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By *erlin19 OP   Man
over a year ago

Suffolk

I am very suprised how many people prefer to play and have unprotected intercourse. Maybe im getting old ??, it was drummed into us in the 80s and 90s the risk of Aids and other STDs, they have not gone away and unless regular testing is carried out and proof shown how can you be sure.

I always prfer to play safe and protect all involved.

What are your thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

each to their own

just not with us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No glove no love barebacking randoms is very risky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even with proof, you only receive that after two weeks possibly less, so your only as clear as the last test you had, and it doesn't always mean it's clear you have to go back after 3 months after having the unprotected sex,,, very silly, x miss hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make is as safe as I can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just my tuppence:

This thread is a bit moot: everyone will just agree with everyone else - who's going to seriously say otherwise on a promiscuous web site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just my tuppence:

This thread is a bit moot: everyone will just agree with everyone else - who's going to seriously say otherwise on a promiscuous web site.

"

Are you the bastard that keeps robbing everybody's pics?? What's wrong with ours haha,,,,, and not really,, I prefer sex with out a condom,, I just don't have sex without,, x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just my tuppence:

This thread is a bit moot: everyone will just agree with everyone else - who's going to seriously say otherwise on a promiscuous web site.

Are you the bastard that keeps robbing everybody's pics?? What's wrong with ours haha,,,,, and not really,, I prefer sex with out a condom,, I just don't have sex without,, x"

I'm stealing them as we speak x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would venture to suggest that in an ideal world, everyone would prefer not to use condoms but this ain't no ideal world, sadly. So the only bare sex we have is between ourselves, everyone who comes to us will have protection supplied before they get to play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me,I avoid profiles that mention bareback

Being a single woman who meets mainly at partys and clubs,don't always see profiles till after,so I treat everyone as a maybe risk,always use protection

I keep my all clear 6weekly texts,so if people unsure of my lifestyle I'm happy to show them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just my tuppence:

This thread is a bit moot: everyone will just agree with everyone else - who's going to seriously say otherwise on a promiscuous web site.

Are you the bastard that keeps robbing everybody's pics?? What's wrong with ours haha,,,,, and not really,, I prefer sex with out a condom,, I just don't have sex without,, x

I'm stealing them as we speak x"

Well it's about sodding time, two years we have been on here,, great user name though, did make me chuckle, miss hot x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just my tuppence:

This thread is a bit moot: everyone will just agree with everyone else - who's going to seriously say otherwise on a promiscuous web site.

Are you the bastard that keeps robbing everybody's pics?? What's wrong with ours haha,,,,, and not really,, I prefer sex with out a condom,, I just don't have sex without,, x

I'm stealing them as we speak x

Well it's about sodding time, two years we have been on here,, great user name though, did make me chuckle, miss hot x"

I didn't even know Wales had the internet yet. You live and learn on here.

Paul x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Full nuclear and biological fall out suit every time! Failing that, a condom common sense.....not that its all that common but there we go...that's another thread....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah we bareback... But only with each other! We always play safe with whoever we meet.

As others have said it's down to choice...

What suits one may not suit another and so on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm all for being fully protected

I mean fully

I look like a forensic detective when I'm ready for coital shenanigans.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm all for being fully protected

I mean fully

I look like a forensic detective when I'm ready for coital shenanigans.

"

Do you wear the mask and the gloves?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm all for being fully protected

I mean fully

I look like a forensic detective when I'm ready for coital shenanigans.

Do you wear the mask and the gloves? "

Of course. Then incinerate everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm all for being fully protected

I mean fully

I look like a forensic detective when I'm ready for coital shenanigans.

Do you wear the mask and the gloves? "
and those white paper overalls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nearly met a guy the other weekend, all goin well till the day before, when he added a new batch of photos, that clearly showed bare back with two different women, same session, which changed my mind, even tho I'd of insisted on protection or no fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm all for being fully protected

I mean fully

I look like a forensic detective when I'm ready for coital shenanigans.

