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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guys and gal's, just want to pick your brains. Last weekend I went to Felixstowe to spend tge whole weekend with a mate who I hadn't seen in about 8 years. So I was stopping at his place with him, his wife and family. On the Saturday night I get a message from a couple who are from that area, and tell me that they want to meet in 20mins. I reply with a friendly no sorry as I'm busy and with a mate. Then they block me. Wtf?? All because I said no.

Why block me just because I said no?

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

because they dont want further communication i guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They obviously wanted you to jump to it and didn't like you saying no

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They obviously wanted you to jump to it and didn't like you saying no"

isn't that being a little rude tho?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they wanted you right there and then and you didn't jump when they wanted you too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They obviously wanted you to jump to it and didn't like you saying no

isn't that being a little rude tho? "

Sure is . But everyone here has the right to block you or not reply , for any reason they like.

No need to take offence , it's one of those things ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe they just have bad short term memories and blocked to avoid asking you twice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because they wanted you right there and then and you didn't jump when they wanted you too "

wouldn't jump for anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They obviously wanted you to jump to it and didn't like you saying no

isn't that being a little rude tho? "
take it you escaped

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They obviously wanted you to jump to it and didn't like you saying no

isn't that being a little rude tho?

Sure is . But everyone here has the right to block you or not reply , for any reason they like.

No need to take offence , it's one of those things , "

yeah I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Immature people (I presume). You dodged a bullet there; you should feel grateful.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Immature people (I presume). You dodged a bullet there; you should feel grateful."

yeah I suppose lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to interpret being blocked as "I respect your wish not to meet us and we shan't bother you again"

Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Immature people (I presume). You dodged a bullet there; you should feel grateful."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need to interpret being blocked as "I respect your wish not to meet us and we shan't bother you again"

Simples"

Boom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guys and gal's, just want to pick your brains. Last weekend I went to Felixstowe to spend tge whole weekend with a mate who I hadn't seen in about 8 years. So I was stopping at his place with him, his wife and family. On the Saturday night I get a message from a couple who are from that area, and tell me that they want to meet in 20mins. I reply with a friendly no sorry as I'm busy and with a mate. Then they block me. Wtf?? All because I said no.

Why block me just because I said no?"

They may not have seen it that way they may have decided you were a timewaster. Different people see things differently I would just move on.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

They may have blocked to stop themselves sending you another message.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Shit happens move on and don't dwell on it

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

As they were total strangers why have you given it even a moments thought.

I could understand the loss of a life long friend being reason for questions but someone you have never known ?

Just forget it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its happened to me...its the idiot at the other end thinking he has some kind of control blahhblahh, no doubt a profile that will return, claiming they left the site due to timewasters.

No you didnt, u left cos U were being a fud.

some people do mellow once they discover they cant dictate times and places..there are only so many people that can do that anyway.To be honest, I've not much interest in the type of meet that was probably proposed..get in the door, he tells u to fuck her...says stuff,takes pics,tells u to cum...sends u out.

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