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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering . ( Please feel free to tell me to f..k off) But .. when you chat us guys and request a face pic . Then we get the dreaded " Sorry not my type " message . Could you at least send a " Look what you coulda won " Pic back . Just so (Even if its a lie ) We can have the pleasure of saying " Thats fine!! You was not my type anyway .Cheers ma dears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NOOOOOOO x

I know you'd be polite x but I've sent a pic n then just got ignored

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why I have a face pic on my profile so I don't run into this problem. Men can then msg me if I am their type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's why I have a face pic on my profile so I don't run into this problem. Men can then msg me if I am their type."

Same (except not for men).

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've had this, chit chat sent face pic, blocked. Too ugly to fuck? No...,obviously, clearly and phew! Lucky escape me - something wrong with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's why I have a face pic on my profile so I don't run into this problem. Men can then msg me if I am their type."

same here ...

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Its happened to all I guess,

I console myself with the thought that " I was out of their league,"

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Haha nope!! But then if it were the other way round I wouldn't expect them to send one if they didn't like mine x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha nope!! But then if it were the other way round I wouldn't expect them to send one if they didn't like mine x"

Nope from me too, I've done that and had rude replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What difference will it make? The answer will still be no.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Just wondering . ( Please feel free to tell me to f..k off) But .. when you chat us guys and request a face pic . Then we get the dreaded " Sorry not my type " message . Could you at least send a " Look what you coulda won " Pic back . Just so (Even if its a lie ) We can have the pleasure of saying " Thats fine!! You was not my type anyway .Cheers ma dears "

If I sent a pic to every guy who messaged me I might as well just make them public.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Not my type doesn't necessarily mean unattractive. I may decline because of facial hair, miserable looking photo, axe murderer eyes, because they're dark and I prefer fair...

It's not necessarily any kind of negative judgement.

Given that, I'm not really sure why the other party not being your type would make you feel better.

Once I've been turned down it no longer matters to me what the other person looks like. I'm more likely to be stalk...looking for my next vic...potential meet than thinking about it.

I could just be strange. Actually, I know I'm strange, I mean maybe I'm strange when it comes to this specifically.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think of it as going on a blind date

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not my type doesn't necessarily mean unattractive. I may decline because of facial hair, miserable looking photo, axe murderer eyes, because they're dark and I prefer fair...

It's not necessarily any kind of negative judgement.

Given that, I'm not really sure why the other party not being your type would make you feel better.

Once I've been turned down it no longer matters to me what the other person looks like. I'm more likely to be stalk...looking for my next vic...potential meet than thinking about it.

I could just be strange. Actually, I know I'm strange, I mean maybe I'm strange when it comes to this specifically.

"
It was a bit of tougne in cheek . But yes you are strange

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We've encountered radio silence after sending face pictures sometimes we think it's because they don't realise that people in their fifties are going to have faces of people (albeit gorgeous, well preserved and prize winning ) who are in their fifties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the point of that? Would rather just spend the time messaging someone else than someone who wasn't interested. I have my face pics on public display so would assume people who weren't interested wouldn't message and ask to attach a face pic. I do get some rather bizarre reasons not to send one though. I hate chatting to people when I don't know what they look like, think its a bit rude really but that's just me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd send my face pic just to be sure you wouldn't message me again

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You dont have to be too ugly, or even ugly at all, or not in someone's league, to not be chosen to pursue things with. And it is rather unenlightened to think that someone one is not compatible with is going to lavish attention on one following their decision to move on. Thats what one has likewise to do - move on. It could be seen as rubbing your nose in things to send the money shot etc, and I think I find it a bit pathetic to send a consolation prize of a pic, to prop up another's ego or esteem. Im not pursuing this suggestion and having someone at my coat tails. Life is short, spend it wisely.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Not my type doesn't necessarily mean unattractive. I may decline because of facial hair, miserable looking photo, axe murderer eyes, because they're dark and I prefer fair...

It's not necessarily any kind of negative judgement.

Given that, I'm not really sure why the other party not being your type would make you feel better.

Once I've been turned down it no longer matters to me what the other person looks like. I'm more likely to be stalk...looking for my next vic...potential meet than thinking about it.

I could just be strange. Actually, I know I'm strange, I mean maybe I'm strange when it comes to this specifically.

It was a bit of tougne in cheek . But yes you are strange "

No shit, Sherlock!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd send my face pic just to be sure you wouldn't message me again "
I am sure thats not true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my face pick on profile anyway so if i wasn't your type you wouldn't message me if you don't have a face pick we need to see it its only fair ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use my face pic to scare small children and to punish men who do not reach my exacting standards....

