I'm not strong enough to turn my back on my mother

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