FabSwingers.com forum: fuming

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just had someone come up to me in town and said your that guy off of fabs aren't you?... iron man?

I'm with my daughter you dickhead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh dear

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

shocking... I would be the same as you, very angry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am sure ur daughter wouldnt know what fab was, depends what age ofcourse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is just wrong,how idiotic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people do let their mouths run off before putting brain into gear...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just had someone come up to me in town and said your that guy off of fabs aren't you?... iron man?

I'm with my daughter you dickhead"

And you still have face pictures public?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Un called for

... im just waiting for .... you will see very soon

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

She doesn't know. But that's not the point. I love being on here, but is private you expect some discrepancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just had someone come up to me in town and said your that guy off of fabs aren't you?... iron man?

I'm with my daughter you dickhead

And you still have face pictures public?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And there is the face pic comment didnt take to long ... i was goin to warn you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I don't have public pics, some people are just too stupid to show appropriate discretion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm not bothered about my face being on here. The fact of the matter is don't come upto me in public when iv never spoke to you in my life about this. Especially when my daughter is there

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some idiot around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is why I don't have public pics, some people are just too stupid to show appropriate discretion. "

Indeed

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I'm not bothered about my face being on here. The fact of the matter is don't come upto me in public when iv never spoke to you in my life about this. Especially when my daughter is there"

But while your face is on here you are letting yourself open to that risk - people get pissed etc. anything can happen 'out there'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was in family pub with my kids and a guy stood next to us asked for a pint of fab swingers

I was fucking fuming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whether he has face pics on is irrelevant, the fact the person came to him in public when he was with his daughter, it's the principle.

I'd be quite fucked off too if that was me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

On a night out pissed I wouldn't be bothered, when I'm just going into a bank.. that's not cool

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Unfortunately, it's the risk you take.

It may not be right but some people are simply morons. What do you expect?

- Amy. x

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"On a night out pissed I wouldn't be bothered, when I'm just going into a bank.. that's not cool"

Haha, I meant when other people are pissed! My point is it's wrong yes, but you can't legislate for what idiots will do. It's like driving a motorbike - you have to assume that every idiot behind a wheel could kill you and drive accordingly.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Did the guy ask you to verify him

What a twunt,!!

I treat my private life as private I hope others do too,

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well I think I might call it a day on here. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Downside to using a site like this but definitely a little thoughtless for somebody to say it while your out with your child none the less .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I think I might call it a day on here. X"

Just put your face pics into your friends only gallery? No need to leave us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whether he has face pics on is irrelevant, the fact the person came to him in public when he was with his daughter, it's the principle.

I'd be quite fucked off too if that was me. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I think I might call it a day on here. X"

Only you can make that decision but a few precautions on your profile and this sort of thing can be prevented to some extent. But unfortunately there are a few tossers out there. (And in here)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well I think I might call it a day on here. X

Just put your face pics into your friends only gallery? No need to leave us! "

I know but if I did that no bugger would talk to me lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well I think I might call it a day on here. X

Only you can make that decision but a few precautions on your profile and this sort of thing can be prevented to some extent. But unfortunately there are a few tossers out there. (And in here)"

Yeah I know.. think I might private my pics. Still I shouldn't have to. Proper tail end he was

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Well I think I might call it a day on here. X

Just put your face pics into your friends only gallery? No need to leave us!

I know but if I did that no bugger would talk to me lol"

Have a little one as your profile pic then

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Well I think I might call it a day on here. X

Just put your face pics into your friends only gallery? No need to leave us!

I know but if I did that no bugger would talk to me lol"

You see that's the other side of the coin, what you say is true, a lot of people won't entertain you then and if you said you didn't have pics on show for discretion they will accuse you of being married so you can't win anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well I think I might call it a day on here. X

Just put your face pics into your friends only gallery? No need to leave us!

I know but if I did that no bugger would talk to me lol

Exactly so I'm just gonna sit in and have a wank x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Iv took a lot of them to friends only. Still pissed off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unfortunately, it's the risk you take.

It may not be right but some people are simply morons. What do you expect?

- Amy. x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What did you say to the guy/ do after he said it?

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"Well I think I might call it a day on here. X

Just put your face pics into your friends only gallery? No need to leave us!

