FabSwingers.com forum: Friends who sit on your list but never speak!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Don't understand why people request you as Friend speak for a day or two the go mute..... Dose everybody have friends lists like this or am I added shy people lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here, I think I need to cull a few so called friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't understand why people request you as Friend speak for a day or two the go mute..... Dose everybody have friends lists like this or am I added shy people lol "

I have this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am the worst friend ever and hardly speak to anyone.

Sorry friends.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Can't say I get the friends thing at all I never even look its scary as hell in there nothing but cock pics shudder

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Same here, I think I need to cull a few so called friends

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. I will make 1 last effort to gain some sort of response and if it fails....Its the firing squad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only add those I've agreed to meet. If they seem to loose interest and stop speaking then they're off my list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and when I delete them, they send mail asking why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what you use the friends list for. I don't chat to my friends much. They know where I am if they need me and I know where they are. It's not Facebook.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do a regular cull of people on my list who I don't contact me or don't contact me

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Depends on what you use the friends list for. I don't chat to my friends much. They know where I am if they need me and I know where they are. It's not Facebook. "

You just bloody ignorant

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I'm more reactive than proactive when it come to friend chatting but that doesn't mean I don't love them all vewy vewy much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooops , Sorry lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on what you use the friends list for. I don't chat to my friends much. They know where I am if they need me and I know where they are. It's not Facebook.

You just bloody ignorant

I am an unsociable cowbag.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Depends on what you use the friends list for. I don't chat to my friends much. They know where I am if they need me and I know where they are. It's not Facebook.

You just bloody ignorant

I am an unsociable cowbag.

Hmmmm id not go quite that far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cull.. Make notes eg if a guy is working away etc.

No contact equals cull.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I've just deleted a load of people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ooops , Sorry lovely

xx"
. Aaaaaaw your gorgeous tho hunni so your safe xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some people like to add you on here if you have friends only pics , and if you do spur of the moment meets .

Also if they live out of your area but travel so they can see your updates .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just deleted a load of people "

checks friends list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to do a cull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use the friends list so that we can have verified people on there. We have our most open pictures on there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have many friends the ones i do rarely respond when i message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hardly keep anyone on my friends list ,a couple are hardly on here but always talk when they are and I've known them years,there's one that message then nothing for hours but I'm used to that.if someone is online regularly but doesn't talk I do delete .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooops , Sorry lovely

xx. Aaaaaaw your gorgeous tho hunni so your safe xx

Phew , Thankyou sexy bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our face pics are on our friends gallery and we keep people on our friends list who we have met or may want to meet in the future. We don't talk to everybody and it's a case of when we are able to swing, we access the friends list first.

There are some people on our friends list who we hardly exchanged one message with but if we had a 'wanting to meet' status update then at least they maybe able to meet if free.

I suppose like anything, people use friends lists for different things. We certainly don't use it like Facebook or general catchups but it may suit some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't understand why people request you as Friend speak for a day or two the go mute..... Dose everybody have friends lists like this or am I added shy people lol "

If they bother you then just delete them then they are out of mind.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't understand why people request you as Friend speak for a day or two the go mute..... Dose everybody have friends lists like this or am I added shy people lol

If they bother you then just delete them then they are out of mind. "
. Just have now I'll await the " but why?" Mail carnt win some days lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't understand why people request you as Friend speak for a day or two the go mute..... Dose everybody have friends lists like this or am I added shy people lol "

if you was on my friends list i would make an effort of chatting to you

Personally tho im only friends on here with people i have met, so my friends list is minimal.

think a lot of people add people with a friends request just so they can perv on peoples pics

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"I'm more reactive than proactive when it come to friend chatting but that doesn't mean I don't love them all vewy vewy much.

Same here plus a man has to eat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't understand why people request you as Friend speak for a day or two the go mute..... Dose everybody have friends lists like this or am I added shy people lol "

You have 20 pictures in your private gallery, they are desperate to see them. once seen they go looking for the next profile with private pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't understand why people request you as Friend speak for a day or two the go mute..... Dose everybody have friends lists like this or am I added shy people lol "

I suspect for some at least they are more interested in the private pictures than chatting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

the 'friend' option doesn't interest me at all, I have no 'friends only' pics and I hold no interest at looking at someone else's.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I am selective about whom I add and I have periodic culls but I exchange messages with most on my friend's list only occasionally. Several I chat to on the fora anyway.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Depends on what you use the friends list for. I don't chat to my friends much. They know where I am if they need me and I know where they are. It's not Facebook. "

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, my friends list is rather different. Not everyone talks but then again, i don't expect everyone to talk to me all the time - there's many on there who i want to meet (with those i'd expect some sort of conversation). Then, there's others who i see as 'friends' where we talk about all sorts and not everything is sexual. It takes me a while to find them through my hotlist so i have them on my friends list, which makes it easier.

I don't really add anyone if all they want to see is my rude pictures. That's a little too rude and nosy for my liking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't have any naughty or dirty pics in my friend only gallery haha that might b the reason they don't. Speak lmao

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

My face pictures in friends gallery, might be why they ve not messaged they ve been dumb struck by it,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes and when I delete them, they send mail asking why

I've had this and done this, then they ask to come back and don't speak again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing is with friends is that it works both ways, so if they haven't contacted you, why not be daring and contact them? They could be thinking exactly the same about you....

We only have people we have met, want to meet and those that i chat to on a regular basis in the forums.

It actually doesn't really bother me if one of my friends hasn't contacted me for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have any private pictures either so nothing really to share...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on what you use the friends list for. I don't chat to my friends much. They know where I am if they need me and I know where they are. It's not Facebook. "

Ruby

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

You know they aren't really friends don't you?? There's no contractual obligation to chat to people a certain number of times in a month right??

