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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

when you left home?

or are some of you still living with your parents?

I was 19 when I moved out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well...it's hard to tell....I'm not really sure if i jumped or if i was pushed.......left home to travel a bit, climb a bit and do a bit of voluntary work.....parents threw my bed and furniture out and moved my sister into my room

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

25...... i got married and moved away now am divorced and back where i used to live before i got married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i left home at 12,, long story and annie moved countries at 18

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

shoulda said....i was 19 when i hit the continent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been at my mums from 14th feb til june 2003---moved out 4 a while with a crazy girl 4 one year in a house in mansfield went alrite til she turned bein a spie n physco!!

i moved back to mums in oct 2004 been there ever since.

But want to move out next year 4 deffs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*****BETTER VERSION************

Ive been at my mums from 14th feb 1974 til june 2003---moved out 4 a while with a crazy girl 4 one year in a house in mansfield went alrite til she turned bein a spie n physco!!

i moved back to mums in oct 2004 been there ever since.

But want to move out next year 4 deffs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ive been at my mums from 14th feb til june 2003---moved out 4 a while with a crazy girl 4 one year in a house in mansfield went alrite til she turned bein a spie n physco!!

i moved back to mums in oct 2004 been there ever since.

But want to move out next year 4 deffs! "

still with your mum? a lot of questions answered there then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive been at my mums from 14th feb til june 2003---moved out 4 a while with a crazy girl 4 one year in a house in mansfield went alrite til she turned bein a spie n physco!!

i moved back to mums in oct 2004 been there ever since.

But want to move out next year 4 deffs!

still with your mum? a lot of questions answered there then"

it's a day release scheme perhaps??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

16 and never looked back.

kat x x

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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago

clacton on sea

Got married at 19 but moved out at 12 left to live with my granny, as dad was travelling the world. and i didn't want to miss out at school and possible career

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

19 for me .....16 for Mr R who joined the RAF.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good 4 u _ouvak!! good 4 u!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

left home at 18 went to work in Southern Ireland sayed there for 2 years moved back to Liverpool.

Then moved to Aberdeen worked on the rigs for 10 years and lived between there and Liverpool got married lived in liverpool but worked away a lot divorced in 2007 went off the rails for a bit !!!! (pissed mainly).

Got myself a new job bought me mums house and she is now living with me !!! full circle.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

You mean we are allowed to leave home!

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

19 but somehow I don't see ours leaving that early

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

I was about 18 and it wasn't exactly voluntary! Z

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

i was 17 when i left to join the merchant navy

never moved back home after that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined the Airforce at seventeen and a half, lived all over Britain and Europe eventually pitched up back in Scotland.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

went to uni at 18 but was back home at 20 lol

now curently live in my dads grnny flat which sounds a bit stupid but its cheap rent, no bills, great cafe next door and often get rent rebates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was 19 and in college, ended up homeless for 4 months then got my gaff (ive had a hard life haha)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time I left home I was 17 moved in with boyfriend with him a year moved back home and moved into my own place when I was 19 with a baby.

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

I too joined the WRAF when I was 17....went backto my parents for a couple of years in my early twenties, but lived alone in my flat for the past 26 years...went apart from a couple of months in the late 80's when I made a let a guy move in for a few weeks..huge mistake...and luckily one that was easily rectified. Now it's just me and the cats....and some fab visitors when I chose

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

i was 16 dumped my A'levels bored stupid got a pack on my back and buggered off around europe for 2 years with a mate...great fun ....learnt a lor more than i would with the school ,

happy days

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"I joined the Airforce at seventeen and a half, lived all over Britain and Europe eventually pitched up back in Scotland. "

were you a biggles ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when you left home?

or are some of you still living with your parents?

I was 19 when I moved out "

18 and loved it being away from home. Well i did till the clean washing ran out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20 then went back for 2 wks when i got made redundant and lost flat, then back for 3 days at 24 when i had kiddo.

as much as i love my mum we dont do too well in enclosed spaces for a great length of time lol!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when you left home?

or are some of you still living with your parents?

I was 19 when I moved out "

Was just 14 and ran away to weston supermare ....dont know why ?

