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By *anyoufeelme OP   Man
over a year ago

near you

Open debate - No right or wrong answers

Whats your _iew .. People who work in the "paid" sex trade and also have fab profiles

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Doesn't bother me, they are entitled to recreational sex are they not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they seem to be selling on fab then report em...otherwise:

A) What's the problem?

B) Would you know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not be on here?

Escorts will still want to have have sex for fun.

As long as they are not charging for their time on fab they are doing nothing wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So long as they don't tout for business then they have every right to be here like everyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When escorts are paid they 'dont have a choice in who they play with' when its on fab they can be as picky as they like and choose the perfect guy/gal/couple's for themselves. Everyones allowed a hobby right?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I work in a paid industry...be it not the sex trade...but it is a job.

When I get on here I don't discuss my job as this is a different life to work.

Most Escorts would probably do the same.

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By *anyoufeelme OP   Man
over a year ago

near you

As i pointed out at the beginning of my post ... NO RIGHT OR WRONG answers simply looking for opinions

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

If they stay within site rules whats the problem,?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"As i pointed out at the beginning of my post ... NO RIGHT OR WRONG answers simply looking for opinions "

What is your _iew?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Escorts want sex with people they find attractive too. I was seeing a male escort who had some beautiful clients. He said they were just work and I was for pleasure

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

PS.......can people when posting not advertise that they are Escorts please.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't have a problem with this, most of us have jobs and some of those jobs others will find unsavoury. Swinging is a hobby or pastime for many people. Live and let live.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Open debate - No right or wrong answers

Whats your _iew .. People who work in the "paid" sex trade and also have fab profiles "

What ever next Mechanics taking a drive on a weekend? travel agents going on holiday? where will it all end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See some status comments on updates by men, complaining they have just been asked to pay for sex.....so in conclusion this site is being used to tout for business. Personally I don't care it dosnt affect me but if its not allowed by the powers that be aka FAB Then why is there obviously so much off it????

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By *anyoufeelme OP   Man
over a year ago

near you


"As i pointed out at the beginning of my post ... NO RIGHT OR WRONG answers simply looking for opinions

What is your _iew?"

My View is each to their own .... You see that many pictures with people having bareback sex then i question would a really want to have sex with them .....

Im making a assumtion ... People who work in the Sex trade are far more aware of sexual health therefore they are more likely to ensure they don't take risks ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When escorts are paid they 'dont have a choice in who they play with' when its on fab they can be as picky as they like and choose the perfect guy/gal/couple's for themselves. Everyones allowed a hobby right? "

Agree with this. No rules being broken and escorts enjoy sex the same as the next person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Open debate - No right or wrong answers

Whats your _iew .. People who work in the "paid" sex trade and also have fab profiles "

what people do in real life their business when it comes to Fab it is their fun time. Obviously the ones who charge on fab get reported. Everyone entitled to fun time, used to work in a bar in Cardiff where half the clientele were ladies of night enjoying a drink on their night out

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


" Personally I don't care it dosnt affect me but if its not allowed by the powers that be aka FAB Then why is there obviously so much off it???? "

Admin have to rely on people reporting it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always get confused after a meet

Like, am I supposed to give you money now??

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By *hubnwife_36dd_ukCouple
over a year ago

chester

Would it be right then to be suspicious if you get a VAT no along with their phone no?

P.S. If you're self-employed can you claim it back?

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By *hubnwife_36dd_ukCouple
over a year ago

chester

And looking to the future: is there a pensioner's discount? Can SAGA find me a better offer?

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

What a silly thread!

Considering the last Escort was manufactured in 2002 I'm not surprised there aren't many still working on Fab or anywhere else for that matter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have encountered a couple advertising meets only to find that there was a £50 charge for the service, reported it only for the same people to open a new account, if people are willing to pay then business is business be it on a site like this or on a street corner

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By *hubnwife_36dd_ukCouple
over a year ago

chester


"What a silly thread!

Considering the last Escort was manufactured in 2002 I'm not surprised there aren't many still working on Fab or anywhere else for that matter!"

Can one afFORD to be complacent about it?

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"What a silly thread!

Considering the last Escort was manufactured in 2002 I'm not surprised there aren't many still working on Fab or anywhere else for that matter!

Can one afFORD to be complacent about it? "

No we mustn't lose Focus. lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol

One girl on here who also escorts, basically runs greedy girl nights etc where the blokes pay to get in so that circumnavigated the rules, she did point out to me when I questioned her that, I quote

"Most of the ladies on here are escorts"

Please note, I did not say that! X

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By *anyoufeelme OP   Man
over a year ago

near you


"What a silly thread!

Considering the last Escort was manufactured in 2002 I'm not surprised there aren't many still working on Fab or anywhere else for that matter!

Can one afFORD to be complacent about it?

No we mustn't lose Focus. lol."

Next we will be talking about Holidaying in the Isle of Capri

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand why escorts shouldn't have fab profiles if they respect the boundaries ?

I do think that a few guys on here with high expectations of instant shags would be better suited to proper escort sites though.

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By *hubnwife_36dd_ukCouple
over a year ago

chester

Or you could holiday in Cortina? Could be almost PREFECT.

We won't however talk to anyone who wants to know if it's got a marina!

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By *orthwest_cplCouple
over a year ago

Stretford


"What a silly thread!

Considering the last Escort was manufactured in 2002 I'm not surprised there aren't many still working on Fab or anywhere else for that matter!

Can one afFORD to be complacent about it?

No we mustn't lose Focus. lol.

Next we will be talking about Holidaying in the Isle of Capri "

Ah, blue sea and a gentle Zephyr to ruffle your hair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol

One girl on here who also escorts, basically runs greedy girl nights etc where the blokes pay to get in so that circumnavigated the rules, she did point out to me when I questioned her that, I quote

"Most of the ladies on here are escorts"

Please note, I did not say that! X"

is the fee not for the accommodation if its not her own place, drinks/foods, condoms?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the interest of balance lets not forget it's not unheard of for people to offer money for a meet.

And there are also women and couples on here that while not escorts seem to expect quite a lot (hotels/meals etc) from a perspective meet.

Personally couldn't care less if escorts are on here or not as long as they don't charge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol

One girl on here who also escorts, basically runs greedy girl nights etc where the blokes pay to get in so that circumnavigated the rules, she did point out to me when I questioned her that, I quote

"Most of the ladies on here are escorts"

Please note, I did not say that! X"

Sounds like she is charging guys to cover expenses.....