Do you wear the mask and the gloves?

Of course. Then incinerate everything."

Everything?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm really not a fan of Russian roulette!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm all for being fully protected

I mean fully

I look like a forensic detective when I'm ready for coital shenanigans.

Do you wear the mask and the gloves?

Of course. Then incinerate everything.

Everything? "

Ok. Not her. Can I go on record as saying I'm not a pyromaniacal perv?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm really not a fan of Russian roulette! "

Have you played Russian Roulette with Revels?

The coffee ones are fucking horrid. Big risk every time.

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

its sometimes nice to bare back thin air i know that doesnt make sense but wanted to say bareback . bare back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right this is not even a discussion end of

As mentioned previously there are HIV+ guys who target swingers to give them HIV, it's low and it's horrible, they are called GIFTERS

so there is no discussion really! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just my tuppence:

This thread is a bit moot: everyone will just agree with everyone else - who's going to seriously say otherwise on a promiscuous web site.

"

Actually last time there was a thread like this I recall a couple of people did express a preference for bareback.......and got seriously abused for it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just my tuppence:

This thread is a bit moot: everyone will just agree with everyone else - who's going to seriously say otherwise on a promiscuous web site.

Actually last time there was a thread like this I recall a couple of people did express a preference for bareback.......and got seriously abused for it too.

"

It's not really a forum of debate fab: it's agree with the majority or get pilloried for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm really not a fan of Russian roulette!

Have you played Russian Roulette with Revels?

The coffee ones are fucking horrid. Big risk every time."

Yeah but if you study them greatly you can usually figure out which is which.. Maltesers are always bigger... Although can sometimes be confused, with the orange creams... My personal fave!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm really not a fan of Russian roulette!

Have you played Russian Roulette with Revels?

The coffee ones are fucking horrid. Big risk every time.

Yeah but if you study them greatly you can usually figure out which is which.. Maltesers are always bigger... Although can sometimes be confused, with the orange creams... My personal fave!! "

Blindfolded obviously you big cheat x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I could get away with it I would anti - bac everyone I meet and make them wear a condom but that ain't sexy.

If I could I would rather feel the hot spunk inside me but I would rather not put my health at risk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found a great profile, could not go any further bareback only.

Shame playing Russian roulette.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just my tuppence:

This thread is a bit moot: everyone will just agree with everyone else - who's going to seriously say otherwise on a promiscuous web site.

Actually last time there was a thread like this I recall a couple of people did express a preference for bareback.......and got seriously abused for it too.

It's not really a forum of debate fab: it's agree with the majority or get pilloried for it. "

I think a majority view of 'be safe, get tested' is a good thing.

Sometimes it's how people express their distaste that dismays me.

If people discussed it openly rather using rational discussion rather than hysteria and then calling people skanks and disgusting it might be less likely that people will just lie about it because they're being castigated.

That's what I've seen in here anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just my tuppence:

This thread is a bit moot: everyone will just agree with everyone else - who's going to seriously say otherwise on a promiscuous web site.

Are you the bastard that keeps robbing everybody's pics?? What's wrong with ours haha,,,,, and not really,, I prefer sex with out a condom,, I just don't have sex without,, x

I'm stealing them as we speak x

Well it's about sodding time, two years we have been on here,, great user name though, did make me chuckle, miss hot x

I didn't even know Wales had the internet yet. You live and learn on here.

Paul x"

Pratt haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On Newsnight last night they did a piece on the number antibiotic drugs that are now ineffective aginst viral infections.

One little gem that made me sit up and pay attention was revealed by the Uk Cheif Medical Officer. She stated that the most recently developed antibiotic for Gonorrhoea has been found to be ineffective in certain cases.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just my tuppence:

This thread is a bit moot: everyone will just agree with everyone else - who's going to seriously say otherwise on a promiscuous web site.

