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By *uby0000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

was watching emmerdale yesterday and val slept with a bloke using a condom he then found out she had HIV and got nasty if she had protected sex did he have a right to be annoyed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

of bloody course he does.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

He should have read the script. ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just a story you know, isn't real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just a story you know, isn't real "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"of bloody course he does."

this with a grrrrr on the end for emphasis

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It's just a story you know, isn't real "

But it's a useful starting point for discussion.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

[Removed by poster at 03/05/14 14:26:53]

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"He should have read the script. ...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think she should have told him yes. Although he had no right to hurt her like he did

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If she had told him beforehand he could of made an informed decision whether to sleep with her. By her not telling him that decision was taken away from him. She's lucky she has a head left on her shoulders

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Yes he did. If you have a contagious, life changing illness you should tell who ever is at risk so that they can make an informed choice.

I don't watch soaps so I don't know how nasty he got but he certainly had a right to be pissed off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She should of told him first then he decides yes or no !!! Two condoms be better then go for it lucky son

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"She should of told him first then he decides yes or no !!! Two condoms be better then go for it lucky son "

2 condoms have a higher chance of ripping due to friction. Never double bag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest in real life I would make an informed decision to end my sex life if I had that.

Anyone that delivers that knowingly should hold a sentence.

Her

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

Just a script..

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

HIV is actually pretty hard to catch.....it's less likely that a woman can pass it onto a man but more likely for a man to pass it on to a woman...due to how our individual sexual organs are made up....it has a higher pass on rate anally as well..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a script.. "

It's not it's real o and don't use two condoms that's a silly thing to do

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Just a script.. "

It maybe just a script but this happens everyday in real life...more and more people are getting infected with HIV and there are a growing number of 50+ women who are contracting the disease....I think it's a well thought out story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest in real life I would make an informed decision to end my sex life if I had that.

Anyone that delivers that knowingly should hold a sentence.

Her "

in the u.s. people can be sentenced for knowingly passing it on without telling the other person first. I'm not sure how many times it's been used but it was enacted to attempt to discourage people passing it on back in the 90s.

one dentist i remember was sentenced for deliberately giving it to his patients.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest in real life I would make an informed decision to end my sex life if I had that.

Anyone that delivers that knowingly should hold a sentence.

Her

in the u.s. people can be sentenced for knowingly passing it on without telling the other person first. I'm not sure how many times it's been used but it was enacted to attempt to discourage people passing it on back in the 90s.

one dentist i remember was sentenced for deliberately giving it to his patients.

"
yes! I proberly sounded harsh, but although now controlled, the op has killed the op anyway.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"To be honest in real life I would make an informed decision to end my sex life if I had that.

Anyone that delivers that knowingly should hold a sentence.

Her

in the u.s. people can be sentenced for knowingly passing it on without telling the other person first. I'm not sure how many times it's been used but it was enacted to attempt to discourage people passing it on back in the 90s.

one dentist i remember was sentenced for deliberately giving it to his patients.

"

You can get charged with GBH here if you knowingly pass it on...I do think education is key with HIV and ignorance needs to be stamped out...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest in real life I would make an informed decision to end my sex life if I had that.

Anyone that delivers that knowingly should hold a sentence.

Her

in the u.s. people can be sentenced for knowingly passing it on without telling the other person first. I'm not sure how many times it's been used but it was enacted to attempt to discourage people passing it on back in the 90s.

one dentist i remember was sentenced for deliberately giving it to his patients.

You can get charged with GBH here if you knowingly pass it on...I do think education is key with HIV and ignorance needs to be stamped out..."
I agree, no sane person would do it to another.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"To be honest in real life I would make an informed decision to end my sex life if I had that.

Anyone that delivers that knowingly should hold a sentence.

Her

in the u.s. people can be sentenced for knowingly passing it on without telling the other person first. I'm not sure how many times it's been used but it was enacted to attempt to discourage people passing it on back in the 90s.

one dentist i remember was sentenced for deliberately giving it to his patients.

