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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ladies! We guys know you get swamped with emails. What gets your attention?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Moths!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless you have more than 1 cock, 1 pic is more than adequate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of us like a flirt and build up... Not one liners.. Try fabbing a pic... then another if w

e look at you.. Then if we look again send us a wink... Then send a message that shows you've read a profile properly and looked at pics..

We like to feel charmed not just like a passing cut and paste message ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies! We guys know you get swamped with emails. What gets your attention?"

A nice message that shows my profile has been read. If it makes me smile or laugh, even better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies! We guys know you get swamped with emails. What gets your attention?

A nice message that shows my profile has been read. If it makes me smile or laugh, even better "

That can be hard when some people only put on their profile "I'll fill this in later" or "Looking for NSA local sex"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Photos on your profile

As I won't open the email if I don't like them

Attached photos

And more than a hi

But no essays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A message showing that you have read the profile and are genuinely interested not just trying your luck in the hope of getting a reply.

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Photos on your profile

As I won't open the email if I don't like them

Attached photos

And more than a hi

But no essays "

Sits back and takes notes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies! We guys know you get swamped with emails. What gets your attention?

A nice message that shows my profile has been read. If it makes me smile or laugh, even better

That can be hard when some people only put on their profile "I'll fill this in later" or "Looking for NSA local sex""

Then I'd have to question why would you want to contact someone with so little on their profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies! We guys know you get swamped with emails. What gets your attention?

A nice message that shows my profile has been read. If it makes me smile or laugh, even better

That can be hard when some people only put on their profile "I'll fill this in later" or "Looking for NSA local sex"

Then I'd have to question why would you want to contact someone with so little on their profile? "

That is just what I was thinking!

A well written profile is really what the initial attraction is for us, especially me, the female. I look at that before I look at the pictures.

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies! We guys know you get swamped with emails. What gets your attention?

A nice message that shows my profile has been read. If it makes me smile or laugh, even better

That can be hard when some people only put on their profile "I'll fill this in later" or "Looking for NSA local sex"

Then I'd have to question why would you want to contact someone with so little on their profile? "

You do have a very good point there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies! We guys know you get swamped with emails. What gets your attention?

A nice message that shows my profile has been read. If it makes me smile or laugh, even better

That can be hard when some people only put on their profile "I'll fill this in later" or "Looking for NSA local sex"

Then I'd have to question why would you want to contact someone with so little on their profile?

You do have a very good point there! "

lol I may be blonde but I'm all there

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Variety gets my attention.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Ladies! We guys know you get swamped with emails. What gets your attention?

A nice message that shows my profile has been read. If it makes me smile or laugh, even better

That can be hard when some people only put on their profile "I'll fill this in later" or "Looking for NSA local sex"

Then I'd have to question why would you want to contact someone with so little on their profile? "

Bingo....

I was really tempted to say that if this is what you are replying to then you deserve what you get... That is a "cock ruling head" type situation...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somebody coming up behind me in Asda and slapping my arse - that gets my attention!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unless you have more than 1 cock, 1 pic is more than adequate."

What we don't need to see it from ten different angles and in twenty different settings?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Somebody coming up behind me in Asda and slapping my arse - that gets my attention!"

Hmmm... which Asda is this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Somebody coming up behind me in Asda and slapping my arse - that gets my attention!"
Which Asda do you use

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A message showing that you have read the profile and are genuinely interested not just trying your luck in the hope of getting a reply.

Xx"

Agree with this ^^^^

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

A message that shows that not only have they read my profile (I have ways of finding out), but that includes some sort of indication that they actually want to meet me, and not just anyone. 'Wanna fuck' is not going to cut it. 'How are you?', although a good start to a longer message, is a bit crap as a one liner. On the other hand, a long message starting with 'we meet in a bar, you in a tight black dress and stockings...' which then goes on to detail what you want to do is presumptuous to say the least.

If you try to get across the friendliness that you'd show if you chatted up a woman in a bar, you should be OK.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A message showing that you have read the profile and are genuinely interested not just trying your luck in the hope of getting a reply.

Xx

Agree with this ^^^^

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A message that shows that not only have they read my profile (I have ways of finding out), but that includes some sort of indication that they actually want to meet me, and not just anyone. 'Wanna fuck' is not going to cut it. 'How are you?', although a good start to a longer message, is a bit crap as a one liner. On the other hand, a long message starting with 'we meet in a bar, you in a tight black dress and stockings...' which then goes on to detail what you want to do is presumptuous to say the least.

If you try to get across the friendliness that you'd show if you chatted up a woman in a bar, you should be OK."

Most informative and useful.. Many thanks!

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