Actually last time there was a thread like this I recall a couple of people did express a preference for bareback.......and got seriously abused for it too.

"

& rightly so, filthy, careless & dangerous degenerates, Mr hot,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes that's up in all the gum clinics as well,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love bareback sex, nothing is better and if the girl is up for it I will cum in her pussie to.. only if she is over 60 as she got less chance of getting prengant lol .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nearly met a guy the other weekend, all goin well till the day before, when he added a new batch of photos, that clearly showed bare back with two different women, same session, which changed my mind, even tho I'd of insisted on protection or no fun. "

Alarm bells ring don't they? I met a lass not too long ago and it was just a social...when she added more pics, there were bareback pics on there...I'm good with socials but never in my life have I been so thankfull to have not slept with someone......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just my tuppence:

This thread is a bit moot: everyone will just agree with everyone else - who's going to seriously say otherwise on a promiscuous web site.

Actually last time there was a thread like this I recall a couple of people did express a preference for bareback.......and got seriously abused for it too.

It's not really a forum of debate fab: it's agree with the majority or get pilloried for it.

I think a majority view of 'be safe, get tested' is a good thing.

Sometimes it's how people express their distaste that dismays me.

If people discussed it openly rather using rational discussion rather than hysteria and then calling people skanks and disgusting it might be less likely that people will just lie about it because they're being castigated.

That's what I've seen in here anyway."

I've found it quite different. Because it's a site to meet other site members people tend to agree with what will make them seem more sensitive - rather than stick to their own belief. I've been called a fucking troll for going against the grain on a thread that I thought was mawkish and full of artificial grief. Debate is healthy - I'd rather have no meets that sacrifice my honest views.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love bareback sex, nothing is better and if the girl is up for it I will cum in her pussie to.. only if she is over 60 as she got less chance of getting prengant lol ."

And one verification

On cam

Hmmm. Dream on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just my tuppence:

This thread is a bit moot: everyone will just agree with everyone else - who's going to seriously say otherwise on a promiscuous web site.

"
I didnt agree and went against the flow of peeps loll.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love bareback sex, nothing is better and if the girl is up for it I will cum in her pussie to.. only if she is over 60 as she got less chance of getting prengant lol ."

Hahahaha, pregnancy is the least of your worries, nowadays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love bareback sex, nothing is better and if the girl is up for it I will cum in her pussie to.. only if she is over 60 as she got less chance of getting prengant lol .

And one verification

On cam

Hmmm. Dream on."
I do meet girl in the real world you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just my tuppence:

This thread is a bit moot: everyone will just agree with everyone else - who's going to seriously say otherwise on a promiscuous web site.

I didnt agree and went against the flow of peeps loll."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love bareback sex, nothing is better and if the girl is up for it I will cum in her pussie to.. only if she is over 60 as she got less chance of getting prengant lol .

Hahahaha, pregnancy is the least of your worries, nowadays"
Yes it is as well lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I meant to say. I do meet girls in the real world*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love bareback sex, nothing is better and if the girl is up for it I will cum in her pussie to.. only if she is over 60 as she got less chance of getting prengant lol .

And one verification

On cam

Hmmm. Dream on.I do meet girl in the real world you know "

Lara Croft doesn't count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love bareback sex, nothing is better and if the girl is up for it I will cum in her pussie to.. only if she is over 60 as she got less chance of getting prengant lol .

And one verification

On cam

Hmmm. Dream on.I do meet girl in the real world you know

Lara Croft doesn't count "
I know, my pulling joint is my local kfc lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love bareback sex, nothing is better and if the girl is up for it I will cum in her pussie to.. only if she is over 60 as she got less chance of getting prengant lol ."

yes u dont need a condom for cyber sex but thats not really bareback now is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love bareback sex, nothing is better and if the girl is up for it I will cum in her pussie to.. only if she is over 60 as she got less chance of getting prengant lol .

yes u dont need a condom for cyber sex but thats not really bareback now is it "
No need to be jealous there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just my tuppence:

This thread is a bit moot: everyone will just agree with everyone else - who's going to seriously say otherwise on a promiscuous web site.

