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By *wiftiee OP   Man
over a year ago

near Glasgow

I often read in veris, usually repeat veris, the phrase "it just gets better" or words to that effect.

So......just how much better can it get?

Answers on a postcard please!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Well with repeat meets you get to know someone better obviously and are more open and comfortable with the,. repeat meets are my thing, just a shame some are so far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sex can get better with people up you meet regularly, you get to know more about what makes that person/couple tick and connect on a much more sexual level.

Aside from the sex, there's so mix more to a friendship where you all get along famously.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Damn right it does!

I'm currently awaiting confirmation of a repeat in June! Damn the bloody distance lol

Will be a repeat repeat, so much more relaxed, so more fun to be had

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

to the posts above. Damn geography!

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

. .gives me time to suss if i want to place my tongue where the sun dont shine . . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gosh Bothy, I need new specs....thought it said "wetter".......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im looking for repeat everything.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wondering if this is Fab or a Barbara Cartland novel

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I guess it gets better until it can get no better, then it's 'best'.

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

I love the repeat meet with a good friend. Been seeing someone regularly for 3.5 years and it definitely gets better and better.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Just wondering if this is Fab or a Barbara Cartland novel "

Why? Do you think a first sexual meet is the best you can have? If it was good the first time it can only get better the more after as you get to know the others body, jesus, sometimes I worry/wonder about some men on her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering if this is Fab or a Barbara Cartland novel "

Ooooh...suggest a title mac..my minds gone blank.

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By *wiftiee OP   Man
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"Gosh Bothy, I need new specs....thought it said "wetter"....... "

Flamin eck woman, nearly spat my tea out!!!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

sex and friendship does get better

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By *wiftiee OP   Man
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"I love the repeat meet with a good friend. Been seeing someone regularly for 3.5 years and it definitely gets better and better. "

Know exactly what you mean!

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By *wiftiee OP   Man
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"I guess it gets better until it can get no better, then it's 'best'. "

That's the sort of thing I was getting at, is there a gauge?

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By *ing and RideCouple
over a year ago

stockport

i dont understand this (fem btw here) i think i must be cold and detached and something i am not proud of. But i dont want repeat meets. We met a lovely couple and they are now really good friends and i dont want sex with them anymore. They are mates and it doesnt seem right. we have fun going out etc but the sex has gone!!! i prefer one offs with no attachment for sex. once friends it just isnt cricket in my book. Help better not meet anymore people. does anyone else feel like that?

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"I guess it gets better until it can get no better, then it's 'best'.

That's the sort of thing I was getting at, is there a gauge? "

I think that not only does it get better, it can also still surprise you. I know I am often surprised at how bloody good it is and to have something new happen, especially when you least expect it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saw this sign in an Idian in Leicester years ago

"You'll never get better..."

Put me off going

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"i dont understand this (fem btw here) i think i must be cold and detached and something i am not proud of. But i dont want repeat meets. We met a lovely couple and they are now really good friends and i dont want sex with them anymore. They are mates and it doesnt seem right. we have fun going out etc but the sex has gone!!! i prefer one offs with no attachment for sex. once friends it just isnt cricket in my book. Help better not meet anymore people. does anyone else feel like that?"

I think that's where it becomes each to their own needs and wants. I don't like having one off meets because I don't like the emotional detachment. The fact that I have a really good friend as well as a fantastic lover, but not all the paraphernalia of a relationship, is good for me, but them I'm single. If I were in a relationship or married, my position may be exactly the opposite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree, repeat meets and regular meets make for great times.

The FWB and I have been seeing each other for around 3 years gets better an better.

But - we both enjoy seeing others as well.

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

. .so youknow if i stick my tongue up your bum i like you. . . .not a lot but i like you

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I guess it gets better until it can get no better, then it's 'best'.

That's the sort of thing I was getting at, is there a gauge? "

I'm afraid not. Everyones experience of 'better' is different. It's a totally personal and unique thing.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I guess it gets better until it can get no better, then it's 'best'.

That's the sort of thing I was getting at, is there a gauge?

I'm afraid not. Everyones experience of 'better' is different. It's a totally personal and unique thing. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess it gets better until it can get no better, then it's 'best'.

That's the sort of thing I was getting at, is there a gauge?

I'm afraid not. Everyones experience of 'better' is different. It's a totally personal and unique thing. "

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By *wiftiee OP   Man
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"i dont understand this (fem btw here) i think i must be cold and detached and something i am not proud of. But i dont want repeat meets. We met a lovely couple and they are now really good friends and i dont want sex with them anymore. They are mates and it doesnt seem right. we have fun going out etc but the sex has gone!!! i prefer one offs with no attachment for sex. once friends it just isnt cricket in my book. Help better not meet anymore people. does anyone else feel like that?"

I can understand your standpoint completely, you're a couple.

I've always believed that couples in this environment are liable to have different attitudes than singles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering if this is Fab or a Barbara Cartland novel

Ooooh...suggest a title mac..my minds gone blank.

