FabSwingers.com forum: be honest ... fat is or is not sexy?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

my postcode search profiles larger ladies and couples ..

does yours ?

my vote later but ... and not butter

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

Sorry - I've read it a few times but still don't get it

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

some yes

some no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't understand what you mean?

Can you explain it a bit better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically your looking for slim people, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the look and feel of toned and energetic look you get from sport over stick-skinny and overweight bodies.

But the face, eyes, cheeky grin and dirty mind are where sexual attraction starts for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm off to the gym, I've a feeling this might go a bit wrong lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Post code search searches by locality not body type

You lost me with the rest though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly another thread where someone thinks that 'sexy' is directly attributable to dress size?

Sigh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lucky you, here are no women in my post code, but I like both big and small lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Huh?

Fat people are not a homogeneous group.

Some fat people are sexy, some are not. It's exactly the same for all other demographics.

As for the actual post...say what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Popcorn ready!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sadly another thread where someone thinks that 'sexy' is directly attributable to dress size?

Sigh. "

I love this very much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being honest. Some fat people are sexy to me,some are not. Is there anything else you would like an honest opinion on?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Some are,some are not. Sexiness is a state of mind.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

maybe my first post wasn't clear ...

my postcode search is full of unkempt overweight people ..

I joined this site to find a nubile mistress to spoil ..

not to share kfc with

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"maybe my first post wasn't clear ...

my postcode search is full of unkempt overweight people ..

I joined this site to find a nubile mistress to spoil ..

not to share kfc with"
Well either move house or learn to enjoy a bucket of chicken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me size is just one part of a person . May have the best body in the world and nasty peace of work . And its a no way .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"maybe my first post wasn't clear ...

my postcode search is full of unkempt overweight people ..

I joined this site to find a nubile mistress to spoil ..

not to share kfc with"

Then move house?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"maybe my first post wasn't clear ...

my postcode search is full of unkempt overweight people ..

I joined this site to find a nubile mistress to spoil ..

not to share kfc with"

If the site isn't working for you it's, perhaps, not the right site. Nobody is forcing you to stay.

If a store doesn't have what I want, I go to a different one. Standing there complaining they haven't got what I want is an absolute waste of effort.

Is your moaning going to attract these "nubile" women to the site, and to you? Will it magically change the "fat, unkempt" ones?

Maybe the "nubile" women want better than you.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"maybe my first post wasn't clear ...

my postcode search is full of unkempt overweight people ..

I joined this site to find a nubile mistress to spoil ..

not to share kfc with"

There's no maybe about it.

Maybe do some promotions for weight watchers hand out some flyers in the area and then try again in 6 months??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" For me size is just one part of a person . May have the best body in the world and nasty peace of work . And its a no way ."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"maybe my first post wasn't clear ...

my postcode search is full of unkempt overweight people ..

I joined this site to find a nubile mistress to spoil ..

not to share kfc with"

have you not put it in your profile what you are looking for? I'm sure you would attract plenty of what you want if you did

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By *rchard thiefMan
over a year ago

accrington-ish

"maybe my first post wasn't clear ...

my postcode search is full of unkempt overweight people ..

I joined this site to find a nubile mistress to spoil ..

not to share kfc withWell either move house or learn to enjoy a bucket of chicken.

Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" For me size is just one part of a person . May have the best body in the world and nasty peace of work . And its a no way .

I think that your point has been proved a couple of posts above yours. You can look amazing and then open your mouth and undo everything that's gone before.... It's a real shame some people don't get that about sex. It's more than just the physical. "
I 9 times out of ten don't read others posts as its my _iews .. size is a small part of a person .. BIG or small .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"maybe my first post wasn't clear ...

my postcode search is full of unkempt overweight people ..

I joined this site to find a nubile mistress to spoil ..

not to share kfc with

have you not put it in your profile what you are looking for? I'm sure you would attract plenty of what you want if you did"

Or had a picture you could see seen as you're judging other people's!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" For me size is just one part of a person . May have the best body in the world and nasty peace of work . And its a no way .

