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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

What is the most shameful thing you have done? The one that you truly regret and that changed you.

I stole £1 from my mum's purse when I was twelve. I knew we were poor and I knew she would blame my dad. It was only as I got a little older I realised how vital that £1 was to our family coffers.

I still feel ashamed to this day when it comes to mind. It also cured me of wanting to steal anything.

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

I couldn't say im too ashamed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was a bit of a bully at school..but..it was a case of do or die really..still wish it hadnt happened tho

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"i was a bit of a bully at school..but..it was a case of do or die really..still wish it hadnt happened tho"

It's good to know it about yourself, especially if it stops you bullying into adulthood.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I couldn't say im too ashamed "

This. I feel awful but I reckon if I tried to apologise I'd probably get a mouthful. I hope I am not as thoughtless now as I was back then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I(Mark) let a friend down badly in the 90's when he needed me .Still good mates today and I wont be letting him down again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I broke my youngest child's favourite toy in a temper after he'd hit his brother with it.

He'd made him bleed but I overreacted. Thinking of his face makes me sad. I've probably done worse but this stuck in my head.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I can't say but thankfully I grew up

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

The pain I put my mum through when I ran away from home. I was forgiven when I was found and back home. But in my eyes I will never be able to make it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Painted my balls cherry read!

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"The pain I put my mum through when I ran away from home. I was forgiven when I was found and back home. But in my eyes I will never be able to make it up

"

I feel the same.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Painted my balls cherry read! "

At least it wasn't chilli red.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Painted my balls cherry read! "

^ lolol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i was a bit of a bully at school..but..it was a case of do or die really..still wish it hadnt happened tho"

It's good to know it about yourself, especially if it stops you bullying into adulthood...........ive never done it since and never would..brought my kids up not to be bullies too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a miserable moody little shit as a teenager. I wouldn't make my mum so much as a cup of tea despite her working a full time night job and a part time day job to keep us fed.

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By *r-UniqueMan
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

Shameful thing involved drinking. Once I changed crowd. Didn't do it anymore .

What do I regret. Changing job, choosing my school, where I went for work experience and seeing some freak a few years back.

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like the way I speak to certain people in my life sometimes. ...

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


" "

Is that at the shameful things we have done or the thing that you have done?

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I don't like the way I speak to certain people in my life sometimes. ..."

I'm still waiting for the apology for the hot tub at VA.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like the way I speak to certain people in my life sometimes. ...

I'm still waiting for the apology for the hot tub at VA. "

Jahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Painted my balls cherry read!

^ lolol! "

It hasn't my proudest moment and it took ages to wear off.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I once treated an ex badly when I was at Uni. For some reason she thought the world of me and when we came to split I didn't do it as tactfully as I should have done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I purposefully ruined a relationship for spite and revenge when I was 19 . she slept with my ex and ruined my relationship, so a year later I slept with the man she was then in live with and sent her a photo.

11 years later and I'm still ashamed of my actions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was eleven - I wished a girl dead and kept wishing it ..... She died of liver failure later that year. It still seems like a horrible nightmare.

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire


"I was eleven - I wished a girl dead and kept wishing it ..... She died of liver failure later that year. It still seems like a horrible nightmare. "
remember me to never fall out wi you

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By *r-UniqueMan
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire


"I was eleven - I wished a girl dead and kept wishing it ..... She died of liver failure later that year. It still seems like a horrible nightmare. "

Quite shocked at this, but know never will judge someone for this reason. Especially if they were a child at the time.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I was eleven - I wished a girl dead and kept wishing it ..... She died of liver failure later that year. It still seems like a horrible nightmare. "

What a really horrible coincidence. I have wished someone dead - I'm sure we all have in our secret moments.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I purposefully ruined a relationship for spite and revenge when I was 19 . she slept with my ex and ruined my relationship, so a year later I slept with the man she was then in live with and sent her a photo.

11 years later and I'm still ashamed of my actions. "

Oh dear.

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire


"

Is that at the shameful things we have done or the thing that you have done?"
. .forgive yourself for stealing a pound off your mum its no very bad or shameful.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"

Is that at the shameful things we have done or the thing that you have done? . .forgive yourself for stealing a pound off your mum its no very bad or shameful. "

We were very, very poor. The real shame is I knew my mother would blame my father and she did.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I could never disclose things but there are a few things I'm ashamed of and it certainly changed me as a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was eleven - I wished a girl dead and kept wishing it ..... She died of liver failure later that year. It still seems like a horrible nightmare.

What a really horrible coincidence. I have wished someone dead - I'm sure we all have in our secret moments.