Why should someone be out of pocket so guys get a free shag

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By *anyoufeelme OP   Man
over a year ago

near you


"What a silly thread!

Considering the last Escort was manufactured in 2002 I'm not surprised there aren't many still working on Fab or anywhere else for that matter!

Can one afFORD to be complacent about it?

No we mustn't lose Focus. lol.

Next we will be talking about Holidaying in the Isle of Capri

Ah, blue sea and a gentle Zephyr to ruffle your hair. "

Ha ha thats showing your age - ) ... How about all the sexy Cougars on here !

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Open debate - No right or wrong answers

Whats your _iew .. People who work in the "paid" sex trade and also have fab profiles "

My moral _iewpoint is that I have no objection.

If I owned or ran a swingers site I would object to escorts or any business using my site to tout.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Lol

One girl on here who also escorts, basically runs greedy girl nights etc where the blokes pay to get in so that circumnavigated the rules, she did point out to me when I questioned her that, I quote

"Most of the ladies on here are escorts"

Please note, I did not say that! X"

If someone is charging for guaranteed sex it is still against rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a silly thread!

Considering the last Escort was manufactured in 2002 I'm not surprised there aren't many still working on Fab or anywhere else for that matter!

Can one afFORD to be complacent about it?

No we mustn't lose Focus. lol.

Next we will be talking about Holidaying in the Isle of Capri

Ah, blue sea and a gentle Zephyr to ruffle your hair.

Ha ha thats showing your age - ) ... How about all the sexy Cougars on here !"

and to quote Del boy "mon deo Rodney,mon deo"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't get builders or others saying we do this job and that job here ... Its weird if a escort and not even asking for money here We know they are ..... why do they have to say ? Maybe to some its their way around things not sure . I also think if its there work a escort and like sex and meeting people its fine but why say there job on profile .. just be a normal member with a job .. like others here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Open debate - No right or wrong answers

Whats your _iew .. People who work in the "paid" sex trade and also have fab profiles "

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People have an occupation (unless they're independently wealthy and elect not to work), and also have private life interests. I don't see a problem. I've had swinging partners who were "escorts" and told me that they were ... but that in no way impacted on their love of swinging with men they found themselves sexually attracted to

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By *orthwest_cplCouple
over a year ago

Stretford


"What a silly thread!

Considering the last Escort was manufactured in 2002 I'm not surprised there aren't many still working on Fab or anywhere else for that matter!

Can one afFORD to be complacent about it?

No we mustn't lose Focus. lol.

Next we will be talking about Holidaying in the Isle of Capri

Ah, blue sea and a gentle Zephyr to ruffle your hair.

Ha ha thats showing your age - ) ... How about all the sexy Cougars on here !"

Must be my age - or my sign of the Zodiac. I was a Prefect at school when I was 8 and was very Popular. People thoght I had the job off to a T.

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

perhaps i should become an escort then i will get paid more than 6.31 per hour,

i could tout for business in my camper van

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"perhaps i should become an escort then i will get paid more than 6.31 per hour,

i could tout for business in my camper van "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weirdly no one picked up on the point that this escort said

"Most of the ladies on here are escorts"

I would have thought most of the ladies would be unhappy with this statement, as someone quite rightly pointed out that this lady maybe charging for expenses, room etc, mmm doesn't wash an escort just covering costs with over 100 verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Weirdly no one picked up on the point that this escort said

"Most of the ladies on here are escorts"

I would have thought most of the ladies would be unhappy with this statement, as someone quite rightly pointed out that this lady maybe charging for expenses, room etc, mmm doesn't wash an escort just covering costs with over 100 verifications "
well I ask no one to pay for nothing .... just petrol to get to me .. is all my meet pays.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Weirdly no one picked up on the point that this escort said

"Most of the ladies on here are escorts"

I would have thought most of the ladies would be unhappy with this statement, "

It didn't bother me that statement as it doesn't apply to me and I didn't think at the time it deserved a response.

It sounds like you wanted a different response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I could charge for it I would but I can't even bloody give it away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Weirdly no one picked up on the point that this escort said

"Most of the ladies on here are escorts"

I would have thought most of the ladies would be unhappy with this statement,

It didn't bother me that statement as it doesn't apply to me and I didn't think at the time it deserved a response.

It sounds like you wanted a different response"

Not at all, I just thought that it was not a nice thing that the escort said and I was surprised no one responded to that other than via PM to ask who said it, chatting about escorting is very taboo on here, ok the one hand I think they should not be on here at all if they are underhand in extracting money from Men who can't frankly afford it or they would be seeing escorts and then on the other hand I think some of the ladies who just play with any guy might as well charge and drag themselves out of the poverty that they and there children are in

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Weirdly no one picked up on the point that this escort said

"Most of the ladies on here are escorts"

I would have thought most of the ladies would be unhappy with this statement,

It didn't bother me that statement as it doesn't apply to me and I didn't think at the time it deserved a response.

It sounds like you wanted a different response

Not at all, I just thought that it was not a nice thing that the escort said "

It is also probably not true.

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By *indys loverCouple
over a year ago

Stratford on avon


"What a silly thread!

Considering the last Escort was manufactured in 2002 I'm not surprised there aren't many still working on Fab or anywhere else for that matter!

Can one afFORD to be complacent about it?

No we mustn't lose Focus. lol.

Next we will be talking about Holidaying in the Isle of Capri

Ah, blue sea and a gentle Zephyr to ruffle your hair.

Ha ha thats showing your age - ) ... How about all the sexy Cougars on here !

Must be my age - or my sign of the Zodiac. I was a Prefect at school when I was 8 and was very Popular. People thoght I had the job off to a T."

Was wondering if anyone could recomend a UPVC window company as instead of exotic holiday this year we thought we would change the windows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Weirdly no one picked up on the point that this escort said

"Most of the ladies on here are escorts"

I would have thought most of the ladies would be unhappy with this statement, as someone quite rightly pointed out that this lady maybe charging for expenses, room etc, mmm doesn't wash an escort just covering costs with over 100 verifications "

To be honest the first post sounded like Chinese whispers. This one sounds like an agenda.

Most women on here aren't escorts. Most people know that.

