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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am about to block someone immediately... He has spent weeks sending me pm's. I have not replied - not out of ignorance but If someone read my profile, like I ask then they would know why... But and here Is the problem, I feel terrible for doing it... I must be mad but I feel guilty.. So do I pm saying- hi

and say for over 2 weeks you have not read my profile please do not contact me again or do I just press the button??? I actually feel rotten for wanting to do it.. How would you deal with it???

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

If after weeks he has'nt got the hint that you're not interested and you're fed up of him messaging you then its the only option

If it makes you feel that guilty just tell him to stop mailing you and see if he does

Ive just blocked someone that has found me after practically stalking me on another site ages ago...........no hesitation no guilt just bam!! blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block without contact, no mercy here, sorry! And I would have done it a lot sooner than 2 weeks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am about to block someone immediately... He has spent weeks sending me pm's. I have not replied - not out of ignorance but If someone read my profile, like I ask then they would know why... But and here Is the problem, I feel terrible for doing it... I must be mad but I feel guilty.. So do I pm saying- hi

and say for over 2 weeks you have not read my profile please do not contact me again or do I just press the button??? I actually feel rotten for wanting to do it.. How would you deal with it??? "

Have you read his profile ?

Do you consider him worth meeting - Albeit in August ?

Cos if you haven't. It's your loss.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If after weeks he has'nt got the hint that you're not interested and you're fed up of him messaging you then its the only option

If it makes you feel that guilty just tell him to stop mailing you and see if he does

Ive just blocked someone that has found me after practically stalking me on another site ages ago...........no hesitation no guilt just bam!!

blocked"

thank you and I hope the problem one goes away totally.. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Block without contact, no mercy here, sorry! And I would have done it a lot sooner than 2 weeks! "

I'm a softie who needs to harden up I think , thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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and say for over 2 weeks you have not read my profile please do not contact me again or do I just press the button??? I actually feel rotten for wanting to do it.. How would you deal with it???

Have you read his profile ?

Do you consider him worth meeting - Albeit in August ?

I have to be honest I didn't want to read it because I didn't want to encourage him.. But I will now and then block thank you.

Cos if you haven't. It's your loss. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to feel bad too but now I don't give it a second thought.

If someone clearly hasn't read my profile or is not what I'm looking for then I delete and block. Not only does it give them the message but it also stops them from bothering me again.

I'm finding more and more people who just won't take no for an answer so I just don't bother saying it any more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont' feel bad, Chuckles - I think you have been quite patient but there comes a point when even Saint Chuckles is allowed to say "no more" xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

possible pmt here but...... today iv just blocked every person who has messaged me who does not meet what im looking for!

saves them time, saves me time x

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