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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

if you have a fuck buddy why would you be on here looking for sex ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because you like to meet more than one person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because the arrangement with the FB is non exclusive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There may be delights that you want to explore that your FB is not interested in and vice versa

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Variety is the spice of life ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just thought when you have a fuck buddy that person would satisfy you enough hence why there a fuck buddy ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a handful of fuck buddies. I called them regular partners though. They are all very busy men and we don't meet often. From here I get something different. I like diversity and new experiences with a variety of personalities. I like people and spending naked time with them

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"if you have a fuck buddy why would you be on here looking for sex ?

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...Because you're not exclusive to your fuck buddy and some fantasies that people want to act out involve more than one other person?

A gangbang is kind of hard to achieve if you're limiting the amount of participants to two...

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you have a fuck buddy why would you be on here looking for sex ?

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Because its a swinging site not findafukbud dot com?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you have a fuck buddy why would you be on here looking for sex ?

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Isn't that swinging?

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

The point of this site is swinging. As in multiple people to fuck and swap partners with. I would have thought that obvious really

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Variety is the spice of life ?

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Wrong quality is the spice of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just thought when you have a fuck buddy that person would satisfy you enough hence why there a fuck buddy ? "

not at all. No one man gives me everything I need. There is always something missing,be it not enough time to meet regularly,not into kissing or simply not passionate. I don't want the same sex over and over

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok definitely taking it out of context , i do know it's a swinging site it was a genuine question as I see a lot of status with fuck buddies involved but during the week there desperate for a meet that's all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a partner. We have a great sex life. But there are many things which I enjoy which she does not wish to do or even finds the idea of experimenting appealing. We are both very open about it.

Im here to indulge that side of me, in full knowledge and acceptance by my partner - if she ever felt differently I would trust her to say so and all of this would stop because I would choose her and the life I have with her over this life ten times out of ten.

So, there you have it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i was single (im the fem) i had males that i met frequently although i didnt call them fuck buddies.

I liked having several men to meet (as well as new men) as i found them boring if i only meet one of them.

I used to meet maybe 4 or 5 times a week and i liked variety

Now its very different as i met the love of my life

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)


"Variety is the spice of life ?

Wrong quality is the spice of life

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The old saying is variety nit quality but no reason variety can not be quality

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"Ok definitely taking it out of context , i do know it's a swinging site it was a genuine question as I see a lot of status with fuck buddies involved but during the week there desperate for a meet that's all"

Perhaps their fuck buddy is only available at certain times. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quality and variety can and do go together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many on here are couples, which implies a sexual need box ticked,

BUT that is not what swinging is about, for us it's variety, numbers other than 2, eroticism, safe exhibitionism / voyeurism, allowing my wife to be bi-sexual without risk of other women thinking it's more than sex she wants, and sometimes even friendship without sexual limits.

I am sure that others will have a different list, some of which should be on ours but I didn't think of them, others we don't really need or want.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"if you have a fuck buddy why would you be on here looking for sex ?

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Why be on here if you are married?

Same thing, just a legally binding contract involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if you're married to your fuck buddy and both want a little bit of variety, quality variety by indulging in a bit of good old fashioned extramartial joint shaggification coccasionally?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because it would get boring having the same person all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Variety is the spice of life ?

Wrong quality is the spice of life "
incorrect!

Variety is the spice of life

Quality is a measurement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok definitely taking it out of context , i do know it's a swinging site it was a genuine question as I see a lot of status with fuck buddies involved but during the week there desperate for a meet that's all"

I have friends that I meet regularly FB's if you want to call them that, but I'm always open to meeting new 'friends/FB's' or whatever, as are they, no desperation here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have busy lives an having one buddy doesn't necessarily work as not everyone is available at the same time an what one gives you another doesn't always give the same x variety is the spice of life

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"if you have a fuck buddy why would you be on here looking for sex ?

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Bit of a daft question really as there are a lot of couples on here - still like to have sex with others - isn't that the whole point of swinging? Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you have a fuck buddy why would you be on here looking for sex ?

Why be on here if you are married?

Same thing, just a legally binding contract involved."

This

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Variety is the spice of life ?

Wrong quality is the spice of life "

No, the saying is definitely variety is the spice of life.

Why are you levelling this question just at fuck buddies and not married people? Surely they have found the one so don't need any extras?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you have a fuck buddy why would you be on here looking for sex ?

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maybe you chat to each other here and your friends. People are not just here for sex . People some are here because they can be more open with there views and some vanilla sites you cant .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, the saying is definitely variety is the spice of life.

Why are you levelling this question just at fuck buddies and not married people? Surely they have found the one so don't need any extras?"

bit of a tangent, but meeting others does also make our behaviour better to each other, it's very easy as a married couple to just dress for comfort and suitable to the task, I find L extremely sexy even when dressed in decorating clothes the odd splodge of emulsion and I want to strip her naked and have horny sex in the dust sheets, so it's refreshing to have a meet where we dress up and use max factor instead of dulux and take sex beyond the now into the more elaborate prepare, meet, chat, fuck scenario that is all to easy to lose in a marriage.

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