An unsubstantiated quote from an unknown source is probably not going to provoke debate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"k the one hand I think they should not be on here at all if they are underhand in extracting money from Men who can't frankly afford it or they would be seeing escorts"

Are you suggesting men are on here as the women are a cheaper alternative to escorts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"k the one hand I think they should not be on here at all if they are underhand in extracting money from Men who can't frankly afford it or they would be seeing escorts

Are you suggesting men are on here as the women are a cheaper alternative to escorts?"

I do like to play devils advocate and give a slightly skewered perspective but it is a consideration don't you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some of the ladies who just play with any guy might as well charge and drag themselves out of the poverty that they and there children are in "

I don't know what to make of this!

Swingers seem to be an increasingly diminishing minority on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would agree real swingers seem to be in the minority but what is a real swinger? How do you define what is real?

Ps I am playing devils advocate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i've seen a few on escorts sites where they charge per hour and so forth.

how i know has they have put profile pictures on there that match upon this site dozy buggers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i've seen a few on escorts sites where they charge per hour and so forth.

how i know has they have put profile pictures on there that match upon this site dozy buggers "

Exactly correct and forgive me for saying this but frankly if you've been having sex with lots of men you don't particularly fancy and your getting paid, would you really take your work home and do it as a hobby?

An escort on here is generally touting for business, fact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy I met about 2 years ago told me of a lady he started chatting to on Fab. They exchanged quite a few messages then agreed to meet to play and took it to text/phone calls to arrange things to save having to log onto the site. Once away from the site the lady quickly told him that it would cost him £80, iirc, should he want to do all the things they'd discussed on Fab. He says he reported her for it but she's still on here and probably still touting for business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I would agree real swingers seem to be in the minority but what is a real swinger? How do you define what is real?

Ps I am playing devils advocate "

I'm not interested in what people consider to be a 'real swinger' - I'm just constantly surprised at attitudes reflected in comments such as your own that suggest women would only be looking for sex due to some form of desperation. I don't think such attitudes understand swinging.

PS I'm not hiding behind a mask of devils advocate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i've seen a few on escorts sites where they charge per hour and so forth.

how i know has they have put profile pictures on there that match upon this site dozy buggers

Exactly correct and forgive me for saying this but frankly if you've been having sex with lots of men you don't particularly fancy and your getting paid, would you really take your work home and do it as a hobby?

An escort on here is generally touting for business, fact "

Fact?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems to me there's an awful lot of people on here who use escorts to speak with such knowledge and certainty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I would agree real swingers seem to be in the minority but what is a real swinger? How do you define what is real?

Ps I am playing devils advocate

I'm not interested in what people consider to be a 'real swinger' - I'm just constantly surprised at attitudes reflected in comments such as your own that suggest women would only be looking for sex due to some form of desperation. I don't think such attitudes understand swinging.

PS I'm not hiding behind a mask of devils advocate"

I'm sure there are people both make and female on this site that swing for many many reasons, desperation, enjoyment, the thrill, stave off boredom, for the infamy, desperation, fun and hundreds of other reasons.

Funny how I must read everyday couples and females moaning about the desperate messages they receive and some of the desperation shown by men, well some ladies show the same traits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think it's a bit seedy being paid for sex, phone sex ect but each to there own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know, personally, three ladies on here who escort or who have escorted in the past and they have seperate accounts on different websites for work reasons and don't bring work onto fab.....that's the sum total of my knowledge on the subject......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It bothers me as you dont know how much teh bill is after the sex if you meet them from fab, rather have the menu before lol.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Weirdly no one picked up on the point that this escort said

"Most of the ladies on here are escorts"

I would have thought most of the ladies would be unhappy with this statement, as someone quite rightly pointed out that this lady maybe charging for expenses, room etc, mmm doesn't wash an escort just covering costs with over 100 verifications "

I picked up on it. I prefer to use the term WOMEN.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"What a silly thread!

Considering the last Escort was manufactured in 2002 I'm not surprised there aren't many still working on Fab or anywhere else for that matter!

Can one afFORD to be complacent about it?

No we mustn't lose Focus. lol.

Next we will be talking about Holidaying in the Isle of Capri

Ah, blue sea and a gentle Zephyr to ruffle your hair.

Ha ha thats showing your age - ) ... How about all the sexy Cougars on here !

Must be my age - or my sign of the Zodiac. I was a Prefect at school when I was 8 and was very Popular. People thoght I had the job off to a T.

Was wondering if anyone could recomend a UPVC window company as instead of exotic holiday this year we thought we would change the windows "

Im thinking about my windows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come on now lets keep our FOCUS on things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems to me there's an awful lot of people on here who use escorts to speak with such knowledge and certainty "
Maybe its desperation for some who cant get it for free here......... I don't think escorts should have it on there profile as even if not looking for work here , They are saying its there job .. And you get some on sites like this who are maybe feeling a bit down as cant get a meet and they see it as there only way out .

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Yes I would agree real swingers seem to be in the minority but what is a real swinger? How do you define what is real?

Ps I am playing devils advocate "

No. You are not. Asking a question is not playind Devil's Advocate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems to me there's an awful lot of people on here who use escorts to speak with such knowledge and certainty "

I am very good friends with a lady who used to escort so I have a perspective on all the nonsense talked, she has since taken a 9-5 job and is far happier but less wealthy, there were many days where she would drink heavily and be depressed after seeing clients (hence my comment about bringing there work home)

She is now on fab and sees plenty of profiles which she believes are touting for business.

As a point I have no issue with escorts as it has a permanent place in modern society I just don't like the obvious touting and crossover, as she has pointed out many high earners use escorts for play time and that's fine and I for ease of arranging meetings with minimal hassle that is fine for them, I just worry about men on here who are taken for a ride and let there cocks rule their heads by being drawn in to paying girls when this could financially ruin there family etc

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Weirdly no one picked up on the point that this escort said

"Most of the ladies on here are escorts"

I would have thought most of the ladies would be unhappy with this statement, as someone quite rightly pointed out that this lady maybe charging for expenses, room etc, mmm doesn't wash an escort just covering costs with over 100 verifications "

The woman who allegedly said this, isn't on the Forums so what's the point in commenting?

If she want's to think that then it's her lookout. I'm sure that the men she chats to have minds of their own and will realise she's talking rubbish once they talk to others.

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By *ityboy2001Man
over a year ago

All NW

It's not common at all I've never been asked to pay. There are a few glamour / model types who charge for group meets then again most swingers clubs charge men 50 entrance for their greedy girl nights.