You can get charged with GBH here if you knowingly pass it on...I do think education is key with HIV and ignorance needs to be stamped out... I agree, no sane person would do it to another."

Some do as they can't get their head around the fact they have HIV and want to give it to others...it's disturbing....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest in real life I would make an informed decision to end my sex life if I had that.

Anyone that delivers that knowingly should hold a sentence.

Her

in the u.s. people can be sentenced for knowingly passing it on without telling the other person first. I'm not sure how many times it's been used but it was enacted to attempt to discourage people passing it on back in the 90s.

one dentist i remember was sentenced for deliberately giving it to his patients.

You can get charged with GBH here if you knowingly pass it on...I do think education is key with HIV and ignorance needs to be stamped out... I agree, no sane person would do it to another.

Some do as they can't get their head around the fact they have HIV and want to give it to others...it's disturbing...."
yes I was going to mention that, the bitter and twisted ones, even becoming woman or man haters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"HIV is actually pretty hard to catch.....it's less likely that a woman can pass it onto a man but more likely for a man to pass it on to a woman...due to how our individual sexual organs are made up....it has a higher pass on rate anally as well.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest in real life I would make an informed decision to end my sex life if I had that.

Anyone that delivers that knowingly should hold a sentence.

Her

in the u.s. people can be sentenced for knowingly passing it on without telling the other person first. I'm not sure how many times it's been used but it was enacted to attempt to discourage people passing it on back in the 90s.

one dentist i remember was sentenced for deliberately giving it to his patients.

You can get charged with GBH here if you knowingly pass it on...I do think education is key with HIV and ignorance needs to be stamped out... I agree, no sane person would do it to another.

Some do as they can't get their head around the fact they have HIV and want to give it to others...it's disturbing...."

and some do because they think no one will sleep with them and they don't want to go without sex. others ignore symptoms and go without testing, or even getting tested if they know they've slept with someone who had it. others just don't think it'll happen to them. some people are inherently selfish. i don't think hiv will ever be stamped out. nothing ever has been, some have simply been head off in most areas because of vaccinations.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"To be honest in real life I would make an informed decision to end my sex life if I had that.

Anyone that delivers that knowingly should hold a sentence.

Her

in the u.s. people can be sentenced for knowingly passing it on without telling the other person first. I'm not sure how many times it's been used but it was enacted to attempt to discourage people passing it on back in the 90s.

one dentist i remember was sentenced for deliberately giving it to his patients.

You can get charged with GBH here if you knowingly pass it on...I do think education is key with HIV and ignorance needs to be stamped out... I agree, no sane person would do it to another.

Some do as they can't get their head around the fact they have HIV and want to give it to others...it's disturbing.... yes I was going to mention that, the bitter and twisted ones, even becoming woman or man haters."

Some openly do it by having pos parties where everybody there is HIV + and they have unprotected sex with others there. HIV has 2 strands and you can get a different strand in this situation which will lead to the combination therapy you are on to become less effective which will increase your viral count etc...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest in real life I would make an informed decision to end my sex life if I had that.

Anyone that delivers that knowingly should hold a sentence.

Her

in the u.s. people can be sentenced for knowingly passing it on without telling the other person first. I'm not sure how many times it's been used but it was enacted to attempt to discourage people passing it on back in the 90s.

one dentist i remember was sentenced for deliberately giving it to his patients.

You can get charged with GBH here if you knowingly pass it on...I do think education is key with HIV and ignorance needs to be stamped out... I agree, no sane person would do it to another.

Some do as they can't get their head around the fact they have HIV and want to give it to others...it's disturbing.... yes I was going to mention that, the bitter and twisted ones, even becoming woman or man haters.

Some openly do it by having pos parties where everybody there is HIV + and they have unprotected sex with others there. HIV has 2 strands and you can get a different strand in this situation which will lead to the combination therapy you are on to become less effective which will increase your viral count etc..."

