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Do you get on with your Brothers or sister ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I only have one sister and as kids we had our ups and downs, But as we got older we are very closer and I could never think of not getting on with her . My mum hates her sisters she got on with brothers . So do you get on with yours. ?

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By *oversforfun2000Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Can honestly say my sisters and brother are my best friends, we are all really close!! We have our fights but 2 mins later we are laughing about something!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only have one sister and as kids we had our ups and downs, But as we got older we are very closer and I could never think of not getting on with her . My mum hates her sisters she got on with brothers . So do you get on with yours. ?"

Two sisters both awesome. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One brother, whom I haven't spoken too, since my fathers funeral when I was 19.... I have no intention of rekindelling.......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My family everything to me and that's my sister too and I look at my mum and think its sad she don't even chat to them and not seen for years . over silly things really .

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By *homasP80Man
over a year ago

Linwood

Yea, I have a younger sis and brother who I get on great with, although me and my sis tell each other "secrets" (yea, sad b*stard), we go for coffees and chats regularly.

Yet my younger brother and sis DON'T get on weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not get on with my sister, haven't spoken to her in over a year and that is the way it will stay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 3 of each. Mega fall outs when we were kids. Pleased to say we all get on really well now. Love them all to bits. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My family everything to me and that's my sister too and I look at my mum and think its sad she don't even chat to them and not seen for years . over silly things really ."

If it was some silly trivial things... I would smile and forgive, unfortunately it's not... It's a shame I do miss the closeness we had as small children...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Younger bro, Older sis...we live miles apart but couldn't be without 'em Friends, girlfriends come n go...but fam are for life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only have one sister and as kids we had our ups and downs, But as we got older we are very closer and I could never think of not getting on with her . My mum hates her sisters she got on with brothers . So do you get on with yours. ?

Two sisters both awesome. X"

This for me too

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By *r-UniqueMan
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

If i got asked this a few years back. I would have said no to neither. Now I don't find my brother so bad, but I think I have always been closer to my sister than my brother and that's not going to change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only have one sister and as kids we had our ups and downs, But as we got older we are very closer and I could never think of not getting on with her . My mum hates her sisters she got on with brothers . So do you get on with yours. ?"

Only my little sister and my oldest brother.. the rest I wouldn't spit on if they were on fire...there really is no love between me and my older sisters at all . But I'd move heaven and earth for my baby sister

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I get on with my brothers, had some really good memories with them as kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i get on ok with my older brother who lives a few miles away from us but not with my much older sister.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes love them to bits and their kids all my nieces and nephews

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older brother.

Seen him twice in 40 years.

Hey-Ho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 2 sisters one older and one younger and get on with them great.

I see them both every week, with or with their families.

I've very lucky because I have a very close family.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i have 2 sisters, one 2 years younger and one 7 years younger.

i am close to both but have never had an argument with the youngest one, me and the middle one used to fight like cat and dog until i went away to uni, when i came back i think we had both matured and we are closer than ever now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we were best friends growing up.. i spent hours helping him with his reading and writing in early secondary years.

my mum n dad split up, mum left and i went my own way and moved to devon.

he started to go truant, wasnt eating corectly and the school thought he started smoking.. i felt it was my fault that i abandoned him.. i was chicken n just left him there

years on he's turned his life around and got a degree (super proud) but we barely talk to him and i hate myself for running away from a situation when ii should have stuck around for him.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I have four sisters: one in London (not seen or spoken to her since our mums funeral in 2002, a sister in Staines not seen or spoken to her since our dad's death in 2009, a sister in Leeds not spoken to her this year and a sister in Milan I speak to every day who I love more than I can say.

If I never saw three of my sisters again I could care less, not speaking to my sister in Italy isn't worth contemplating!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"we were best friends growing up.. i spent hours helping him with his reading and writing in early secondary years.

my mum n dad split up, mum left and i went my own way and moved to devon.

he started to go truant, wasnt eating corectly and the school thought he started smoking.. i felt it was my fault that i abandoned him.. i was chicken n just left him there

years on he's turned his life around and got a degree (super proud) but we barely talk to him and i hate myself for running away from a situation when ii should have stuck around for him. "

cute don't hate yourself as we all change with age maybe you could not cope your young it's a lot to handle and I bet really you have helped him a lot over the years. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love my sis to bits. Growing up we used to fight like cat and dog, but I never let anyone else give her grief! I only have a small family but we're really close.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I really trust my sister and I know day or night she will be there for me as I would for her too . One of mums sisters died she did not even go to funeral I only knew after it was over .