Believe it or not OP there are extremely popular sites for escorts to find punters and vice versa- why would they go to the round around on Fab with all the single guy BS (endless messages, cockshots, no shows ) just to get a paid 'trick' if that's still the terminology.

I'd suggest profiles are more likely to be fake with photos lifted from said escort sites...

Even so escorts are simply women/men who work in the sex industry. They still maybe looking for great swinging sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"k the one hand I think they should not be on here at all if they are underhand in extracting money from Men who can't frankly afford it or they would be seeing escorts

Are you suggesting men are on here as the women are a cheaper alternative to escorts?"

Yes some are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the ladies on here are escorts"

No ........... Most woman who are here love sex as much as men and feel they have the same rights too as men . Its not a mans world now its a womans world too .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of the ladies on here are escorts"

No ........... Most woman who are here love sex as much as men and feel they have the same rights too as men . Its not a mans world now its a womans world too ."

I didn't say that I just quoted what the lady said to me when I questioned why she arranged greedy girl parties and charged men £30 per head along with another well known escort who has a profile on this site x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of the ladies on here are escorts"

No ........... Most woman who are here love sex as much as men and feel they have the same rights too as men . Its not a mans world now its a womans world too ."

It's a woman's world I live in a house with 3 woman, the world population has swung 3% towards woman in the last century, Mother Nature has decided to fight back against men who have ruined this planet, I am not proud to be a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would asking for cake be the same thing?

If not, open to offers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure there are people both make and female on this site that swing for many many reasons, desperation, enjoyment, the thrill, stave off boredom, for the infamy, desperation, fun and hundreds of other reasons.

Funny how I must read everyday couples and females moaning about the desperate messages they receive and some of the desperation shown by men, well some ladies show the same traits"

Sexual 'desperation' or lust is quite different to prostitution through desperation of circumstance.

I think you're twisting your way into a muddle. Although that's not to suggest you're wrong, no doubt there's truth to your comments and hence my earlier one of seemingly diminishing swingers.

When I first joined on here it seemed more balanced but it's become increasingly a more general 'sex site'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm........you seem desperate that contentous points you are throwing out are not raising the noise you seek. Was I a cynic (actually I am) I would almost believe that you have a motive for this thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you refer to the OP I'm not sure

If you refer to me my motive is plainly clear and I will spell it out

Escorts should not be on this site to underhandedly take advantage of vulnerable men that could cause major impacts on there lives and those around them.

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By *anyoufeelme OP   Man
over a year ago

near you


"Hmmmm........you seem desperate that contentous points you are throwing out are not raising the noise you seek. Was I a cynic (actually I am) I would almost believe that you have a motive for this thread! "

who is that comment aimed at ?

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By *verysmileMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

Could be worse....are there any bankers on fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could be worse....are there any bankers on fab?"
yes I would think so ......... we have a real mix here .. But they will never have it on there profile there job as this is there escape from work ..

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"If you refer to the OP I'm not sure

If you refer to me my motive is plainly clear and I will spell it out

Escorts should not be on this site to underhandedly take advantage of vulnerable men that could cause major impacts on there lives and those around them."

Admin agree with you and ask people to report so they can look into it

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Would asking for cake be the same thing?

If not, open to offers."

I'll do you for a slice of carrot cake. Twice for coffee n walnut ....WITH buttercream or forget it !

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


" I just worry about men on here who are taken for a ride and let there cocks rule their heads by being drawn in to paying girls when this could financially ruin there family etc"

I could never be drawn into parting with my money if it isn't what I wanted to buy.

To turn it around the other way, we have been offered money for sex, so some men are quite happy paying.

( it is still not allowed on this site though )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would asking for cake be the same thing?

If not, open to offers.

I'll do you for a slice of carrot cake. Twice for coffee n walnut ....WITH buttercream or forget it !"
Carrot please .. x love coffee too ... ooo be dreaming cake now .

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Would asking for cake be the same thing?

If not, open to offers.

I'll do you for a slice of carrot cake. Twice for coffee n walnut ....WITH buttercream or forget it ! Carrot please .. x love coffee too ... ooo be dreaming cake now . "

A good lemon drizzle ........ mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would asking for cake be the same thing?

If not, open to offers.

I'll do you for a slice of carrot cake. Twice for coffee n walnut ....WITH buttercream or forget it ! Carrot please .. x love coffee too ... ooo be dreaming cake now .

A good lemon drizzle ........ mmmmm "
gran I love that too ....... I don't eats loads its a lovely treat and this time of the day I may just have tea and cake ... I am going to now . xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm on to something lads, back after a profile rewrite...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you refer to the OP I'm not sure

If you refer to me my motive is plainly clear and I will spell it out

Escorts should not be on this site to underhandedly take advantage of vulnerable men that could cause major impacts on there lives and those around them."

I don't understand why men are vulnerable? Or why they need protecting from the consequences of their own actions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I just worry about men on here who are taken for a ride and let there cocks rule their heads by being drawn in to paying girls when this could financially ruin there family etc

I could never be drawn into parting with my money if it isn't what I wanted to buy.

To turn it around the other way, we have been offered money for sex, so some men are quite happy paying.

( it is still not allowed on this site though )"

Agreed totally wrong and again the sign of a desperate man, if your being offered money, many people are drawn to buy something that they can't afford that's why our economy is only just recovering!

So after picking holes in my comments do we all agree on this

Escorts should not be targeting vulnerable men on here?

can we leave that to Nike, coca cola etc or government instead

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"

So after picking holes in my comments do we all agree on this

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Who did?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

it comes in many guises, some are getting more blatant than ever.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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" I just worry about men on here who are taken for a ride and let there cocks rule their heads by being drawn in to paying girls when this could financially ruin there family etc

I could never be drawn into parting with my money if it isn't what I wanted to buy.

To turn it around the other way, we have been offered money for sex, so some men are quite happy paying.

( it is still not allowed on this site though )

Agreed totally wrong and again the sign of a desperate man, if your being offered money, "

Thanks by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you refer to the OP I'm not sure

If you refer to me my motive is plainly clear and I will spell it out

Escorts should not be on this site to underhandedly take advantage of vulnerable men that could cause major impacts on there lives and those around them.

I don't understand why men are vulnerable? Or why they need protecting from the consequences of their own actions?

