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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Spelling mistakes that annoy you?

Which words that are often spelt incorrectly annoy you the most?

Mine is your and you're.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

None really. As long as I can read it and understand it then it doesn't annoy me.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Spelling mistakes that annoy you?

Which words that are often spelt incorrectly annoy you the most?

Mine is your and you're."

I just used you're on a thread... was it right

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Why do people put apostrophes on plurals?

Or should I say, apostrophe's on plural's?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

None as my spelling is not the greatest....why judge others and their flaws...

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if they have a big cock, I excuse most things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate it where were we're people use the wrong word.

Sorry, I have a stutter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spelling mistakes that annoy you?

Which words that are often spelt incorrectly annoy you the most?

Mine is your and you're."

Spelling mistakes do not bother us but poor grammar is another thing entirely.

You should have said 'Mine are...' and not 'Mine is...'.

Try harder.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

never lost sleep over a spelling mistake !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None as my spelling is not the greatest....why judge others and their flaws... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spelling mistakes that annoy you?

Which words that are often spelt incorrectly annoy you the most?

Mine is your and you're.

Spelling mistakes do not bother us but poor grammar is another thing entirely.

You should have said 'Mine are...' and not 'Mine is...'.

Try harder.

"

Touché x

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I agree because in today's society we shorten words

My daughter often elongates words like okkaaiiii instead of OK. Some people type how they speak, like a local dialect.

I was seeing a girl from East London and I'd say shat app then a girl from barnsley and it became shurrup lol

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Spelling mistakes that annoy you?

Which words that are often spelt incorrectly annoy you the most?

Mine is your and you're.

Spelling mistakes do not bother us but poor grammar is another thing entirely.

You should have said 'Mine are...' and not 'Mine is...'.

Try harder.

"

The original was correct. Is was used because the writer was citing a single example, that example being "your and you're".

If the writer had two examples of a common mistake, such as, "mine are your/you're and misuse of is and are" then are would have been correct as opposed to is.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"None as my spelling is not the greatest....why judge others and their flaws... "

That is a good point. However, a mistake being pointed out to you should be takentaken eagerly as an opportunity as opposed to taken as an insult. Learning is fun.

Allegedly.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"None as my spelling is not the greatest....why judge others and their flaws...

That is a good point. However, a mistake being pointed out to you should be takentaken eagerly as an opportunity as opposed to taken as an insult. Learning is fun.

Allegedly. "

Maybe and I'll take that but you see all too often on here people belittling others over mistakes they make whether it's grammar or spelling...there are ways of doing things without belittling others. I'm happy to learn and learn on a daily basis as I have to write legal letters on a daily basis and often have to use big words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spelling mistakes that annoy you?

Which words that are often spelt incorrectly annoy you the most?

Mine is your and you're.

Spelling mistakes do not bother us but poor grammar is another thing entirely.

You should have said 'Mine are...' and not 'Mine is...'.

Try harder.

The original was correct. Is was used because the writer was citing a single example, that example being "your and you're".

If the writer had two examples of a common mistake, such as, "mine are your/you're and misuse of is and are" then are would have been correct as opposed to is."

Thank you for that, I stand corrected. Would you like me to light anymore bonfires for you to piss on? (I feel so stupid).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None as my spelling is not the greatest....why judge others and their flaws...

That is a good point. However, a mistake being pointed out to you should be takentaken eagerly as an opportunity as opposed to taken as an insult. Learning is fun.

Allegedly. "

Haha, you said 'takentaken', I feel smart again. Yippee.

(Obviously have wood and petrol to hand, in case I am mistaken again).

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"None as my spelling is not the greatest....why judge others and their flaws...

That is a good point. However, a mistake being pointed out to you should be takentaken eagerly as an opportunity as opposed to taken as an insult. Learning is fun.

Allegedly.

Haha, you said 'takentaken', I feel smart again. Yippee.

(Obviously have wood and petrol to hand, in case I am mistaken again)."

Hahaha I deserved that for being a pedantic bastard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None really. As long as I can read it and understand it then it doesn't annoy me. "

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"None as my spelling is not the greatest....why judge others and their flaws...

That is a good point. However, a mistake being pointed out to you should be takentaken eagerly as an opportunity as opposed to taken as an insult. Learning is fun.