So your welcome to mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No!. Just because you have sent me a picture doesn't mean I have to send one back. What's the point for me. I don't want any more people than necessary seeing my pic. I would be happy to get a polite no thanks. At least it's not ignore and block.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I use my face pic to scare small children and to punish men who do not reach my exacting standards....

So your welcome to mine "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No!. Just because you have sent me a picture doesn't mean I have to send one back. What's the point for me. I don't want any more people than necessary seeing my pic. I would be happy to get a polite no thanks. At least it's not ignore and block. "
No I agree but if you request one off me I think it would be polite to send one back

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"No!. Just because you have sent me a picture doesn't mean I have to send one back. What's the point for me. I don't want any more people than necessary seeing my pic. I would be happy to get a polite no thanks. At least it's not ignore and block. No I agree but if you request one off me I think it would be polite to send one back "

Yes, I agree with you there. I prefer to keep face pics off here as much as possible, so usually I wait until I have an inkling I might like to meet someone, but I would not ask for theirs meanwhile. If I am sent one unsolicited I do not feel I have to reply in kind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a lot of faceless avatars with the message " Can I see your pics?". Bit cheeky seeing how there faceless lol

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


" Could you at least send a " Look what you coulda won " Pic back . "

Please, please, please send a pic of a speed boat.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"I get a lot of faceless avatars with the message " Can I see your pics?". Bit cheeky seeing how there faceless lol "

I ll show you mine if you show mw yours,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the point of that? Would rather just spend the time messaging someone else than someone who wasn't interested. I have my face pics on public display so would assume people who weren't interested wouldn't message and ask to attach a face pic. I do get some rather bizarre reasons not to send one though. I hate chatting to people when I don't know what they look like, think its a bit rude really but that's just me."

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


" Could you at least send a " Look what you coulda won " Pic back .

Please, please, please send a pic of a speed boat. "

Now, now Tina, you know what happened last time motor boats were involved - it's all fun and games till someone loses an eye/breaks a nose!

To the OP, when I have sent a pic after saying a polite no thanks the response to it is either that I'm a fat munter so he wouldn't have met me if I'd begged or I start getting the begging messages. Neither of these makes for a fun inbox so if it's a no I simply say so and leave it there.

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By *anyoufeelmeMan
over a year ago

near you

IM SURE THE OP meant well .... but honestly this was never going to end well ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" Could you at least send a " Look what you coulda won " Pic back .

Please, please, please send a pic of a speed boat.

Now, now Tina, you know what happened last time motor boats were involved - it's all fun and games till someone loses an eye/breaks a nose!

To the OP, when I have sent a pic after saying a polite no thanks the response to it is either that I'm a fat munter so he wouldn't have met me if I'd begged or I start getting the begging messages. Neither of these makes for a fun inbox so if it's a no I simply say so and leave it there. "
ooooo you are a hard un

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"IM SURE THE OP meant well .... but honestly this was never going to end well ..."
Ive got thick skin and other bits

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


" Could you at least send a " Look what you coulda won " Pic back .

Please, please, please send a pic of a speed boat.

Now, now Tina, you know what happened last time motor boats were involved - it's all fun and games till someone loses an eye/breaks a nose!

To the OP, when I have sent a pic after saying a polite no thanks the response to it is either that I'm a fat munter so he wouldn't have met me if I'd begged or I start getting the begging messages. Neither of these makes for a fun inbox so if it's a no I simply say so and leave it there. ooooo you are a hard un "

You know it

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Just wondering . ( Please feel free to tell me to f..k off) But .. when you chat us guys and request a face pic . Then we get the dreaded " Sorry not my type " message . Could you at least send a " Look what you coulda won " Pic back . Just so (Even if its a lie ) We can have the pleasure of saying " Thats fine!! You was not my type anyway .Cheers ma dears "

Tosh ....... Reverse the serving order. You say to her.. 'I'll send you mine if you send me yours.'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" Could you at least send a " Look what you coulda won " Pic back .

Please, please, please send a pic of a speed boat. "
Ive got a Moth ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to send a pic of my road kill. Instantly blocked

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just wondering . ( Please feel free to tell me to f..k off) But .. when you chat us guys and request a face pic . Then we get the dreaded " Sorry not my type " message . Could you at least send a " Look what you coulda won " Pic back . Just so (Even if its a lie ) We can have the pleasure of saying " Thats fine!! You was not my type anyway .Cheers ma dears

Tosh ....... Reverse the serving order. You say to her.. 'I'll send you mine if you send me yours.' "
yeah good

Tip . Then I'll say ." Nah yer not my type " and won't send mine . Revenge is sweet

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


" Could you at least send a " Look what you coulda won " Pic back .