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

I have a brother, five years younger than me. As we get older, I seem to be getting more distant from him.

Between him and his wife, they are financially comfortable, have the best of everything, great holidays etc.

But he's become the stingiest person ever. He forgets birthday, Xmas and other cards, yet if I sm late sending cards to him, hid wife and son, he whinges.

When I was out of work a few years ago, I couldn't afford to travel to spend Xmas with his family, even though it was only 90 miles away. He "didn't have time" to visit me.

My birthday is 6 days after his wife's and hers is 5 days after his, yet he still forgets.

He forgot Xmas last year; he appeared surprised when I complained, as if you could forget that occasion. He was even more surprised when hr got it both barrels before I hung up!

Rant over!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a brother, five years younger than me. As we get older, I seem to be getting more distant from him.

Between him and his wife, they are financially comfortable, have the best of everything, great holidays etc.

But he's become the stingiest person ever. He forgets birthday, Xmas and other cards, yet if I sm late sending cards to him, hid wife and son, he whinges.

When I was out of work a few years ago, I couldn't afford to travel to spend Xmas with his family, even though it was only 90 miles away. He "didn't have time" to visit me.

My birthday is 6 days after his wife's and hers is 5 days after his, yet he still forgets.

He forgot Xmas last year; he appeared surprised when I complained, as if you could forget that occasion. He was even more surprised when hr got it both barrels before I hung up!

Rant over! "

So do you get on better after both barrels fired ? I think time go passed people don't chat or call each other and some how people just drift apart at lest you two are still chatting that's something but yes it must of hurt you at the time thinking they never cared . xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never have been close to my brother. Seen him about twice in the last decade, will probably never see him again. Spy on him occasionally on FB as he has low security settings and he seems happy enough. No real animosity (on my part at least) but nothing in common.

I envy those with a close relationship with their siblings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got 2 sisters and yes.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No, I live a long way away. They never contact us. Not a very close family at all in all respects. I echo crystalwheels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

got two brothers i am close to them both, well as close as i can be seeing as they are on the other side of the country and the world in ones case.

But growing up i didn't get on with them a lot of the time, i think growing to appreciate what you have got and accept others faults as part of what makes them unique goes a long way.

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull


"I have a brother, five years younger than me. As we get older, I seem to be getting more distant from him.

Between him and his wife, they are financially comfortable, have the best of everything, great holidays etc.

But he's become the stingiest person ever. He forgets birthday, Xmas and other cards, yet if I sm late sending cards to him, hid wife and son, he whinges.

When I was out of work a few years ago, I couldn't afford to travel to spend Xmas with his family, even though it was only 90 miles away. He "didn't have time" to visit me.

My birthday is 6 days after his wife's and hers is 5 days after his, yet he still forgets.

He forgot Xmas last year; he appeared surprised when I complained, as if you could forget that occasion. He was even more surprised when hr got it both barrels before I hung up!

Rant over! So do you get on better after both barrels fired ? I think time go passed people don't chat or call each other and some how people just drift apart at lest you two are still chatting that's something but yes it must of hurt you at the time thinking they never cared . xx"

Xmas was the last straw! This had happened every year for at least the past 6-7 years and I'd had enough! I know him well, the fact he did not argue his side means he knew he was in the wrong! But he hasn't apologised yet. I won't make the first move, as that will only meet the fact that he needs to be in charge.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

older sister shes great younger brother .. never got on that well.. he looks down his nose at me a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 sisters, 3 brothers, had our spats over the years, but wouldn't be without them. We drive each other nuts at times, but always end up laughing g, n god help anybody who upsets any of us, piss off 1, and you face all 6. Lol

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

My sister is the best person in the whole world. I love her more than any person and I am grateful every day that she loves me too.

