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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Right this is mark just want to know should sally go to cupids by herself the thing is i am working away and she needs sex. Is it selfish if i sed no. (been working away for 3 weeks now)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right this is mark just want to know should sally go to cupids by herself the thing is i am working away and she needs sex. Is it selfish if i sed no. (been working away for 3 weeks now)"

If it is within your limits as a couple then of course you can. If it is outside your limits, then no. As usual, the question is what do you think and why do you need other peoples input?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Fuck me I had to wait a year for sex when my ex husband was working away....I'd say you were not being selfish if you said no....you have to consider your feelings as well as hers...are you ok with her going to a club on her own? How long are you likely to be working away for???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Want me to pop over??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its just something to ask about

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Want me to pop over?? "

Pop round here first

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Want me to pop over?? "
bit to far for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jet and me have single profiles as well, but as a couple we decided that clubs would be for us and not on our own. It comes down to what you both want.....Ruby

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"Want me to pop over?? bit to far for you"

I'm nearer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fuck me I had to wait a year for sex when my ex husband was working away....I'd say you were not being selfish if you said no....you have to onsider your feelings as well as hers...are you ok with her going to a club on her own? How long are you likely toa be working away for??? "
about 2 more weeks the thing is i know she will be safe at cupids and yes i am ok her going a club its only sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The two of you should discuss it, together, taking openly and honestly.

It will eat away at you to think of her having fun without you unless your a hundred percent happy with it.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Fuck me I had to wait a year for sex when my ex husband was working away....I'd say you were not being selfish if you said no....you have to onsider your feelings as well as hers...are you ok with her going to a club on her own? How long are you likely toa be working away for??? about 2 more weeks the thing is i know she will be safe at cupids and yes i am ok her going a club its only sex."

Well there is your answer....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right this is mark just want to know should sally go to cupids by herself the thing is i am working away and she needs sex. Is it selfish if i sed no. (been working away for 3 weeks now)"

You would only say no if you were insecure about it.

Are you insecure about it?...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im closest! Haha!

Sorry to hijack serious thread. Ahem.

Like has been said, an honest and frank discussion between the two of you is really the only way to find the answer.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Roger that . But promise not to beat me up!! "

Never lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The two of you should discuss it, together, taking openly and honestly.

It will eat away at you to think of her having fun without you unless your a hundred percent happy with it."
she played before when i am away we have 100% trust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Roger that . But promise not to beat me up!!

Never lol "

Ha!! You got it. Forgot to quote you!

To be fair I probably deserve a good hiding. Just disguise in the foreplay.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Right this is mark just want to know should sally go to cupids by herself the thing is i am working away and she needs sex. Is it selfish if i sed no. (been working away for 3 weeks now)

You would only say no if you were insecure about it. No not at all insecure love her getting it

Are you insecure about it?..."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fuck me I had to wait a year for sex when my ex husband was working away....I'd say you were not being selfish if you said no....you have to onsider your feelings as well as hers...are you ok with her going to a club on her own? How long are you likely toa be working away for??? about 2 more weeks the thing is i know she will be safe at cupids and yes i am ok her going a club its only sex.

Well there is your answer.... "
it is isn't it cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The two of you should discuss it, together, taking openly and honestly.

It will eat away at you to think of her having fun without you unless your a hundred percent happy with it.she played before when i am away we have 100% trust "

Then why ask the question if you're comfortable with it in the first place?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right this is mark just want to know should sally go to cupids by herself the thing is i am working away and she needs sex. Is it selfish if i sed no. (been working away for 3 weeks now)

You would only say no if you were insecure about it. No not at all insecure love her getting it

Are you insecure about it?... "

You might laugh, but I'm merely trying to understand your question and why you would say "no".

I wasn't taking the piss.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im closest! Haha!

Sorry to hijack serious thread. Ahem.

Like has been said, an honest and frank discussion between the two of you is really the only way to find the answer.

Good luck. "
it is but this gets people taking and its good to talk.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Roger that . But promise not to beat me up!!

Never lol

Ha!! You got it. Forgot to quote you!

To be fair I probably deserve a good hiding. Just disguise in the foreplay. "

Nah you will be ok lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The two of you should discuss it, together, taking openly and honestly.

It will eat away at you to think of her having fun without you unless your a hundred percent happy with it.she played before when i am away we have 100% trust

Then why ask the question if you're comfortable with it in the first place? "
gets people taking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The two of you should discuss it, together, taking openly and honestly.

It will eat away at you to think of her having fun without you unless your a hundred percent happy with it.she played before when i am away we have 100% trust

Then why ask the question if you're comfortable with it in the first place? gets people taking "

Mission Accomplished!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Right this is mark just want to know should sally go to cupids by herself the thing is i am working away and she needs sex. Is it selfish if i sed no. (been working away for 3 weeks now)

You would only say no if you were insecure about it. No not at all insecure love her getting it

Are you insecure about it?...

You might laugh, but I'm merely trying to understand your question and why you would say "no".

I wasn't taking the piss. I know u wasn't. Just asked so people start talking about things

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd be happy to escort her to Cupids and make sure she's safe. No strings, but our fingers will be well and truly crossed xx

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