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"the short term dilemma here to me is two fundamental facets of a relationship have been totally walked over, HONESTY and TRUST which in turn throws open the element of RESPECT, he in the first place hasn't been HONEST with his partner, has shown no TRUST in his partner, and i would think he will loose all her RESPECT for the other two " i almost know what your saying. | |||
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"Yes and yes. No lies have been told so far (I assume based on what has been said so far) and no trust hase been broken so far. Coming clean about not being able to be the father is not only about being honest, it's about allowing informed decisions to be made about what happens next." yes and yes i agree (nice knickers btw) | |||
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"I couldn't lie to my family about it. I'd be asking my parents to accept another grandchild as a blood relative and I'd be asking my brothers and sisters to accept another niece or nephew. And I'd be asking my existing children to accept another half-sibling. I just couldn't lie to them. For me, it would be the end of the relationship if she kept the child - which is her decision of course, but her decision to keep it would cause me to decide to move on. That's as honest as I can be." But if the guy couldn't father children, there would be no half-siblings. And if the guy hadn't the ability to beget children but hadn't told the woman, who is the most at fault? As the woman clearly wants the potential child, it would be cruel to have not told her that was not to be her future if she shared it with the guy! It must take bottle to discuss those things, esp for a guy as his whole masculinity is at question. | |||
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"As usual a fictitious scenario You are a swinging male and very happy with your partner who you love and is your soulmate you met on a site. Your partner excitedly announces that despite precautions she is pregnant,you however can not father children but have not yet told her? would you tell her? if you were the woman would you want to know? " Firstly I question why he hasn't told his "soulmate" something as fundamental as his inability to procreate. Secondly, each time we have sex we run the risk of pregnancy even whilst using protection (those sperm are tenacious little buggers). I think honesty in this scenario would be best as secrets like that can eat away at you. | |||
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"As usual a fictitious scenario You are a swinging male and very happy with your partner who you love and is your soulmate you met on a site. Your partner excitedly announces that despite precautions she is pregnant,you however can not father children but have not yet told her? would you tell her? if you were the woman would you want to know? " Erroneous Q ! If you loved her dearly AND if she was my soulmate. I'd have told her ages ago. | |||
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"As usual a fictitious scenario You are a swinging male and very happy with your partner who you love and is your soulmate you met on a site. Your partner excitedly announces that despite precautions she is pregnant,you however can not father children but have not yet told her? would you tell her? if you were the woman would you want to know? Firstly I question why he hasn't told his "soulmate" something as fundamental as his inability to procreate. Secondly, each time we have sex we run the risk of pregnancy even whilst using protection (those sperm are tenacious little buggers). I think honesty in this scenario would be best as secrets like that can eat away at you." Do you mind Juicy! I was just saying that .... pfffft | |||
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"As usual a fictitious scenario You are a swinging male and very happy with your partner who you love and is your soulmate you met on a site. Your partner excitedly announces that despite precautions she is pregnant,you however can not father children but have not yet told her? would you tell her? if you were the woman would you want to know? Firstly I question why he hasn't told his "soulmate" something as fundamental as his inability to procreate. Secondly, each time we have sex we run the risk of pregnancy even whilst using protection (those sperm are tenacious little buggers). I think honesty in this scenario would be best as secrets like that can eat away at you. Do you mind Juicy! I was just saying that .... pfffft " pmsl you snooze you lose | |||
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"As usual a fictitious scenario You are a swinging male and very happy with your partner who you love and is your soulmate you met on a site. Your partner excitedly announces that despite precautions she is pregnant,you however can not father children but have not yet told her? would you tell her? if you were the woman would you want to know? " this one is easy peasy!!!! 4 word answer.... JEREMY KLYE......DNA TEST..... | |||
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"As usual a fictitious scenario You are a swinging male and very happy with your partner who you love and is your soulmate you met on a site. Your partner excitedly announces that despite precautions she is pregnant,you however can not father children but have not yet told her? would you tell her? if you were the woman would you want to know? this one is easy peasy!!!! 4 word answer.... JEREMY KLYE......DNA TEST..... " DNA = Did not attend? | |||
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