I think that your point has been proved a couple of posts above yours. You can look amazing and then open your mouth and undo everything that's gone before.... It's a real shame some people don't get that about sex. It's more than just the physical. I 9 times out of ten don't read others posts as its my _iews .. size is a small part of a person .. BIG or small ."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"maybe my first post wasn't clear ...

my postcode search is full of unkempt overweight people ..

I joined this site to find a nubile mistress to spoil ..

not to share kfc with"

Oooooh is it,can i have chinese instead please not partial to kfc the chips are not nice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

sex is physical ..

dress it up anyway you like .. you will never hump someone with a great mind who doesn't get you wet ..

stephen hawking or alan bennett

molie sugden or mother theresa?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"maybe my first post wasn't clear ...

my postcode search is full of unkempt overweight people ..

I joined this site to find a nubile mistress to spoil ..

not to share kfc with"

Insulting, but hilarious

We don't find hugely overweight people sexy and we're not particularly "bodies beautiful" ourselves. And we're having a KFC tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some fat people are sexy ..... Some are not.

Some thin people are sexy ..... Some are not.

Some athletic people are sexy ..... Some are not.

Some white people with blue eyes and blond hair are sexy ..... Some are not.

I don't see your point. Sexiness is more than a physical appearance.

Narrow minded @&£*#!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some fat people are sexy ..... Some are not.

Some thin people are sexy ..... Some are not.

Some athletic people are sexy ..... Some are not.

Some white people with blue eyes and blond hair are sexy ..... Some are not.

I don't see your point. Sexiness is more than a physical appearance.

Narrow minded @&£*#!?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Oh ffs here we go again.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hump??

So I assume the bit in you profile that says you have no hangups on age or size is wrong then?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"sex is physical ..

dress it up anyway you like .. you will never hump someone with a great mind who doesn't get you wet ..

stephen hawking or alan bennett

molie sugden or mother theresa?"

The point is that you need to be attractive both physically AND as a person. Not everyone cares and some will shag anyone who looks good but most want a bit more than a pretty package. If the contents are nasty, no amount of pretty wrappings will change that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh ffs here we go again....."

Ha ha ha ha..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"maybe my first post wasn't clear ...

my postcode search is full of unkempt overweight people ..

I joined this site to find a nubile mistress to spoil ..

not to share kfc with"

Your profile says you have 'no hangups' on size????? I think you're telling fibs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sex is physical ..

dress it up anyway you like .. you will never hump someone with a great mind who doesn't get you wet ..

stephen hawking or alan bennett

molie sugden or mother theresa?"

and fat people don't fuck slim people if they aren't attracted to them. You may find a woman here you desire but being honest I think you aren't trying hard enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kfc boneless banquet meal for one it is seen as you dont want to share I think id prefer me own company then someone as rude as you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've noticed that the people who start these thread calling people insulting names hardly ever have pictures of themselves on their profiles. Why is that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sex is physical ..

dress it up anyway you like .. you will never hump someone with a great mind who doesn't get you wet ..

stephen hawking or alan bennett

molie sugden or mother theresa?"
Its not just physical its the mind too ... god some here just love phone sex .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do understand your frustrations OP, my postcode search is full of short, bald smokers which I find a right turn off.

What one person finds sexy another won't, it's a very personal thing.

In the general population away from FAB the cultural stereotype is slim is sexy, fat isn't. You only have to look at TV, Films and magazines to see that. However some people aren't governed by that general stereotype and do genuinely prefer larger ladies like me.

So I don't think there is a right or wrong _iew to this, we all like who we like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread needs more biscuits...

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"sex is physical ..

dress it up anyway you like .. you will never hump someone with a great mind who doesn't get you wet ..

stephen hawking or alan bennett

molie sugden or mother theresa?

and fat people don't fuck slim people if they aren't attracted to them. You may find a woman here you desire but being honest I think you aren't trying hard enough "

And how would she know if she fancies him, given the total absence of photos?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"This thread needs more biscuits..."

