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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Our 10 year old daughter came in from school tonight and announced she wnts to cut off all her beautiful long hair in aid of The Little Princess Trust,she lost her best friend last year to cancer and she has raised quite a bit over the year doing various sponsors, but im in a quandary.I am so proud of what she has achieved and raised for her cancer charity but really don't want her to cut her hair,its really long and always been her pride and joy

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Awwww

Hair grows back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It'll come back tho'

What a selfless gesture from someone so young, you've every right to be proud.

2nd time today that I've heard such a lovely story.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Awwww

Hair grows back. "
I know but....if you know what I mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sounds to me like she is aware enough that she is making a sacrifice, so I would sit down, explain you are proud of her but discuss your reservations.

The decision will then lie flatly with her and if she decides it is coming off, support her.

On another note, to both of you for raising a socially and morally responsible child.

So many children are not afforded that luxury.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pride in actions trumps pride in appearance,,,

Your girls empathy is beauty beyond compare..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our 10 year old daughter came in from school tonight and announced she wnts to cut off all her beautiful long hair in aid of The Little Princess Trust,she lost her best friend last year to cancer and she has raised quite a bit over the year doing various sponsors, but im in a quandary.I am so proud of what she has achieved and raised for her cancer charity but really don't want her to cut her hair,its really long and always been her pride and joy "

What a lovely thing for her to do,hair grows back, u should allow her do it and be very proud of her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pride in actions trumps pride in appearance,,,

Your girls empathy is beauty beyond compare.. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mark is all for letting her do it , I guess its a woman thing me not wanting her to cut it , but I will allow it , just guess I want her to realise whats she's doing but for a 10 year old her views on life matters really surprise us at times,she's a very head strong child

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Be proud... Donating hair is an amazing thing to do. My mum had cancer and I know how much her wig mattered to her while she was going through treatment.

Whatever happens, sounds like your daughter has an amazing heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a lovely thing to do.

I suspect fundraising is a way of coping but understand your fear. Maybe tell her sget can but not for a few weeks so she can consider whethet she really wants to make such a huge sacrifice.

I'd be very proud too

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

How about suggesting a really unusual and in your face style for a week, with sponsorship?

It could be a compromise, either way, she's a credit to you both.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How about suggesting a really unusual and in your face style for a week, with sponsorship?

It could be a compromise, either way, she's a credit to you both. "
I suggested this already Tina but shes adamant she wants to donate her hair to make a wig

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You have a socially conscious daughter and should be proud. As above, explain your reservations but say you will support her decision. If she regrets her decision after, then it will be a life long lesson which may stand her in good stead for her future.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

She doesn't have to have it shaved and hair grows around six inches a year.

At ten this is an empowering act and will have resonance in her life for a long time - especially as a memorial for her friend. Ten is also an age where we begin to move on from childhood into the beginnings of pubescence. It may be that she is ready to cut her hair and begin a new stage of her life with a new look. That she can do this in a way that honours her friend and others who are struggling just shows a glimpse of the amazing woman she will eventually become.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"How about suggesting a really unusual and in your face style for a week, with sponsorship?

It could be a compromise, either way, she's a credit to you both. I suggested this already Tina but shes adamant she wants to donate her hair to make a wig"

then she isn't losing her hair...she's sharing it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How about suggesting a really unusual and in your face style for a week, with sponsorship?

It could be a compromise, either way, she's a credit to you both. I suggested this already Tina but shes adamant she wants to donate her hair to make a wig

then she isn't losing her hair...she's sharing it "
thank you,such lovely words x

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

My youngest daughter had her head shaved last year for cancer research. It was done in the middle of a field at a Summer fair and I fought to hold back the tears as it was done - she was 17 and a girl's hair is a very important asset. But I was also phenomenally proud. What a mixture of emotions!

Your little girl is very brave and selfless for wanting to do it - support her in that. And as someone said, her hair will grow back (and faster than you'd think)

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By *icked weaselCouple
over a year ago

Near Edinburgh..

Tell her she will look like a boy if she gets it shaved off..

Failing that - show her a picture of Britney spears going ape with the skinhead and an umbrella...

