FabSwingers.com forum: Am I a minority?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am a mixed raced male, mum is White English and father is Turkish. I was talking to a women on here for a week or so and she asked for a face pic and I did send her a clear pic, then we even had a conversation on the phone. After our phone call she sent me a message saying please send me the face pic again. So I did.. Then she replies "sorry looking at youre pic more carefully it seems you're an ethnic and I don't meet ethnics and anyone who is a minority" I understand women have preferences but after all that, that is just plain ignorance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What an awful attitude to have!

You had a lucky escape I feel.

So. If she was to adhere to her own criteria. She wouldnt meet anyone. Seeing as no body is of pure heritage.

Does her not meeting minority include the Welsh, Scottish and Irish then? What about half English half Welsh! Etc....

You cant go making statments like that without looking at it holistically. Thats like saying you are a vegetarian who cares about animal welfare while you sit on a leather couch wearing leather shoes lol.

How does she differentiate? Silly woman. I wouldn't worry about it in the slightest. Any problem is hers not yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If u are half turkish u are probably darked skinned ?

Some women won't meet asian men. I suspect she was one of them and thought u were asian on the basis of your pic.

Ignorant yes, but sadly one of those things.

Move on from it. Am sure there are many lasses who would snap you up in an instant

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Look on it as having had a lucky escape! So far up her own whatsit, she can't see the wood for the trees!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst she has come across as ignorant and extreme, and i would say a timewaster using your ethnicity as an excuse, we all have preferences we have to respect them and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are white as both your parents are white.

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Just pass it off as a lucky escape. Her loss is gonna be someone else's gain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whilst she has come across as ignorant and extreme, and i would say a timewaster using your ethnicity as an excuse, we all have preferences we have to respect them and move on. "

Ignorant -yes. Timewaster - no. The timewaster label gets thrown about too much on here. He was talking to her for a week and then for her own reason she didn't want to meet. Just because hes sent a few messages and she doesnt want to meet doesnt mean she's a timewaster. No meet was arranged, he wasn't stood up so not a time waster.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Whilst she has come across as ignorant and extreme, and i would say a timewaster using your ethnicity as an excuse, we all have preferences we have to respect them and move on.

Actually we were supposed to meet today but I re-arranged it for next Saturday. She saw my pic first and complimented it. We flirted and talked after that and she even added me on here. Then after our phone call she said it was nice talking to you, she then said can I see your face pic again please so I re-sent it and that's when she Replied... "I didn't really look at you're pic properly last time and you look ethnic and I do not meet anyone who is a minority" so time waster... Maybe not... Ignorant..? I'm glad it all came out anyways. I respect women's preferences on race but after arranging a meet and adding you and flirting then realised your tan isn't fake it's due to the fact you might be "ethnic" is just narrow minded and shallow. Anyways rant over! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What an awful attitude to have!

You had a lucky escape I feel.

^This.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Is 'ethnic' the new term for 'bit browner than I like'?

Although every person should be able to meet based on their personal preferences she could have maybe given a better reason like 'nope, gone off you now. Fare thee well' or something.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

She won't get to share any Turkish Delight...

She sounds as if she is rotting inside and spews out rancid venom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You are white as both your parents are white."

That's what I thought.

I'm Mixed race..my dad is Black.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i go by the person not the colour of the skin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i go by the person not the colour of the skin

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's how fab has been for me for the past couple of years. Did used to bother me a bit before but i just don't give a shit now.

...i just don't get how you can flirt with someone, give them all sorts of compliments etc etc and then say 'nah, your skin tone does not do it for me'. So, why were we speaking all this time?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

what a horrible thing to say to someone

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

We are all unique in our own way

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

What the bloody hell is a minority? Where all minorities in our own way.

All I care about is whether I like the person or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cant i be a little MINION

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By *akedninjaMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Racism is the refuge of the ignorant and smallminded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ahh well, theres more fannys to plunder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is 'ethnic' the new term for 'bit browner than I like'?

Although every person should be able to meet based on their personal preferences she could have maybe given a better reason like 'nope, gone off you now. Fare thee well' or something."

I would absolutely love it if I got a message with "fare thee well" in it. Even if it was a rejection I would admire their writing style.

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