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By *xpresMan
over a year ago

Elland

One sister n yeah we get on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got 2 older sisters (8+9yrs older) and 2 younger brothers (2+3 yrs younger)

Get on like a house on fire with one brother the other and eldest sister we talk and are protective of each other

The youngest sister we haven't spoken to since my dad's funeral 6 yrs ago and don't intend to

Even my mum won't go out of her way to contact her

Even said she doesn't want her to know she's dying until it happens and the funeral is arranged (been given a yr tops)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a sister three years younger than me. We get on well but don't keep in touch very often.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I have a 1/2 brother whom I have never met as he emigrated to Australia with his dad before I was born.

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By *ssexguy69Man
over a year ago

thurrock Essex

iv got 2 brothers ,one 4 year older than me not spoke to him in 8 years

also one 11 years younger and not spoke to hime in 2 year either

also not spoke to my mum and dad in 18 years either prob never will do again

familys ah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have an older sister who I haven't spoken to in apprix 2 years and I don't know if I ever will again. She's a selfish, nasty, jealous bitch!

I also Have a younger adopted brother who has learning disabilities. He lives 400 mikes away and is 18, we are as close as can be in those circumstances!

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By *immy AndrexCouple
over a year ago

OLDHAM

Hate my sister its the most selfish arsehole you could ever meet to put it politely !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah love my bro and sis to bits but my parents don't get on with there's.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Yes. Sadly, I only get to see them 3 or 4 times a year.

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By *rymeplsMan
over a year ago

manchester

Since i found out my mum was my sister i fell out with the then brothers and sisters who are now aunties and uncles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have three sisters who i love dearly and im sure they love me but as the accident i was begrudged when i was little as they had to cart me around with them which wasnt good for their dating lol, we arnt what you would call close in the normal sense and rarely speak but they are always in my thoughts.

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and my brother used to always fight but since he moved away and I see him every other week we have formed a really strong brotherly friendship and we get on like a house on fire !

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I got two brothers and they are both wankers !

haven't spoken to them in years, life is easier without them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's alright I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One sister x has been there for me x always

One brother x bit of a knob but bless him x he rings every week x talks complete shite for an hour but I wouldn't be without him x

As for his brother n sister............ Wow thank god he's Sooooooo different from them cos they are vile self righteous bigots x

Ahhhhhhhh that's better x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since i found out my mum was my sister i fell out with the then brothers and sisters who are now aunties and uncles"

Sorry but I'm trying to work this out x doesn't sound good though x

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By *rymeplsMan
over a year ago

manchester


"Since i found out my mum was my sister i fell out with the then brothers and sisters who are now aunties and uncles

Sorry but I'm trying to work this out x doesn't sound good though x "

i found out my parents were my grandparents who adopted me. I found out the others knew it too

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I only have sisters an they are the only family I need the rest are a shower of shit

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Since i found out my mum was my sister i fell out with the then brothers and sisters who are now aunties and uncles

Sorry but I'm trying to work this out x doesn't sound good though x i found out my parents were my grandparents who adopted me. I found out the others knew it too"

Obviously theres more to it than meets the eye but surely if they adopted you that means they wanted you. My own perants where nothing but sperm donors an a incubator

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

i have a sister i just about chat to her but don't really like her at all

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By *rymeplsMan
over a year ago

manchester


"Since i found out my mum was my sister i fell out with the then brothers and sisters who are now aunties and uncles

Sorry but I'm trying to work this out x doesn't sound good though x i found out my parents were my grandparents who adopted me. I found out the others knew it too

Obviously theres more to it than meets the eye but surely if they adopted you that means they wanted you. My own perants where nothing but sperm donors an a incubator"

i cant fault my adopted parents but they still wouldnt tell me who my father was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only have one sister and as kids we had our ups and downs, But as we got older we are very closer and I could never think of not getting on with her . My mum hates her sisters she got on with brothers . So do you get on with yours. ?"

I'm have 1 sisters and 3 brothers and we get on amazing well, we chat and see each other most days. Although my sister has been stopping with us for over a month, and all 3 brothers are here ATM (my hubby's poorly) It's safe to say i love them but will be very happy when they go home, and I can get back to having some fun

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Since i found out my mum was my sister i fell out with the then brothers and sisters who are now aunties and uncles

Sorry but I'm trying to work this out x doesn't sound good though x i found out my parents were my grandparents who adopted me. I found out the others knew it too

Obviously theres more to it than meets the eye but surely if they adopted you that means they wanted you. My own perants where nothing but sperm donors an a incubatori cant fault my adopted parents but they still wouldnt tell me who my father was"

Arrrr right I see sorry I miss understood

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By *mma_j_cdTV/TS
over a year ago

chester

My brother has single handed lay took my to the edge of financial ruin and has done nothing but sh@t on me, do I get on with him ?