Actually last time there was a thread like this I recall a couple of people did express a preference for bareback.......and got seriously abused for it too.

It's not really a forum of debate fab: it's agree with the majority or get pilloried for it.

I think a majority view of 'be safe, get tested' is a good thing.

Sometimes it's how people express their distaste that dismays me.

If people discussed it openly rather using rational discussion rather than hysteria and then calling people skanks and disgusting it might be less likely that people will just lie about it because they're being castigated.

That's what I've seen in here anyway.

I've found it quite different. Because it's a site to meet other site members people tend to agree with what will make them seem more sensitive - rather than stick to their own belief. I've been called a fucking troll for going against the grain on a thread that I thought was mawkish and full of artificial grief. Debate is healthy - I'd rather have no meets that sacrifice my honest views.

"

I don't disagree in some senses. I personally believe if people want to bareback it's their choice.

Everybody gets a bit sanctimonious about safety and say so on profiles but very few mention getting tested. Therefore I think what constitutes safe sex is a broad spectrum.

Even my GUM clinic have never suggested dental dams or condoms for oral but some people consider oral without a no go.

I don't know anyone personally who is quite that safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just my tuppence:

This thread is a bit moot: everyone will just agree with everyone else - who's going to seriously say otherwise on a promiscuous web site.

Actually last time there was a thread like this I recall a couple of people did express a preference for bareback.......and got seriously abused for it too.

It's not really a forum of debate fab: it's agree with the majority or get pilloried for it.

I think a majority view of 'be safe, get tested' is a good thing.

Sometimes it's how people express their distaste that dismays me.

If people discussed it openly rather using rational discussion rather than hysteria and then calling people skanks and disgusting it might be less likely that people will just lie about it because they're being castigated.

That's what I've seen in here anyway.

I've found it quite different. Because it's a site to meet other site members people tend to agree with what will make them seem more sensitive - rather than stick to their own belief. I've been called a fucking troll for going against the grain on a thread that I thought was mawkish and full of artificial grief. Debate is healthy - I'd rather have no meets that sacrifice my honest views.

I don't disagree in some senses. I personally believe if people want to bareback it's their choice.

Everybody gets a bit sanctimonious about safety and say so on profiles but very few mention getting tested. Therefore I think what constitutes safe sex is a broad spectrum.

Even my GUM clinic have never suggested dental dams or condoms for oral but some people consider oral without a no go.

I don't know anyone personally who is quite that safe."

I was talking generally not specifically about this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The worse example I have seen was a 5 month pregnant girl who had made it into Hot photos who was putting on her profile all she wanted was all the bare backed sex.

Yes you may not get pregnant but are putting yourself and your kid at risk. Idiot !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"each to their own

just not with us"

Simples. Don't like it, don't do it. As with everything here.

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over a year ago


"I'm really not a fan of Russian roulette!

Have you played Russian Roulette with Revels?

The coffee ones are fucking horrid. Big risk every time.

Yeah but if you study them greatly you can usually figure out which is which.. Maltesers are always bigger... Although can sometimes be confused, with the orange creams... My personal fave!!

Blindfolded obviously you big cheat x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree each to their own to .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm really not a fan of Russian roulette!

Have you played Russian Roulette with Revels?

The coffee ones are fucking horrid. Big risk every time."

Legend!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just my tuppence:

This thread is a bit moot: everyone will just agree with everyone else - who's going to seriously say otherwise on a promiscuous web site.

Actually last time there was a thread like this I recall a couple of people did express a preference for bareback.......and got seriously abused for it too.

It's not really a forum of debate fab: it's agree with the majority or get pilloried for it.

