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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have been chatting to a Fem, sorting out a meet, she has kids so school times are best for her, then she says she can accommodate after the kids have gone to bed, I replied sorry not keen on that and she blocked me!

NO way would I play with her kids in bed!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Says quite a bit about her.

Each to their own I guess...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blocks are no big thing they are like saying no

Don't take it personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aarrrggghhhhhhhhh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Says quite a bit about her.

Each to their own I guess..."

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

is blocking the new black

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Blocks are no big thing they are like saying no

Don't take it personally "

I am not taking it personally, as a single guy I have been blocked a good few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is blocking the new black"

It would appear so!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"then she says she can accommodate after the kids have gone to bed, I replied sorry not keen on that and she blocked me!

NO way would I play with her kids in bed!!!"

I agree with your sentiments bro.

But she may have thought you were trying to make demands/control her time.

It's not what you say, but how you say it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been chatting to a Fem, sorting out a meet, she has kids so school times are best for her, then she says she can accommodate after the kids have gone to bed, I replied sorry not keen on that and she blocked me!

NO way would I play with her kids in bed!!!"

That would put me off too x like guys who say they can accommodate cos the wife ...... Or mother is out.

Yuk x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NO way would I play with her kids in bed!!!"

Shouldnt be playing with her kids anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

NO way would I play with her kids in bed!!!

Shouldnt be playing with her kids anyway

I knew someone would say that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NO way would I play with her kids in bed!!!

Shouldnt be playing with her kids anyway

Seriously? That comment is way out of line!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NO way would I play with her kids in bed!!!

Shouldnt be playing with her kids anyway

I knew someone would say that

Lol to obvious!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had this suggested to me twice by 2 guys and 'politely' declined their offer.

The 2nd one really really pissed me off :

'My 14 year old daughter will be in so we'll just stay downstairs. It's OK, she is disabled so can't get down the stairs on her own'

I also went round to a lasses house for a bi mmf and after proceedings were brought to a close, she said 'am just glad we didn't wake my son up'

That pleased me no end. The guy who made the arrangements with her claimed to be in the dark on the kids in the house bit aswell.

Not sure who to believe, I just blocked the pair of em.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could never meet with my kids in my care. As for the guy with the disabled 14 year old id have met him just to give the selfish sod a good slap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NO way would I play with her kids in bed!!!"

Stick to your convictions I would you may be blocked but you maintain your rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"then she says she can accommodate after the kids have gone to bed, I replied sorry not keen on that and she blocked me!

NO way would I play with her kids in bed!!!

I agree with your sentiments bro.

But she may have thought you were trying to make demands/control her time.

It's not what you say, but how you say it.

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By *yphoon1Man
over a year ago

Wise to say no.

Avoided any potential problems/encounters with kids by being blocked.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"I could never meet with my kids in my care. As for the guy with the disabled 14 year old id have met him just to give the selfish sod a good slap"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NO way would I play with her kids in bed!!!

Shouldnt be playing with her kids anyway

if ever there was a need for a comma

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

you May be blocked and missed out on the shag of your life in the neighbouring annex but good on you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"then she says she can accommodate after the kids have gone to bed, I replied sorry not keen on that and she blocked me!

NO way would I play with her kids in bed!!!

I agree with your sentiments bro.

But she may have thought you were trying to make demands/control her time.

It's not what you say, but how you say it.

It was said like this!

Me -- Must be honest, not too keen on that

Her -- I could accommodate some nights when kids are in bed

Me -- so others times are not good for you then?

Her -- Ok x

Me -- I teach at a College so work weekdays

Her -- I'm free during school hours mainly

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

. . .and in the neighbouring annex was a sound proof mirrored room and 5ukrainian virgins. . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"then she says she can accommodate after the kids have gone to bed, I replied sorry not keen on that and she blocked me!

NO way would I play with her kids in bed!!!

I agree with your sentiments bro.

But she may have thought you were trying to make demands/control her time.

It's not what you say, but how you say it.

It was said like this!

Me -- Must be honest, not too keen on that

Her -- I could accommodate some nights when kids are in bed

Me -- so others times are not good for you then?

Her -- Ok x

Me -- I teach at a College so work weekdays

Her -- I'm free during school hours mainly

You sure it wasn't the scintillating conversation that proved too much for her ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"then she says she can accommodate after the kids have gone to bed, I replied sorry not keen on that and she blocked me!

NO way would I play with her kids in bed!!!

I agree with your sentiments bro.

But she may have thought you were trying to make demands/control her time.