And some doughnuts.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

you say you have no hang ups re size.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread needs more biscuits..."
cake choc or carrot with sweet cream cheese.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the sites full of mingers from both end of the spectrum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread needs more biscuits...cake choc or carrot with sweet cream cheese.

I vote for choc cake

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"This thread needs more biscuits...cake choc or carrot with sweet cream cheese.

Doughnuts dammit, doughnuts!!!

Damn you femme, for that doughnut thread!

Diet failure imminent!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

be honest with yourselves ..

I have no prejudice on anything in life ..

this is a forum and i proposed a question

if sex is more than just the physical ...

if it is about the mind ...

shame on you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suggests the OP change his profile about size. Etc

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

"some yes

some no"
exactly this

looks and personality definitely attribute but size not a necessity it's all in the mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sex is physical ..

dress it up anyway you like .. you will never hump someone with a great mind who doesn't get you wet ..

stephen hawking or alan bennett

molie sugden or mother theresa?"

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sex is physical ..

dress it up anyway you like .. you will never hump someone with a great mind who doesn't get you wet ..

stephen hawking or alan bennett

molie sugden or mother theresa?

and fat people don't fuck slim people if they aren't attracted to them. You may find a woman here you desire but being honest I think you aren't trying hard enough

And how would she know if she fancies him, given the total absence of photos?

he woos her with his charm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my postcode search profiles larger ladies and couples ..

does yours ?

my vote later but ... and not butter"

why dont you travel, i find a lot of the nicer people live in london and places like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread needs more biscuits...cake choc or carrot with sweet cream cheese.

I vote for choc cake "

This thread is doing nothing but making me hungry... I need foooood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And to answer another part of your question op. I don't search local to me but my searches bring up lots of people of all shapes and sizes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some fat people are sexy ..... Some are not.

Some thin people are sexy ..... Some are not.

Some athletic people are sexy ..... Some are not.

Some white people with blue eyes and blond hair are sexy ..... Some are not.

I don't see your point. Sexiness is more than a physical appearance.

Narrow minded @&£*#!?

I like your style lady - you're absolutely right. Sexiness comes from within. Personally I like curvy, sensual, smooth skinned women (jutting bones do nothing for me). We met a fabulous woman in Abs a few weeks ago who was amazingly curvy, smelt like heaven and had the softest skin I've ever felt. She was a large lady but full of confidence - amazingly sexy.

Beauty / sexiness is all in the eye of the beholder, not in the dress size. We're all entitled to our opinions and preferences, including the OP

Slinky x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my postcode search profiles larger ladies and couples ..

does yours ?

my vote later but ... and not butter

why dont you travel, i find a lot of the nicer people live in london and places like that.

lucky for me I live near London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fancy this thread will probably be closed prior to reaching 175 posts.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"be honest with yourselves ..

I have no prejudice on anything in life .."

No, clearly you don't

Just because we're not agreeing with you doesn't mean anyone isn't being honest.

"if sex is more than just the physical ...

if it is about the mind ...

shame on you"

You're judging others for what they find attractive, shame on you.

If attraction is entirely about how someone looks to you, that's fine, but you are in the minority.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"be honest with yourselves ..

I have no prejudice on anything in life ..

this is a forum and i proposed a question

if sex is more than just the physical ...

if it is about the mind ...

shame on you"

I have turned down many men and I mean many for this exact reason.. Doesn't matter how many times you go to the gym a week if you're a total pube

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my postcode search profiles larger ladies and couples ..

does yours ?

my vote later but ... and not butter

why dont you travel, i find a lot of the nicer people live in london and places like that.

Oh ffs!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have your preferences op. So what was the question ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my postcode search profiles larger ladies and couples ..

does yours ?

my vote later but ... and not butter

why dont you travel, i find a lot of the nicer people live in london and places like that.

lucky for me I live near London

I wish i did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"maybe my first post wasn't clear ...

my postcode search is full of unkempt overweight people ..

