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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When they kill their children?

(just watching the latest case in Spain)

I really cant get my head around it

Surely most parents would die for their kids

I know i would for my daughter xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it always upsets me when I hear things like this, I don't know how anyone can harm a child let alone their own mother or father doing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could never understand that myself.

Having stood beside a grave while they lowered my child into it - I would have swapped places, heaven knows what would drive a parent to kill their child.

Do we know yet what happened to the little ones?

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

There is a lot more to this case than first meets the eye, the Father is one of the most wanted Men in Britain and was arrested last week in Barcelona in connection with crimes against children....

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

desparation...simple

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By *exeteraWoman
over a year ago

Bridgend


"I could never understand that myself.

Having stood beside a grave while they lowered my child into it - I would have swapped places, heaven knows what would drive a parent to kill their child.

Do we know yet what happened to the little ones?"

It's been reported that they were suffocated with a plastic bag. These cases are so sad and it's difficult to imagine what pushes parents in to doing something so abominable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like Jane said, this is turning out to be a very complex situation with the husband.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

The father of these children was arrested in Barcelona last friday and extradited to the UK to face charges of child abuse and rape.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

She has to be ill, surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like Jane said, this is turning out to be a very complex situation with the husband."

Yes, I've read the newspaper reports, and these cases are never black and white.

However, on a human/parent level you can't help but wonder what on earth must go through the mind of a parent to take the life of a child.

What the husband has or hasn't done doesn't mean the little uns should suffer.

Very sad.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

If the case involves the children it might just be to stop the truth coming out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is totally SHOCKING!!! how can u kill ya own kids???

get angry or mad with um etc,,but NEVER KILL! never!!

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

people do terrible things when filled with despair

If there is not visible logical way out of a situation, people choose the illogical path

and people kill who are very sane

so she need not be ill, just not faced with much of an alternative maybe

But it is so sad that she saw this is her only option

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"people do terrible things when filled with despair

If there is not visible logical way out of a situation, people choose the illogical path

and people kill who are very sane

so she need not be ill, just not faced with much of an alternative maybe

But it is so sad that she saw this is her only option "

Yeah I agree but I can't get my head around the fact that mothers would die for their children, so she must have been at her lowest ever to even think of it never mind doing it.

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

I agree with you and yes its shocking and not the natural order of things

maybe she was protecting them from something far worse, we wont know just yet

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"I agree with you and yes its shocking and not the natural order of things

maybe she was protecting them from something far worse, we wont know just yet"

Maybe from the truth?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It makes you wonder what drove her to that state.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably a state of mind?

,,,i know summat ---It a terrible state,a person can get into.

Once again summat should be done good n proper about folk like that.

terrible!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if it even came into my mind for a second i'd kill myself first. I can't even read the story. Anyone that brings about the death of a child is an abomination, but for a parent to do it. I dont even think death is good enough for them. They should spend the rest of their lives forced to look at their pictures, watch their videos, smell their clothes.

Parenthood is a gift beyond any other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I made the mistake of reading the details of the abuse that Baby P received, was in tears afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When they kill their children?

(just watching the latest case in Spain)

I really cant get my head around it

Surely most parents would die for their kids

I know i would for my daughter xx "

I could not get my head round that or indeed any of the other cases we have heard about in the past. Irrespective of where you are in life,what your background is... it seems unnatural to reject your own flesh and blood let alone harm them.

Hard to believe, my heart goes out to all those who are personally affected by this latest tragedy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

such a sad story and makes you wonder what could drive a parent to do that xx

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

THo im not condoning the killing of the babies i do wonder if the mum felt she had no other option as the dad has been arrested on charges of child rape and peodophila and as he has been sent back to england perhaps she felt IF something had been going on with the kids she couldnt put them through the court ect its incredibly sad that she felt this was the only way out

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