It's not what you say, but how you say it.

It was said like this!

Me -- Must be honest, not too keen on that

Her -- I could accommodate some nights when kids are in bed

Me -- so others times are not good for you then?

Her -- Ok x

Me -- I teach at a College so work weekdays

Her -- I'm free during school hours mainly

Blocked you or she died of boredom?

Either way - move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"then she says she can accommodate after the kids have gone to bed, I replied sorry not keen on that and she blocked me!

NO way would I play with her kids in bed!!!

I agree with your sentiments bro.

But she may have thought you were trying to make demands/control her time.

It's not what you say, but how you say it.

It was said like this!

Me -- Must be honest, not too keen on that

Her -- I could accommodate some nights when kids are in bed

Me -- so others times are not good for you then?

Her -- Ok x

Me -- I teach at a College so work weekdays

Her -- I'm free during school hours mainly

Blocked you or she died of boredom?

Either way - move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You sure it wasn't the scintillating conversation that proved too much for her ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats the problem, mix 3 parts tixylix with 1 part whiskey, administer 1 hour before bed time and bobs yer uncle fannys yer aunt, problem solved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Whats the problem, mix 3 parts tixylix with 1 part whiskey, administer 1 hour before bed time and bobs yer uncle fannys yer aunt, problem solved

tried that and i had a lovely nights sleep

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Have a wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've recently been blocked by a lady I've met twice and been chatting to for months ... No idea why, can't find out either.

As earlier said, blocked in the new black !

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By *yphoon1Man
over a year ago

NO way would I play with her kids in bed!!!

Shouldnt be playing with her kids anyway

if ever there was a need for a comma "

Best grammar fail yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no right or wrong here, you have to be a single parent to know how trapped and lonely the evenings are when the kids are asleep by 8:30pm, you can't go out, you can't make much noise, the enforced solitude wears pretty thin after a while.

Remember that in real life sex happens when the kids are asleep, otherwise no one would have a brother or sister.

At the same time the OP's reservations are more than understandable, no one likes the thought of a distracted meet with the possibility of having to hide in the kitchen silently, whilst footsteps are investigated.

lose lose situation here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is no right or wrong here, you have to be a single parent to know how trapped and lonely the evenings are when the kids are asleep by 8:30pm, you can't go out, you can't make much noise, the enforced solitude wears pretty thin after a while.

Remember that in real life sex happens when the kids are asleep, otherwise no one would have a brother or sister.

lose lose situation here.

Fair point but I think it's more of letting a stranger in to the house. Let's face it, you really don't know who you're chatting to on here (the majority of the time).

I'd stake a wager on for every 10 guys she brings back, at the least 1 will have "extreme" tendencies. And there lies the lottery.

Lonely existence for me is a small price to pay to knowing your kid's safe at night.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Not sure the op was not just stating he had been somewhat messed around. The rules kept changing. Preferences dont always match, one must deal with it.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

NO way would I play with her kids in bed!!!

Shouldnt be playing with her kids anyway

Lego is great but I think I'd prefer sex, usually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've recently been blocked by a lady I've met twice and been chatting to for months ... No idea why, can't find out either.

As earlier said, blocked in the new black !"

being a single parent myself i do identify with the loneliness the first poster spoke of and it is true that when i.n a relationship you have sex when the kids are asleep but the difference is you know you can trust the person you're in the relationship with.

As the second poster said on a site like this you are playing a lottery, yes they can be lovely to chat to; but before my kids when i was last on here as a single girl, ive met guys that seem lovely til after that first meet then they have turned and ive seen their true colours, so i too see the loneliness as a small price to pay for my girls safety. I dont even accomodate untill after agood couple of meets to help ensure their safety that way too

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

NO way would I play with her kids in bed!!!

Shouldnt be playing with her kids anyway

Lego is great but I think I'd prefer sex, usually

Not with the kids, I hasten to add!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NO way would I play with her kids in bed!!!

Shouldnt be playing with her kids anyway

Lego is great but I think I'd prefer sex, usually

Not with the kids, I hasten to add!

Too late, what has been said cannot be unsaid and is now immortalised in my quote.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd stake a wager on for every 10 guys she brings back, at the least 1 will have "extreme" tendencies. And there lies the lottery.

Lonely existence for me is a small price to pay to knowing your kid's safe at night. "

If every 10th meet was an uncivilised "extreme" I think I would give up on the human race..

While I agree safety is all important, I have been there and know the loneliness grows night after night, perhaps worse because my first wife died when the children were young so I didn't like having time to think ever.