"

Ok if you can't see that there are clearly vulnerable people in all walks of life including on here, then I don't think it's a discussion for you

And as for consequences of their own actions I guess the monetary easing of our economy wasn't done to protect the consequences of many people actions by over spending was it? As a civilised society we should protect the vulnerable and as a whole ease the suffering of those even if the consequences are caused by their own actions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a friend of mine once said "why pay £50 for a blow job when the tarts in the street will give you anal for free"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I'm on to something lads, back after a profile rewrite..."

I'm just bored and enjoy the banter and a proper debate especially when people skirt around the issue

Can I have carrot cake? I luv da cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a friend of mine once said "why pay £50 for a blow job when the tarts in the street will give you anal for free" "

Which street was this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Open debate - No right or wrong answers

Whats your _iew .. People who work in the "paid" sex trade and also have fab profiles "

It depends if there is any blurring or advertising on here for the other. Its not having one its how its used.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a friend of mine once said "why pay £50 for a blow job when the tarts in the street will give you anal for free"

Which street was this?"

I think it may have meant to read "when Alan will give you a tart for free" and it's referring to Alan the baker who occasionally gives away free samples on Loughton High Road.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I refer you to the answer I gave some time ago in my experience the lines are blurred especially when using the same pictures, in my experience the last thing an escort wants to do after wasting time with timewasters, seeing clients etc is go swinging.

I maybe wrong I await an escort to come on here and tell me I am, because if frankly they claim it's two separate worlds then they should have no problem setting me straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it may have meant to read "when Alan will give you a tart for free" and it's referring to Alan the baker who occasionally gives away free samples on Loughton High Road. "

Brilliant thanks, I'll then trade those tarts to women on Fab for anal.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I think if lines are being blurred that's where they need reporting....and I have no doubt at all that there are people trying to charge on here, but I am guessing Escorts have sex for fun too...they could probably find that on here or down the pub, whatever is easiest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was an escort I doubt I could be arsed being on here too,I reckon id be sick to death of sex,it would be the same as me being on holiday from work and hanging round the A&E depts of different hospitals for fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you refer to the OP I'm not sure

If you refer to me my motive is plainly clear and I will spell it out

Escorts should not be on this site to underhandedly take advantage of vulnerable men that could cause major impacts on there lives and those around them."

I like to think as grown men we can't so easily be 'taken advantage of' not in the sense your implying anyhow without knowing what we're doing...I'm very capable of keeping my cock in my pants and wallet in my pocket ta very much....

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By *adie7Couple
over a year ago

Llantrisant

Well I certainly wouldn't want a friend with that attitude.

In respect to the OP.... In my line of work (office based I hasten to add lol) if I did extra work over & above my hours I'd expect payment however much I love my job. It must be a huge temptation for "working people" not to want to charge for their services.

I do understand that they have personal lives, needs, wants etc.... But I don't think that a swinging site is the appropriate place. TBH I'd imagine that they'd be fed up of the sex scene in their recreational time after "working" a shift.

Each to their own I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it may have meant to read "when Alan will give you a tart for free" and it's referring to Alan the baker who occasionally gives away free samples on Loughton High Road.

Brilliant thanks, I'll then trade those tarts to women on Fab for anal. "

Grab your strap ons ladies........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i drive for a living.

does that mean i shouldnt drive when im not being paid?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was an escort I doubt I could be arsed being on here too,I reckon id be sick to death of sex,it would be the same as me being on holiday from work and hanging round the A&E depts of different hospitals for fun "

My point too, so why are escorts in here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a friend of mine once said "why pay £50 for a blow job when the tarts in the street will give you anal for free"

Which street was this?"

Somewhere in Southend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was an escort I doubt I could be arsed being on here too,I reckon id be sick to death of sex,it would be the same as me being on holiday from work and hanging round the A&E depts of different hospitals for fun

My point too, so why are escorts in here?"

Because they want to have sex with someone they choose to...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was an escort I doubt I could be arsed being on here too,I reckon id be sick to death of sex,it would be the same as me being on holiday from work and hanging round the A&E depts of different hospitals for fun

My point too, so why are escorts in here?

Because they want to have sex with someone they choose to..."
And why say on there profile there job if not looking ..? I cant make out why they say I am a escort but here on fab just having fun making friends ... WHY say there job no one do here... But them here .

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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For fear of sounding like a parrot....those type of profiles should be reported Jo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was an escort I doubt I could be arsed being on here too,I reckon id be sick to death of sex,it would be the same as me being on holiday from work and hanging round the A&E depts of different hospitals for fun

My point too, so why are escorts in here?

Because they want to have sex with someone they choose to...And why say on there profile there job if not looking ..? I cant make out why they say I am a escort but here on fab just having fun making friends ... WHY say there job no one do here... But them here ."

jo, if you think only sex workers suggest their line of work on here, then you ar fooling yourself.

how many sexy firemen/policemen/forces guys are there?

or sexy nurses?

or those that state they cant put pics on cuz theyre teachers

any number of people suggest their line of work on here, not just escorts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For fear of sounding like a parrot....those type of profiles should be reported Jo "
well that's what we should all be doing even if it say here making friends and if escort on profile . I will from now on report as seen it. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Open debate - No right or wrong answers

Whats your _iew .. People who work in the "paid" sex trade and also have fab profiles "
don't see anything wrong with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was an escort I doubt I could be arsed being on here too,I reckon id be sick to death of sex,it would be the same as me being on holiday from work and hanging round the A&E depts of different hospitals for fun

My point too, so why are escorts in here?

Because they want to have sex with someone they choose to..."

Lol most escorts if they are on here are Internet savy enough to have a profile elsewhere where to a point they can pick and choose there clients and I bet there are clients they enjoy being with and play with for free or a reduced rate because they like them, so again there is no real reason to be on here is there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was an escort I doubt I could be arsed being on here too,I reckon id be sick to death of sex,it would be the same as me being on holiday from work and hanging round the A&E depts of different hospitals for fun

My point too, so why are escorts in here?

Because they want to have sex with someone they choose to...And why say on there profile there job if not looking ..? I cant make out why they say I am a escort but here on fab just having fun making friends ... WHY say there job no one do here... But them here .

jo, if you think only sex workers suggest their line of work on here, then you ar fooling yourself.

how many sexy firemen/policemen/forces guys are there?

or sexy nurses?

or those that state they cant put pics on cuz theyre teachers

any number of people suggest their line of work on here, not just escorts"
yes but I never know if they really are as people can just say that thinking it looks good .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was an escort I doubt I could be arsed being on here too,I reckon id be sick to death of sex,it would be the same as me being on holiday from work and hanging round the A&E depts of different hospitals for fun

My point too, so why are escorts in here?