I joined this site to find a nubile mistress to spoil ..

not to share kfc with"

tight git -

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

people are reacting

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Suggests the OP change his profile about size. Etc

I suggest the OP look elsewhere since there's nobody that meets his standards here.

One wonders what the OP is offering in return for nubile perfection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"maybe my first post wasn't clear ...

my postcode search is full of unkempt overweight people ..

I joined this site to find a nubile mistress to spoil ..

not to share kfc with

If the site isn't working for you it's, perhaps, not the right site. Nobody is forcing you to stay.

If a store doesn't have what I want, I go to a different one. Standing there complaining they haven't got what I want is an absolute waste of effort.

Is your moaning going to attract these "nubile" women to the site, and to you? Will it magically change the "fat, unkempt" ones?

Maybe the "nubile" women want better than you."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You expect them to get their own kfc? Then let you in their pants?

Maybe thats where you are going wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my postcode search profiles larger ladies and couples ..

does yours ?

my vote later but ... and not butter

why dont you travel, i find a lot of the nicer people live in london and places like that.

lucky for me I live near London

I wish i did.

it's a candy shop here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile says you have no hang ups on size

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

people are reacting"

Yep, it's a slow news day and I'm trying not to go out and buy doughnuts.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

people are reacting"

Were you expecting them not to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people are reacting"

new pic? Very nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because of what I do and what Im writing about - Ive done a lot of research on this subject. I do find its older white guys 40plus that have more hang ups about size than any other group. Goes back to those " Lonely hearts " adverts of the 1970's asking for slim woman with GSOH. I even had a couple guess my size ( cheeky fuckers ) Younger guys ( in 20's) just seem so much more open minded and accepting of size / race / age etc xxx

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

people are reacting

new pic? Very nice

thank you muchly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your profile makes a clear statement that you have no hangups on size race etc etc - ... so you fib?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

people are reacting

Were you expecting them not to? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sexy starts with a physical image/look and yeah you can also have an endearing personality to add to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a bollocks question.

I'm going to tidy the lounge whilst you all chip in.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

people are reacting

Yep, it's a slow news day and I'm trying not to go out and buy doughnuts."

enjoy the jam ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I fancy this thread will probably be closed prior to reaching 175 posts."
I have that feeling size thing is a bit like spelling thing we are all different .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

read the question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What a bollocks question.

I'm going to tidy the lounge whilst you all chip in.

Did someone say chips. Lol. V xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sex is physical ..

dress it up anyway you like .. you will never hump someone with a great mind who doesn't get you wet ..

stephen hawking or alan bennett

molie sugden or mother theresa?"

I actually disagree. I've met people that I haven't initially been attracted to in a physical level. Over time I've got to know that person and they became the total package for me on a mental & physical level.

So it very realistic for physical feelings to develop from a mental connection.

I do find it slightly offensive you equate fat with unkempt......that's really not on!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because of what I do and what Im writing about - Ive done a lot of research on this subject. I do find its older white guys 40plus that have more hang ups about size than any other group. Goes back to those " Lonely hearts " adverts of the 1970's asking for slim woman with GSOH. I even had a couple guess my size ( cheeky fuckers ) Younger guys ( in 20's) just seem so much more open minded and accepting of size / race / age etc xxx "

Agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"be honest with yourselves ..

I have no prejudice on anything in life ..

this is a forum and i proposed a question

if sex is more than just the physical ...

if it is about the mind ...

shame on you"

You need to be honest with yourself with no hang ups on size,just eraze that and put politely no fat woman lots of people do,U ask a question to forums U are not clear about yourself is the point

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"read the question"

Dance a tango

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have hit the nail on the head in my experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"read the question"
people are different and there _iews are too and there likes are OP. What is ok for one may not be for others .. its a candy shop here pick and mix .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sex is physical ..

dress it up anyway you like .. you will never hump someone with a great mind who doesn't get you wet ..

stephen hawking or alan bennett

molie sugden or mother theresa?