I know but if I did that no bugger would talk to me lol"
yes they would! Just keep ya face picts for friends only or send to those you chatting to etc ... We have never had our face picts on show and hasn't stopped any of our fun on here! As for what happened in town.... Eeeeeks!!! That person would have got the sharp end of my tongue for sure!! Out if order totaly. Don't let the arsehole spoil what you enjoy, as other have said just make a few subtle changes and roll on!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What did you say to the guy/ do after he said it?"

Told him to get out my face whilst he had the chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i am out with friends and get told "your on fab"

that doesn't bother me i ask them the username and block asap as if they haven't got discretion they wouldn't be for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happen to me at work once, in front of my boss I could of killed the bloke! Must be a man thing (no offence) but I'd never in a million years do it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"if i am out with friends and get told "your on fab"

that doesn't bother me i ask them the username and block asap as if they haven't got discretion they wouldn't be for me

And if i was out with friends that wouldn't be an issue either.

First time it's ever happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What did you say to the guy/ do after he said it?

Told him to get out my face whilst he had the chance"

Hope he apologised. Some people are freaks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happen to me at work once, in front of my boss I could of killed the bloke! Must be a man thing (no offence) but I'd never in a million years do it

This is it.

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By *r-UniqueMan
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

"This is why I don't have public pics, some people are just too stupid to show appropriate discretion.

Indeed

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

im sorry but it was a sperm bank

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" im sorry but it was a sperm bank

Forgot to mention that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just put your face pics into your friends only gallery? No need to leave us! "

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Well I think I might call it a day on here. X

Just put your face pics into your friends only gallery? No need to leave us!

I know but if I did that no bugger would talk to me lol"

Yea they will, I'm quite happy to talk to guys showing a range of pics that obscure their face, I do the same. As long as there's enough there to see they're real you can attach face pics to messages or put them in your friends gallery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just had someone come up to me in town and said your that guy off of fabs aren't you?... iron man?

I'm with my daughter you dickhead"

thats bang out of order

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

"Just had someone come up to me in town and said your that guy off of fabs aren't you?... iron man?

I'm with my daughter you dickhead

thats bang out of order "
. .i know the cunt didn't even leave a gift for the little one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happen to me at work once, in front of my boss I could of killed the bloke! Must be a man thing (no offence) but I'd never in a million years do it

idiots are not gender specfic

they in every model

and ages

there is however one common denominator : they are idiots

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Some people are idiots.

And incidentally I never expect anyone to have public face pics. If they do, great but if not, I'd be no less interested because of it.

Assuming they'll send me a face pic if we're chatting and considering meeting, that's fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I think I might call it a day on here. X"

dont leave it one idiot out how many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No need for face pics when they see the size of whats on offer, too young for us though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a tosser I'd be fuming.

I've had people recognise me just from my eyes but the majority have just smiled then waited to send a message on here including a face pic so I knew who they were.

Had one guy who asked if he saw me in town,he ddidn't include a face pic so I replied saying I couldn't be sure if it was me he saw unless he was walkin round with his dick out.

I'd be fuming and I've no kids, rarely shop etc in company. Fair enough, say 'hello' to me, just be discreet about it.

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By *r-UniqueMan
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

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By *isalikesitWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

I would be fuming too. I hope he reads this thread (but doubt it) and is suitably ashamed.

Lisa

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Time and a place for everything and that's a bit rum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put your pics in private then go stand in front of a mirror and perfect your 'don't even think about opening your mouth' stare for potential future deployment !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had this but thank god no family with me ........ Also had seen you at ..... and they never said hello just mail on here after .

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

If the fuckwit saw you were with a child then I would say they knew it was inappropriate and he was just being a twat.

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

although what they did was very wrong, if you put facepics on your open gallery, then be expected to get recognised when out & about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So people keep saying but still wrong

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"So people keep saying but still wrong"

I agree. That's like saying that people who carry cash should expect to be mugged.

This is not Facebook. It is a private member's site. Discretion should be a given.