Only Joking folks.. She is doing a wonderful gesture and I hope she raises a lot of money..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our 10 year old daughter came in from school tonight and announced she wnts to cut off all her beautiful long hair in aid of The Little Princess Trust,she lost her best friend last year to cancer and she has raised quite a bit over the year doing various sponsors, but im in a quandary.I am so proud of what she has achieved and raised for her cancer charity but really don't want her to cut her hair,its really long and always been her pride and joy "

This is a lovely gesture for your daughter to make. Having lost her young friend is terrible. I have long hair too and not sure if I could cut or shave mine tbh. Not through selfishness but pure nerves. I lost my dad this way. Slightly swerving, the Carol Jackson story in Eastenders and other things I have seen recently in reality, have made me think id either crop my hair or shave it if it provides wigs for people. Anyway, waffling over, she sounds a sensible young girl so id let her do it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im going to let her im just nervous about it that's all , but she's braver than I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ill echo what so many people have said,what an absolutely wonderful thing to do

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

I dont like starting r i p threads but r i p to the young 19year old guy Thats died and raised all that money. .the poor guy was on tv apologising last week because he felt a wee bit better and some folk didn't like that .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our 10 year old daughter came in from school tonight and announced she wnts to cut off all her beautiful long hair in aid of The Little Princess Trust,she lost her best friend last year to cancer and she has raised quite a bit over the year doing various sponsors, but im in a quandary.I am so proud of what she has achieved and raised for her cancer charity but really don't want her to cut her hair,its really long and always been her pride and joy "

What a delightful young lady you have raised.You must be so proud.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To your daughter it seems it's only hair and she has something more important in mind for it.

Let her do this and be very, very proud.

You can show her pictures of her shaved head when she gets older too to remind her what a huge heart she has always had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pride in actions trumps pride in appearance,,,

Your girls empathy is beauty beyond compare.. "

Well said.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Hearing things like this restores my faith in the human race .... Lovely .... And amazing thing to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what a very inspirational child ..let her share the spirit in her heart..

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Please, let this wonderful daughter of yours do it. So often, we as adults forget that they are capable of making these decisions but they really are. Taking control of her own body is a huge developmental responsibly and the respect she will gain for her own beauty will be immense.

Have a farewell hair party, ask a local top stylist if they will give her a stunning 'do' and tell her how proud we all are of her.

You have a remarkable daughter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a wonderful young lady youve raised. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be gutted if my child wanted to cut her lovely hair. But I would be so proud if she done it for this reason. What a lovely thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a fantastic thing she's decided to do. You must be so proud of her.

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

what an absolutely wonderful Girl,iv got goosebumps,a credit to you and a credit to herself,my sister had cancer and had a wig when her hair fell out,her 6 year old son chose it for her,it was a platinum blonde bob,not her colour or style but she wore it with pride because he chose it,and wonderful,careing,treasures like your daughter made it possible,bless herxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well we sent off for the sponsor pack and its arrived this morning,We have discussed the matter in depth and on the 7th June my little princess is having her hair shaved off for charity ,our local newspaper are going to print a story and maybe a photo about ittoo , so if they do I will post a link for anyone who'd like to see the results,Thanks for everyones views and advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well we sent off for the sponsor pack and its arrived this morning,We have discussed the matter in depth and on the 7th June my little princess is having her hair shaved off for charity ,our local newspaper are going to print a story and maybe a photo about ittoo , so if they do I will post a link for anyone who'd like to see the results,Thanks for everyones views and advice "

Wow. That is ace news. Keep us updated. Imagine if we all sponsored her. Now that would be a news story!!!.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough


"Well we sent off for the sponsor pack and its arrived this morning,We have discussed the matter in depth and on the 7th June my little princess is having her hair shaved off for charity ,our local newspaper are going to print a story and maybe a photo about ittoo , so if they do I will post a link for anyone who'd like to see the results,Thanks for everyones views and advice "

Hope she raises loads of cash as well as awareness. What a brave and mature young daughter you have...