So it very realistic for physical feelings to develop from a mental connection.

I do find it slightly offensive you equate fat with unkempt......that's really not on!!"

yeah but this isnt a dating site. this is a rough and ready sex site where you dont do the whole lets get to really know eachother shit before sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

a question ..

for you all to consider

I never stated I don't admire a full figure

or did I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also OP I think you could be opening yourself up to abuse of your generosity. A nubile,slim woman could be attracted to the spoiling and not to you. I know women like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a question ..

for you all to consider

I never stated I don't admire a full figure

or did I?"

Bored now, I'm going to Pizza Hut!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

marvellous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Goes back to those " Lonely hearts " adverts of the 1970's asking for slim woman with GSOH."

And how did that work out for them at the time?

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

"maybe my first post wasn't clear ...

my postcode search is full of unkempt overweight people ..

I joined this site to find a nubile mistress to spoil ..

not to share kfc with"

Tell me the name of the charm school you went to? Excellent value for money!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a question ..

for you all to consider

I never stated I don't admire a full figure

or did I?

Bored now, I'm going to Pizza Hut!"

Can I come too please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"maybe my first post wasn't clear ...

my postcode search is full of unkempt overweight people ..

I joined this site to find a nubile mistress to spoil ..

not to share kfc with"

yet in your profile you state you've no size hang ups but so obviously you do.

Not all large people are unkempt and eat fried chicken all day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sex is physical ..

dress it up anyway you like .. you will never hump someone with a great mind who doesn't get you wet ..

stephen hawking or alan bennett

molie sugden or mother theresa?

So it very realistic for physical feelings to develop from a mental connection.

I do find it slightly offensive you equate fat with unkempt......that's really not on!!

yeah but this isnt a dating site. this is a rough and ready sex site where you dont do the whole lets get to really know eachother shit before sex

You speak for yourself. I don't do rough and ready sex and neither do a lot of others on this site! It's a swinging site not a sex site.

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

Never thought Bournemouth was full of fat unkempt people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

you sound like a 1970's dj

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"maybe my first post wasn't clear ...

my postcode search is full of unkempt overweight people ..

I joined this site to find a nubile mistress to spoil ..

not to share kfc with"

this post suggests you do not desire the larger woman -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello, I'd like to buck the trend with your data sampling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a question ..

for you all to consider

I never stated I don't admire a full figure

or did I?

Bored now, I'm going to Pizza Hut!

Can I come too please? "

You can but get your own, I'm not sharing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a question ..

for you all to consider

I never stated I don't admire a full figure

or did I?"

some people have answered. Yes,it can be sexy,if you find the man or woman sexy. Answer your question yourself now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

lovely people in the town

odd ones online

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

speaking of KFC i really wanna try that new BLT quad wrap. it looks amazingggg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a question ..

for you all to consider

I never stated I don't admire a full figure

or did I?"

Yes I think your statement about wanting to meet a young nubile woman and not wanting to share KFC.....was you confirming you don't like the Fat Unkempt women.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

it all depends on what we all find to be......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"maybe my first post wasn't clear ...

my postcode search is full of unkempt overweight people ..

I joined this site to find a nubile mistress to spoil ..

not to share kfc with

i wouldn't share a KFC either "

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

"lovely people in the town

odd ones online"

You need to sack your PR man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"speaking of KFC i really wanna try that new BLT quad wrap. it looks amazingggg"
i love the BBQ wrap myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a question ..

for you all to consider

I never stated I don't admire a full figure

or did I?

Bored now, I'm going to Pizza Hut!

Can I come too please?

You can but get your own, I'm not

sharing

No sweat, I don't share food either... Wasn't cheap to get a body like mine and I certainly didn't get it sharing food

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sex is physical ..

dress it up anyway you like .. you will never hump someone with a great mind who doesn't get you wet ..

stephen hawking or alan bennett

molie sugden or mother theresa?

