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By *ert69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Shropshire

Why do people look at you but don't say anything?

How would you no someone just by looking at them???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at hundreds of profiles. I couldn't possibly say hello to all if them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because someone looked at you doesn't automatically mean they want to start a conversation with you. They might have looked and decided you're not there type. Don't get hung up on the who's looked at me page, it'll drive you to distraction

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

they don't know that you are maybe not for them unless they look.......

and vice versa... do you write to every profile you look at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't know if you're interested until you look and if you aren't interested then why would you message? Pretty sure no one messages everyone they look at.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Why do people look at you but don't say anything?

How would you no someone just by looking at them???

"

We look at loads of profiles and never message - what we see is enough sometimes! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Window shopping if you see something you would like to try on you have a second look maybe a third if your lucky 4th time you know its in the bag !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look if people look at me. They dont message so I obviously dont do it for them, so why would I message them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos most who look at us are either men or tvs lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey mate

It's not like a greengrocers - if you touch it you buy it.

You can window shop on here and peruse the profiles. However, some windows should be boarded up though, all being said.

SU

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get lots of people looking and saying nothing, Maybe it's the Necrophilia as a preference that scares them off

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they didnt like what they seen

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've just had a look, noticed that you were straight, so no need to send a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just wank over the pictures.

What ? Just being honest.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"We get lots of people looking and saying nothing, Maybe it's the Necrophilia as a preference that scares them off

Gimp"

That was dead funny...

I make a point of messaging every single person who looks at my profile. Takes me about 30 seconds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at loads but nobody knows

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By *ing and RideCouple
over a year ago

stockport

It's the people who look who have hidden their profile that gets my goat.....we have had the same woman look several times but always hidden. Hey oh that's probably the way some people roll.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look and read profile sometimes I say hi other times I pass by. Profiles have to tempt you to want to say hi. No temptation in the words people assume no temptation in reality.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Why do people look at you but don't say anything?

"

Did nobody ever say to you "if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything"?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Why do people look at you but don't say anything?

How would you no someone just by looking at them???

"

I know who I don't want to meet by looking at them. No point in messaging them really, is there?

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

Because they don't like the look of you

Everyone gets that some more than others but who really cares

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By *ert69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Shropshire


"Cos most who look at us are either men or tvs lol."
or couples you have not looking for single males on profile too lmbbo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a bit of window shopping. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just wank over the pictures.

What ? Just being honest. "

Now you tell me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just wank over the pictures.

What ? Just being honest.

Now you tell me! "

Ha!! You've been thinking we were chatting?? The things I've done to you lol

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I have a perv back they just don't know lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want to get to know somebody that I just don't fancy. If the attraction is not there. I move on instantly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a perv back they just don't know lol "

I knew it!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just wank over the pictures.

What ? Just being honest.

Now you tell me!

Ha!! You've been thinking we were chatting?? The things I've done to you lol"

Well I didn't even notice, so you can't be that good

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Just window shopping, without opening ya purse!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had to block a guy who pestered us after looking at his profile without sending him a message. He kept on asking what was wrong with his profile and then accused us of being rude for not replying. It's not us to say what to have on it!

We now go incognito

P

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Imagine the avalanch of messages some of us would get, if every browser sent one. It is mayhem for many already, without pointless twaddle adding in to the overload. I will speak to strangers in the street, out of courtesy, but it is not needed in fab. If anyone is feeling in need of a chat, and a little too needy, then ask for help.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Blimey mate

It's not like a greengrocers - if you touch it you buy it.

You can window shop on here and peruse the profiles. However, some windows should be boarded up though, all being said.

SU "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can't send a message each time I chech out a profile, some get upset at 60 messages a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are shy I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take it that the ones who've looked and not sent a message are the ones who've actually read my profile!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I take it that the ones who've looked and not sent a message are the ones who've actually read my profile! "
You're not that bad...are ya?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I take it that the ones who've looked and not sent a message are the ones who've actually read my profile! You're not that bad...are ya? "

He's worse!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I take it that the ones who've looked and not sent a message are the ones who've actually read my profile! You're not that bad...are ya?

He's worse! "

You're probably right

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"Why do people look at you but don't say anything?

How would you no someone just by looking at them???

"

Ehhhh..............as far as I know, there's no rule which says that having looked at a profile, you then have to message the person!

And having looked at your profile, and decided that you're not of interest to them for one reason or another, why should they spend/waste more time advising you of that fact?

I certainly don't want to hear from the stream of guys who look at my profile, I'm happily and 100% straight.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Jesus if I sent a message to every profile I looked at I would have to kill an online forest to make the internet paper for it!

What ever happened to morbid curiosity? Tut!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people look at you but don't say anything?

How would you no someone just by looking at them???

"

If they look but don't message it is a far indication they are not interested enough to make them send you a message. Is it that hard to understand?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you message every single profile you look at????

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