Please, please, please send a pic of a speed boat. Ive got a Moth ? "

Aha! proof positive that the dragon was overrated!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I prefer to send a pic of my road kill. Instantly blocked "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" Could you at least send a " Look what you coulda won " Pic back .

Please, please, please send a pic of a speed boat. Ive got a Moth ?

Aha! proof positive that the dragon was overrated! "
A very rare dragon moth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use my face pic to scare small children and to punish men who do not reach my exacting standards....

So your welcome to mine "

thats me buggered then

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


" Could you at least send a " Look what you coulda won " Pic back .

Please, please, please send a pic of a speed boat. Ive got a Moth ?

Aha! proof positive that the dragon was overrated! A very rare dragon moth "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" Could you at least send a " Look what you coulda won " Pic back .

Please, please, please send a pic of a speed boat. Ive got a Moth ?

Aha! proof positive that the dragon was overrated! A very rare dragon moth

"
Size of a dragon but with the wings of a moth . Which does hinder its flying techniques

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering . ( Please feel free to tell me to f..k off) But .. when you chat us guys and request a face pic . Then we get the dreaded " Sorry not my type " message . Could you at least send a " Look what you coulda won " Pic back . Just so (Even if its a lie ) We can have the pleasure of saying " Thats fine!! You was not my type anyway .Cheers ma dears

Tosh ....... Reverse the serving order. You say to her.. 'I'll send you mine if you send me yours.' "

When he came to Wales he said I'll show you mine if you show me yours. It was all very embarrassing when he got thrown out of the fish and chip shop for exposing himself

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I was hoping he wore his pinny at all times, showing his bum off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was hoping he wore his pinny at all times, showing his bum off "

The problem was Tina, he put it on back to front Can you imagine where he tied the bow? I'll never be able to show my face in thee again

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"I was hoping he wore his pinny at all times, showing his bum off

The problem was Tina, he put it on back to front Can you imagine where he tied the bow? I'll never be able to show my face in thee again "

Yes, but weren't you tempted to pull him along by the bow? Or at the least, quickly tie it to a passing car?

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I was hoping he wore his pinny at all times, showing his bum off

The problem was Tina, he put it on back to front Can you imagine where he tied the bow? I'll never be able to show my face in thee again

Yes, but weren't you tempted to pull him along by the bow? Or at the least, quickly tie it to a passing car? "

You mean she didn't get the "Meeting Toshn? Things you should know" mailing?

It's very handy, warns you about his flashing and reminds you that he's under a leash law at all times.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering . ( Please feel free to tell me to f..k off) But .. when you chat us guys and request a face pic . Then we get the dreaded " Sorry not my type " message . Could you at least send a " Look what you coulda won " Pic back . Just so (Even if its a lie ) We can have the pleasure of saying " Thats fine!! You was not my type anyway .Cheers ma dears "

"F..k off "

Permission was granted wasn't it ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was hoping he wore his pinny at all times, showing his bum off

The problem was Tina, he put it on back to front Can you imagine where he tied the bow? I'll never be able to show my face in thee again

Yes, but weren't you tempted to pull him along by the bow? Or at the least, quickly tie it to a passing car?

You mean she didn't get the "Meeting Toshn? Things you should know" mailing?

It's very handy, warns you about his flashing and reminds you that he's under a leash law at all times. "
Thought my ears was bloody burning

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was hoping he wore his pinny at all times, showing his bum off

The problem was Tina, he put it on back to front Can you imagine where he tied the bow? I'll never be able to show my face in thee again "
Took you 2 and a half hours to tell me it was back to front though . Minx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was hoping he wore his pinny at all times, showing his bum off

The problem was Tina, he put it on back to front Can you imagine where he tied the bow? I'll never be able to show my face in thee again

Yes, but weren't you tempted to pull him along by the bow? Or at the least, quickly tie it to a passing car? "
I have feelings yer know Tina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was hoping he wore his pinny at all times, showing his bum off

The problem was Tina, he put it on back to front Can you imagine where he tied the bow? I'll never be able to show my face in thee again Took you 2 and a half hours to tell me it was back to front though . Minx "

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here, face pic to, but do rotate it with a full hardon pic with face to lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No!. Just because you have sent me a picture doesn't mean I have to send one back. What's the point for me. I don't want any more people than necessary seeing my pic. I would be happy to get a polite no thanks. At least it's not ignore and block. No I agree but if you request one off me I think it would be polite to send one back "

Yes I agree with you there. I would never ask for a picture in the first place. If I like somebody then I will send a picture. But if some random person sends me a pic then I won't send one back unless I like the look of them.

X

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