I would rather keep the company of the devil than him

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By *rymeplsMan
over a year ago

manchester


"Since i found out my mum was my sister i fell out with the then brothers and sisters who are now aunties and uncles

Sorry but I'm trying to work this out x doesn't sound good though x i found out my parents were my grandparents who adopted me. I found out the others knew it too

Obviously theres more to it than meets the eye but surely if they adopted you that means they wanted you. My own perants where nothing but sperm donors an a incubatori cant fault my adopted parents but they still wouldnt tell me who my father was

Arrrr right I see sorry I miss understood "

no worries mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As much as I would love to, I can't abide her and her fella, they have always took the piss out of us financially,

So the answer is NO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 brothers and 3 sisters and can't stand any of them

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

. .he's my big brother of course i look out for him . .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


". .he's my big brother of course i look out for him . ."
that's LOVELY XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got 3 younger siblings get on with them all it was like the Cosby Show. Only my dad was a dickhead instead of a doctor

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Got 3 younger siblings get on with them all it was like the Cosby Show. Only my dad was a dickhead instead of a doctor "
lovely you have your 3. xx I read here and think we are lucky to get on so well with ours .. my mum hated her sisters with a passion still do 3 of them its very sad really but that's how it is for her not me.. x

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

I have 3 younger sisters and we used to be very close. But since my dad died in 2008 we've just drifted apart and no longer talk to each other. Seems my dad was the 'glue' that cemented us together.

Without him, nothing is the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have one of each, haven't seen my brother for a few weeks - that's a long time for us!

My sister - well, she's ok, but her husband ??? Steer well clear!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have two sisters, Tweins, and I'm the oldest, and always took the flak and paved the golden way for them.

As we've got older we've drifted further and further apart and I wouldnt care if I never saw them again.

My mother has gone the same way, and to be honest I feel better in myself and don't feel I have to justify my actions.

The last straw was when I found out my mother was racist towards my black friends!..

Disguested in Poulton!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One sister, she's a cunt.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One sister, she's a cunt."
ooo that don't sound like you get on well

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston

Sorry to say not really. Haven't seen either of my brothers in years, but contact with one brother has not fully broken down, but is limited to Xmas and birthdays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's looks like the old saying is so True you can choose your friends but you can't choose your family,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One sister, she's a cunt."

Things must be bad to call her the C word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 1 brother and 2 sisters,

1 sister only lives a few doors away she is a diamond but married to a grade a knob

The other, you only see her when she is after something and my big brother we don't see much of him, but if I need help or he needs help we know a quick call either way and we are on it in a flash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a younger sister and brother and love them to bits, as they do me. I guess we don't have to see each other all the time but we are often in each others thoughts. I'm lucky in that I was brought up in a close and loving family and my three children are just as close and supportive and loving of each other.

I feel genuine sadness for those who are at war or estranged from siblings as it's not something I've experienced.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Although me and my brother used to have raging fights as kids we were, ironically, very close.

As adults we are still close but since growing up have never argued or fallen out, and we are now both in our fifties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have 2 brothers.

1 i get on ok with.

he lives back at home and is ok, although a little lazy and selfish, and my parents still look after him like he was 10, ut hey ho.

my other brother is, to me, a waste of space arsehole.

he has a family and has spent the last few years ignoring his son from another relationship.

he has a shitty dead end job, ut refuses to even look for a better one because they would lose most of the benefits they qualify for.

a couple of years ago my mother was gravely ill in hospital, and for the 3 weeks she was there, he couldnt even be bothered to go and visit her, and that was the last straw for me.

i wouldnt shed a tear if i heard he had died tomorrow, and thats the gods honest truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One sister, she's a cunt. ooo that don't sound like you get on well "