Hate the place...lmao

then came back and went and lived with an aunt .

Got a live in job in edgbaston and started at 15.

Never went back home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mrs moved in with my parents when she was 17 then we both moved out when we were 18

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

18 and moved across the country...never went back after that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*****BETTER VERSION************

Ive been at my mums from 14th feb 1974 til june 2003---moved out 4 a while with a crazy girl 4 one year in a house in mansfield went alrite til she turned bein a spie n physco!!

i moved back to mums in oct 2004 been there ever since.

But want to move out next year 4 deffs"

so you've stayed with mummy for 35 years, not wonder the girl went crazy, having too endure living with a mummys boy for a year

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By *exeteraWoman
over a year ago

Bridgend


"*****BETTER VERSION************

Ive been at my mums from 14th feb 1974 til june 2003---moved out 4 a while with a crazy girl 4 one year in a house in mansfield went alrite til she turned bein a spie n physco!!

i moved back to mums in oct 2004 been there ever since.

But want to move out next year 4 deffs"

Things suddenly have some clarity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

16 pissed off out of here nice and early came back in my early 20's to find everyone had done it as well lol then fecked off again for a few years now no oine about boo hoo lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

17. miss the days when someone else did my ironing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to work overseas when I was 20 however I didn't move out properly until I was about 22.

I felt so old and grown up at the time but looking back I was just a kid really!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

!9 or so when I moved out - back for a bit at 24 before moving to the UK - was about the right time for me to move out and away

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

I left home when I went to university when I was 19. I briefly returned to the family coop, with a girlfriend and our baby in tow, immediately after graduating and until I had found a job... that would only have been about 3 months in total but it felt like so much longer!

As much as I love my nipper, I'm counting the days until he is big enough to have grown his own wings and leave home. I see my role as a parent as providing him with all the support and encouragement that he'll need so as to be ready to fly the nest and achieve what he wants in life - as long as that doesn't involve living with his parents forever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 and never looked back. Its nice to be cocooned in the family home but more fun to spread your wings and enjoy life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Moved out at 18, back home for a few weeks when i graduated, moved back out again then moved back 3 years ago, supposedly for 3 months and never moved back out.

Spend as much time as I can elsewhere right now so i think it's time to move out again lol

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By *lumsy colinMan
over a year ago

basingstoke

16 i joined the army moved back when i left army for around 9 months but thats all

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

I know I`m a rarity! Still living in the house I was born in! It`s an ex-local authority place and right out in the sticks and I bought it under the "right to buy" scheme. Those who`ve seen the place can see why I don`t want to leave! I reckon the way things are going, the only way I`ll be leaving is when they put me in a wooden overcoat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eighteen and a half with a bloody mortgage lol xx

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Left to go to Uni at 19, but that doesn't count as I was back every few weeks to get my washing done!

Mind you, I was barely there during the holidays as I was working all hours to pay for my pizza & cider lifestyle

Anyway, properly left home when I was 26 - proper mummy's boy behaviour! In my defence I'd been saving up a deposit and looking for a house for about a year at that point, so that's much more reasonable!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was 20, think my mum thought i was never leaving! For the first 6 months everytime i called home, the both of uz would be in tears.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 28 when I bought my first house. Never felt the need to move out before then but I did wonder if I'd outstayed my welcome when I came home to find my mum measuring up for some new curtains, before I'd even started packing!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I joined the Airforce at seventeen and a half, lived all over Britain and Europe eventually pitched up back in Scotland.

were you a biggles ????"

I was an airframes tech, kept a few 'biggles' functioning fully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

15......After a punch up with my old man.

Moved in with my grandparents for 6 months until I left school.

Joined the Navy.

Have never been back, Parents still live in same house but it will be a cold day in hell before I cross that threshold.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up until i was 26 i stayed at the parents during the week but at the weekends i stayed at the mates, girlfriends or some female i had copped off with

At 26 moved in with my gf....split up 2 years later and back to the parents.

Not long after that i met someone else and within 6 months i had moved in to her flat. Within a year we had moved into a bigger house which my then now "wife" still lives in.

At 34 i was back at my parents for 7 months till i got my own flat where i still reside now.