"

Yeah dont ever do it - cause if it actually happens it stays with u forever - ive never done since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was a teen I let the tyres down on the car of an ex and it left him stranded.....makes me burn with shame when I think about it now

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire


"

Is that at the shameful things we have done or the thing that you have done? . .forgive yourself for stealing a pound off your mum its no very bad or shameful.

We were very, very poor. The real shame is I knew my mother would blame my father and she did.

"
aye but Thats just a moment that might feel bad to you cause you were young Thats no bad at all in the grand scheme of things. . x x X

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire


"When I was a teen I let the tyres down on the car of an ex and it left him stranded.....makes me burn with shame when I think about it now "
eh ? Thats no shameful either. you must be an angel x x X

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"What is the most shameful thing you have done? The one that you truly regret and that changed you.

I stole £1 from my mum's purse when I was twelve. I knew we were poor and I knew she would blame my dad. It was only as I got a little older I realised how vital that £1 was to our family coffers.

I still feel ashamed to this day when it comes to mind. It also cured me of wanting to steal anything.

"

There are several, mostly from when I was a child.

I learned from them and didn't repeat them but I still feel ashamed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been a terrible, terrible person.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I've been a terrible, terrible person. "

Yes, you write a mean status.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been a terrible, terrible person.

Yes, you write a mean status.

"

You are never going to forgive me are you?

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I've been a terrible, terrible person.

Yes, you write a mean status.

You are never going to forgive me are you? "

I will. Eventually.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I think I was an awful child.

My parents say I wasn't too bad and I could have been a lot worse. I never took drugs or got into trouble with the police or any of the things some children, even children of their friends, did.

A lot of the things I am ashamed of now were due to immaturity and a lack of understanding, (I knew they were wrong but I didn't fully realise the potential consequences for others).

I feel very guilty about some things.

Even things like having a tantrum because my parents couldn't afford to buy me something I wanted when I was 8 or 10 or thereabouts.

I've said and done some things that with an adult's perspective make me cringe.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Sometimes I'd like to be Catholic so I could go and confess, repent and get over it.

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

okay has anyone got their pal to chop their pets head off so they could get a new pet ?. .just wondering like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I'd like to be Catholic so I could go and confess, repent and get over it."

I don't think having a tantrum is a sin now

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Sometimes I'd like to be Catholic so I could go and confess, repent and get over it.

I don't think having a tantrum is a sin now "

I still feel guilty about what I said.

I should be Catholic; I have that over-developed sense of guilt.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"okay has anyone got their pal to chop their pets head off so they could get a new pet ?. .just wondering like "

I hope not.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"okay has anyone got their pal to chop their pets head off so they could get a new pet ?. .just wondering like "

That has made me feel slightly sick...I'd be seriously worried if someone had really done that....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"okay has anyone got their pal to chop their pets head off so they could get a new pet ?. .just wondering like "

You've just made me very sad.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"okay has anyone got their pal to chop their pets head off so they could get a new pet ?. .just wondering like "

You have a very strange sense of humour.

I really hope this was humour.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"okay has anyone got their pal to chop their pets head off so they could get a new pet ?. .just wondering like

You have a very strange sense of humour.

I really hope this was humour."

I think it is humour. He's growing on me.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"okay has anyone got their pal to chop their pets head off so they could get a new pet ?. .just wondering like

You have a very strange sense of humour.

I really hope this was humour.

I think it is humour. He's growing on me.

"

I don't know I think it's a full moon tonight on here....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I'd like to be Catholic so I could go and confess, repent and get over it.

I don't think having a tantrum is a sin now

I still feel guilty about what I said.

I should be Catholic; I have that over-developed sense of guilt."

Just pop into a church and make you confession then. Look upon it as free counselling. They won't ask your denomination and you may feel better.

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

.no as sad as me . i definitely couldn't chop an animals head off but i didn't stop it either. so there you go im no happy with myself 25years later and still punish myself and Thats probably why I've put it down here.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


".no as sad as me . i definitely couldn't chop an animals head off but i didn't stop it either. so there you go im no happy with myself 25years later and still punish myself and Thats probably why I've put it down here."

I'm sorry but that's just plain sick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".no as sad as me . i definitely couldn't chop an animals head off but i didn't stop it either. so there you go im no happy with myself 25years later and still punish myself and Thats probably why I've put it down here."

As self-elected reverend of Fab, your sins have been forgiven and your soul is now cleansed. Go in peace young man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went to a swingers party and on leaving bumped into the hosts son.... Not my finest moment

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"okay has anyone got their pal to chop their pets head off so they could get a new pet ?. .just wondering like

You have a very strange sense of humour.

I really hope this was humour.

I think it is humour. He's growing on me.

I don't know I think it's a full moon tonight on here.... "

It's a new moon tomorrow and full on 14th May.