As I said no right or wrong.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I dont even accomodate untill after agood couple of meets to help ensure their safety that way too"

I do this, (don't initially accommodate), for my own safety so I'd certainly do it if I had kids.

It does make getting meets very difficult though, particularly because I'm too bloody picky.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

NO way would I play with her kids in bed!!!

Shouldnt be playing with her kids anyway

Lego is great but I think I'd prefer sex, usually

Not with the kids, I hasten to add!

Too late, what has been said cannot be unsaid and is now immortalised in my quote."

Be quiet, you! Everyone knows I meant I'd rather play with the adult than with the kids, regardless of how awesome Lego is.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

What is it with these blocking threads?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would never even consider letting anyone inside our houses when our children are present - for us it is just a 100% no no. The loneliness of single parenthood is very isolating but to expose your children to any risk even that of a seeing something you don't want them to - No way, for us it's totally unacceptable and no doubt social services should and may also have an opinion. J and I were on cam a few weeks ago and a baby was crying in the background - ignored as a woman sat at her computer - it turned both of our stomachs - we felt quite sick and moved quickly onto the next room!!!! We choose to be on this site and we have that right. Our children have the right to be protected!!!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"What is it with these blocking threads?!!

It's Butthurt Week, didn't you get the memo?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"is blocking the new black"

Apparently!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We would never even consider letting anyone inside our houses when our children are present - for us it is just a 100% no no. The loneliness of single parenthood is very isolating but to expose your children to any risk even that of a seeing something you don't want them to - No way, for us it's totally unacceptable and no doubt social services should and may also have an opinion. J and I were on cam a few weeks ago and a baby was crying in the background - ignored as a woman sat at her computer - it turned both of our stomachs - we felt quite sick and moved quickly onto the next room!!!! We choose to be on this site and we have that right. Our children have the right to be protected!!!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I dont even accomodate untill after agood couple of meets to help ensure their safety that way too

I do this, (don't initially accommodate), for my own safety so I'd certainly do it if I had kids.

It does make getting meets very difficult though, particularly because I'm too bloody picky."

As a single male I would never invite a stranger home, there is never a riush to meet anyone, and if waiting puts them of, so be it

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Remember that in real life sex happens when the kids are asleep, otherwise no one would have a brother or sister.

lose lose situation here.

I was on my own with two young daughters. If you can't see the difference between having sex with your husband, the father of your children and inviting random men you meet of a sex site into your home in the middle of the night with your kids in the house, I despair!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Remember that in real life sex happens when the kids are asleep, otherwise no one would have a brother or sister.

lose lose situation here.

Fair point but I think it's more of letting a stranger in to the house. Let's face it, you really don't know who you're chatting to on here (the majority of the time).

I'd stake a wager on for every 10 guys she brings back, at the least 1 will have "extreme" tendencies. And there lies the lottery.

Lonely existence for me is a small price to pay to knowing your kid's safe at night. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Remember that in real life sex happens when the kids are asleep, otherwise no one would have a brother or sister.

lose lose situation here.

Fair point but I think it's more of letting a stranger in to the house. Let's face it, you really don't know who you're chatting to on here (the majority of the time).

I'd stake a wager on for every 10 guys she brings back, at the least 1 will have "extreme" tendencies. And there lies the lottery.

Lonely existence for me is a small price to pay to knowing your kid's safe at night.

Exactly well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember that in real life sex happens when the kids are asleep, otherwise no one would have a brother or sister.

lose lose situation here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And the problem is ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Says quite a bit about her.

Each to their own I guess..."

Enlighten us .... what exactly does it say about her other than the fact that she's used a facility provided by the site to make 100% certain she's not contacted by someone that she no longer wishes to communicate with.

Apart from that, it says absolutely bugger all about her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NO way would I play with her kids in bed!!!

Shouldnt be playing with her kids anyway

what if they are 33 and swingers too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Says quite a bit about her.

Each to their own I guess...

Apart from that, it says absolutely bugger all about her."

I think they mean in context of allowing a stranger in their home for promiscuous activities with their infant asleep metres away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think it would be ok to invite a man round when your kids were in bed as long as you were extra careful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i think it would be ok to invite a man round when your kids were in bed as long as you were extra careful.

Agree, kids are very good sleepers even when disturbed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is blocking the new black"

Block is black ..

I want my veri back

What can I do

Cos I,I,I, ,I I feel blue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just surprised I haven't been blocked more often

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