Because they want to have sex with someone they choose to...And why say on there profile there job if not looking ..? I cant make out why they say I am a escort but here on fab just having fun making friends ... WHY say there job no one do here... But them here .

jo, if you think only sex workers suggest their line of work on here, then you ar fooling yourself.

how many sexy firemen/policemen/forces guys are there?

or sexy nurses?

or those that state they cant put pics on cuz theyre teachers

any number of people suggest their line of work on here, not just escorts yes but I never know if they really are as people can just say that thinking it looks good ."

and escort sounds better than prostitute lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't know they made escorts any more ? thought ford stopped ages ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For fear of sounding like a parrot....those type of profiles should be reported Jo well that's what we should all be doing even if it say here making friends and if escort on profile . I will from now on report as seen it. x"

I always do after google imaging some of there pics to see if they are on other websites, even if they don't say I'm an escort certain other things don't ring true and I will report them.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

Anyone should be allowed to join this site (escorts included) as long as they stay within the rules of the site. Some escorts may enjoy swinging in their personal life outside of work.

If they break the terms of use of the site and start asking for money on here though then report and hopefully site admin will remove them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone should be allowed to join this site (escorts included) as long as they stay within the rules of the site. Some escorts may enjoy swinging in their personal life outside of work.

If they break the terms of use of the site and start asking for money on here though then report and hopefully site admin will remove them?"

this.

ateotd if you do something like sex as a living (not the drug addicted street walkers) then chances are you either really like it, and feel you may as well make a little money from it, or you are addicted to it.

either way, people on here say they can separate sex for the act it is, from love, so why cant escorts separate sex, as a recreational activity, and that of a business proposition?

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By *orthwest_cplCouple
over a year ago

Stretford


"If I was an escort I doubt I could be arsed being on here too,I reckon id be sick to death of sex,it would be the same as me being on holiday from work and hanging round the A&E depts of different hospitals for fun

My point too, so why are escorts in here?"

We've met an escort many times at a club. Strangely, she never charged us when we had sex with her - maybe she was on her dinner break?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was an escort I doubt I could be arsed being on here too,I reckon id be sick to death of sex,it would be the same as me being on holiday from work and hanging round the A&E depts of different hospitals for fun "

I'm sure escorts aren't legs akimbo 24/7. I'm sure their actual working time is a lot less than most peoples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is also very seldom men r escorts lol, women know sex is a business .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was an escort I doubt I could be arsed being on here too,I reckon id be sick to death of sex,it would be the same as me being on holiday from work and hanging round the A&E depts of different hospitals for fun

My point too, so why are escorts in here?

We've met an escort many times at a club. Strangely, she never charged us when we had sex with her - maybe she was on her dinner break?

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hope the union dont find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For fear of sounding like a parrot....those type of profiles should be reported Jo well that's what we should all be doing even if it say here making friends and if escort on profile . I will from now on report as seen it. x

I always do after google imaging some of there pics to see if they are on other websites, even if they don't say I'm an escort certain other things don't ring true and I will report them."

Report them for what?

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

Escorts have every right to use this site for what its meant for "swinging", if they are advertising for business fair enough report them as we should do but they shouldnt be reported simply because they work as an escort and enjoy swinging in there spare time, thats borderline witchhunt lol, jeez are we gonna start reporting cheats because they are using the site to cheat not swing, or report people that only have one on one meets, this has got ridiculous, report if they break the rules if they dont then dont.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago


"For fear of sounding like a parrot....those type of profiles should be reported Jo well that's what we should all be doing even if it say here making friends and if escort on profile . I will from now on report as seen it. x

I always do after google imaging some of there pics to see if they are on other websites, even if they don't say I'm an escort certain other things don't ring true and I will report them.

Report them for what? "

So we can sleep safely at night, knowing that "Flash" is keeping Swinging Safe for us all....

One Mans Traffic Warden is another Mans Terrorist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For fear of sounding like a parrot....those type of profiles should be reported Jo well that's what we should all be doing even if it say here making friends and if escort on profile . I will from now on report as seen it. x

I always do after google imaging some of there pics to see if they are on other websites, even if they don't say I'm an escort certain other things don't ring true and I will report them."

So you report them for being an escort when they are on here for fun only?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For fear of sounding like a parrot....those type of profiles should be reported Jo well that's what we should all be doing even if it say here making friends and if escort on profile . I will from now on report as seen it. x

I always do after google imaging some of there pics to see if they are on other websites, even if they don't say I'm an escort certain other things don't ring true and I will report them.

Report them for what?

So we can sleep safely at night, knowing that "Flash" is keeping Swinging Safe for us all....

One Mans Traffic Warden is another Mans Terrorist"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Escorts are entitled to their leisure time.I think its me whos the mug working over 45 hours per week for not much more than the minimum wage!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what a Fiesta..... Sorry fiasco, this thread needs a Prefect, got my interest though so I Mustang around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't bother me, they are entitled to recreational sex are they not? "

Fine thats true just as long as they are not looking to get customers on here as it gives people the wrong idea on the site.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Escorts have every right to be full members of society - and that includes enjoying their own private sex lives. There's no discussion, surely! We all have our own careers, and those who pursue escorting are no different to us, it's just that they have a slightly different pursuit.

And, after having sex as a career, I really think they deserve as much as anyone to really enjoy themselves as swingers, during their time off. We all know fab rules about advertising etc, so people going about their private lives on fab is what it's about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't bother me, they are entitled to recreational sex are they not?

Fine thats true just as long as they are not looking to get customers on here as it gives people the wrong idea on the site. "

They are on escort sites and on fab, I'm sure hard as it is to believe that escorts know the difference between escorting and swinging so will know they are on here for pleasure and not for work.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Another prime example of non judgemental swingers again!

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"It bothers me as you dont know how much teh bill is after the sex if you meet them from fab, rather have the menu before lol."

tell em you work for the tax dept lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another prime example of non judgemental swingers again! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most the 'judgements' seemed pretty open minded or did I read them wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think, live and let live, everyone has needs, I personally have never paid for sex but fully understand why some do. I could imagine for the escort it is rarely fulfilling and, like the rest of us, they have a right to have their needs fulfilled.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Doesn't bother me, they are entitled to recreational sex are they not? "

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Most the 'judgements' seemed pretty open minded or did I read them wrong?"

