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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you suggest or recommend people you've previously met to current and new meets?

Have you ever offered to to introduce or even facilitated a meeting between other Fab members without the motive being around your personal play desires?

Have you ever had a nightmare meet off the back of a recommend?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you suggest or recommend people you've previously met to current and new meets?

Have you ever offered to to introduce or even facilitated a meeting between other Fab members without the motive being around your personal play desires?

Have you ever had a nightmare meet off the back of a recommend?

For organised socials yes, the rest is private, we would not expect people to talk about our meets nor would we talk about theirs.

Anyone tries to talk about previous people and name them are automatically blocked, in case the gossip about us .

If you want to gossip join the wrvs or a knitting circle

Most of the time it's probalbly sour grapes. Bit like being in the playground at school .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do recommend men if I'm sure they are compatible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. To me it feels a bit pimpish.

I'm often asked by old meets if I know any single ladies I could hook them up which I find is weird!

I have had phone calls off strangers in the past who have been given my number by a mate. That didn't go down too well I can tell you that. After I tore a strip off the guy who called (he wouldn't gell me who gbw him the number so I asked him to pass a message on!) i didnt get any more calls.

Evie.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I've met people who I know have met others I know but it's not been through recommendation....it's been through he or I getting in contact off our own back...

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I have had people ask other people what I'm like as a person....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you suggest or recommend people you've previously met to current and new meets?

Have you ever offered to to introduce or even facilitated a meeting between other Fab members without the motive being around your personal play desires?

Have you ever had a nightmare meet off the back of a recommend?

Sure....I introduced a couple of lovely lasses I know from here....we're all a loose group of friends so why not?

Think I pointed a chap in the direction of a lady who sells her nickers too in an earlier thread but I haven't and probably won't meet either of those folk so don't know if it counts or not lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Every man for himself as far as I'm concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I find a man exceptional in bed I like to share the pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooh recommend me someone, then I can be like a lady on another thread and just lie back and think of England without all that trifling searching business!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met a couple on the weekend who said there is a couple who live near us who we should contact.

The recommendation was for a social as they felt we would get on. It was not for a recommendation for a shag!

Nothing wrong with a bit of mature and sensible networking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oooh recommend me someone, then I can be like a lady on another thread and just lie back and think of England without all that trifling searching business!

let's send out a search party!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

No never, I think it's up to individuals to make their own decisions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you suggest or recommend people you've previously met to current and new meets?

Have you ever offered to to introduce or even facilitated a meeting between other Fab members without the motive being around your personal play desires?

Have you ever had a nightmare meet off the back of a recommend?

We've met under recommendation before and its always gone well. It all depends on how well the person who is recommending knows you I guess and what you like and not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

For organised socials yes, the rest is private, we would not expect people to talk about our meets nor would we talk about theirs.

Anyone tries to talk about previous people and name them are automatically blocked, in case the gossip about us .

If you want to gossip join the wrvs or a knitting circle

Most of the time it's probalbly sour grapes. Bit like being in the playground at school ."

I couldn't agree with you more with regards to anything detailed or negative, I'm not talking about the 'gossip' brigade. I'd suggest non of that falls into the recommendation category.

Verifications are basically a recommendation tool, I presume you use them?

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I have been asked loads and had a few say they have been recommended too.... Not my thing apart from a platonic friend off here who up me in touch with another lady as he thought we would get along and he was correct x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oooh recommend me someone, then I can be like a lady on another thread and just lie back and think of England without all that trifling searching business!

let's send out a search party! "

ok, male, dominant, tall, 30-55 the rest of the physical is negotiable. Go fetch me a man someone and bring him to my boudoir!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have been asked loads and had a few say they have been recommended too.... Not my thing apart from a platonic friend off here who up me in touch with another lady as he thought we would get along and he was correct x"

Would he have been any less correct if he'd had sex with you in the past?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope. Every man for himself as far as I'm concerned."

and every woman for herself too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt mind someone iv met saying something like :

I think you and * so and so* would get on, maybe you should drop them a message.

To either me or smeone they thnk I might get in with.

We are all adults and my aproach is swinging is sharing.

But thats totally different to giving out all the details of meets etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Just because they'll meet me doesn't mean they'll meet people I'm familiar with and vice versa. It's the same reason I don't pay too much attention to verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oooh recommend me someone, then I can be like a lady on another thread and just lie back and think of England without all that trifling searching business!

let's send out a search party!

ok, male, dominant, tall, 30-55 the rest of the physical is negotiable. Go fetch me a man someone and bring him to my boudoir!

ooh I have a few of those. Where shall I send them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've recommended clubs.