And get a little touch of gonorrhoea as well just to spice things up

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

That's only half the story. She never declared her spotty arse either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's only half the story. She never declared her spotty arse either. "

Disgraceful

Flog the Bitch to within an inch of her life

Vladd

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I don't watch the soaps anymore but I was pleased to see the press about this storyline.

As Cheeky has said the increase in STIs is being seen in the over 50s and if Emmerdale can help educate this group with this particular storyline then that is good.

HIV doesn't have to mean the end of sex but it should mean being open with your sexual partners so that they have a choice.

Cold sores are easier to catch so please disclose.

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

London.

Easier to catch a hep infection & they are far more likely to be spread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He should have read the script. ....

"

This made me as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was told a very scary story by a fellow fabster.. that there are two or three (that SHE knows) on here.. "un-named" men ..who are HIV+ and who ride bareback knowing they can pass it on.. not caring. EEK

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I was told a very scary story by a fellow fabster.. that there are two or three (that SHE knows) on here.. "un-named" men ..who are HIV+ and who ride bareback knowing they can pass it on.. not caring. EEK "

Then she needs to report that....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was told a very scary story by a fellow fabster.. that there are two or three (that SHE knows) on here.. "un-named" men ..who are HIV+ and who ride bareback knowing they can pass it on.. not caring. EEK

Then she needs to report that...."

That's what I said. On another thread someone mentioned this too. Apparently they are called "gifters" not a present I want

So how many of you presume that oral without a condom is fine as long as you have penetrative sex with a condom ??

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I was told a very scary story by a fellow fabster.. that there are two or three (that SHE knows) on here.. "un-named" men ..who are HIV+ and who ride bareback knowing they can pass it on.. not caring. EEK

Then she needs to report that....

That's what I said. On another thread someone mentioned this too. Apparently they are called "gifters" not a present I want

So how many of you presume that oral without a condom is fine as long as you have penetrative sex with a condom ??"

Oral sex without a condom carries risks as you can get STD in the mouth...HIV is passed on through body fluids so if you have ulcers in the mouth or cuts etc it's an idea to use protection.....stats show that you have a 1in100 chance of getting HIV if you have "normal" sex with a person who is HIV+ (Though depending on their viral load count) and 1 in 30 chance of getting HIV anally.....HIV is actually quite difficult to catch but of course there is still a chance you can catch it from having sex once with an infected person

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By *r-UniqueMan
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

According to a thread posted a while back a majority of people said you can't get that upset that quickly .

I'd be raging if that was me.

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By *uby0000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

i know it as a soap the actress will be pleased she hasn't got HIV but stis are being seen more and more in the over 50s than ever

it shows the devastating effect it has has on every body

and the ignorance involved in it although I will admit I would run a mile

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I saw the episode and it was shocking that she did not say before hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She should of told him first then he decides yes or no !!! Two condoms be better then go for it lucky son

2 condoms have a higher chance of ripping due to friction. Never double bag"

Or use Vaseline as lube on a latex condom!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have read of 'gifting' parties within the Gay community whereby Positive men 'gift' HIV to other men, all consensual.

I read a few internet articles and inter_iews, which discussed the overall physiological factors behind such a decision; that these men no longer felt any fear now that they had HIV, that they felt a sense of belonging and do not see HIV as a terminal disease.

It stunned and upset me in the reading up on it - I can empathise to some degree with their choices, but wouldn't agree with it or ever feel I would understand it.

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By *oddessWoman
over a year ago

swansea

I haven't watched emmerdale for over a year....how did val get hiv

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I haven't watched emmerdale for over a year....how did val get hiv"

think she went to Portugal when she and Eric split, met a guy and wham bam thank you ma'am.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I haven't watched emmerdale for over a year....how did val get hiv

think she went to Portugal when she and Eric split, met a guy and wham bam thank you ma'am."

You are correct I had to read up on it as I don't watch it

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