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"Pride in actions trumps pride in appearance,,,

Your girls empathy is beauty beyond compare.. "

f'realz!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well we sent off for the sponsor pack and its arrived this morning,We have discussed the matter in depth and on the 7th June my little princess is having her hair shaved off for charity ,our local newspaper are going to print a story and maybe a photo about ittoo , so if they do I will post a link for anyone who'd like to see the results,Thanks for everyones views and advice "

Yes I'd like to see and big thumbs up to all of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awe how lovely.. You must have one special little girl x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should be so proud of your lovely thoughtful daughter.

She will still be the same beautiful person with or without her hair & should be admired for helping raise money for such a worthy cause.

I (mrs) have shaved my hair off twice now & it feels so good doing it for charity.

Her hair will grow back on no time & it will look great xx

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Is there a way to sponsor online or by text? I would happily sponsor if so. Won't be much but every little helps and it's a great thing. X

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

In the words of Stephen Sutton "cancer sucks, but life is great". Take pride in the fact your daughter is selfless and at a young age she wants to make a difference. A bright future is surely intended for your daughter. Help her set up a online donations site and let me have the details.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well we sent off for the sponsor pack and its arrived this morning,We have discussed the matter in depth and on the 7th June my little princess is having her hair shaved off for charity ,our local newspaper are going to print a story and maybe a photo about ittoo , so if they do I will post a link for anyone who'd like to see the results,Thanks for everyones views and advice

Wow. That is ace news. Keep us updated. Imagine if we all sponsored her. Now that would be a news story!!!.

"
might make the national tabloids if that happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pride in actions trumps pride in appearance,,,

Your girls empathy is beauty beyond compare.. "

Such a beautiful way of putting it.

Lovely x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The date has changed for my daughters hair cutting , its now happening on the 21st of june,will post the newspaper link when its all done ,thanks for everyones comments and thoughts

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

PDI until the 18th Nov


"The date has changed for my daughters hair cutting , its now happening on the 21st of june,will post the newspaper link when its all done ,thanks for everyones comments and thoughts "

What a wonderful gesture this is. I'll gladly sponsor her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

update,today Abbey has passed the £1000 mark for her charity,way surpassing her £350 target,so so proud of her, wheres the bursting with pride emotion when you want one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be doing the same in september for St. Catherine's Hospice. Although I'm shaving my head

Good on her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fair play to all who have the balls to do s omething like that for c harity! and a great cause to!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well done to you ,,respect

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"update,today Abbey has passed the £1000 mark for her charity,way surpassing her £350 target,so so proud of her, wheres the bursting with pride emotion when you want one "

Thats amazing!!! Well done to your daughter, you have every right to feel proud x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh well done to Abbey! thrilled for her, Ali and Mark you must be so proud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"update,today Abbey has passed the £1000 mark for her charity,way surpassing her £350 target,so so proud of her, wheres the bursting with pride emotion when you want one "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

still sweating on how she's gonna look but yeah very proud

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Actually she has a Stephanie from Lazy Town outfit and really suits the short pink bob wig so I think she will suit short hair just going to be a bit wierd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a great girl you have there. You must be so proud.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Well done to her. She's a credit to you, herself and the human race. I approve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The date has changed for my daughters hair cutting , its now happening on the 21st of june,will post the newspaper link when its all done ,thanks for everyones comments and thoughts "

What a brave little girl, just read up on the trust, donating her hair for another child who has lost theirs through cancer treatment.

Will definitely send a donation. What a lovely thing to do for someone else, she is darling x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

definitely keep a full length lock of the hair, will be a great memento when shes older

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By *airy_HettyWoman
over a year ago

Greater London

What a great kid to be that aware. Well done for your work. She will be aware of cutting her hair, so have a chat with her and reconfirm why you are worried but I think by the sounds of it she knows what she wants to do.