Also the whole chat thing works both ways, you can contact them.

If you are worried about friends only pics being stolen or perved over don't have any or don't have any friends.

I rarely speak to loads of people on my friends list.

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By *aywalton1Man
over a year ago

Walton on the Hill

I'm baffled by some people. You send them a message with face pictures. You get a friend's invite after your message, you write saying thank you for the friend request which accepted etc and then no response! I also have a couple who have been winking me every few weeks for a year but never reply to my messages. They started doing it when my pictures were public and last one was yesterday. Very odd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we chat to a small number most days - some we keep in touch with about once a week or so - some are there as we have a connection but no rush at all - some drop off the bottom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought it was normal to add friends and never message each other!

Happens here and on farcebook lol

We get far more messages from people we do'nt know

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Don't understand why people request you as Friend speak for a day or two the go mute..... Dose everybody have friends lists like this or am I added shy people lol "

I don't accept random requests and only those I've met or am about to meet stand a chance of getting on it. I regularly have a clear out and those I'm unlikely to meet again are deleted. Also those who ignore messages.

Currently there are 4 on my list but that may soon be reduced to 3.

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By *itSamCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Don't understand why people request you as Friend speak for a day or two the go mute..... Dose everybody have friends lists like this or am I added shy people lol "

We only add friends to our friends list who we know, have met or something more then just a hello.

We do not do random friends list and if someone does not talk to us for a while we take em off. One friend did not notice for 7 months. They requested us again and not spoken again.

We get the ' been very busy' if we do get to speak on phone but see veris and club re_iews appear on their profile.

Can take a hint lol lol lol...

We like to keep in touch with all 8friends on out list

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By *itSamCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Don't understand why people request you as Friend speak for a day or two the go mute..... Dose everybody have friends lists like this or am I added shy people lol "

Makes me laugh when you get a friend invite and you look at profile....

Joined 1 hr ago

Showing first 20 friends

Oh how it makes you feel special.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

As sad as it sounds, I've actually just counted all the random friend requests I've had - I leave them there so they can't send another - and I got to 263. That won't include those who are UNLOS.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because someone is on your friends list doesn't mean you have to pester the shit out of them every living day.

Those on my friends list are on my friends list because they are NOT assholes...in my opinion.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Just because someone is on your friends list doesn't mean you have to pester the shit out of them every living day.

Those on my friends list are on my friends list because they are NOT assholes...in my opinion.

Yes, this. I don't need to be in constant contact with them but I like knowing they are there. They are my cyber comfy blankey

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Just because someone is on your friends list doesn't mean you have to pester the shit out of them every living day.

Those on my friends list are on my friends list because they are NOT assholes...in my opinion.

Yes, this. I don't need to be in constant contact with them but I like knowing they are there. They are my cyber comfy blankey

Phew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just cull regularly, I'm unsociable!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too see your friends only pics. If men don't talk to me or we aren't arranging to meet I only keep the ones with pics of their huge cocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As sad as it sounds, I've actually just counted all the random friend requests I've had - I leave them there so they can't send another - and I got to 263. That won't include those who are UNLOS. "

You inspired me to counts ours and it was 242!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete delete delete!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 2 people on my list, those two people I have met and Verified.

I delete every request.. and usuallly block them too.. if you want to be my friend you must meet me sometime.

Nothing wrong with a nice social at the very least is there?

It isn't all about the sex after all..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Think I just enjoy chatting to people and feel the need to know them a little before I'd meet them. Just a bit hard when they go mute after you add them

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"As sad as it sounds, I've actually just counted all the random friend requests I've had - I leave them there so they can't send another - and I got to 263. That won't include those who are UNLOS.

You inspired me to counts ours and it was 242!! "

Ridiculous isn't it? And those are only since I stopped deleting them. I deleted tons before that so it could easily have been over 300. It has never got them anywhere - not even a short chat let alone a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have 2 people on my list, those two people I have met and Verified.

I delete every request.. and usuallly block them too.. if you want to be my friend you must meet me sometime.

Nothing wrong with a nice social at the very least is there?

It isn't all about the sex after all.."

It is for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that I don't get many friend requests as a don't show I have friend only pictures, so there is no benefit to having me on a friends list

I have 4 people perm on mine. I do add people to it now and again, but they never last long as there has to be a special reason or connection for longevity on it.

I tend yo use my hotlist more fir jet ping track of random people rather them my friends list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive recently had a friend request from someone previously on my list. I messaged him to say thank you, no reply, so a couple of days later I messaged again and there is a note popped up saying I've already messaged them they haven't replied etc, he doesn't look at my profile not that I'm bothered but it's weird to request someone then just blank them oh and we have met previously too. Anyone got any thoughts on this please?

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Ive recently had a friend request from someone previously on my list. I messaged him to say thank you, no reply, so a couple of days later I messaged again and there is a note popped up saying I've already messaged them they haven't replied etc, he doesn't look at my profile not that I'm bothered but it's weird to request someone then just blank them oh and we have met previously too. Anyone got any thoughts on this please? "

He's gathering potential meets to message at his convenience when he's horny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find that I don't get many friend requests as a don't show I have friend only pictures, so there is no benefit to having me on a friends list

I have 4 people perm on mine. I do add people to it now and again, but they never last long as there has to be a special reason or connection for longevity on it.

I tend yo use my hotlist more fir jet ping track of random people rather them my friends list

I'm a disappointment as my friends only pics are my face and me dressed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do a friends culls every couple of weeks. If ppl sit on my list and don't communicate then there gone..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's gathering potential meets to message at his convenience when he's horny."

Well I wish them all the luck in the world

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