I read them the same way as you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I am sure there are escorts on here who are looking for no strings sex for fun.

But you'd be pretty naive if you think that some dont use this site for business purposes. It could be quite lucrative, meet some guy for sex, pull out all the stops with your sex moves, give him your personal details, phone, email etc, tell him to contact you if he wants a repeat and what the cost would be.

Im sure there are profiles who will arrange an escort session directly via fab. We are never going to know are we, unless someone reports the profile and chances are a new profile would emerge soon after,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was an escort I doubt I could be arsed being on here too,I reckon id be sick to death of sex,it would be the same as me being on holiday from work and hanging round the A&E depts of different hospitals for fun

My point too, so why are escorts in here?

Because they want to have sex with someone they choose to...And why say on there profile there job if not looking ..? I cant make out why they say I am a escort but here on fab just having fun making friends ... WHY say there job no one do here... But them here .

jo, if you think only sex workers suggest their line of work on here, then you ar fooling yourself.

how many sexy firemen/policemen/forces guys are there?

or sexy nurses?

or those that state they cant put pics on cuz theyre teachers

any number of people suggest their line of work on here, not just escorts"

Many peope do suggest their line of work here and some may play up to the stereotypes that we have regarding certain professions ie; sexy nurses, firemen, policemen. After all a uniform is considered as sexy by many people.

But the focus of this site is to hook up for non strings sex, so advertising your profession as an escort, if you are only on here for recreational sex, is rather foolish considering the amount of unnecessary messages it would create.

It would be like going on a health and beauty forum and announcing on your profile that you are a plastic surgeon

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By *anyoufeelme OP   Man
over a year ago

near you


"Most the 'judgements' seemed pretty open minded or did I read them wrong?

I read them the same way as you. "

This Thread has proven to be interesting, a good mix of light hearted banter mixed in with a great balance of sense and sensibility

well done all proves we can all play nice from time to time -)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People and society are so PC and naive,we all pay for sex wether it be directly or indirectly wether it's this site,swinging club etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People and society are so PC and naive,we all pay for sex wether it be directly or indirectly wether it's this site,swinging club etc "

I'm intrigued where Political Correctness comes into this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People and society are so PC and naive,we all pay for sex wether it be directly or indirectly wether it's this site,swinging club etc "

Not true in over 50% of cases people dont.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Open debate - No right or wrong answers

Whats your _iew .. People who work in the "paid" sex trade and also have fab profiles "

you picked on escorts.... but I know a fair few porn actresses on here... they are in the "paid" sex trade... do we single them out as well???

as long as they are not plying for trade on here... I don't see any difference between them and any other profession

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it matters if anyone in the sex trade has a profile on here.

What matters is if they are plying for paid business here by underhand tactics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only reason the worlds oldest profession is not legal is due to the Army.

If Prostitution was legal, they would have a Union, they would demand better wages, pension and working conditions. So Prostitutes would take Strike Action..... and the Army would be called in to provide Emergency Relief...

The Army don't mind putting out fires.....but....

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By *anyoufeelme OP   Man
over a year ago

near you


"Open debate - No right or wrong answers

Whats your _iew .. People who work in the "paid" sex trade and also have fab profiles

you picked on escorts.... but I know a fair few porn actresses on here... they are in the "paid" sex trade... do we single them out as well???

as long as they are not plying for trade on here... I don't see any difference between them and any other profession"

Singled out ? .... that would imply i selected a certain criteria .... I DIDNT

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Open debate - No right or wrong answers

Whats your _iew .. People who work in the "paid" sex trade and also have fab profiles

you picked on escorts.... but I know a fair few porn actresses on here... they are in the "paid" sex trade... do we single them out as well???

as long as they are not plying for trade on here... I don't see any difference between them and any other profession

Singled out ? .... that would imply i selected a certain criteria .... I DIDNT "

Read the title you chose for the thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pantotime...."Oh Yes You Did..."

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"

Singled out ? .... that would imply i selected a certain criteria .... I DIDNT "

ahem... this must be the worst case of "selective memory" I have seen in a while... what did you call the thread?

I was just pointing out there are other "sex paid" workers... do they not deserve a chance to be here as well

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By *anyoufeelme OP   Man
over a year ago

near you


"

Singled out ? .... that would imply i selected a certain criteria .... I DIDNT

ahem... this must be the worst case of "selective memory" I have seen in a while... what did you call the thread?

I was just pointing out there are other "sex paid" workers... do they not deserve a chance to be here as well "

My Point was - and ill clarify.. The point was "PICKED ON" .i object too... i haven't "picked on" any group as we have discussed in the thread.. I agree my initial point was specific about Escorts but the thread has covered several areas therefore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just been offered to ride someone for £25. Hm...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People and society are so PC and naive,we all pay for sex wether it be directly or indirectly wether it's this site,swinging club etc "

if you are paying for sex at swinging clubs, then you may want to report the management to the law.

the only swinging club we went to, we paid to enter a venue, where sexual activity is welcomed and encouraged, but not insisted upon (so not actually paying for sex, but merely somewhere to do it), same with paying your dues on here.

they dont entitle you to sex, otherwise every single bloke on here would be a paying member, it merely shows you have a wish in helping with the costs of running the site.

the ONLY people that pay for sex, are those that actually DO go with escorts and prostitutes in a professional capacity, because you cant even say marriage is paying for sex, otherwise there wouldnt be so many 'single' men on here looking for extras.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was an escort I doubt I could be arsed being on here too,I reckon id be sick to death of sex,it would be the same as me being on holiday from work and hanging round the A&E depts of different hospitals for fun

My point too, so why are escorts in here?

Because they want to have sex with someone they choose to...And why say on there profile there job if not looking ..? I cant make out why they say I am a escort but here on fab just having fun making friends ... WHY say there job no one do here... But them here .

jo, if you think only sex workers suggest their line of work on here, then you ar fooling yourself.

how many sexy firemen/policemen/forces guys are there?

or sexy nurses?

or those that state they cant put pics on cuz theyre teachers

any number of people suggest their line of work on here, not just escorts

Many peope do suggest their line of work here and some may play up to the stereotypes that we have regarding certain professions ie; sexy nurses, firemen, policemen. After all a uniform is considered as sexy by many people.