Going back to my parents was mental, arguing and whatnot and it was just crazy and explosive.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

I left home at 19, brought my first flat at 23.....cannot understand how anyone could live with their parents in their 30's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I left home at 19, brought my first flat at 23.....cannot understand how anyone could live with their parents in their 30's."

Because some can't afford to leave home or see no need to.

I have a mate who's 35 and still with his dad. The only reason why i think he's staying on is because the house is worth £250k and when his dad pops his clogs he's expecting the house to get passed onto him. He has his own successful business and is loaded and he could leave and survive on his own. No wonder he can afford a BMW X5.

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By *iceguydaveMan
over a year ago

Monmouth

Here's hoping his dad leaves the lot to charity

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I left home when I left for uni at 19.... but i can understand why people leave home a lot later now...just so expensive...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here's hoping his dad leaves the lot to charity "

That's what we say to him, how funny would it be if he left him nothing

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"I left home when I left for uni at 19.... but i can understand why people leave home a lot later now...just so expensive..."

A little later yes......but men living with mum in their 30's is something else.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"I left home when I left for uni at 19.... but i can understand why people leave home a lot later now...just so expensive...

A little later yes......but men living with mum in their 30's is something else."

Some can't afford to move...not everyone has brilliant paying jobs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My son is almost 25 and back home living with me now after leaving home for uni at 17 then working round UK and Ireland.

He cannot afford to buy or rent in this area as costs are so high and council housing is as rare as hens teeth.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

I can understand young people not finding it easy to afford their own place, but they also need their independance in life.

What is a man in his 30's ever going to learn about life if he comes home to dinner cooked by mum every night and his ironing all hung up in his wardrobe?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"I can understand young people not finding it easy to afford their own place, but they also need their independance in life.

What is a man in his 30's ever going to learn about life if he comes home to dinner cooked by mum every night and his ironing all hung up in his wardrobe?

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opposed to a wife doing it?

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

So mummy is a surrogate wife?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"So mummy is a surrogate wife?"

Is the wife a surrogate mummy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I left Home at 16 and moved into a Bedsit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My son is a chef, does most of the cooking when we are all here for a meal together and does his own washing, ironing and helps me round the house. We share the housework as I too work long hours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I left home when I left for uni at 19.... but i can understand why people leave home a lot later now...just so expensive...

A little later yes......but men living with mum in their 30's is something else."

Why is it something else?

I don't see any problem with it and that also applies to females wanting to stay with mummy and daddy. Some just can't afford to stay on their own and the council and housing association waiting list are huge. Unless you are a junkie or a single parent you will shoot further up the list and both of those don't apply to me.

I'm renting an ex council house from a private landlord and he's charging near enough double what the rent would be from the council. The only reason i do so is because me and my mother clashed and it was best that i got a place of my own. If it wasn't for that i would move back in with the parents.

Suppose i could make up with the wife and move back into my 3 bedroomed semi.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 25 when I left home. Kate was 19 when she moved in with me.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I just think nowadays it is totally different, there are lots of people who can't afford to rent or buy anywhere because their wages are not enough to live on....and why there were articles in the news not long ago saying kids are living with their parents longer.

Obviously there are other factors too, people who divorce have to live somewhere and it is normally the man who moves out....so back to the family home is a godsend when you are battered bruised and skint !

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

I had a meet a few months ago with a man of 32 who had never left home and was still encamped with mother, he even takes women he meets on sites like this back home......

Just a little too weird for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was 16 when i left home to join the navy, loved every second of it, then left five years ago after 15 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I left home the day I got married July 1981 aged 20 - never returned.

Now if only I could get shot of my kids...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a meet a few months ago with a man of 32 who had never left home and was still encamped with mother, he even takes women he meets on sites like this back home......

Just a little too weird for me"

A friend of mine returned to his mother after his divorce...he was 55!!

Now that is odd...if you can't fend for yourself at 55, but need an 82 year old to cook your meals then there is something wrong.

My middle daughter is 23 and still lives at home - I was married with a child at her age. I agree that it's difficult for young people nowadays, but I'm with you Jayne - thirty somethings livihg at home is just odd!

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