So it very realistic for physical feelings to develop from a mental connection.

I do find it slightly offensive you equate fat with unkempt......that's really not on!!

yeah but this isnt a dating site. this is a rough and ready sex site where you dont do the whole lets get to really know eachother shit before sex

You speak for yourself. I don't do rough and ready sex and neither do a lot of others on this site! It's a swinging site not a sex site.

"
bollocks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"speaking of KFC i really wanna try that new BLT quad wrap. it looks amazingggg i love the BBQ wrap myself

i get 2 of each after a gym sesh sometimes. BBQ and flaming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sadly another thread where someone thinks that 'sexy' is directly attributable to dress size?

Sigh. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a question ..

for you all to consider

I never stated I don't admire a full figure

or did I?

Bored now, I'm going to Pizza Hut!

Can I come too please?

You can but get your own, I'm not

sharing

No sweat, I don't share food either... Wasn't cheap to get a body like mine and I certainly didn't get it sharing food

You and me both, such an expensive hobby is eating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"speaking of KFC i really wanna try that new BLT quad wrap. it looks amazingggg i love the BBQ wrap myself

i get 2 of each after a gym sesh sometimes. BBQ and flaming

i just skip the gym bit

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

like I need a pr man ..

the most bigoted racist ageist fattist parochial self centered people I have ever met were on this site

have sex have fun

have an idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lovely people in the town

odd ones online"

have you spoken to any of the women in town. What made you decide to look online?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said, it can be and it can not be, it depends on the person.

OP, could you please enlighten us with your definition of fat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my vote later but ... and not butter"

Can't beat proper butter on fresh crusty bread ! Much better than KFC !

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By * pool 1Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

my vote later but ... and not butter

Can't beat proper butter on fresh crusty bread ! Much better than KFC !

with chips xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he needs to re write his profile then too.

Race, age, size apparently not a problem to him.

And poster put some more pics on so the ladies can see if your THEIR preference.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"maybe my first post wasn't clear ...

my postcode search is full of unkempt overweight people ..

I joined this site to find a nubile mistress to spoil ..

not to share kfc withWell either move house or learn to enjoy a bucket of chicken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"maybe my first post wasn't clear ...

my postcode search is full of unkempt overweight people ..

I joined this site to find a nubile mistress to spoil ..

not to share kfc withWell either move house or learn to enjoy a bucket of chicken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"maybe my first post wasn't clear ...

my postcode search is full of unkempt overweight people ..

I joined this site to find a nubile mistress to spoil ..

not to share kfc withWell either move house or learn to enjoy a bucket of chicken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"maybe my first post wasn't clear ...

my postcode search is full of unkempt overweight people ..

I joined this site to find a nubile mistress to spoil ..

not to share kfc withWell either move house or learn to enjoy a bucket of chicken.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Yes, once they reach their mid-forties they seem to all have a crisis and I think need the women on their arm/in their bed to 'prove something' about themselves (especially if they can't drive a porche maybe!)! Younger guys still know they are gorgeous and older ones have learned not to give a damn!!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"like I need a pr man ..

the most bigoted racist ageist fattist parochial self centered people I have ever met were on this site

have sex have fun

have an idea"

Of course they are lol

I hope you find what you are looking for on here but I fear it won't be as quick as your hard on would like and.we will see more disgruntled threads from you criticising the people of the site because,let's face it,it's their fault you're not getting your end away could never be your fault.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fat, obese, lardy arsed and sexy as fuck!! And if anyone don't think so then they can move along!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"maybe my first post wasn't clear ...

my postcode search is full of unkempt overweight people ..

I joined this site to find a nubile mistress to spoil ..

not to share kfc withWell either move house or learn to enjoy a bucket of chicken.

Lmfao!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm fat, obese, lardy arsed and sexy as fuck!! And if anyone don't think so then they can move along!!

I am with you on that one chick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm fat, obese, lardy arsed and sexy as fuck!! And if anyone don't think so then they can move along!!