Allegedly.

Maybe and I'll take that but you see all too often on here people belittling others over mistakes they make whether it's grammar or spelling...there are ways of doing things without belittling others. I'm happy to learn and learn on a daily basis as I have to write legal letters on a daily basis and often have to use big words. "

Your point is a good one. It is not uncommon for people to be rude. I guess you have to be quite tactful in those circumstances. Perhaps not my strong point always.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have sexdaily, sorry dyslexia.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been a poor speller but have improved with age. So I don't tend to judge, only that I don't like text speak in emails.

My pet hate is using the word decreet/decrete incorrectly!

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have sexdaily, sorry dyslexia. "

Oi! That's mine! I say 'dailysex' is better!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been a poor speller but have improved with age. So I don't tend to judge, only that I don't like text speak in emails.

My pet hate is using the word decreet/decrete incorrectly!

P"

Oh no, having great difficulty holding myself back, got to say something.... aaaargh..... No, have it under control... say something nice... you have a lovely bum, phew did it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's ok thing that stops me from liking someone or getting on with them just some of the words they spell incorrectly should be spelt correctly as they all have iPhones!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's ok thing that stops me from liking someone or getting on with them just some of the words they spell incorrectly should be spelt correctly as they all have iPhones! "

What has an IPhone got to do with spelling?

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"It's ok thing that stops me from liking someone or getting on with them just some of the words they spell incorrectly should be spelt correctly as they all have iPhones! "

Do iphones put commas in for you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's ok thing that stops me from liking someone or getting on with them just some of the words they spell incorrectly should be spelt correctly as they all have iPhones! "

That was supposed to read 'it's not something that stops me from liking someone'

And the iPhone autocorrect helps people spell words correctly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's ok thing that stops me from liking someone or getting on with them just some of the words they spell incorrectly should be spelt correctly as they all have iPhones!

That was supposed to read 'it's not something that stops me from liking someone'

And the IPhone autocorrect helps people spell words correctly."

Did you use an IPhone to post this, if you did it clearly defeats your argument.

And what about those without an IPhone, like us?

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Why do people put apostrophes on plurals?

Or should I say, apostrophe's on plural's? "

That annoys me too. Have to restrain myself from correcting them when out and about!!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

When posting on here or in texts, I usually put ma instead of my and yer instead of your because that's the way I pronounce it.

If however I'm writing something a little more official I cross ma Ts and dot ma Is.

At the end of the day, as long as I can understand what I'm reading it matters little to me. The spoken language is so diverse and this is portrayed in the written word

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By *randmrsminxyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

that's why I have smell chocker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Other people's spelling mistakes don't bother me, but mine do

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"None as my spelling is not the greatest....why judge others and their flaws... "

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"When posting on here or in texts, I usually put ma instead of my and yer instead of your because that's the way I pronounce it.

If however I'm writing something a little more official I cross ma Ts and dot ma Is.

At the end of the day, as long as I can understand what I'm reading it matters little to me. The spoken language is so diverse and this is portrayed in the written word "
exactly this! I use me instead of my .. Ya instead of your... Aint instead of isn't... Etc etc .... Is how it is in me neck of the woods!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if they have a big cock, I excuse most things"

thanfks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's ok thing that stops me from liking someone or getting on with them just some of the words they spell incorrectly should be spelt correctly as they all have iPhones!

What has an IPhone got to do with spelling?"

u hav 2 doo a spilling test b4 u cn buy 1.

i av a nokia

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"It's ok thing that stops me from liking someone or getting on with them just some of the words they spell incorrectly should be spelt correctly as they all have iPhones!

What has an IPhone got to do with spelling?

u hav 2 doo a spilling test b4 u cn buy 1.

i av a nokia "

Downt you meen knockya ?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Lose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesnt matter to me if someone has a spelling mistake or for that matter carnt spell. Not meeting somebody for that reason in my opinion is a bit strange. Someone might not be the clever with spelling but doesnt stop them from being a good fuck. When people advertise a meet saying they are looking to play i presume they are after playing a spelling game and not playing sexually. Everybody is entitled to their own opinion tho.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Doesnt matter to me if someone has a spelling mistake or for that matter carnt spell. Not meeting somebody for that reason in my opinion is a bit strange. Someone might not be the clever with spelling but doesnt stop them from being a good fuck. When people advertise a meet saying they are looking to play i presume they are after playing a spelling game and not playing sexually. Everybody is entitled to their own opinion tho."