"

The Caravan of Lust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont understand this (fem btw here) i think i must be cold and detached and something i am not proud of. But i dont want repeat meets. We met a lovely couple and they are now really good friends and i dont want sex with them anymore. They are mates and it doesnt seem right. we have fun going out etc but the sex has gone!!! i prefer one offs with no attachment for sex. once friends it just isnt cricket in my book. Help better not meet anymore people. does anyone else feel like that?"

I like a good mix of repeat meets and one offs. I have a FB I've been meeting for about 2.5 years and we do have friendship beyond the sex, and I have a few 'regulars' who I don't see as often but enjoy repeat meets with...for me the more I know and trust them, the more I'll let them do to me! I do however enjoy the excitement of a one off meet with someone you know you aren't going to see again. Maybe I'm just greedy though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always room for improvement for everything - but some of the good things about the first meet cant be repeated purely cos of the fact the buzz was from being the first time - hope that reads well

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By *ing and RideCouple
over a year ago

stockport


"i dont understand this (fem btw here) i think i must be cold and detached and something i am not proud of. But i dont want repeat meets. We met a lovely couple and they are now really good friends and i dont want sex with them anymore. They are mates and it doesnt seem right. we have fun going out etc but the sex has gone!!! i prefer one offs with no attachment for sex. once friends it just isnt cricket in my book. Help better not meet anymore people. does anyone else feel like that?

I can understand your standpoint completely, you're a couple.

I've always believed that couples in this environment are liable to have different attitudes than singles."

Cheers for that. thank you x

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By *ing and RideCouple
over a year ago

stockport


"i dont understand this (fem btw here) i think i must be cold and detached and something i am not proud of. But i dont want repeat meets. We met a lovely couple and they are now really good friends and i dont want sex with them anymore. They are mates and it doesnt seem right. we have fun going out etc but the sex has gone!!! i prefer one offs with no attachment for sex. once friends it just isnt cricket in my book. Help better not meet anymore people. does anyone else feel like that?

I think that's where it becomes each to their own needs and wants. I don't like having one off meets because I don't like the emotional detachment. The fact that I have a really good friend as well as a fantastic lover, but not all the paraphernalia of a relationship, is good for me, but them I'm single. If I were in a relationship or married, my position may be exactly the opposite. "

Thanks for that and i really mean that cheers z

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"i dont understand this (fem btw here) i think i must be cold and detached and something i am not proud of. But i dont want repeat meets. We met a lovely couple and they are now really good friends and i dont want sex with them anymore. They are mates and it doesnt seem right. we have fun going out etc but the sex has gone!!! i prefer one offs with no attachment for sex. once friends it just isnt cricket in my book. Help better not meet anymore people. does anyone else feel like that?

I think that's where it becomes each to their own needs and wants. I don't like having one off meets because I don't like the emotional detachment. The fact that I have a really good friend as well as a fantastic lover, but not all the paraphernalia of a relationship, is good for me, but them I'm single. If I were in a relationship or married, my position may be exactly the opposite.

Thanks for that and i really mean that cheers z"

You're welcome. xx

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By *wiftiee OP   Man
over a year ago

near Glasgow


" I can understand your standpoint completely, you're a couple.

I've always believed that couples in this environment are liable to have different attitudes than singles.

Cheers for that. thank you x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It absolutely gets better, I like to find out what my friends really like and, despite the fact that people on here are probably quite open when it comes to their needs, I have always found that no-one really 'lets go' on the first meet, I guess there is always a desire to perform, impress or not overstep the others boundaries when meeting someone for the first time. I definitely learn as I go along, and have found the boundaries flex, and that's when it gets interesting. Besides, can you really get enough of someone you really like in one night,? I can't. ...... Sermon over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My take on it is...the more time you spend with a person the more you find what makes them tick....what works for the two of you, together and separately. Sometimes you're lucky enough to find something that starts out good but over the course of time grows into something quite unique and special and if you have the feeling that its getting better and better that's pretty wonderful. Circumstances dictate limitations....live for and in the moment to "make" it the best. Tomorrow is an unknown land.....but today was pretty darned good.....

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

if people are happy what is the.problem ...how many veris sre reading ?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are seeing someone quite regular hopefully it does get better as you learn what they like more

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"It absolutely gets better, I like to find out what my friends really like and, despite the fact that people on here are probably quite open when it comes to their needs, I have always found that no-one really 'lets go' on the first meet, I guess there is always a desire to perform, impress or not overstep the others boundaries when meeting someone for the first time. I definitely learn as I go along, and have found the boundaries flex, and that's when it gets interesting. Besides, can you really get enough of someone you really like in one night,? I can't. ...... Sermon over "

Oh I absolutely agree.

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"My take on it is...the more time you spend with a person the more you find what makes them tick....what works for the two of you, together and separately. Sometimes you're lucky enough to find something that starts out good but over the course of time grows into something quite unique and special and if you have the feeling that its getting better and better that's pretty wonderful. Circumstances dictate limitations....live for and in the moment to "make" it the best. Tomorrow is an unknown land.....but today was pretty darned good....."

Oh well said Jinty. xxxxx

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