FabSwingers.com forum: what is it with people being rude ffs

By *nlymee19 OP Man
over a year ago

purfleet

why can some people be so bloody rude, yeah i know im not tom cruie but i dont think im the elephant man either, i am a genuine guy, honest, friendly and polite, why do people feel the need to be rude and abusive, can someone tell me what i am doing wrong please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why can some people be so bloody rude, yeah i know im not tom cruie but i dont think im the elephant man either, i am a genuine guy, honest, friendly and polite, why do people feel the need to be rude and abusive, can someone tell me what i am doing wrong please

Possibly need more context than that. What happened?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without knowing what you're doing it's a but hard to say what you're doing wrong!....other than contacting rude people, that is

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

8 grumpy smileys - shit man, this could be serious

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By *nlymee19 OP Man
over a year ago

purfleet

well i say hi and i send a polight message with my picture and all im getting back is things like urgh fuck off, i think the worst one is no wonder your single you ugly c@#t, why be rude??????

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By *nlymee19 OP Man
over a year ago

purfleet

polite sorry not polight grrrrrr lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You seem so upset..Lol...take a deep breath.

Not everyone on here is everyone's type/preference. That could be it, could be no public pics,could be the delivery of your messages, what some deem as polite, others could think otherwise. You really just never know. Don't let it bother you so much though.

Best of luck to ya.

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By *nlymee19 OP Man
over a year ago

purfleet

it just upsets me that people can be so rude, i am genuinely a nice and polite guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well i say hi and i send a polight message with my picture and all im getting back is things like urgh fuck off, i think the worst one is no wonder your single you ugly c@#t, why be rude??????"

I agree there's no need for anyone to be that rude and obnoxious to another person... Report the messages to admin... Hold your head high and try not to let it get to you

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By *nlymee19 OP Man
over a year ago

purfleet

i mean im not an idiot, i am a technical scuba diving instructor, i was an eod instructor in the army and i have also done a whole list of other things it just winds me up people dont even get to know anyone before being rude

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By *heffmMan
over a year ago

sheffield

"well i say hi and i send a polight message with my picture and all im getting back is things like urgh fuck off, i think the worst one is no wonder your single you ugly c@#t, why be rude??????"
receiving those sort of replies gives you a better insight into the person replying, would you want to know people like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would suggest that, if people being arseholes upsets you so much, i would take a step away from the site for a while.

on the internet people have every right to pretend to be hard, because they cant get punched for it as they would in real life, so they do it.

is it ok?

of course not

but why bother letting it get you down?

there are actual real people in the world, that would actually really like you as a person, for you, for your looks, whatever.

some keyboard warrior shouldnt make your real life worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That sort of abuse is unacceptable and should be reported

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By *nlymee19 OP Man
over a year ago

purfleet

thank you for the advice guys, i think i will just ignore them and report them,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One way of thinking is: if they are rude in a reply then it's saved you time and effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well i say hi and i send a polight message with my picture and all im getting back is things like urgh fuck off, i think the worst one is no wonder your single you ugly c@#t, why be rude??????"

There's no excuse for anyone to be that rude

Report, block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A positive attitude of " NEXT is needed.

Her

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

People dont have to reply to messages, but if they send you those sorts of replies then report the message to Admin and block them.

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