I think a majority view of 'be safe, get tested' is a good thing.

Sometimes it's how people express their distaste that dismays me.

If people discussed it openly rather using rational discussion rather than hysteria and then calling people skanks and disgusting it might be less likely that people will just lie about it because they're being castigated.

That's what I've seen in here anyway.

I've found it quite different. Because it's a site to meet other site members people tend to agree with what will make them seem more sensitive - rather than stick to their own belief. I've been called a fucking troll for going against the grain on a thread that I thought was mawkish and full of artificial grief. Debate is healthy - I'd rather have no meets that sacrifice my honest views.

"

I think you might find that on the other thread people didn't necessarily agree and therefore chose to say nothing, because there is nothing much to gain for anyone.

I myself don't go in for compulsory grieving either but that's personal to me. I wouldn't get satisfaction from, or change anyone elses behavior by pointing out my viewpoint.

If im genuinely sad I will say so, if I'm ambivalent or not sad, then I won't.

You can't assume to know what's in anyone elses heart and death is a very touchy subject for many so to me it seems churlish to wish to assert your position just because you can.

I appreciate you disagree!!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nearly met a guy the other weekend, all goin well till the day before, when he added a new batch of photos, that clearly showed bare back with two different women, same session, which changed my mind, even tho I'd of insisted on protection or no fun.

Alarm bells ring don't they? I met a lass not too long ago and it was just a social...when she added more pics, there were bareback pics on there...I'm good with socials but never in my life have I been so thankfull to have not slept with someone......"

If either had posted pics at later date, we may well of already had sex with them, would of been protected sex, but I'd of still felt awful, I'd rather people were honest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just my tuppence:

This thread is a bit moot: everyone will just agree with everyone else - who's going to seriously say otherwise on a promiscuous web site.

Actually last time there was a thread like this I recall a couple of people did express a preference for bareback.......and got seriously abused for it too.

It's not really a forum of debate fab: it's agree with the majority or get pilloried for it.

I think a majority view of 'be safe, get tested' is a good thing.

Sometimes it's how people express their distaste that dismays me.

If people discussed it openly rather using rational discussion rather than hysteria and then calling people skanks and disgusting it might be less likely that people will just lie about it because they're being castigated.

That's what I've seen in here anyway.

I've found it quite different. Because it's a site to meet other site members people tend to agree with what will make them seem more sensitive - rather than stick to their own belief. I've been called a fucking troll for going against the grain on a thread that I thought was mawkish and full of artificial grief. Debate is healthy - I'd rather have no meets that sacrifice my honest views.

I think you might find that on the other thread people didn't necessarily agree and therefore chose to say nothing, because there is nothing much to gain for anyone.

I myself don't go in for compulsory grieving either but that's personal to me. I wouldn't get satisfaction from, or change anyone elses behavior by pointing out my viewpoint.

If im genuinely sad I will say so, if I'm ambivalent or not sad, then I won't.

You can't assume to know what's in anyone elses heart and death is a very touchy subject for many so to me it seems churlish to wish to assert your position just because you can.

I appreciate you disagree!!"


"Just my tuppence:

This thread is a bit moot: everyone will just agree with everyone else - who's going to seriously say otherwise on a promiscuous web site.

Actually last time there was a thread like this I recall a couple of people did express a preference for bareback.......and got seriously abused for it too.

It's not really a forum of debate fab: it's agree with the majority or get pilloried for it.

I think a majority view of 'be safe, get tested' is a good thing.

Sometimes it's how people express their distaste that dismays me.

If people discussed it openly rather using rational discussion rather than hysteria and then calling people skanks and disgusting it might be less likely that people will just lie about it because they're being castigated.

That's what I've seen in here anyway.

I've found it quite different. Because it's a site to meet other site members people tend to agree with what will make them seem more sensitive - rather than stick to their own belief. I've been called a fucking troll for going against the grain on a thread that I thought was mawkish and full of artificial grief. Debate is healthy - I'd rather have no meets that sacrifice my honest views.