I am with you on that one chick

I'm tempted to try squashing! Some men love it and it pays well lol

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I've noticed that the people who start these thread calling people insulting names hardly ever have pictures of themselves on their profiles. Why is that? "

Exactly so!!! Are there chiselled jaws and six packs for the nubile young maidens I ask myself? If not, then I think we know the reason for the post, cos lets face it, there's lots of ripped male tottie on this site to keep the hotties happy!!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

So sapiosexual is just a figment go someones intelligence then, if sex is purely physical?

Gosh I'm being turned on by all the wrong people

Thanks for the advise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've noticed that the people who start these thread calling people insulting names hardly ever have pictures of themselves on their profiles. Why is that?

Lol and us fatties

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Maybe best to state your requirements on your profile then .Rather than you saying "size not an issue" because clearly it is to you .

As people have said sexy comes in all guises and is subjective. I'd far rather have an open minded and kind guy with extra weight than one with the body beautiful and a nasty personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah but this isnt a dating site. this is a rough and ready sex site where you dont do the whole lets get to really know eachother shit before sex

Actually I disagree with you too, this is a SWINGING site not a rough and ready sex site. I'm fully aware it's not a dating site, it's why I use it to find people with an open minded _iew towards sex and understand that doesn't need to be in a monogamous relationship.

The guy I described I met on here and we have a friends with benefits arrangement.....

Some people do want to get to know the people they are going to have sex with regardless where the meet them because they still need a mental connection and need to be turned on mentally before anything physical happens.

It is possible to use this site, meet people for sex and actually give a shit about them as a person without wanting a full blown relationship with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is possible to use this site, meet people for sex and actually give a shit about them as a person without wanting a full blown relationship with them."

Yes it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

theres a difference between getting to know someone and getting to really know someone though

maybe thats the difference between guys or girls onhere or just certain ones. im not here for deep and meaningful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*guys and girls

fuggin spelling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"theres a difference between getting to know someone and getting to really know someone though

maybe thats the difference between guys or girls onhere or just certain ones. im not here for deep and meaningful

Think for most if they wanted "deep and meaningful" they would be on a regular dating site but i agree with previous post i like to have some sort of connection and get to know people....

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

there a queue in town

outside the chip shop lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"think the OP needs to start speaking in plain, straight forward english as opposed to speaking in riddles and sounding like a pretencious prat

I think we went to the same school of saying it how it is."

I thought you looked familiar, I think i sat behind you in "take no bulls**t 101"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have curvy and slim friends, all of whom I think are gorgeous and sexy, to be honest, I don't really have a preference, to me the person is more important than the build. You are entitled to your own preferences but really don't understand the motive for posting it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"theres a difference between getting to know someone and getting to really know someone though

maybe thats the difference between guys or girls onhere or just certain ones. im not here for deep and meaningful

Yes there is.....but if people choose to use this site to find deep & meaningful connection they can. We can all use the site exactly how we want too within the rules of the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey, only popped to the gym for a bit and look what happened!! Think it might be even harder to find someone than it was before after this!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is possible to use this site, meet people for sex and actually give a shit about them as a person without wanting a full blown relationship with them.

Yes it is

we give a shit xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"there a queue in town

outside the chip shop lol"
cant be arsed to drag my arse to chip shop thank god for online takeaway sites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is possible to use this site, meet people for sex and actually give a shit about them as a person without wanting a full blown relationship with them.

Absolutely. Its even possible to become friends with people off here and remain friends years after the coitus has finished....

Sadly though, that relies on forming a connection to people which extends far beyond a mere physical appraisal or objectification.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lucky you, here are no women in my post code, but I like both big and small lol."

There are. But they've all blocked you

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I have curvy and slim friends, all of whom I think are gorgeous and sexy, to be honest, I don't really have a preference, to me the person is more important than the build. You are entitled to your own preferences but really don't understand the motive for posting it

It's usually a gripe at the lack of meets when they thought they'd be inundated with horny hotties on the site 'cos their make 'Jo'sGotaBiggun' was - on the day it dawns on them that in order to get laid they may have to get to grips with the concept of curvy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sadly another thread where someone thinks that 'sexy' is directly attributable to dress size?