Get a sponsorship thing up here too maybe? Do your bit to support her in this endeavour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"update,today Abbey has passed the £1000 mark for her charity,way surpassing her £350 target,so so proud of her, wheres the bursting with pride emotion when you want one "

That's really well done. Congratulations

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Today's the day our little one has her hair cut,,so proud of her ,her Nanna & Grandad would of been so proud too

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

aww Good luck to her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Today's the day our little one has her hair cut,,so proud of her ,her Nanna & Grandad would of been so proud too "

Massive hugs guys. Good luck to your daughter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck to her. she is doing a awesome thing and so are you for supporting her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your daughter is an absolute star probably a rarity so I think you should let her do it. However sit her down and have a chat pointing out that she might not like it and may regret it but also assure her it will grow back quite quickly. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have seen a video of a little girl having her long hair cut and she put it in an envelope to send to the charity that makes wigs for people who have lost hair so maybe do that with her and perhaps ask if you can visit the factory that makes them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have seen a video of a little girl having her long hair cut and she put it in an envelope to send to the charity that makes wigs for people who have lost hair so maybe do that with her and perhaps ask if you can visit the factory that makes them "
this is what were doing , The Little Princess trust she has over £1000 in sponsors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant wait to see pictures! You guys must be bursting with pride.. im to vain to do anything like that

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

First time I've seen this thread and what a beautiful gesture your daughter is doing. Is there anyway I could sponsor her as I'd like to support such a truly caring and brave young lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have seen a video of a little girl having her long hair cut and she put it in an envelope to send to the charity that makes wigs for people who have lost hair so maybe do that with her and perhaps ask if you can visit the factory that makes them this is what were doing , The Little Princess trust she has over £1000 in sponsors "

Brilliant

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

I've just made a donation to Little Princess Trust on behalf of this beautiful young lady

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Proud but no Longer scared,,All went excellent today and our little girl looks like a little lady now all grown up with a lovely stylish bob,,thanks to everyone for all the well wishes and donations,,it means a lot to our daughter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Proud but no Longer scared,,All went excellent today and our little girl looks like a little lady now all grown up with a lovely stylish bob,,thanks to everyone for all the well wishes and donations,,it means a lot to our daughter "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saw all the pix on facebook Ali, she looks awesome, she's one cool ,strong willed little lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Proud but no Longer scared,,All went excellent today and our little girl looks like a little lady now all grown up with a lovely stylish bob,,thanks to everyone for all the well wishes and donations,,it means a lot to our daughter "

She so rocks that bob!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Proud but no Longer scared,,All went excellent today and our little girl looks like a little lady now all grown up with a lovely stylish bob,,thanks to everyone for all the well wishes and donations,,it means a lot to our daughter

She so rocks that bob! "
thanks cute, I really love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She so rocks that bob! thanks cute, I really love it "

I felt really odd about squidge having her long hair cut short worried that she'd lose the 'princess' and girlie look but its actually grown on me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She so rocks that bob! thanks cute, I really love it

I felt really odd about squidge having her long hair cut short worried that she'd lose the 'princess' and girlie look but its actually grown on me.

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By *isexmistressWoman
over a year ago

Prestwich

What a wonderfull post x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a selfless gesture from someone so young, you've every right to be proud.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Final update on our thread,

our daughter raised £1,802 for the little princess trust,thanks again for everyones kind words and for calming my nerves,and a special big thank you to all who donated to her charity too,ive put my profile picture to show her certificate if you want to look thanks again you awesome bunch of fabulous people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quality little girl you have there Ali,i only wish I could of donated more

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

your donation was very kind hunny and thank you xx

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By *ervertsCouple
over a year ago

halesowen

My 9 yr old daughter did the same thing a few months ago, she also raised a lot of money for Macmillan. It is something to be proud of for sure, the only thing I'd say is prepare her for being mistaken for a boy, it happens a lot!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My 9 yr old daughter did the same thing a few months ago, she also raised a lot of money for Macmillan. It is something to be proud of for sure, the only thing I'd say is prepare her for being mistaken for a boy, it happens a lot!"
Well done to your daughter,its a very kind thing to do xx

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By *ervertsCouple
over a year ago

halesowen

Just read a few more of the replies and see that your daughter got a bob, so she might get away with being mistaken for a boy, my daughter went for the Emma Watcon look, she looked really cute just a shame people kept thinking she was a boy lol.

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