Erm ?

You presume they want to play spelling ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was being sarcastic when saying that, if people.wanted to play spelling games i doubt they would be on this site. Unless it was naked scrabble and each time somebody had a 7 letter word the opposition had to give them oral. Now that would be fun

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Doesnt matter to me if someone has a spelling mistake or for that matter carnt spell. Not meeting somebody for that reason in my opinion is a bit strange. Someone might not be the clever with spelling but doesnt stop them from being a good fuck. When people advertise a meet saying they are looking to play i presume they are after playing a spelling game and not playing sexually. Everybody is entitled to their own opinion tho."

Dyslexics aside, it's likely that people who don't give a damn about their spelling and I will not have a mental connection of any sort. I need that cerebral spark to be there.

It's not an absolute rule but it is, in my experience, a very strong indicator.

Good sex is partly mental, partly attitude and certainly more than sticking tab A into slot B.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesnt matter to me if someone has a spelling mistake or for that matter carnt spell. Not meeting somebody for that reason in my opinion is a bit strange. Someone might not be the clever with spelling but doesnt stop them from being a good fuck. When people advertise a meet saying they are looking to play i presume they are after playing a spelling game and not playing sexually. Everybody is entitled to their own opinion tho.

Dyslexics aside, it's likely that people who don't give a damn about their spelling and I will not have a mental connection of any sort. I need that cerebral spark to be there.

It's not an absolute rule but it is, in my experience, a very strong indicator.

Good sex is partly mental, partly attitude and certainly more than sticking tab A into slot B."

i have never heard anybody say to someone im attracted to your spelling. Thats a new 1 to me. Some people tho no matter what just carnt spell

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Spelling mistakes that annoy you?

Which words that are often spelt incorrectly annoy you the most?

Mine is your and you're."

I understood the thread to be more about spelling in general rather than just on here.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Doesnt matter to me if someone has a spelling mistake or for that matter carnt spell. Not meeting somebody for that reason in my opinion is a bit strange. Someone might not be the clever with spelling but doesnt stop them from being a good fuck. When people advertise a meet saying they are looking to play i presume they are after playing a spelling game and not playing sexually. Everybody is entitled to their own opinion tho.

Dyslexics aside, it's likely that people who don't give a damn about their spelling and I will not have a mental connection of any sort. I need that cerebral spark to be there.

It's not an absolute rule but it is, in my experience, a very strong indicator.

Good sex is partly mental, partly attitude and certainly more than sticking tab A into slot B.

i have never heard anybody say to someone im attracted to your spelling. Thats a new 1 to me. Some people tho no matter what just carnt spell"

I'm attracted to intelligence, people with attention to detail, who care how they present themselves and many other factors. Spelling is an indicator of whether I am likely to 'click' with them.

It's not the spelling that attracts or repels me but what it says about the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spelling mistakes that annoy you?

Which words that are often spelt incorrectly annoy you the most?

Mine is your and you're."

Believe and Recieve. I always get the i and e the wrong way round.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor spelling, or obvious genuine mistakes, don't bother us in comparison to lazy spelling. Language, both written and spoken, is constantly evolving though. At some stage in recent history "sick", "wicked" and "bad" have all meant "good". Them pesky kids of today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're, there and their

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're, there and their "

nise tats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"Doesnt matter to me if someone has a spelling mistake or for that matter carnt spell. Not meeting somebody for that reason in my opinion is a bit strange. Someone might not be the clever with spelling but doesnt stop them from being a good fuck. When people advertise a meet saying they are looking to play i presume they are after playing a spelling game and not playing sexually. Everybody is entitled to their own opinion tho.

Dyslexics aside, it's likely that people who don't give a damn about their spelling and I will not have a mental connection of any sort. I need that cerebral spark to be there.

It's not an absolute rule but it is, in my experience, a very strong indicator.