I think you might find that on the other thread people didn't necessarily agree and therefore chose to say nothing, because there is nothing much to gain for anyone.

I myself don't go in for compulsory grieving either but that's personal to me. I wouldn't get satisfaction from, or change anyone elses behavior by pointing out my viewpoint.

If im genuinely sad I will say so, if I'm ambivalent or not sad, then I won't.

You can't assume to know what's in anyone elses heart and death is a very touchy subject for many so to me it seems churlish to wish to assert your position just because you can.

I appreciate you disagree!!"

I've never asserted anything on anyone.

In any thread that starts RIP whoever, is saying, look at me! I read the paper and I care! Followed by a ton of messages that say their thoughts are with the family etc. No they are not. But it reads well, huh? I'm as sentimental and caring as the next person - but I don't need to publicly grieve to look good.

And don't get me started on Diana..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just my tuppence:

This thread is a bit moot: everyone will just agree with everyone else - who's going to seriously say otherwise on a promiscuous web site.

Actually last time there was a thread like this I recall a couple of people did express a preference for bareback.......and got seriously abused for it too.

It's not really a forum of debate fab: it's agree with the majority or get pilloried for it.

I think a majority view of 'be safe, get tested' is a good thing.

Sometimes it's how people express their distaste that dismays me.

If people discussed it openly rather using rational discussion rather than hysteria and then calling people skanks and disgusting it might be less likely that people will just lie about it because they're being castigated.

That's what I've seen in here anyway.

I've found it quite different. Because it's a site to meet other site members people tend to agree with what will make them seem more sensitive - rather than stick to their own belief. I've been called a fucking troll for going against the grain on a thread that I thought was mawkish and full of artificial grief. Debate is healthy - I'd rather have no meets that sacrifice my honest views.

I think you might find that on the other thread people didn't necessarily agree and therefore chose to say nothing, because there is nothing much to gain for anyone.

I myself don't go in for compulsory grieving either but that's personal to me. I wouldn't get satisfaction from, or change anyone elses behavior by pointing out my viewpoint.

If im genuinely sad I will say so, if I'm ambivalent or not sad, then I won't.

You can't assume to know what's in anyone elses heart and death is a very touchy subject for many so to me it seems churlish to wish to assert your position just because you can.

I appreciate you disagree!!

Just my tuppence:

This thread is a bit moot: everyone will just agree with everyone else - who's going to seriously say otherwise on a promiscuous web site.

Actually last time there was a thread like this I recall a couple of people did express a preference for bareback.......and got seriously abused for it too.

It's not really a forum of debate fab: it's agree with the majority or get pilloried for it.

I think a majority view of 'be safe, get tested' is a good thing.

Sometimes it's how people express their distaste that dismays me.

If people discussed it openly rather using rational discussion rather than hysteria and then calling people skanks and disgusting it might be less likely that people will just lie about it because they're being castigated.

That's what I've seen in here anyway.

I've found it quite different. Because it's a site to meet other site members people tend to agree with what will make them seem more sensitive - rather than stick to their own belief. I've been called a fucking troll for going against the grain on a thread that I thought was mawkish and full of artificial grief. Debate is healthy - I'd rather have no meets that sacrifice my honest views.

I think you might find that on the other thread people didn't necessarily agree and therefore chose to say nothing, because there is nothing much to gain for anyone.

I myself don't go in for compulsory grieving either but that's personal to me. I wouldn't get satisfaction from, or change anyone elses behavior by pointing out my viewpoint.

If im genuinely sad I will say so, if I'm ambivalent or not sad, then I won't.

You can't assume to know what's in anyone elses heart and death is a very touchy subject for many so to me it seems churlish to wish to assert your position just because you can.

I appreciate you disagree!!

I've never asserted anything on anyone.