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

I thought it was one of those unwritten rules of fab,do not approach in public,what an utter prat I would have been fuming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what did you say?

would have been best to deny it all day long.

even if your daughter doesnt know what its about, that behaviour is wrong wrong wrong.

sincerely hope he never gets the same treatment when sat in a pub having a meal with his family, friends or wife!

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

It still amazes me that not displaying a face pic or not sending one first message is not considered reasonable behaviour

That said the op is right to be angry broken the unwritten rule .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sincerely hope he never gets the same treatment when sat in a pub having a meal with his family, friends or wife!"

Might teach him a lesson

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"what did you say?

would have been best to deny it all day long.

even if your daughter doesnt know what its about, that behaviour is wrong wrong wrong.

sincerely hope he never gets the same treatment when sat in a pub having a meal with his family, friends or wife!"

Exactly. I told him to get out of my face before I do something he obliged lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was in family pub with my kids and a guy stood next to us asked for a pint of fab swingers

I was fucking fuming "

LOL, I was insulted at a bar once, so I ordered a Blackcurrant and soda, pint of.... Her white dress looked lovely!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Exactly. I told him to get out of my face before I do something he obliged lol "

Way over aggressive you should not be acting like that in front of your daughter, Simply saying "Where?" would have been more appropriate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh here we go, the pacifists have arrived...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh here we go, the pacifists have arrived..."

but its right.

denying all knowledge is much better than getting all aggressive.

especially if the child is like most kids and has big ears, never know what they will repeat to mummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The bloke needed to be told in no uncertain terms....

No violence was dished out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh here we go, the pacifists have arrived..."

I am far from a pacifist, but I don't engage or threaten to engage in activity that would either put my child in danger or scare her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The bloke needed to be told in no uncertain terms....

No violence was dished out."

so whats wrong with telling the bloke he is completely wrong, and should be a little more wary about approaching strangers in the street?

rather than 'get out of my face or i will beat you up, in front of my impressionable child' type comments?

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By *r-UniqueMan
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

"although what they did was very wrong, if you put facepics on your open gallery, then be expected to get recognised when out & about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not just stick to discussing what actually happened, the "benefit of hindsight" applies to probably MOST of our days, whatever the situation. Things that have happened.....have actually happened....

....so unless you have a hot tub time machine, in which case, the OP should borrow it and block the guy 3 weeks ago.

Maybe the OP will read the "be nice" posts and change his ways, but he is he, and I am I and you are you. All different, but entitled to their own opinions.

PS, my family all Box, youngest is 10. Not one has ever been involved in hitting anyone outside the ring, however I am pleased they are all able to defend themselves and "Knock the head off" anyone who threatens them. To me as a husband and father, that is important.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"Why not just stick to discussing what actually happened, the "benefit of hindsight" applies to probably MOST of our days, whatever the situation. Things that have happened.....have actually happened....

....so unless you have a hot tub time machine, in which case, the OP should borrow it and block the guy 3 weeks ago.

Maybe the OP will read the "be nice" posts and change his ways, but he is he, and I am I and you are you. All different, but entitled to their own opinions.

I'm a pacifist x

The very last thing you should teach your kids to do is knock the head off anyone .always but always walk away ! Why because one day you will confront someone and not walk away. Agression is final last resort if you cannot escape any other way .

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"Some people do let their mouths run off before putting brain into gear...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was in family pub with my kids and a guy stood next to us asked for a pint of fab swingers

I was fucking fuming

LOL, I was insulted at a bar once, so I ordered a Blackcurrant and soda, pint of.... Her white dress looked lovely!!"

The male of the couple did this to a woman?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Pictures better now???

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"Well I think I might call it a day on here. X"

I think it would be really sad to see you leave, all because someone has an absolute deficiency of morals, or knows how to behave decently.

You're on fab for a purpose, that you have every right to have. Just as you have every right to expect that people will always treat with you respect.

You can rest your profile at any point, making it unavailable for others to _iew. You can also restrict the type of fab users that can _iew you - such as single guys or new members etc. I know others have said it, but I'd encourage you to keep the most intimate and revealing pics as private, for now. This may allow you to regain your composure and trust in the site. I don't think that what's happened to you is in any way typical of fab, but of course it has happened.

Anyway, for now, know that most of us here are behind you, and wish you all the best.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you xx

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