Good sex is partly mental, partly attitude and certainly more than sticking tab A into slot B.

i have never heard anybody say to someone im attracted to your spelling. Thats a new 1 to me. Some people tho no matter what just carnt spell

I'm attracted to intelligence, people with attention to detail, who care how they present themselves and many other factors. Spelling is an indicator of whether I am likely to 'click' with them.

It's not the spelling that attracts or repels me but what it says about the person."
am a bit confused here! If for example you met someone in a club, got on with them, chemisty there etc.. Where is spelling gonna come into it? Intelligence is not all about spelling ... For example , I am not a good speller, however I am far from stupid. ( I got ologies!!! lol ) My spelling has no bearings what so ever how good i may be in bed! I am able to converse with a huge number of different people, and can talk about many subjects ... Just because somebody can't spell ( for what ever reason , and there can be many) in my eyes , is no reflection to the person they truly are. Is like saying perfect spellers and the most intelligent people in the world are all wonderful people and perfect fucks Each to their own etc, just don't feel really that's always the case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they say 'fancy a fuk' I ignore them.

If they say 'Fancy a fuck?' I have my knickers off faster than

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i think spelling mishaps are just amusing and endearing .. why get all snotty about a slip on a smartphone keyboard or an autospell malapropism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to take scrabble to oor 1st meet jist so we ken wit we up against if they get big words well got 2 be a good fuck

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

No spelling mistakes annoy me on here, its a site for NSA sex, I am not in the least bit interested if someone passed their A Level English. In other words, I care not a jot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find with these things some people try way too hard to demonstrate their (perceived) superiority - often in ways that expose their ignorance.

I can tell much more by what somebody says than how they say it. Likewise for what they write.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Tounge is my wee bugbear (well it's one of them as I am pretty anal about spelling) but I would never be rude about anyone's typos.

Missing or misplaced apostrophes are another little irk...I was in Blackpool t'other day and spotted a takeaway called Popeyes Takeaway so I took a picture to send to one of the forum regulars...of course I went back under cover of darkness to paint an apostrophe in (I'm not allowed access to flammable materials anymore so I couldn't firebomb them)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gawjus is one that gets me

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Doesnt matter to me if someone has a spelling mistake or for that matter carnt spell. Not meeting somebody for that reason in my opinion is a bit strange. Someone might not be the clever with spelling but doesnt stop them from being a good fuck. When people advertise a meet saying they are looking to play i presume they are after playing a spelling game and not playing sexually. Everybody is entitled to their own opinion tho.

Dyslexics aside, it's likely that people who don't give a damn about their spelling and I will not have a mental connection of any sort. I need that cerebral spark to be there.

It's not an absolute rule but it is, in my experience, a very strong indicator.

Good sex is partly mental, partly attitude and certainly more than sticking tab A into slot B.

i have never heard anybody say to someone im attracted to your spelling. Thats a new 1 to me. Some people tho no matter what just carnt spell

I'm attracted to intelligence, people with attention to detail, who care how they present themselves and many other factors. Spelling is an indicator of whether I am likely to 'click' with them.

It's not the spelling that attracts or repels me but what it says about the person. am a bit confused here! If for example you met someone in a club, got on with them, chemisty there etc.. Where is spelling gonna come into it? Intelligence is not all about spelling ... For example , I am not a good speller, however I am far from stupid. ( I got ologies!!! lol ) My spelling has no bearings what so ever how good i may be in bed! I am able to converse with a huge number of different people, and can talk about many subjects ... Just because somebody can't spell ( for what ever reason , and there can be many) in my eyes , is no reflection to the person they truly are. Is like saying perfect spellers and the most intelligent people in the world are all wonderful people and perfect fucks Each to their own etc, just don't feel really that's always the case "

I'm not sure why you'd be confused. It's down to how they come across. Here, where communication is written, it's a big part of it, especially as I have no body language and only (if I'm lucky) a few photos to go on. Here I'm deciding whom to meet virtually blind. In a club, I'm not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None as i dont care how its spelt as long as it can be read or understood theres more to life than that to worry about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as it's legible and not text speak it's fine by me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No spelling mistakes annoy me on here, its a site for NSA sex, I am not in the least bit interested if someone passed their A Level English. In other words, I care not a jot. "

My English spelling isn't great and I'm very concious of that but luckily my phone and laptop will highlight any mistakes.