Sigh.

I love this very much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have been looking on here for a multi millionaires that owns both a brewery and a distillery and I cant find one in my post code either lol

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

"Lucky you, here are no women in my post code, but I like both big and small lol.

There are. But they've all blocked you

Love this reply lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The op went about the subject in a roundabout kind of way .

If he is saying there has to be a physical attraction he is 100% correct .

Surely no one is gonna give someone they find repulsive a shag , no matter how nice they find their personality . This goes for size if you prefer slim , you won't wanna larger person will you ?

So the thread goes off on a rant from him and most others , and the rest turn it round to talking about food .

Par for the course really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"theres a difference between getting to know someone and getting to really know someone though

maybe thats the difference between guys or girls onhere or just certain ones. im not here for deep and meaningful

Yes there is.....but if people choose to use this site to find deep & meaningful connection they can. We can all use the site exactly how we want too within the rules of the site.

i agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the lovelies on here actually have 2 postcodes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a question ..

for you all to consider

I never stated I don't admire a full figure

or did I?

Bored now, I'm going to Pizza Hut!

Can I come too please? "

See ya there x

Reckon we can get a nice middle aged bloke spoil us and pay for it ?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Some of the lovelies on here actually have 2 postcodes

Gotta love a city centre bolt hide to hide away in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a question ..

for you all to consider

I never stated I don't admire a full figure

or did I?

Bored now, I'm going to Pizza Hut!

Can I come too please?

You can but get your own, I'm not

sharing

No sweat, I don't share food either... Wasn't cheap to get a body like mine and I certainly didn't get it sharing food

*chuckles*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no wonder your still a U2 mo fo and still havent found what you are looking for.

even slim people would find your attitude abhorrent, well some anyway.

how does fat go along with unkempt?

i have seen some rather bedraggled people that are 'perfect' sizes on here too.

just because someone is fat doesnt mean they arent clean.

waggle your head a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"maybe my first post wasn't clear ...

my postcode search is full of unkempt overweight people ..

I joined this site to find a nubile mistress to spoil ..

not to share kfc with"

Lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"The op went about the subject in a roundabout kind of way .

If he is saying there has to be a physical attraction he is 100% correct .

Surely no one is gonna give someone they find repulsive a shag , no matter how nice they find their personality . This goes for size if you prefer slim , you won't wanna larger person will you ?

So the thread goes off on a rant from him and most others , and the rest turn it round to talking about food .

Par for the course really

No. He was pissed off cos no fit young things want to fuck him to came on here to say all the women around him are 'umkempt and overweight'. If it was a thread about not shagging everything that moves then include all sizes in the statement, or are we saying that all slim women are attractive and sexy but not all big women can be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my postcode search profiles larger ladies and couples ..

does yours ?

my vote later but ... and not butter"

Do you mean there's are lots of fat people near you? If so yes there are here too but then over half the population is overweight so that's to be expected.

In direct answer to the question, no I don't find fat sexy. I don't find overly defined or very skinny sexy either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my postcode search profiles larger ladies and couples ..

does yours ?

my vote later but ... and not butter"

Do you mean there's are lots of fat people near you? If so yes there are here too but then over half the population is overweight so that's to be expected.

In direct answer to the question, no I don't find fat sexy. I don't find overly defined or very skinny sexy either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread needs more biscuits..."

Us fatties have already scoffed them all.... sorry!

Op if you don't want to fuck a fatty no one is going to force you, but maybe update your profile so that the fatties in your area know that they'll never get near your nubile self as currently is very unclear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"like I need a pr man ..

the most bigoted racist ageist fattist parochial self centered people I have ever met were on this site

have sex have fun

have an idea"

Yet they speak so highly of you. I'm off to McD's -anyone want anything? Sorry I don't deliver to Bournemouth.

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