Sadly no. That said we get on just fine , not speaking for 13/14 years has helped.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take a lot from this thread. I've been estranged from all mu family (not just my brother) gor several years. It's nice to be reminded tthat it's not all that uncommon, but what's been a real pleasure is thay unusually there are no comments offering unwanted sympathy and advice fot those of us who don't do 'happy' families.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I take a lot from this thread. I've been estranged from all mu family (not just my brother) gor several years. It's nice to be reminded tthat it's not all that uncommon, but what's been a real pleasure is thay unusually there are no comments offering unwanted sympathy and advice fot those of us who don't do 'happy' families. "
my mum hating her sisters played a big part of me loving my sister . I see how nasty she would get as a kid just chatting about her sisters . I am very close to my sister thank god . xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have an older sister and two younger brothers. I absolutely love them to the moon and back, we are all very close. I think I'm very lucky to have this but we're pretty much minus parents. Which is totally fine......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, one my sisters is an arsehole, while the other one is up her own arsehole !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope, one my sisters is an arsehole, while the other one is up her own arsehole !!"
ooo that's a little sad x but that's life my mum hates all her sisters . xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im an only child so will never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One sibling, a sister who died 8 years ago. Made those arguments that we had at times seem so trivial afterwards. Loved her to bits and still miss her now. If I could turn the clock back I would and would have realised some of our disagreements were not really worth it in the long run. Its like that saying, you don't realise what you have until you lose it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One sibling, a sister who died 8 years ago. Made those arguments that we had at times seem so trivial afterwards. Loved her to bits and still miss her now. If I could turn the clock back I would and would have realised some of our disagreements were not really worth it in the long run. Its like that saying, you don't realise what you have until you lose it."
yes your right you just don't realise until its gone x I know xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given up trying to get on with my sister. I finally realised she doesn't like me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no my brother is a total arse hole would not piss on him if he was on fire !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two brothers, one close in age, died quite young, it was and still is like having my heart ripped out. Eldest brother will always need my support and will get it till the day I (or he) die. Brotherhood

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

yes, never fallen out with my 2 brothers and 2 sisters (apart from when kids etc)and very close to all of them..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only have one sister and as kids we had our ups and downs, But as we got older we are very closer and I could never think of not getting on with her . My mum hates her sisters she got on with brothers . So do you get on with yours. ?"

Yes I do now I killed them both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a younger sister, I have not spoken to her in the last two years due to a comment she made about not enough christmas presents and not spending enough on them.

Also found out she is getting all of the inheritance money that was meant for both of us.

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over a year ago


"I have a younger sister, I have not spoken to her in the last two years due to a comment she made about not enough christmas presents and not spending enough on them.

Also found out she is getting all of the inheritance money that was meant for both of us."

wonder if you can contest this - im an only child but dont get on with the parents - often wondered what would happen if it wasnt left to me - ive reconciled i probably wont get anything

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over a year ago


"I have a younger sister, I have not spoken to her in the last two years due to a comment she made about not enough christmas presents and not spending enough on them.

Also found out she is getting all of the inheritance money that was meant for both of us.

wonder if you can contest this - im an only child but dont get on with the parents - often wondered what would happen if it wasnt left to me - ive reconciled i probably wont get anything "

im in a lucky situation as my parents have made ME executor of their wills, so there will be no ambiguity as to what is done with what they leave.

i have made my feelings well known concerning any monies to be left to my eldest brother, and what i would like done with their house, and i think they have been quite receptive to it.

just hope i dont have to deal with him in person when the horrible time comes, because i dout i would be able to without punching him square in his smug ugly face!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love them both dearly but im much closer to my brother than my sister, mainly because when we were younger my sister was the bully of the family as well as being the attention seeker so me and my bro had to band together or we didnt stand a chance. My sister is still like it now, shes only happy if her and her kids are the center of the families attention and if they arent she will cause some kind of scene to get it back by going into one of her "moods", me and my bro just leave her to it and ignore her whe hes like that, purely because its the attention shes after and it drives her insane that we dont rise to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older brother (+2yrs) younger sister (-1yr) plus 3 nieces and 2 nephews we all get on well, my sister lives 2 doors away from me and is on fab too!! My brothers in same town too as are our parents (35yrs married) We see each other all the time, holidays together, bbqs, birthdays, Christmas, wouldn't be with out any of them...!!.x

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