Typos are a different matter though and can be quite funny sometimes

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By *xxjamCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"I agree because in today's society we shorten words

My daughter often elongates words like okkaaiiii instead of OK. Some people type how they speak, like a local dialect.

I was seeing a girl from East London and I'd say shat app then a girl from barnsley and it became shurrup lol "

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Spelling and grammar don't bother me as much as text speak!

Wot u up2?

Aaarrggghhhhh!!!!

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"Doesnt matter to me if someone has a spelling mistake or for that matter carnt spell. Not meeting somebody for that reason in my opinion is a bit strange. Someone might not be the clever with spelling but doesnt stop them from being a good fuck. When people advertise a meet saying they are looking to play i presume they are after playing a spelling game and not playing sexually. Everybody is entitled to their own opinion tho.

Dyslexics aside, it's likely that people who don't give a damn about their spelling and I will not have a mental connection of any sort. I need that cerebral spark to be there.

It's not an absolute rule but it is, in my experience, a very strong indicator.

Good sex is partly mental, partly attitude and certainly more than sticking tab A into slot B.

i have never heard anybody say to someone im attracted to your spelling. Thats a new 1 to me. Some people tho no matter what just carnt spell

I'm attracted to intelligence, people with attention to detail, who care how they present themselves and many other factors. Spelling is an indicator of whether I am likely to 'click' with them.

It's not the spelling that attracts or repels me but what it says about the person. am a bit confused here! If for example you met someone in a club, got on with them, chemisty there etc.. Where is spelling gonna come into it? Intelligence is not all about spelling ... For example , I am not a good speller, however I am far from stupid. ( I got ologies!!! lol ) My spelling has no bearings what so ever how good i may be in bed! I am able to converse with a huge number of different people, and can talk about many subjects ... Just because somebody can't spell ( for what ever reason , and there can be many) in my eyes , is no reflection to the person they truly are. Is like saying perfect spellers and the most intelligent people in the world are all wonderful people and perfect fucks Each to their own etc, just don't feel really that's always the case

I'm not sure why you'd be confused. It's down to how they come across. Here, where communication is written, it's a big part of it, especially as I have no body language and only (if I'm lucky) a few photos to go on. Here I'm deciding whom to meet virtually blind. In a club, I'm not."
well think we will stick to meeting people face to face before we dismiss them on their spelling etc ... After all content and way people express themselves ( in what ever dialect, slang , spellings )in the written word , are the important bits for us . We all do what works for us as induviduals , would be boring if we were all the same . And I am often confused / perplexed with stuff on here! Don't have to be crazy to be here... But it helps!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesnt matter to me if someone has a spelling mistake or for that matter carnt spell. Not meeting somebody for that reason in my opinion is a bit strange. Someone might not be the clever with spelling but doesnt stop them from being a good fuck. When people advertise a meet saying they are looking to play i presume they are after playing a spelling game and not playing sexually. Everybody is entitled to their own opinion tho.

Dyslexics aside, it's likely that people who don't give a damn about their spelling and I will not have a mental connection of any sort. I need that cerebral spark to be there.

It's not an absolute rule but it is, in my experience, a very strong indicator.

Good sex is partly mental, partly attitude and certainly more than sticking tab A into slot B.

i have never heard anybody say to someone im attracted to your spelling. Thats a new 1 to me. Some people tho no matter what just carnt spell

I'm attracted to intelligence, people with attention to detail, who care how they present themselves and many other factors. Spelling is an indicator of whether I am likely to 'click' with them.

It's not the spelling that attracts or repels me but what it says about the person. am a bit confused here! If for example you met someone in a club, got on with them, chemisty there etc.. Where is spelling gonna come into it? Intelligence is not all about spelling ... For example , I am not a good speller, however I am far from stupid. ( I got ologies!!! lol ) My spelling has no bearings what so ever how good i may be in bed! I am able to converse with a huge number of different people, and can talk about many subjects ... Just because somebody can't spell ( for what ever reason , and there can be many) in my eyes , is no reflection to the person they truly are. Is like saying perfect spellers and the most intelligent people in the world are all wonderful people and perfect fucks Each to their own etc, just don't feel really that's always the case "

exactly what i think aswell

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