In any thread that starts RIP whoever, is saying, look at me! I read the paper and I care! Followed by a ton of messages that say their thoughts are with the family etc. No they are not. But it reads well, huh? I'm as sentimental and caring as the next person - but I don't need to publicly grieve to look good.

And don't get me started on Diana..

"

Didn't suggest you weren't caring, not for a minute, and I agree with how you see it too. I just choose to withdraw and not enter those topics because i ask myself, what do i get from it?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I am very suprised how many people prefer to play and have unprotected intercourse. Maybe im getting old ??, it was drummed into us in the 80s and 90s the risk of Aids and other STDs, they have not gone away and unless regular testing is carried out and proof shown how can you be sure.

I always prfer to play safe and protect all involved.

What are your thoughts"

What consenting adults choose to do is no concern of mine: I assume every one barebacks and take appropriate action to protect myself the best I can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Russian Roulette has a 1 in 6 chance of the person having their brains blown out.

I am obviously a novice at this because I am not aware of any sexual activity where you have a 1 in 6 chance of dying in every sex session.

Statistics indicate that the risks associated with bareback sex are often far less than those related to activities that are treated with far less emotional hyperbole.

Let those that wish to take their risks in this way do so; and those that wish to hang-glide, climb mountains, ride motorbikes, visit undeveloped countries, join the armed forces etc. take risks their way.

DISCLAIMER: I am not supporting or condeming bareback sex so don't accuse me of that. Just trying to get some proportionality when people consider the risks involved.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Make sure you wear a helmet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok for the record i never had unprotected sex with Diana

There were always protection officers outside the Door

Ali Ooops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just my tuppence:

This thread is a bit moot: everyone will just agree with everyone else - who's going to seriously say otherwise on a promiscuous web site.

Actually last time there was a thread like this I recall a couple of people did express a preference for bareback.......and got seriously abused for it too.

It's not really a forum of debate fab: it's agree with the majority or get pilloried for it. "

I couldnt care less about that big word you used,I go on a lot bareback and sti threads,to say I don't do it out of choice ,my own thoughts,as I was unfortunate to catch a sti last year,I wrote a thread to bring awareness,I was lucky I didn't get anything worse,,and now I'm more careful,as a single woman without a partner to watch I'm safe,I didn't even do bareback that I was aware,so I always state I get tested regulary to hopefully encourage others to do so for their safety and safety of others

I have no issues with people who do bareback,it their choice,I just would prefer to avoid and do prefer profiles to be honest about doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not for us - we almost met one fem and just happened to notice her status change - was only up for a very short time but was asking for bareback - we noted and deleted her -

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By *uywithaSmileMan
over a year ago

Rossendale

My dad always used to say that condoms didn't work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Russian Roulette has a 1 in 6 chance of the person having their brains blown out.

I am obviously a novice at this because I am not aware of any sexual activity where you have a 1 in 6 chance of dying in every sex session.

Statistics indicate that the risks associated with bareback sex are often far less than those related to activities that are treated with far less emotional hyperbole.

Let those that wish to take their risks in this way do so; and those that wish to hang-glide, climb mountains, ride motorbikes, visit undeveloped countries, join the armed forces etc. take risks their way.

DISCLAIMER: I am not supporting or condeming bareback sex so don't accuse me of that. Just trying to get some proportionality when people consider the risks involved. "

I believe that ones attitude to risk is key to this question. If you study the Health Protection Agency statistics for sti diagnoses you will find that they vary from 160 per 100,000 in a rural area through to ten or more times that in an urban area. You will also find that there is a factor of 10 increase of infections in the 20-24yo age group over the 45-64 group. On top of that the infections covered include HPV and other herpes infections which are endemic in 50% of the population, but show no symptoms. Our old bogeyman HIV has a prevalence of greater than 200,000 times less than all others combined.

Just in case all that seems straight forward you then have to consider the significance of any individual infection. That goes from not very nice but totally controllable, HIV, to the broadly irrelevant endemic such as herpes which is also controllable.