Also spoke about previous meets with fellow fabsters but no, we actually recommended somebody else.

Silk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oooh recommend me someone, then I can be like a lady on another thread and just lie back and think of England without all that trifling searching business!

let's send out a search party!

ok, male, dominant, tall, 30-55 the rest of the physical is negotiable. GoGo fetch me a man someone and bring him to my boudoir!

ooh I have a few of those. Where shall I send them?

Just pop them in a taxi (or coach) and give the driver a slip of paper saying 'deliver to cheap classless slutty lowlife whore, West Midlands' driver will know where to go, there's just the one of me!

It's behind Morrisons. Oh and tell them to bring cake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I find a man exceptional in bed I like to share the pleasure"

We best not meet A, I'll never be able to cope with the onslaught lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've suggested men to BlondeCaz but they were just random.

I think it's great when I chat to someone and we have met the same person, either socially or sexually. I don't gossip though. I value my own privacy and extend the same courtesy to others.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I have recommended people. Sometimes this is to make a threesome a foursome, at other times it has been because I have been aware that two people are looking for something similar.

It's up to them to negotiate what happens and I don't need to know what happens between them.

I don't give numbers out and it is done through their profiles on here after checking with both parties.

I have been asked to make contact on behalf of others and I feel less comfortable about that. If you can't make contact directly then a go-between isn't the way to get around that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not quite recommendations but I have met someone who said that he wanted to meet me as I'd been verified by someone that he knew and he looked on that as a seal of approval so to speak....and if you can follow that, well done!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Person-to-person, I might mention someone but never if the experience was in any way negative. Smacks of fishwives. Incidentally, nothing wrong with a smack with a fish from a wife. Just saying.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

recommend clubs yes... recommend people nope! because what I might like in a person others may not....

I'll tell people they are genuine, but leave it at that....

I've had other people trying to use my name to get meets, which I think is really sniedy.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't make suggestions nor do I recommend anyone,if someone asked me about someone I may know id keep the answer polite but pretty vague,I like to keep myself to myself and find that sometimes it can be rather incestuous on here so id rather stand in the background and do my own thing without getting involved with too many other people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've recommended two single guys to a couple once. it's not something i typically do, though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many you should just read veri's and see if you recognise any names? Ive certainly been checked out in the past with friends calling to say "ive had a message asking about you". Ive your genuine you have nothing to fear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't make suggestions nor do I recommend anyone,if someone asked me about someone I may know id keep the answer polite but pretty vague,I like to keep myself to myself and find that sometimes it can be rather incestuous on here so id rather stand in the background and do my own thing without getting involved with too many other people"

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"I've suggested men to BlondeCaz but they were just random.

I think it's great when I chat to someone and we have met the same person, either socially or sexually. I don't gossip though. I value my own privacy and extend the same courtesy to others. "

And I did get in touch with a couple of the suggestions (as they were local), however nothing came of it...keep letting me know though Steve, I'm sure there's one or two locally I may have missed whilst copy/pasting my "Fancy a shag" messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oooh recommend me someone, then I can be like a lady on another thread and just lie back and think of England without all that trifling searching business!

let's send out a search party!

ok, male, dominant, tall, 30-55 the rest of the physical is negotiable. GoGo fetch me a man someone and bring him to my boudoir!

ooh I have a few of those. Where shall I send them?

It's behind Morrisons. Oh and tell them to bring cake."

What sort of cake would you like?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Offline, I don't mind helping people out. If someone asks if I know so and so, I'll say yes and probably say they are nice. However, I tend to like 99% of the population so that's pretty easy. I don't believe in discussing specifics.

Online, no, as I don't know the people asking half of the time and don't care much for messages asking if I know someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn't as peoples likes and dislikes could be different to mine and potentially it could be the worst meet they have ever had. If someone asked me what someone is like, I would be honest but maybe a little guarded with my response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did recommend a couple for a daytime meet once. But I think they had work so the meet was not possible

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Er....has anyone recommended me? At all? Ever?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Er....has anyone recommended me? At all? Ever?

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I can recommend Steve, very nice bloke to chat to, knows what he wants, realistic about real life.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would never share anyone's username with another meet, BUT may invite both to a club or party and do an introduction that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Er....has anyone recommended me? At all? Ever?

Nope, more warn than recommend

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