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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi how do we meet more couples on here.. are we that scary, we are honest yet up to now only men trying to be couples on line.. no really

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Getting a 4 way attraction can be difficult, but rest assured there are some lovely couples on here, just keep at it, maybe get yourself into the private party scene, there are some really good ones up north.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

having some pics of the male half will help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe tone down your photos a bit? They're a bit too graphic if you ask me. Also some of the male half will help. Attraction is about people, not their genitals, and also the fact you're trying to meet other couples as a couples means that's a 4 way attraction which is never easy to work out.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Maybe tone down your photos a bit? They're a bit too graphic if you ask me. Also some of the male half will help. Attraction is about people, not their genitals, and also the fact you're trying to meet other couples as a couples means that's a 4 way attraction which is never easy to work out."
Yes I would agree with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting a 4 way attraction can be difficult, but rest assured there are some lovely couples on here, just keep at it, maybe get yourself into the private party scene, there are some really good ones up north."

Gotta agree with this, it's insanely difficult to get all 4 people liking/fancying each other. The solution is out there though, eventually you'll find that special 2 that you both say 'wow' to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

keep the graphic shots in my opinion!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"keep the graphic shots in my opinion!"

Why? There's porn all over the Internet. Close-up gynaecological photos are unlikely to be attractive to other couples. As a single guy you might like them, but the OP's post is about attracting couples.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"keep the graphic shots in my opinion!

Why? There's porn all over the Internet. Close-up gynaecological photos are unlikely to be attractive to other couples. As a single guy you might like them, but the OP's post is about attracting couples."
As part of a couple it is off putting, but some couples may like it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Speaking as the female half of this couple I like to see a picture of the male we wouldn't contact a profile without at least one, why wouldn't I want to see who I might be having sex with?.

For us your pictures are too graphic but as has been said they will appeal to some but if you have the wrong type of people for you contacting you then you have the wrong type of pictures for your target market .

Your profile text is ok.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"keep the graphic shots in my opinion!"

And ours .... They show what you like and that you are open to have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally kebab shots aren't for me... Although everyone's different ... I do actually agree though.. Finding four people who are all attracted, to each other, I would guess is no

Mean feat... Lots of hot couples about though. Don't rush it. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"keep the graphic shots in my opinion!

And ours .... They show what you like and that you are open to have fun "

What do you mean? This is a sex-contact site so by virtue of being on here, people are 'open' to being sexually active with other people. Their profile text is very explicit about what they want as well.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"keep the graphic shots in my opinion!

And ours .... They show what you like and that you are open to have fun "

but they aren't working to attract people or they wouldn't be posting this thread.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

There are 3 easy ways to meet lots of genuine couples.

1/ Go to socials.

2/ Go to socials.

3/ Go... well, I think you get the idea lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"keep the graphic shots in my opinion!

And ours .... They show what you like and that you are open to have fun

What do you mean? This is a sex-contact site so by virtue of being on here, people are 'open' to being sexually active with other people. Their profile text is very explicit about what they want as well."

We have found profiles from couples who happily display graphic shots are more likely to have less hang ups and are less pretentious

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"keep the graphic shots in my opinion!

And ours .... They show what you like and that you are open to have fun

What do you mean? This is a sex-contact site so by virtue of being on here, people are 'open' to being sexually active with other people. Their profile text is very explicit about what they want as well.

We have found profiles from couples who happily display graphic shots are more likely to have less hang ups and are less pretentious "

pretentious?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know about threeway, but is it gay in a fourway too?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"There are 3 easy ways to meet lots of genuine couples.

1/ Go to socials.

2/ Go to socials.

3/ Go... well, I think you get the idea lol! "

You forgot to mention something.

Have you thought of going to socials?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"keep the graphic shots in my opinion!

And ours .... They show what you like and that you are open to have fun

but they aren't working to attract people or they wouldn't be posting this thread.

"

Good point , but perhaps they aren't looking in the right places ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I know about threeway, but is it gay in a fourway too?"

not in our experience unless you want it to be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thank you, we will

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"keep the graphic shots in my opinion!

And ours .... They show what you like and that you are open to have fun

but they aren't working to attract people or they wouldn't be posting this thread.

Good point , but perhaps they aren't looking in the right places ? "

True!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"keep the graphic shots in my opinion!

Why? There's porn all over the Internet. Close-up gynaecological photos are unlikely to be attractive to other couples. As a single guy you might like them, but the OP's post is about attracting couples."

I've met many couples that met couples with graphic shots..and luckily I can get in the shots or get to take some lol

porn is all over the internet, and weirdly enough..I have No interest in searching for porn, when i have my experiences with real people.if my type of pics attract the people i also want to meet, then they might just end up meeting others I've met.

In fact my meet today is based on meeting a mutual pair of friends who have met...