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire


".no as sad as me . i definitely couldn't chop an animals head off but i didn't stop it either. so there you go im no happy with myself 25years later and still punish myself and Thats probably why I've put it down here.

I'm sorry but that's just plain sick "
and there mustv been some evil in there too and im no makin light of it and i still wonder why i let it happen.but im no selfish enough to think i can change anything or feel sorry for myself when shit happens

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

not so much things im ashamed of but deffo stupid things ive done in the past

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

i know folk wil just think coincidence but i just signed off there and a repeat of Googlebox is on and a big albino ferret the spitting image came up on screen. that makes me think .

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By *r-UniqueMan
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

Up date on my life. Most shameful I have done is creating threads on here or saying drugs are wrong.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


".no as sad as me . i definitely couldn't chop an animals head off but i didn't stop it either. so there you go im no happy with myself 25years later and still punish myself and Thats probably why I've put it down here."

I wish you hadn't. I feel ill at the thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If my sons pet ended up decapitated I would be unlikely to buy him another.

Kids can be cruel.

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


".no as sad as me . i definitely couldn't chop an animals head off but i didn't stop it either. so there you go im no happy with myself 25years later and still punish myself and Thats probably why I've put it down here.

I'm sorry but that's just plain sick and there mustv been some evil in there too and im no makin light of it and i still wonder why i let it happen.but im no selfish enough to think i can change anything or feel sorry for myself when shit happens "

Not evil I don't believe any child is truly evil but usually an very damaged child!! Research shows a link between children who are being abused who in turn abuse animals as they cannot fight back. Likelihood even if you'd tried stopping it would have just delayed the inevitable

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By *r-UniqueMan
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire


".no as sad as me . i definitely couldn't chop an animals head off but i didn't stop it either. so there you go im no happy with myself 25years later and still punish myself and Thats probably why I've put it down here.

I'm sorry but that's just plain sick and there mustv been some evil in there too and im no makin light of it and i still wonder why i let it happen.but im no selfish enough to think i can change anything or feel sorry for myself when shit happens

Not evil I don't believe any child is truly evil but usually an very damaged child!! Research shows a link between children who are being abused who in turn abuse animals as they cannot fight back. Likelihood even if you'd tried stopping it would have just delayed the inevitable "

I agree and disagree with that. I agree with the point that people do wrong for a reason. However I do agree some children/people just do it because they enjoy the outcome.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I'm working on forgiveness today. Let go of your shame and be kind to yourself and everyone around you.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I'm working on forgiveness today. Let go of your shame and be kind to yourself and everyone around you.

"

Kind to myself?

What strange perversion is this?!

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I'm working on forgiveness today. Let go of your shame and be kind to yourself and everyone around you.

Kind to myself?

What strange perversion is this?! "

Look in the mirror and just smile at yourself. We'll work up to being kind.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Smiling is that teeth baring thing, right? Without growling?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm working on forgiveness today. Let go of your shame and be kind to yourself and everyone around you.

"

So is today the day you finally forgive me?

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By *r-UniqueMan
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire


"I'm working on forgiveness today. Let go of your shame and be kind to yourself and everyone around you.

"

Always kind to the people around me. Wish I could do that for myself though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit where do I start?

Was a real dick in my teens,did many things that make me cringe now.

However that's what life is about make mistakes and learning from them.

We live we learn we grow.

Am sure I will make many more mistakes before I shuffle off this mortal coil.

It's life. Just as long as you know you have fucked up then learn. And carry on living.

Live long and prosper

Xx

Him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cheated on someone. One night stand-he had had a full on relationship behind my back, but in the circumstances it was inexcusable. I had an epiphany and realised I was a terrible person. Never again!

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

I filled up a pate dish with kitikat cat food.. Sprig if parsely on top... Then watched as my brothers mates , at our party ( all pissed! ) ate it! I never confessed... Me bad!

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

I dislocated someone shoulder and fingers after they garbed me. They might of deserved it but I overreacted and felt totally ashamed for years

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


" I filled up a pate dish with kitikat cat food.. Sprig if parsely on top... Then watched as my brothers mates , at our party ( all pissed! ) ate it! I never confessed... Me bad! "

Did your brother eat it too?

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I'm working on forgiveness today. Let go of your shame and be kind to yourself and everyone around you.

So is today the day you finally forgive me?"

How "around me" are you?

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


" I filled up a pate dish with kitikat cat food.. Sprig if parsely on top... Then watched as my brothers mates , at our party ( all pissed! ) ate it! I never confessed... Me bad!

Did your brother eat it too?"
no! Just a few hairy bikers!

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

I nicked a blackjack from a shop when I was about 9 or 10.

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