I'm not saying bareback is good bad or indifferent, just that the chances of infection are highly variable across places and groups, such that you need to look objectively at which groups you play with, and then make your decision. I suspect that for some the risk of infection is rather less than being struck by lightening, and is then easily curable. For others it is a serious issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one thing to climb a mountain and fall off and hurt yourself -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I said in my last post that new HIV diagnoses were 200,000 less than all others. This is an error on my part. New HIV diagnoses nationwide ammounts to approx 1.5% of all STI diagnoses per annum.

Sorry for the error.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

As they say it takes all sorts to make this world. If people like to do bareback then fair enough, if it's not for you then don't entertain them. Each to their own. If we were all the same, this would be a very boring world to live in x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right this is not even a discussion end of

As mentioned previously there are HIV+ guys who target swingers to give them HIV, it's low and it's horrible, they are called GIFTERS

so there is no discussion really! X"

On another thread re HIV..There are fabsters who do this!

So, who does bare bjs? Or do you use condoms for that? ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No offense but more than half the pictures ive seen on profiles are bareback and yet on the same profiles they say " safe sex only" Hummmmmm up 2 your knees in STD's springs to mind .......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm only bareback with 1 man, if I get any thing then I know the source, the thing with bareback sex especially on here, check pics and veris for some idea of what you are getting, if you go with someone who likes both sexes and plays unsafe on regular basis then its only a matter of time before blue waffle and knob rot sets in!! A lifetime regret isn't worth it from a short gratification! FOLLOW A VERI AND PIC TRAIL!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peeps condoms don't mean you can't get stds so no, you don't necessarily know the source if you catch one and only bareback with your partner. It could still be from meet. A condom makes us safer, it doesn't make us safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm only bareback with 1 man, if I get any thing then I know the source, the thing with bareback sex especially on here, check pics and veris for some idea of what you are getting, if you go with someone who likes both sexes and plays unsafe on regular basis then its only a matter of time before blue waffle and knob rot sets in!! A lifetime regret isn't worth it from a short gratification! FOLLOW A VERI AND PIC TRAIL!!"

you only know the source if he is the only guy you have sex with.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

According to the GUM doctor the chances of catching any STI, including HIV by oral sex is tiny UNLESS you have broken skin in your mouth.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

i always wear a condom i have giant ones made so i can actually climb in them but i like to have my cock poking out un covered just my preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This, again.

Sigh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a way I am more concerned about those that always wear a condom and as a result NEVER get tested.

The comment that persons with HIV were targeting swingers has no basis in fact that I can find. In any case, if they did that deliberately they could be convicted of very serious assault charges. Statistics still indicate the chances of a female contracting HIV from an already infected male is 1:1000.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner and i dont use them on eachother but insist on safe sex with others. Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many say they practice safe sex on these threads and there profiles but r actually billy bullshitting I wonder ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many say they practice safe sex on these threads and there profiles but r actually billy bullshitting I wonder ???? "

Loads I reckon. Loads and loads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many say they practice safe sex on these threads and there profiles but r actually billy bullshitting I wonder ????

Loads I reckon. Loads and loads."
. Scary thought hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often thought about this,it's all very scary that people will risk there lives by having no protection

Even with regular partners

Some things like warts have a very long incubation period and won't show up on any tests

Do people really wait for there results before sleeping with there next encounter ?

There are so many STD's it's frightening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"one thing to climb a mountain and fall off and hurt yourself - "

It's a bugger...been there and done that.

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By *exyLancs2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Not a new thread, done to death in here

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By *ichaeland helenCouple
over a year ago

Balham

Life is a risk. You can be super careful but get run over by a bus...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have seen a few profiles in here with women, couples claming to only have safe sex,yet there pictures show otherwise

So who do you believe who can you trust ?

Be careful out there folks at

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