But the focus of this site is to hook up for non strings sex, so advertising your profession as an escort, if you are only on here for recreational sex, is rather foolish considering the amount of unnecessary messages it would create.

It would be like going on a health and beauty forum and announcing on your profile that you are a plastic surgeon "

and thats a bad thing?

i suppose those suggesting they are escorts are doing so to show they have attained a certain level of sexual play that they feel they are good enough at to charge for the privilege.

if i wanted a shelf putting up, i wouldnt get in touch with a sexy fireman lol

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"

Singled out ? .... that would imply i selected a certain criteria .... I DIDNT

ahem... this must be the worst case of "selective memory" I have seen in a while... what did you call the thread?

I was just pointing out there are other "sex paid" workers... do they not deserve a chance to be here as well

My Point was - and ill clarify.. The point was "PICKED ON" .i object too... i haven't "picked on" any group as we have discussed in the thread.. I agree my initial point was specific about Escorts but the thread has covered several areas therefore "

You singled out escorts when there are numerous other people involved in many other forms of paid sex work on fab. That is "picking on" escorts. Just because other people did or did not mention other sex professions doesn't change that you were singling out escorts.

Escorts shouldn't be regarded differently to other sex workers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just been offered to ride someone for £25. Hm..."

You should definitely hold out for £30.

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By *effrey45Man
over a year ago

Lytham


"Most of the ladies on here are escorts"

No ........... Most woman who are here love sex as much as men and feel they have the same rights too as men . Its not a mans world now its a womans world too .

It's a woman's world I live in a house with 3 woman, the world population has swung 3% towards woman in the last century, Mother Nature has decided to fight back against men who have ruined this planet, I am not proud to be a man"

Not proud to be a man??

What sort of bloke are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of the ladies on here are escorts"

No ........... Most woman who are here love sex as much as men and feel they have the same rights too as men . Its not a mans world now its a womans world too .

It's a woman's world I live in a house with 3 woman, the world population has swung 3% towards woman in the last century, Mother Nature has decided to fight back against men who have ruined this planet, I am not proud to be a man

Not proud to be a man??

What sort of bloke are you?"

A man with more than one verification and no endless cock pics!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was an escort I doubt I could be arsed being on here too,I reckon id be sick to death of sex,it would be the same as me being on holiday from work and hanging round the A&E depts of different hospitals for fun

My point too, so why are escorts in here?

Because they want to have sex with someone they choose to...And why say on there profile there job if not looking ..? I cant make out why they say I am a escort but here on fab just having fun making friends ... WHY say there job no one do here... But them here .

jo, if you think only sex workers suggest their line of work on here, then you ar fooling yourself.

how many sexy firemen/policemen/forces guys are there?

or sexy nurses?

or those that state they cant put pics on cuz theyre teachers

any number of people suggest their line of work on here, not just escorts

Many peope do suggest their line of work here and some may play up to the stereotypes that we have regarding certain professions ie; sexy nurses, firemen, policemen. After all a uniform is considered as sexy by many people.

But the focus of this site is to hook up for non strings sex, so advertising your profession as an escort, if you are only on here for recreational sex, is rather foolish considering the amount of unnecessary messages it would create.

It would be like going on a health and beauty forum and announcing on your profile that you are a plastic surgeon "

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Having just read this thread right through, I am

I can 100% guarantee that there are many paid sex workers of varying types on this site who are here for recreational sex only and are not touting for business in any way. I know a few of them.

Some of the comments are unreal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having just read this thread right through, I am

I can 100% guarantee that there are many paid sex workers of varying types on this site who are here for recreational sex only and are not touting for business in any way. I know a few of them.

Some of the comments are unreal "
I know some are my friends and not one has it on there profile you would never know just normal people nothing different about them at all. Its just when you see on a profile escort but not looking for work just friends ... only thing I say is why say as people are meeting them not needing to know there job and on a sex site . As still will get people mailing in hope they can pay. Some will get around the fab rules doing this in hope some will mail too .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having just read this thread right through, I am

I can 100% guarantee that there are many paid sex workers of varying types on this site who are here for recreational sex only and are not touting for business in any way. I know a few of them.

Some of the comments are unreal I know some are my friends and not one has it on there profile you would never know just normal people nothing different about them at all. Its just when you see on a profile escort but not looking for work just friends ... only thing I say is why say as people are meeting them not needing to know there job and on a sex site . As still will get people mailing in hope they can pay. Some will get around the fab rules doing this in hope some will mail too ."

Exactly on 2 occasions I've been chatting to ladies I knew to be escorts and they've eventually said oh I see your married sorry I won't see you on here but if your look at my profile on a/w then I will see you!!!

Strange how no escort has come on here to defend or just contribute, unless of course they have present company excepted xxx

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Having just read this thread right through, I am

I can 100% guarantee that there are many paid sex workers of varying types on this site who are here for recreational sex only and are not touting for business in any way. I know a few of them.

Some of the comments are unreal I know some are my friends and not one has it on there profile you would never know just normal people nothing different about them at all. Its just when you see on a profile escort but not looking for work just friends ... only thing I say is why say as people are meeting them not needing to know there job and on a sex site . As still will get people mailing in hope they can pay. Some will get around the fab rules doing this in hope some will mail too .

Exactly on 2 occasions I've been chatting to ladies I knew to be escorts and they've eventually said oh I see your married sorry I won't see you on here but if your look at my profile on a/w then I will see you!!!

Strange how no escort has come on here to defend or just contribute, unless of course they have present company excepted xxx"

Ruggers posted much further up to tell people not to say they are an escort on this thread. As far as you can know, sex workers, both current or previous, could have posted here.

Besides, some don't want to advertise the fact on here. Isn't that what you are complaining about? Those who advertise on here?

Why should an escort have to defend themselves and their right to seek recreational sex with people they fancy. I'm damned sure I'd want to do what I wanted with people I'm attracted to after servicing countless people I'm not attracted to and doing exactly what they want.

I'm getting a NIMBYesque feeling that some regard escorts as lesser beings that should be kept segregated from the decent "real swingers" (whatever and whoever they are).

I agree nobody should tout for paid work on here, be it sex or plumbing. I don't necessarily see as setting a cover charge for events and parties as charging for sex. It depends on the individual circumstances.

I don't think all sex workers should be lumped into the same category and be treated as pariahs here. If they follow the rules, they should be as welcome as anyone else.

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