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OMG tonight's BBC 1 behind closed doors

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Absolutely disgusting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad I didn't watch it then.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I haven't watched it as I know what its about and am not good with being simultaneously horrified and angry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What, what, what????? Missed it - what was it about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I watched a bit of it but had to change channels - so upsetting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is shocking. Why do these horrible bastards take on a job as a carer if they really don't care?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i could cry - i care for people but in their own homes but similar tasks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found it too upsetting to watch in the end. We should respect our elderly & give them the dignity they deserve.

I know we are shown the worst cases here, I do know some brilliant carers.but this made me mad on behalf of the elderly residents.

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

iv worked in care and i wouldnt treat anyone the way these staff do they need stringing up especially the filipinos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im sooooooooo angry watching this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhh

Glad I didn't watch it, sounds awful

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

They all need to be put on the POVA list and never work in care again !

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By *aul.J.JMan
over a year ago

Sedgley

I've never been so angry.....

The nurses who have abused the residents should be criminally tried for assault but nothing will happen as big business who own the homes only care about profit

it's a sorry state of affairs if we cannot care for our elderly in a proper and humane manner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im sooooooooo angry watching this

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me too - knew you would be xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely disgusting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you pay peanuts, you get monkeys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very sad, and gives the genuine hard working carers a bad name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't watch it . I hope those scumbags get what is due to them .

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"If you pay peanuts, you get monkeys"

Quite. Carers do a challenging job and are paid very little with not much in the way of training. They are not qualified nurses. So unfortunately, you will end up with these situations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you pay peanuts, you get monkeys"

we only get minimum wage and care greatly - im glad i work in the community as i think i would end up doing time if i worked with carers like those ggrrr

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It all goes on! People speak up and nothing changes! It's all about the money from the business, Care Homes have got away with it for years.

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By *aul.J.JMan
over a year ago

Sedgley

I agree that carers on the whole do a great job in pressing circumstances and as per usual it's the minority who will give every genuine carer a bad name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree that carers on the whole do a great job in pressing circumstances and as per usual it's the minority who will give every genuine carer a bad name"

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

its not just the elderly it happens in all care homes the staff are not trained enough and the care homes are out to make as much profit as they can I would NEVER put my mum in a care home no matter how hard it was to look after her

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"its not just the elderly it happens in all care homes the staff are not trained enough and the care homes are out to make as much profit as they can I would NEVER put my mum in a care home no matter how hard it was to look after her "

I cared for my mum for 8 years to keep her out of care homes. Damn near killed me - literally. But I reckon she wouldn't have survived more than a year in one and would have been miserable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they will all be talking about it tomorrow - hopefully saying glad they are still at home with me looking after them

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

the discrediting the elderly is normal so nobody believes what they say

why do they keep revealing these problems but do nothing.. seems the care quality commission are not doing their job properly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cqc are always checking - its hard not to fail on one point or another - very picky which does make me think why does this go on still

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahhh

Glad I didn't watch it, sounds awful "

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just glad I looked after my old dad to his last day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone of these ppl have to remember they will b old one day and that's what goes around comes around

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

this will continue till they decide to act ..they discredit people so as nobody believes a word they say carers my arse although there are some good ones

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

My ex used to work in a care home and some of the things she told me about what the Filipinos did made me wonder how they could be classed as a "carer"

She was so disgusted by it that she left and is now much happier working in the community. She even brought a few old dears back on her break and we would sit and play cards for an hour or two

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

a family member was in a mental health unit she too left as she couldn't be one of them she was told not to speak to the patients and if they knocked on the door the blind was pulled down something has to be done

my hubbys mum was in a care home years ago she couldn't communicate after a stroke and was always in tears now im wondering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone of these ppl have to remember they will b old one day and that's what goes around comes around "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't watch it either, it made me cry!!

It horrifies me to think that one day my daughter will be cared for in a respite care home for the disabled. And because she can't talk i will be having hidden cameras all over the place ...Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you pay peanuts, you get monkeys"
please don't paint all care workers with the same brush. The is loads of good caring care workers out thair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you pay peanuts, you get monkeysplease don't paint all care workers with the same brush. The is loads of good caring care workers out thair."

probably most are -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't watch it either, it made me cry!!

It horrifies me to think that one day my daughter will be cared for in a respite care home for the disabled. And because she can't talk i will be having hidden cameras all over the place ...Ruby"

I can assure you that if your daughter was in the residential home for the disabled that I work in she would get all the love and care she needs.Dont tar us all with the same brush.

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