I like pussys..so do some women(or the female halves), some women love seeing cocks..etc etc...it doesnt make them any less worthy to meet and have fun with.

my suggestion on the OP's profile is to attract more couples, they have to at least show some of the male half(jmuch in the way the female halfs pics are displayed(at least showing some body)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"keep the graphic shots in my opinion!

Why? There's porn all over the Internet. Close-up gynaecological photos are unlikely to be attractive to other couples. As a single guy you might like them, but the OP's post is about attracting couples.

I've met many couples that met couples with graphic shots..and luckily I can get in the shots or get to take some lol

porn is all over the internet, and weirdly enough..I have No interest in searching for porn, when i have my experiences with real people.if my type of pics attract the people i also want to meet, then they might just end up meeting others I've met.

In fact my meet today is based on meeting a mutual pair of friends who have met...

I like pussys..so do some women(or the female halves), some women love seeing cocks..etc etc...it doesnt make them any less worthy to meet and have fun with.

my suggestion on the OP's profile is to attract more couples, they have to at least show some of the male half(jmuch in the way the female halfs pics are displayed(at least showing some body)"

So the same as my previous post then. OK, cheers.

I'm not saying that people won't meet people with close-up photos, I'm merely saying that their very generic photographs of peoples genitals = they mean nothing. Where's the human being attached to the vagina? Where's the man? You see what I mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*they're

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thank you for your help x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*they're"

I said get the pics up of the male half before u said it lol....

there is a couple of shots of the female that arent close up genitalia

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thank you for all your inputs we will change our profile and photos over the next few days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thank you for all your inputs we will change our profile and photos over the next few days"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of the photos you have up are enough to scare a blind pigeon. I'd certainly get rid of the gynaecological ones if I was you - they are quite scary to say the least.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I might pretend to be a couple and lure keenfuckmebackwardsandcallmesallyographer dahn t'Brighton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*they're

I said get the pics up of the male half before u said it lol....

there is a couple of shots of the female that arent close up genitalia

"

Yes you did. My bad. Anyway, the point stands that close-ups are fine for some people just not really required.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I might pretend to be a couple and lure keenfuckmebackwardsandcallmesallyographer dahn t'Brighton "

just paint on some nipples to ur arsecheeks n give me a tit wank

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I might pretend to be a couple and lure keenfuckmebackwardsandcallmesallyographer dahn t'Brighton

just paint on some nipples to ur arsecheeks n give me a tit wank"

Christ, you're good!

Well....ish anyway. You'd do well in Hove. They allege to be more sophisticated there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I might pretend to be a couple and lure keenfuckmebackwardsandcallmesallyographer dahn t'Brighton

just paint on some nipples to ur arsecheeks n give me a tit wank

Christ, you're good!

Well....ish anyway. You'd do well in Hove. They allege to be more sophisticated there. "

shmomiftikated? whats that?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No idea, Keen, but if someone said that to me I'd reward them wi' a wee glasgie kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A couple of the photos you have up are enough to scare a blind pigeon. I'd certainly get rid of the gynaecological ones if I was you - they are quite scary to say the least.

"

Another post mentioned kebabs too...

Tbh some of your pics were so graphic I pressed back on my browser before I'd read your profile text.

Having braved a second look, just at the text, all seems fine there.

I can see we aren't for you but as a couple we feel your pics should reflect what you want.

By this I mean; if a couple who want additional lovers just for the lady, then pics of just her to entice men are ideal.

If you want a full swap experience then there should be pics of both of you so both halves of a couple have some eye candy to entice their interest.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

can I just say though there is no need to be rude about the photos, they do actually belong to real people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can I just say though there is no need to be rude about the photos, they do actually belong to real people "

I don't think I was rude about them. I just said close-ups aren't really necessary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe it's the way the blokes picky has been smudged. It makes him look a bit like elephant man LOL.

Sorry only joking, but thought you might see funny side.

x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"can I just say though there is no need to be rude about the photos, they do actually belong to real people

I don't think I was rude about them. I just said close-ups aren't really necessary."

I was referring to the kebab comment etc I mentioned their photos too.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"thank you for all your inputs we will change our profile and photos over the next few days"

Nice to see the picture of the male half

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

wow THANK YOOUUU X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All comments welcome and no offence taken that's how we find out things and how this site works for us..but thanks to everyone who as taken the time out to contact us so you know you are texting our face pics. will be on for 10 mins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've fabbed the ones I think really are fab. Much better

I'd still lose the close up ones though. Just my thoughts. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can I just say though there is no need to be rude about the photos, they do actually belong to real people "

I wasn't being rude (assuming you are referring to my comment, if not I apologise in advance) I merely said that some of them are enough to scare blind pigeon which I don't consider to be rude .. more honest and to the point

;-)

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