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By *ogue78 OP   Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

yes, I know, this has been done to death, but seriously, is there actually any difference at all between men in a relationship, and a woman being in an relationship and both being on here for same thing???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes..one has a fanny

simple ffs!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Cheating? Or on here with knowledge and consent of their partner?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

there is no difference from me, they can both choose to do as they wish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no difference .

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By *ogue78 OP   Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I meant as in both either cheating or not!

it always seems to be more frowned upon as a male in a relationship, as opposed to a female doing the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheating? Or on here with knowledge and consent of their partner? "

dull tone

"profile says yes"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no difference but it [mostly] seems to be men that are in relationships / married who start threads about no luck or not getting meets.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I meant as in both either cheating or not!

it always seems to be more frowned upon as a male in a relationship, as opposed to a female doing the same."

the power of the vagina and the strong desire for FFM

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"yes, I know, this has been done to death, but seriously, is there actually any difference at all between men in a relationship, and a woman being in an relationship and both being on here for same thing???

"

No. If they are cheating, they are cheating.

However, men seem more willing to meet cheating women than women are to meet cheating men. Whether that's to do with morals or differences in supply and demand or something else entirely, I'm not sure.

Also women seem to post fewer defensive posts along the lines of 'I'm cheating but people shouldn't judge me and should still meet me'.

I don't think, personally, there's any difference in terms of 'rightness' or 'wrongness'.

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By *bacusMan
over a year ago

Walton on Thames


"I meant as in both either cheating or not!

it always seems to be more frowned upon as a male in a relationship, as opposed to a female doing the same.

the power of the vagina and the strong desire for FFM"

My desire for MMF is quite strong too

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I meant as in both either cheating or not!

it always seems to be more frowned upon as a male in a relationship, as opposed to a female doing the same.

the power of the vagina and the strong desire for FFM

My desire for MMF is quite strong too "

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its may be that people expect men to cheat because they are like stallions where as if its a woman thats doing the same thing its because her partner spends too much time in the pub with his mates or isnt much of a man and cant keep her satisfied in the bedroom.

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By *ogue78 OP   Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"There is no difference but it [mostly] seems to be men that are in relationships / married who start threads about no luck or not getting meets. "

I'm not starting this thread due to no luck, was here before under a previous name for about two years.

I'm here purely for research for writing etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meant as in both either cheating or not!

it always seems to be more frowned upon as a male in a relationship, as opposed to a female doing the same.

the power of the vagina and the strong desire for FFM

My desire for MMF is quite strong too "

MMmmmmm desire, strong for MMf with us...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no difference but it [mostly] seems to be men that are in relationships / married who start threads about no luck or not getting meets.

I'm not starting this thread due to no luck, was here before under a previous name for about two years.

I'm here purely for research for writing etc "

and for seeing who might meet for a fuck lol

best retain the honesty lol

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By *ogue78 OP   Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"There is no difference but it [mostly] seems to be men that are in relationships / married who start threads about no luck or not getting meets.

I'm not starting this thread due to no luck, was here before under a previous name for about two years.

I'm here purely for research for writing etc

and for seeing who might meet for a fuck lol

best retain the honesty lol"

I'm not going to lie, hence on my profile, but that is an aside to it

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"There is no difference but it [mostly] seems to be men that are in relationships / married who start threads about no luck or not getting meets.

I'm not starting this thread due to no luck, was here before under a previous name for about two years.

I'm here purely for research for writing etc

and for seeing who might meet for a fuck lol

best retain the honesty lol

I'm not going to lie, hence on my profile, but that is an aside to it "

Erm...

You aren't going to lie to a bunch of strangers on a swinging site.... but you lie to the new partner in your life?

Now, while I struggle to get my head around that... to the topic at hand... male or female, cheating is cheating, simples.

Honesty is very important to us, so if you are lying to your partner about what you get up to, and lying on your profile (most do, kudos to you for being honest about being in a relationship), then we don't want to be involved.

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By *ogue78 OP   Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

sorry, did I mention once that my partner doesn't know??

she does, and knows that it's for research.

she has seen my profile too.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"sorry, did I mention once that my partner doesn't know??

she does, and knows that it's for research.

she has seen my profile too."

You shag people for research?

Wow... I want a job like that lol!

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By *ogue78 OP   Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"sorry, did I mention once that my partner doesn't know??

she does, and knows that it's for research.

she has seen my profile too.

You shag people for research?

Wow... I want a job like that lol! "

not shag lol, I'm researching kinks and stories for a novel

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"There is no difference ."

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"sorry, did I mention once that my partner doesn't know??

she does, and knows that it's for research.

she has seen my profile too.

You shag people for research?

Wow... I want a job like that lol!

not shag lol, I'm researching kinks and stories for a novel "

So, the bit where you say something along the lines of... if you get the opportunity, you want something more than just chat? Thats not asking for sex then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a turn on. Being a guinea pig for someone writing a book

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes..one has a fanny

simple ffs!"

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